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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do it, reg checks and only with trust people"
That's still daft because unless someone is being checked over every single time they have sex with another partner it's the same risks as getting no checks. Only takes one person, not 2 or 3 or more, to get something you don't want. |
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over a year ago
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"I do it, reg checks and only with trust people
That's still daft because unless someone is being checked over every single time they have sex with another partner it's the same risks as getting no checks. Only takes one person, not 2 or 3 or more, to get something you don't want."
And those checks are only saying you were conclusively negative to everything some 3 months prior....lots can happen in the meantime |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't used a condom since I was 18/19 and have never had an STD and never got anyone pregnant."
You're lucky.... I don't use condoms... had two children and caught the biggie! |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Bareback can kill
So can crossing the road without looking
So can eating chips
So can smoking ciggies
So can telling an angry person he's a wanker
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I have had chips today. I have smoked and I told an angry petson to do one.
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"Bareback can kill
So can crossing the road without looking
So can eating chips
So can smoking ciggies
So can telling an angry person he's a wanker
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Pmsl...chips in excess can kill...should not smoke too....always look when crossing...dont call an angry person wanker and least but not last use a condom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty much. You don't like it, so just state as much on your profile so others that like it can avoid you.
Similarly we would look out for those that list they enjoy it, so we know to pass them by. |
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"Not in my opinion...unless the medical profession have got it wrong...again pmsl
You stated an opinion.... make your mind up "
im saying its a fact....it carries risks. People who are denying this to give themselves peace of mind should at least admit its not safe. By all means carry on but dont say its not safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not in my opinion...unless the medical profession have got it wrong...again pmsl
You stated an opinion.... make your mind up
im saying its a fact....it carries risks. People who are denying this to give themselves peace of mind should at least admit its not safe. By all means carry on but dont say its not safe. "
Where did I say I am denying and saying it is not safe? Most activities in life carries risks!!
Oh and it's safer sex, not safe sex
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be interested to know people's thought on PrEP in relation to this topic. 99 percent effective if you take it correctly. Yes, it doesn't stop you catching non hiv stis but let's face it, you can get those with oral...
I find the non gay community rather unaware of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bareback can kill
So can crossing the road without looking
So can eating chips
So can smoking ciggies
So can telling an angry person he's a wanker
I have had chips today. I have smoked and I told an angry petson to do one.
Great day all round "
How the fuck are you still breathing
Finish the day off with a nice creampie job. 
It's your lucky day |
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Come on people, be honest.
If there was no such thing as STD's, no chance of pregnancy etc, you'd all prefer a bit of 'au natural'. However, as we all know, there ARE such things as STD's, therefore we all know that those of us who are VERY sexually active are more likely to catch something if we go BB. No glove no love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Come on people, be honest.
If there was no such thing as STD's, no chance of pregnancy etc, you'd all prefer a bit of 'au natural'. However, as we all know, there ARE such things as STD's, therefore we all know that those of us who are VERY sexually active are more likely to catch something if we go BB. No glove no love. "
That's your choice, you can't be telling others what to do with their choices though.
You'd be pissed if someone came and told you to ditch the condoms. But it's ok for you to tell someone that indulges in BB to cover up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be interested to know people's thought on PrEP in relation to this topic. 99 percent effective if you take it correctly. Yes, it doesn't stop you catching non hiv stis but let's face it, you can get those with oral...
I find the non gay community rather unaware of it. "
400 a month for subscription, unless you are in Scotland. How do you go about telling your doctor you are bareback cock whore to get on the trial programme, beats me |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"Come on people, be honest.
If there was no such thing as STD's, no chance of pregnancy etc, you'd all prefer a bit of 'au natural'. However, as we all know, there ARE such things as STD's, therefore we all know that those of us who are VERY sexually active are more likely to catch something if we go BB. No glove no love.
That's your choice, you can't be telling others what to do with their choices though.
You'd be pissed if someone came and told you to ditch the condoms. But it's ok for you to tell someone that indulges in BB to cover up? "
Yes the problem with that (albeit totally unrealistic) scenario is that by covering up you aren't risking anyone's health. By telling someone to not cover up, you are.
You can see that, right? You do know there are risks involved with bareback sex with strangers? You do know you mitigate that risk with condoms? I mean you have actually read about this at some point? Or do you think it is all a load of rubbish?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own if your happy to
Go BB then your choice...your life your pleasure.
We prefer safe sex, our choice our pleasure
Horses for causes were all adults and capable of making our own choices. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think we would even stay to play with someone who asked to go bareback. Only hubby gets that pleasure. Even when we were exclusively playing with just 1 couple over the summer we wouldn't have risked it.
