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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All depends on the face and personality for me, not body shape, or fitness levels...although it is definitely better for my playmates if they are fit, I can be very demanding  |
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OP there is no "one shape fits all" either in real life or on fab. What one person finds sexy as hell another will think is pig ugly.
If you want to be gym fit and ripped do it for yourself and not because you think that's what the ladies want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like all kinds of lads. One of my very good buddies has no muscle whatsoever and an average sized body. I like him because he's a lovely man. I have had some very very physically fit men, over the years and they have more energy and stamina (especially Royal Marines) but I don't prefer them over Mr Squishy types. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get the personality thing but there’s always gotta be a sexual attraction too though, hasn’t there? "
Of course! I like faces though...makes body shape quite unimportant....luckily for me, it works both ways apparently  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid gym fit guys. Can't imagine lying next to them with my "mum tum" and them all toned. It wpuld make me feel very self conscious. "
I've never felt self conscious with a fit man. They know what my body is like before we meet and I happily strip off. Relax and enjoy yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha "
You can only prove that by showing it. Sadly, some people won't give you the chance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid gym fit guys. Can't imagine lying next to them with my "mum tum" and them all toned. It wpuld make me feel very self conscious.
I've never felt self conscious with a fit man. They know what my body is like before we meet and I happily strip off. Relax and enjoy yourself. "
Definitely agree here! I have played with some extremely beautiful young men, my very complimentary fwb included, all of which loved my body aswell as it's abilities |
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha "
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd. |
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"I personally don't meet gym fit guys but I can appreciate a nice body.
I tend to go for slim men not bulky "
Too slim and they don't do it for me - I don't need ripped but I definitely like beefy men, and not overweight, and it's often the gym that produces that combination. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some like muscular guys some don’t..
Muscular body is such a cliché in my opinion.. just be in shape and healthy  "
For the purposes of this site stamina is important to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a guy who is happy and confident being himself who doesn't spend time worrying about what "women" want.  if he's fit with it he will more than likely catch my eye. Sadly too many on here worry about comparing themselves to others and trying to mould themselves to appeal to the masses |
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"Some like muscular guys some don’t..
Muscular body is such a cliché in my opinion.. just be in shape and healthy
For the purposes of this site stamina is important to me. "
Gym fit bodies do not equal stamina, |
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd."
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol |
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"Some like muscular guys some don’t..
Muscular body is such a cliché in my opinion.. just be in shape and healthy
For the purposes of this site stamina is important to me.
Gym fit bodies do not equal stamina, "
Most massive body builders won’t have the best Stamina but gym fit people mostly do! I hit cardio nearly as much as I hit weights.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x"
What is Gym Fit?
I am attracted to guys who are active and like to use their bodies a lot.. and am a sucker for big thick legs. But that doesn't mean to say that's the only type of physique I find attractive. |
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"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x
What is Gym Fit?
I am attracted to guys who are active and like to use their bodies a lot.. and am a sucker for big thick legs. But that doesn't mean to say that's the only type of physique I find attractive."
I personally consider it someone who looks after their body and attends the gym lol but no, not suggesting it will be the only physique people will be attracted too if they are |
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol "
It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.  |
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol
It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive. "
Ahh but like my last FB who is 41, she nearly missed out on a LOT of fun because she shrugged me off at first because of my age! But I can gaurantee you that she should would recommend opening your mind to younger bulls aha id love the chance to meet yourself!! sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x |
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol
It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.
Ahh but like my last FB who is 41, she nearly missed out on a LOT of fun because she shrugged me off at first because of my age! But I can gaurantee you that she should would recommend opening your mind to younger bulls aha id love the chance to meet yourself!! sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x"
I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for |
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol
It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.
Ahh but like my last FB who is 41, she nearly missed out on a LOT of fun because she shrugged me off at first because of my age! But I can gaurantee you that she should would recommend opening your mind to younger bulls aha id love the chance to meet yourself!! sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x
I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for "
Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality! |
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol
It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.
Ahh but like my last FB who is 41, she nearly missed out on a LOT of fun because she shrugged me off at first because of my age! But I can gaurantee you that she should would recommend opening your mind to younger bulls aha id love the chance to meet yourself!! sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x
I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for
Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality! "
Hmm well I think you just demonstrated that your initial thoughts were different. |
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I go for personality over physique, which is why I don’t agree meets online without having met someone.
My preference is for someone tall, broad & hairy chest. Dad bods with a bit of meat on the bones are my ultimate fave but I wouldn’t rule out gym toned either.
A good personality & sense of humour instantly makes someone more attractive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I avoid gym fit guys. Can't imagine lying next to them with my "mum tum" and them all toned. It wpuld make me feel very self conscious.
I've never felt self conscious with a fit man. They know what my body is like before we meet and I happily strip off. Relax and enjoy yourself. "
Same! And they usually fit better between my legs  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol
It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.
Ahh but like my last FB who is 41, she nearly missed out on a LOT of fun because she shrugged me off at first because of my age! But I can gaurantee you that she should would recommend opening your mind to younger bulls aha id love the chance to meet yourself!! sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x
I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for
Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality! "
Age isn't just a number. It really really isn't |
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol
It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.
