As above. Social first. If I'm getting in a car I'll take a photo of the number plate and text it to a friend.
Also have what we call an opposite text. If the worse were to happen any k*dn*pper would ensure the text I sent was a positive text. So I send a text saying small cock, crap time. Then my friend knows I'm ok. If I send a positive text, they know something is wrong. |
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When I met for sex I tended to speak to someone for a good while before I met to get a feel for them. By the time we did meet I was happy to invite the odd one to my home and never had any problems doing that.
If you up end meeting someone who will harm you they can do it at any stage,whether you meet at a pub first or after a few meets it doesn't matter where you are.
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"As above. Social first. If I'm getting in a car I'll take a photo of the number plate and text it to a friend.
Also have what we call an opposite text. If the worse were to happen any k*dn*pper would ensure the text I sent was a positive text. So I send a text saying small cock, crap time. Then my friend knows I'm ok. If I send a positive text, they know something is wrong."
Great idea about the crap sex text.  |
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By *lceeWoman
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I talk to them a lot before meeting and pass all full face photos/fab profile link/kik username/mobile number etc to my other half. I also say exactly where we’ll be and my other half tracks me on Find Friends to make sure. My watch has an SOS feature if I hit the buttons right which will also alert him and that watch never comes off.
I’ll also FaceTime him around an hour in (I move slowly  ) so he knows everything is cool. |
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"When I met for sex I tended to speak to someone for a good while before I met to get a feel for them. By the time we did meet I was happy to invite the odd one to my home and never had any problems doing that.
If you up end meeting someone who will harm you they can do it at any stage,whether you meet at a pub first or after a few meets it doesn't matter where you are.
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This is the exact same way I feel about it.
Most times I text a friend the address and message her when I leave
But if a guy is psycho his true colours can show at any time |
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