Totally personal choice but not for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Come on people, be honest.
If there was no such thing as STD's, no chance of pregnancy etc, you'd all prefer a bit of 'au natural'. However, as we all know, there ARE such things as STD's, therefore we all know that those of us who are VERY sexually active are more likely to catch something if we go BB. No glove no love.
That's your choice, you can't be telling others what to do with their choices though.
You'd be pissed if someone came and told you to ditch the condoms. But it's ok for you to tell someone that indulges in BB to cover up?
Yes the problem with that (albeit totally unrealistic) scenario is that by covering up you aren't risking anyone's health. By telling someone to not cover up, you are.
You can see that, right? You do know there are risks involved with bareback sex with strangers? You do know you mitigate that risk with condoms? I mean you have actually read about this at some point? Or do you think it is all a load of rubbish?
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No, I don't think it's all rubbish.
What I'm saying is that people have free will, and can exercise that by choosing their own how they conduct their sex lives.
Every bareback thread gets jumped on by the SAFER sex preachers when the OP isn't even asking them to participate.
Now, I'm not advocating for or against BB sex, I believe it's an individuals choice. There's nothing I could say, or stats that I could produce, would change their mind.
If you want to go into facts, figures, or studies about safer sex, and the merits of condom usage. Feel free to start a thread about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I don't think we would even stay to play with someone who asked to go bareback. Only hubby gets that pleasure. Even when we were exclusively playing with just 1 couple over the summer we wouldn't have risked it.
Totally personal choice but not for us"
You’re so right...
It’s something like 87-97% of couples are diseased with at least ine std isnt it?
And what about HIV and AIDS....it has climbed up to what...78% of married couples..am i right...?
Human life is coming to an end on this planet because of these barebackers spreading life threatening diseases....
Stay safe, you’re the hope of humanity...!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bareback can kill"
Erm? No it can't if any disease contracted is treated. 
Anyhow, how do you work that one out??
FYI... in the right circumstances...
Kissing can kill, holding body to body can kill, touching lift buttons can kill, eating food can kill, drinking can kill, travel in a car, bike or boat can kill, sport can kill, pet dogs can kill, etc etc. all those should be avoided as they kill far more people each year than bareback sex..... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I don't think we would even stay to play with someone who asked to go bareback. Only hubby gets that pleasure. Even when we were exclusively playing with just 1 couple over the summer we wouldn't have risked it.
Totally personal choice but not for us
You’re so right...
It’s something like 87-97% of couples are diseased with at least ine std isnt it?
And what about HIV and AIDS....it has climbed up to what...78% of married couples..am i right...?
Human life is coming to an end on this planet because of these barebackers spreading life threatening diseases....
Stay safe, you’re the hope of humanity...!!!"
I cannot be that dangerous because if it was Natural Selection dictates all barebackers would have died out and only rubber cockers would remain. |
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"I haven't used a condom since I was 18/19 and have never had an STD and never got anyone pregnant.
You're lucky.... I don't use condoms... had two children and caught the biggie!"
care to put into proper English what you actually caught? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't used a condom since I was 18/19 and have never had an STD and never got anyone pregnant.
You're lucky.... I don't use condoms... had two children and caught the biggie!
care to put into proper English what you actually caught?"
Oh shit dont sound good!? |
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"I haven't used a condom since I was 18/19 and have never had an STD and never got anyone pregnant.
You're lucky.... I don't use condoms... had two children and caught the biggie!
care to put into proper English what you actually caught?
Oh shit dont sound good!?"
Nope nor does the profile description.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" I don't think we would even stay to play with someone who asked to go bareback. Only hubby gets that pleasure. Even when we were exclusively playing with just 1 couple over the summer we wouldn't have risked it.
Totally personal choice but not for us
You’re so right...
It’s something like 87-97% of couples are diseased with at least ine std isnt it?
And what about HIV and AIDS....it has climbed up to what...78% of married couples..am i right...?
Human life is coming to an end on this planet because of these barebackers spreading life threatening diseases....
Stay safe, you’re the hope of humanity...!!!"
Not sure if this is satire, but if you think 78% of married couples have HIV. You might be mental. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know why you don't mind your own business and stop preaching to others. I do bareback, so what. I don't smoke or drink alcohol though x"
Must be because they are very small minded and looking for an argument bit like a troll |
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"I haven't used a condom since I was 18/19 and have never had an STD and never got anyone pregnant.
You're lucky.... I don't use condoms... had two children and caught the biggie!
care to put into proper English what you actually caught?"
C’mon we all know what the biggie is....look at the profile....and green arrow research....