Ahh but like my last FB who is 41, she nearly missed out on a LOT of fun because she shrugged me off at first because of my age! But I can gaurantee you that she should would recommend opening your mind to younger bulls aha id love the chance to meet yourself!! sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x
I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for
Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality!
Age isn't just a number. It really really isn't "
How do you feel age affects your chance with having a connection with another living breathing human being? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol
It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.
Ahh but like my last FB who is 41, she nearly missed out on a LOT of fun because she shrugged me off at first because of my age! But I can gaurantee you that she should would recommend opening your mind to younger bulls aha id love the chance to meet yourself!! sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x
I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for
Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality!
Age isn't just a number. It really really isn't
How do you feel age affects your chance with having a connection with another living breathing human being? "
From a fab perspective... physically I don't want to fuck someone where it's dubious as to whether they've left school yet or not. Equally I don't want to fuck anyone that looks like one of my parents. Now I know some look older/ younger than their years but generally that's a limit for me. I don't care about connecting if I don't find them attractive. |
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol
It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.
Ahh but like my last FB who is 41, she nearly missed out on a LOT of fun because she shrugged me off at first because of my age! But I can gaurantee you that she should would recommend opening your mind to younger bulls aha id love the chance to meet yourself!! sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x
I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for
Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality!
Age isn't just a number. It really really isn't
How do you feel age affects your chance with having a connection with another living breathing human being?
From a fab perspective... physically I don't want to fuck someone where it's dubious as to whether they've left school yet or not. Equally I don't want to fuck anyone that looks like one of my parents. Now I know some look older/ younger than their years but generally that's a limit for me. I don't care about connecting if I don't find them attractive. "
Aha can always ask them for ID |
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"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x
Women are not of a hive mind so the answer is yes, no and don’t care."
Yeah I get that, just wanted to get a general perspective of the opinions on Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See, this! This is what I think I worry about, being tarred with the brush of “gym fit guys are up themselves and selfish” etc! I’d like to think I’m the complete opposite to that aha
I've never understood how people think they can judge the personality of an entire section of the population just from their appearance. It's most odd.
It’s a deep shame! A lot of fun and laughter is missed down to miss guided judgements and that includes age as well lol
It does include age. However it's one thing to judge personality based on age or appearance but quite another to find them sexually attractive.
Ahh but like my last FB who is 41, she nearly missed out on a LOT of fun because she shrugged me off at first because of my age! But I can gaurantee you that she should would recommend opening your mind to younger bulls aha id love the chance to meet yourself!! sexual attraction isn’t just appearance, as I was corrected earlier lol x
I'm 11 years older than the upper age you've stated you're looking for
Ahahah well that’s embarrassing... will be updating that ASAP aha at the end of the day, age is just a number and doesn’t necessarily reflect the persons maturity and/or personality!
Age isn't just a number. It really really isn't
How do you feel age affects your chance with having a connection with another living breathing human being?
From a fab perspective... physically I don't want to fuck someone where it's dubious as to whether they've left school yet or not. Equally I don't want to fuck anyone that looks like one of my parents. Now I know some look older/ younger than their years but generally that's a limit for me. I don't care about connecting if I don't find them attractive.
Aha can always ask them for ID"
I'd rather not have to |
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"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x"
To be honest if you mean the ripped skinny boys who look like they train because they have never had a good meal then no is extremely unattractive to me but am sure there are woman out there who like it xx |
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"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x
To be honest if you mean the ripped skinny boys who look like they train because they have never had a good meal then no is extremely unattractive to me but am sure there are woman out there who like it xx"
Ouch, I eat pretty well thank you! A lot of meat, pasta and rice! No starving over here! What about the ones who eat well? Aha |
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"guys dont have to be gym fit but its nice if it looks as if they care about their bodies, age is unimportant up to about 45 when lets face it a load of guys let go
maybe just me being shallow"
Aha I know some men who look pretty good after 45 but yeah isn’t common... better enjoy my younger days!! |
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"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x
Women are not of a hive mind so the answer is yes, no and don’t care.
Yeah I get that, just wanted to get a general perspective of the opinions on Fab"
You asked “do women like gym fit guys”.
Language is hugely important. |
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"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x
Women are not of a hive mind so the answer is yes, no and don’t care.
Yeah I get that, just wanted to get a general perspective of the opinions on Fab
You asked “do women like gym fit guys”.
Language is hugely important. "
You mean grammar is important? No need to be so sceptical! Am sure you’ve thought to yourself, I wonder if men will like new hair cut? Lol |
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"So, I’m curious to know actual opinions on this, do women like gym fit lads or is it just the media’s perception? x
Women are not of a hive mind so the answer is yes, no and don’t care.
Yeah I get that, just wanted to get a general perspective of the opinions on Fab
You asked “do women like gym fit guys”.
Language is hugely important.
You mean grammar is important? No need to be so sceptical! Am sure you’ve thought to yourself, I wonder if men will like new hair cut? Lol"
There you go, what an excellent demonstration. |
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