But to be honest how someone who has the HIV virus can live with themselves saying they go out and have sex bareback is really beyond me...even if in a LTR.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't used a condom since I was 18/19 and have never had an STD and never got anyone pregnant.
You're lucky.... I don't use condoms... had two children and caught the biggie!
care to put into proper English what you actually caught?
C’mon we all know what the biggie is....look at the profile....and green arrow research....
But to be honest how someone who has the HIV virus can live with themselves saying they go out and have sex bareback is really beyond me...even if in a LTR...."
If they do not inform partners of their status, it is considered attempted murder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't used a condom since I was 18/19 and have never had an STD and never got anyone pregnant.
You're lucky.... I don't use condoms... had two children and caught the biggie!
care to put into proper English what you actually caught?
C’mon we all know what the biggie is....look at the profile....and green arrow research....
But to be honest how someone who has the HIV virus can live with themselves saying they go out and have sex bareback is really beyond me...even if in a LTR....
If they do not inform partners of their status, it is considered attempted murder. "
In all likelihood the poster is on combination medication that will reduce the viral load to a negligible level meaning that is impossible to transfer the virus through sexual activity. If that is the case then we can all put down our pitchforks and go home. We just don't know one way or the other as this information has not yet been revealed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In all likelihood the poster is on combination medication that will reduce the viral load to a negligible level meaning that is impossible to transfer the virus through sexual activity. If that is the case then we can all put down our pitchforks and go home. We just don't know one way or the other as this information has not yet been revealed."
Regardless of medication and viral load, if anyone who has HIV (on this site or in any walk of life) doesn’t inform their partner... it can be classed as attempted murder.
There is no witch hunt attempt!
Just reminding people of the severity of things, and to be honest with people concerning their testing status.
If bare is what you like, and you have willing partners... enjoy!
Just don’t lie about things, cos it could be jail time.
Even just simple chlamydia, can land you with a criminal record if you pass it on knowingly. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"I haven't used a condom since I was 18/19 and have never had an STD and never got anyone pregnant.
You're lucky.... I don't use condoms... had two children and caught the biggie!
care to put into proper English what you actually caught?
C’mon we all know what the biggie is....look at the profile....and green arrow research....
But to be honest how someone who has the HIV virus can live with themselves saying they go out and have sex bareback is really beyond me...even if in a LTR....
If they do not inform partners of their status, it is considered attempted murder.
In all likelihood the poster is on combination medication that will reduce the viral load to a negligible level meaning that is impossible to transfer the virus through sexual activity. If that is the case then we can all put down our pitchforks and go home. We just don't know one way or the other as this information has not yet been revealed."
Hear hear. We can all get so judgey on here.
Some people choose to go bareback. That’s their choice and without knowing their motivations or actions taken to limit the potential damage, none of us can make a sound, reasoned judgement on each other’s situations.
I have done bareback, with those I know better and trust. I have insisted on condoms with those less so. That’s my choice. But the only thing you can judge are your own choices - if you want to be super careful, then always ensure you are protected and leave everyone else to live their lives the way they see fit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not something for me but as with everything each to their own. Scary shit if it’s not for you but exciting for someone that likes it. For the kind of site this is there’s a hell of a lot of judgmental people. |
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In all likelihood the poster is on combination medication that will reduce the viral load to a negligible level meaning that is impossible to transfer the virus through sexual activity. If that is the case then we can all put down our pitchforks and go home. We just don't know one way or the other as this information has not yet been revealed.
Regardless of medication and viral load, if anyone who has HIV (on this site or in any walk of life) doesn’t inform their partner... it can be classed as attempted murder.
There is no witch hunt attempt!
Just reminding people of the severity of things, and to be honest with people concerning their testing status.
If bare is what you like, and you have willing partners... enjoy!
Just don’t lie about things, cos it could be jail time.
Even just simple chlamydia, can land you with a criminal record if you pass it on knowingly. "
Really? Yet you can pass on flu etc(that may kill you)without any consequences..
I am shocked at some people's responses/attitudes etc toward sexually transmitted responses,esp on such a site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I don't think we would even stay to play with someone who asked to go bareback. Only hubby gets that pleasure. Even when we were exclusively playing with just 1 couple over the summer we wouldn't have risked it.
Totally personal choice but not for us
You’re so right...
It’s something like 87-97% of couples are diseased with at least ine std isnt it?
And what about HIV and AIDS....it has climbed up to what...78% of married couples..am i right...?
Human life is coming to an end on this planet because of these barebackers spreading life threatening diseases....
Stay safe, you’re the hope of humanity...!!!"
This is hilarious. Nearly 80% of married couples have HIV or AIDS? I’d love to see your source.
Thank God I don’t meet couples. It’s like playing with a loaded gun! |
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"I'd be interested to know people's thought on PrEP in relation to this topic. 99 percent effective if you take it correctly. Yes, it doesn't stop you catching non hiv stis but let's face it, you can get those with oral...
I find the non gay community rather unaware of it. "
Is that the drug that costs the£400/month for every subscription? It's one thing to give protection to someone in a committed relationship with someone with HIV but to hand it out like candy so people can behave like mindless morons is an abuse of precious NHS resources.  |
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"I'd be interested to know people's thought on PrEP in relation to this topic. 99 percent effective if you take it correctly. Yes, it doesn't stop you catching non hiv stis but let's face it, you can get those with oral...
I find the non gay community rather unaware of it.
Is that the drug that costs the£400/month for every subscription? It's one thing to give protection to someone in a committed relationship with someone with HIV but to hand it out like candy so people can behave like mindless morons is an abuse of precious NHS resources. "
And arguably so is the 'worried well' who get tested Willy nilly without symptoms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In all likelihood the poster is on combination medication that will reduce the viral load to a negligible level meaning that is impossible to transfer the virus through sexual activity. If that is the case then we can all put down our pitchforks and go home. We just don't know one way or the other as this information has not yet been revealed.
Regardless of medication and viral load, if anyone who has HIV (on this site or in any walk of life) doesn’t inform their partner... it can be classed as attempted murder.
There is no witch hunt attempt!
Just reminding people of the severity of things, and to be honest with people concerning their testing status.
If bare is what you like, and you have willing partners... enjoy!
Just don’t lie about things, cos it could be jail time.
Even just simple chlamydia, can land you with a criminal record if you pass it on knowingly. "
Erm, not sure about that last part  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all likelihood the poster is on combination medication that will reduce the viral load to a negligible level meaning that is impossible to transfer the virus through sexual activity. If that is the case then we can all put down our pitchforks and go home. We just don't know one way or the other as this information has not yet been revealed.
Regardless of medication and viral load, if anyone who has HIV (on this site or in any walk of life) doesn’t inform their partner... it can be classed as attempted murder.
There is no witch hunt attempt!
Just reminding people of the severity of things, and to be honest with people concerning their testing status.
If bare is what you like, and you have willing partners... enjoy!
Just don’t lie about things, cos it could be jail time.
Even just simple chlamydia, can land you with a criminal record if you pass it on knowingly. "
To be fair to the gentleman concerned, he says in his profile that he has a secret he needs to discuss with you before you meet him. So there is no suggestion at all that he passing on anything knowingly. Again folks, time to put down the pitchforks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it mildly amusing when people say they only bb with people they know.
It's fairly obvious that some will bb and have safe sex depending on the meet and situation.
It's a personal choice of course but some people have selective memory and that's not right.
If people bb and are honest and upfront about it that's fine and good luck with that. It's the people who bb aswell as play safe that need to be more honest.
To put your own health at risk as a grown adult that's your choice. Do tell a potential partner your recent sexual activity though, they surely have a right to know. |
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Every time this topic comes up we get exaggerated and inaccurate shite spewed out.
Those of us old enough to remember the early 80's will recall the hysteria and scaremongering that went on with regards to AIDS.
I would have hoped that most of us have overcome the fear/ sexual guilt/ ignorance etc but it seems a sizeable minority are hell bent on spoiling the party..
Practice safer sex by all means, but allow others to do whatever turns them on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bareback can kill
So can crossing the road without looking
So can eating chips
So can smoking ciggies
So can telling an angry person he's a wanker
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Nah, hahaha. That had me gassed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd be interested to know people's thought on PrEP in relation to this topic. 99 percent effective if you take it correctly. Yes, it doesn't stop you catching non hiv stis but let's face it, you can get those with oral...
I find the non gay community rather unaware of it.
Is that the drug that costs the£400/month for every subscription? It's one thing to give protection to someone in a committed relationship with someone with HIV but to hand it out like candy so people can behave like mindless morons is an abuse of precious NHS resources.
And arguably so is the 'worried well' who get tested Willy nilly without symptoms."
Some sti's don't actually present symptoms. We wouldn't go bareback but I would still get regular testing for our own plus any partners piece of mind. After all it's not just intercourse that poses risks |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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"Come on people, be honest.
If there was no such thing as STD's, no chance of pregnancy etc, you'd all prefer a bit of 'au natural'. However, as we all know, there ARE such things as STD's, therefore we all know that those of us who are VERY sexually active are more likely to catch something if we go BB. No glove no love.
That's your choice, you can't be telling others what to do with their choices though.
You'd be pissed if someone came and told you to ditch the condoms. But it's ok for you to tell someone that indulges in BB to cover up?
Yes the problem with that (albeit totally unrealistic) scenario is that by covering up you aren't risking anyone's health. By telling someone to not cover up, you are.
You can see that, right? You do know there are risks involved with bareback sex with strangers? You do know you mitigate that risk with condoms? I mean you have actually read about this at some point? Or do you think it is all a load of rubbish?
No, I don't think it's all rubbish.
What I'm saying is that people have free will, and can exercise that by choosing their own how they conduct their sex lives.
Every bareback thread gets jumped on by the SAFER sex preachers when the OP isn't even asking them to participate.
Now, I'm not advocating for or against BB sex, I believe it's an individuals choice. There's nothing I could say, or stats that I could produce, would change their mind.
If you want to go into facts, figures, or studies about safer sex, and the merits of condom usage. Feel free to start a thread about it. "
You always know when someone is unsure of their ground when they come out with nonsense - what do you mean the “OP isn’t asking (me) to participate”? This is a thread about bareback, there is no need to start another one.
Glad anyway that apparently you are aware of the risks. The thing is that you and others say it is “your choice” - but actually it’s the same as dropping litter - your choice to do so but not anyone else’s choice to have to live with the consequences of your actions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex is never really safe, with or without protection and we all must be mindful of that fact .
I used to BB but with just three very trusted people
1. my first and 2nd wives (counted as 1)
2. my long term fem FB
3. my long term male FB
in 2 and 3 cases above , because we trust each other implicitly and they are also married and to ensure 1 is protected
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do prefer bareback, but one question I would like to ask on here, we have met single women on here and other places, now some do bareback some don't there chose, but I sandy always like to ask the a question and that is do any other couples ask you to go bareback even though they have advertised they don't on here or anywhere else, they all say every couple they have met, have all asked them to go bareback by the second meet. Now seems to me there are a lot of couples on here who want to go bareback especially with single women, but put safe sex on there profile because they don't like people to know they do. Funny that, we have also met couples who do the same, so I think it's more the stigmatized thing of bareback, than actually doing it now. What do you think. |
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In all likelihood the poster is on combination medication that will reduce the viral load to a negligible level meaning that is impossible to transfer the virus through sexual activity. If that is the case then we can all put down our pitchforks and go home. We just don't know one way or the other as this information has not yet been revealed.
Regardless of medication and viral load, if anyone who has HIV (on this site or in any walk of life) doesn’t inform their partner... it can be classed as attempted murder.
There is no witch hunt attempt!
Just reminding people of the severity of things, and to be honest with people concerning their testing status.
If bare is what you like, and you have willing partners... enjoy!
Just don’t lie about things, cos it could be jail time.
Even just simple chlamydia, can land you with a criminal record if you pass it on knowingly.
Erm, not sure about that last part "
Yes. Good point.
Chlamydia does not kill. Influenza kills 12,000 per year in the UK alone. If you need to warn you have chlamydia, or be jailed, then Flu is an absolute essential. Face mask, biohazard suit, gloves and warning bell!!!
It's the STIGMA attached to STIs. Far more lethal everyday diseases are ignored but tag "sexual" on it and BINGO up pops all the big stories. |
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"Come on people, be honest.
If there was no such thing as STD's, no chance of pregnancy etc, you'd all prefer a bit of 'au natural'. However, as we all know, there ARE such things as STD's, therefore we all know that those of us who are VERY sexually active are more likely to catch something if we go BB. No glove no love.
That's your choice, you can't be telling others what to do with their choices though.
You'd be pissed if someone came and told you to ditch the condoms. But it's ok for you to tell someone that indulges in BB to cover up?
Yes the problem with that (albeit totally unrealistic) scenario is that by covering up you aren't risking anyone's health. By telling someone to not cover up, you are.
You can see that, right? You do know there are risks involved with bareback sex with strangers? You do know you mitigate that risk with condoms? I mean you have actually read about this at some point? Or do you think it is all a load of rubbish?
No, I don't think it's all rubbish.
What I'm saying is that people have free will, and can exercise that by choosing their own how they conduct their sex lives.
Every bareback thread gets jumped on by the SAFER sex preachers when the OP isn't even asking them to participate.
Now, I'm not advocating for or against BB sex, I believe it's an individuals choice. There's nothing I could say, or stats that I could produce, would change their mind.
If you want to go into facts, figures, or studies about safer sex, and the merits of condom usage. Feel free to start a thread about it.
You always know when someone is unsure of their ground when they come out with nonsense - what do you mean the “OP isn’t asking (me) to participate”? This is a thread about bareback, there is no need to start another one.
Glad anyway that apparently you are aware of the risks. The thing is that you and others say it is “your choice” - but actually it’s the same as dropping litter - your choice to do so but not anyone else’s choice to have to live with the consequences of your actions."
Our actions? That's a bit of an assumption. Go back through the thread and point me to where I said we do BB sex.
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"Come on people, be honest.
If there was no such thing as STD's, no chance of pregnancy etc, you'd all prefer a bit of 'au natural'. However, as we all know, there ARE such things as STD's, therefore we all know that those of us who are VERY sexually active are more likely to catch something if we go BB. No glove no love.
That's your choice, you can't be telling others what to do with their choices though.
You'd be pissed if someone came and told you to ditch the condoms. But it's ok for you to tell someone that indulges in BB to cover up?
Yes the problem with that (albeit totally unrealistic) scenario is that by covering up you aren't risking anyone's health. By telling someone to not cover up, you are.
You can see that, right? You do know there are risks involved with bareback sex with strangers? You do know you mitigate that risk with condoms? I mean you have actually read about this at some point? Or do you think it is all a load of rubbish?
No, I don't think it's all rubbish.
What I'm saying is that people have free will, and can exercise that by choosing their own how they conduct their sex lives.
Every bareback thread gets jumped on by the SAFER sex preachers when the OP isn't even asking them to participate.
Now, I'm not advocating for or against BB sex, I believe it's an individuals choice. There's nothing I could say, or stats that I could produce, would change their mind.
If you want to go into facts, figures, or studies about safer sex, and the merits of condom usage. Feel free to start a thread about it.
You always know when someone is unsure of their ground when they come out with nonsense - what do you mean the “OP isn’t asking (me) to participate”? This is a thread about bareback, there is no need to start another one.
Glad anyway that apparently you are aware of the risks. The thing is that you and others say it is “your choice” - but actually it’s the same as dropping litter - your choice to do so but not anyone else’s choice to have to live with the consequences of your actions.
Our actions? That's a bit of an assumption. Go back through the thread and point me to where I said we do BB sex.
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I am really fed up with dopey argument regarding BB-sex.are you more knowledgeable than the medical professionals.unprotected sex is dangerous and deadly period. Don't try to put yourself through the cross-hair of std.if you like bareback fun do it with your hubby or wife.I won't endorse bareback sex with total stranger. No matter the trust. It's wrong.call me old fashioned guy.l lost a good close pal to AIDS two years ago. |
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In all likelihood the poster is on combination medication that will reduce the viral load to a negligible level meaning that is impossible to transfer the virus through sexual activity. If that is the case then we can all put down our pitchforks and go home. We just don't know one way or the other as this information has not yet been revealed.
Regardless of medication and viral load, if anyone who has HIV (on this site or in any walk of life) doesn’t inform their partner... it can be classed as attempted murder.
There is no witch hunt attempt!
Just reminding people of the severity of things, and to be honest with people concerning their testing status.
If bare is what you like, and you have willing partners... enjoy!
Just don’t lie about things, cos it could be jail time.
Even just simple chlamydia, can land you with a criminal record if you pass it on knowingly.
To be fair to the gentleman concerned, he says in his profile that he has a secret he needs to discuss with you before you meet him. So there is no suggestion at all that he passing on anything knowingly. Again folks, time to put down the pitchforks."
Thank you Libertine64, it is good to know some people are more knowledgeable in the transmission risks. |
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"I am really fed up with dopey argument regarding BB-sex.are you more knowledgeable than the medical professionals.unprotected sex is dangerous and deadly period. Don't try to put yourself through the cross-hair of std.if you like bareback fun do it with your hubby or wife.I won't endorse bareback sex with total stranger. No matter the trust. It's wrong.call me old fashioned guy.l lost a good close pal to AIDS two years ago."
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" I don't think we would even stay to play with someone who asked to go bareback. Only hubby gets that pleasure. Even when we were exclusively playing with just 1 couple over the summer we wouldn't have risked it.
Totally personal choice but not for us
You’re so right...
It’s something like 87-97% of couples are diseased with at least ine std isnt it?
And what about HIV and AIDS....it has climbed up to what...78% of married couples..am i right...?
Human life is coming to an end on this planet because of these barebackers spreading life threatening diseases....
Stay safe, you’re the hope of humanity...!!!
This is hilarious. Nearly 80% of married couples have HIV or AIDS? I’d love to see your source.
Thank God I don’t meet couples. It’s like playing with a loaded gun!"
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" I don't think we would even stay to play with someone who asked to go bareback. Only hubby gets that pleasure. Even when we were exclusively playing with just 1 couple over the summer we wouldn't have risked it.
Totally personal choice but not for us
You’re so right...
It’s something like 87-97% of couples are diseased with at least ine std isnt it?
And what about HIV and AIDS....it has climbed up to what...78% of married couples..am i right...?
Human life is coming to an end on this planet because of these barebackers spreading life threatening diseases....
Stay safe, you’re the hope of humanity...!!!
Not sure if this is satire, but if you think 78% of married couples have HIV. You might be mental."
Its called trolling, not satire...
How else can i possibly react to the nonsense i read here from phobic uneducated people who think bareback sex is fatal. |
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over a year ago
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" I don't think we would even stay to play with someone who asked to go bareback. Only hubby gets that pleasure. Even when we were exclusively playing with just 1 couple over the summer we wouldn't have risked it.
Totally personal choice but not for us
You’re so right...
It’s something like 87-97% of couples are diseased with at least ine std isnt it?
And what about HIV and AIDS....it has climbed up to what...78% of married couples..am i right...?
Human life is coming to an end on this planet because of these barebackers spreading life threatening diseases....
Stay safe, you’re the hope of humanity...!!!
Not sure if this is satire, but if you think 78% of married couples have HIV. You might be mental.
Its called trolling, not satire...
How else can i possibly react to the nonsense i read here from phobic uneducated people who think bareback sex is fatal."
“Phobic uneducated people who think bareback sex is fatal.” Just had to repeat that to make sure I had read it properly. Comedy gold. |
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"Come on people, be honest.
If there was no such thing as STD's, no chance of pregnancy etc, you'd all prefer a bit of 'au natural'. However, as we all know, there ARE such things as STD's, therefore we all know that those of us who are VERY sexually active are more likely to catch something if we go BB. No glove no love.
That's your choice, you can't be telling others what to do with their choices though.
You'd be pissed if someone came and told you to ditch the condoms. But it's ok for you to tell someone that indulges in BB to cover up?
Yes the problem with that (albeit totally unrealistic) scenario is that by covering up you aren't risking anyone's health. By telling someone to not cover up, you are.
You can see that, right? You do know there are risks involved with bareback sex with strangers? You do know you mitigate that risk with condoms? I mean you have actually read about this at some point? Or do you think it is all a load of rubbish?
No, I don't think it's all rubbish.
What I'm saying is that people have free will, and can exercise that by choosing their own how they conduct their sex lives.
Every bareback thread gets jumped on by the SAFER sex preachers when the OP isn't even asking them to participate.
Now, I'm not advocating for or against BB sex, I believe it's an individuals choice. There's nothing I could say, or stats that I could produce, would change their mind.
If you want to go into facts, figures, or studies about safer sex, and the merits of condom usage. Feel free to start a thread about it.
You always know when someone is unsure of their ground when they come out with nonsense - what do you mean the “OP isn’t asking (me) to participate”? This is a thread about bareback, there is no need to start another one.
Glad anyway that apparently you are aware of the risks. The thing is that you and others say it is “your choice” - but actually it’s the same as dropping litter - your choice to do so but not anyone else’s choice to have to live with the consequences of your actions.
Our actions? That's a bit of an assumption. Go back through the thread and point me to where I said we do BB sex.
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“Is lush” ?
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"Bareback can kill
So can crossing the road without looking
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Sure thing, if you don’t look...
Using no protection with a stranger is just like that! Running across a big ol’ city road without bothering to fricking turn your head.
The mind boggles yo... it’s like have SOME respect for your own body and health!! And if you don’t, at least look into PRep etc so you don’t end up spreading the love. |
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"Come on people, be honest.
If there was no such thing as STD's, no chance of pregnancy etc, you'd all prefer a bit of 'au natural'. However, as we all know, there ARE such things as STD's, therefore we all know that those of us who are VERY sexually active are more likely to catch something if we go BB. No glove no love.
That's your choice, you can't be telling others what to do with their choices though.
You'd be pissed if someone came and told you to ditch the condoms. But it's ok for you to tell someone that indulges in BB to cover up?
Yes the problem with that (albeit totally unrealistic) scenario is that by covering up you aren't risking anyone's health. By telling someone to not cover up, you are.
You can see that, right? You do know there are risks involved with bareback sex with strangers? You do know you mitigate that risk with condoms? I mean you have actually read about this at some point? Or do you think it is all a load of rubbish?
No, I don't think it's all rubbish.
What I'm saying is that people have free will, and can exercise that by choosing their own how they conduct their sex lives.
Every bareback thread gets jumped on by the SAFER sex preachers when the OP isn't even asking them to participate.
Now, I'm not advocating for or against BB sex, I believe it's an individuals choice. There's nothing I could say, or stats that I could produce, would change their mind.
If you want to go into facts, figures, or studies about safer sex, and the merits of condom usage. Feel free to start a thread about it.
You always know when someone is unsure of their ground when they come out with nonsense - what do you mean the “OP isn’t asking (me) to participate”? This is a thread about bareback, there is no need to start another one.
Glad anyway that apparently you are aware of the risks. The thing is that you and others say it is “your choice” - but actually it’s the same as dropping litter - your choice to do so but not anyone else’s choice to have to live with the consequences of your actions.
Our actions? That's a bit of an assumption. Go back through the thread and point me to where I said we do BB sex.
“Is lush” ?
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"Bareback can kill
So can crossing the road without looking
Sure thing, if you don’t look...
Using no protection with a stranger is just like that! Running across a big ol’ city road without bothering to fricking turn your head.
The mind boggles yo... it’s like have SOME respect for your own body and health!! And if you don’t, at least look into PRep etc so you don’t end up spreading the love. "
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"Bareback can kill
So can crossing the road without looking
Sure thing, if you don’t look...
Using no protection with a stranger is just like that! Running across a big ol’ city road without bothering to fricking turn your head.
The mind boggles yo... it’s like have SOME respect for your own body and health!! And if you don’t, at least look into PRep etc so you don’t end up spreading the love. "
Again, you're assuming I/we bareback with strangers. We don't. We just choose not to vilify and resort to insulting those who do. |
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"Pretty much. You don't like it, so just state as much on your profile so others that like it can avoid you.
Similarly we would look out for those that list they enjoy it, so we know to pass them by."
I’ve done that before, got into trouble with Admin and they deleted my whole profile. I was raging at the time. |
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While everyone is throwing out nonsense statistics n shit from random dot coms, all of you who claim to be holier than though models of virtue, you do realise that at some point you will have had sexual contact with someone who's had bare sex at some point. You're at risk too, every time you have sex with someone not your partner. Smaller risk yes, but risk nonetheless.
Of all you amazingly safe couples, how many of you abstained from sex wit each other for long enough to be tested clean twice before ditching the condoms? |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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This thread has deteriorated quite predictably, hasn’t it?
Why can’t everyone just look after their own health and take their own chances? It’s quite simple - if you’re worried, then suit it and boot it with everyone. That way you stay safe. If others want to take chances, it won’t affect you.
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" I don't think we would even stay to play with someone who asked to go bareback. Only hubby gets that pleasure. Even when we were exclusively playing with just 1 couple over the summer we wouldn't have risked it.
Totally personal choice but not for us
You’re so right...
It’s something like 87-97% of couples are diseased with at least ine std isnt it?
And what about HIV and AIDS....it has climbed up to what...78% of married couples..am i right...?
Human life is coming to an end on this planet because of these barebackers spreading life threatening diseases....
Stay safe, you’re the hope of humanity...!!!
Not sure if this is satire, but if you think 78% of married couples have HIV. You might be mental.
Its called trolling, not satire...
How else can i possibly react to the nonsense i read here from phobic uneducated people who think bareback sex is fatal.
“Phobic uneducated people who think bareback sex is fatal.” Just had to repeat that to make sure I had read it properly. Comedy gold."
Since you like comedy, heres something i posted to someone else like you. Make good use of these rules and live and let die...
Rule 1. Always wrap the penis in 3 layers of cling film before you put the condom on if you’re planning to be extreme.
Rule 2. Bathe in Chlorine. Dont be fool, its not only the genitals. The whole human body is a nuclear bomb of bacteria, stay safe.
Rule 3. Call an ambulance before you get intimate. Be proactive in case you come in contact by accident with bodily fluids. Always arrange to meet near an A&E
Rule 4. Close your eyes and dream about it. Keep a safe distance and use your imagination. No need for physical contact, the brain is the most powerful sex organ isn't it?
Rule 5. Promote ultra safe cyber sex. Preferably your cyber partner should be in a different Continent and always use protection too. This wifi can be risky, you cant see whats in those horny electro-magnetic fields.
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"I don't know why you don't mind your own business and stop preaching to others. I do bareback, so what. I don't smoke or drink alcohol though x"
If I wanted to be preached at I'd have joined Fab-nuns!
When it comes to bareback, we all know the risks - and we all know what risks we personally find acceptable.
Just get down off your soapbox and look after your OWN sexual health - and let others look after theirs! |
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We don't bareback with strangers or people we don't know well. That's our personal choice and there are reasons for that.
Other people are adults and so I presume are capable of doing the research, deciding the risks and making the choice that is best for them. |
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"Timr for fastest to 175? "
No point. The next thread will have been started by someone else by the time this one has ended.
I'm surprised there weren't more Russian Roulette comparisons. |
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