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Maybe just use ‘up front about it’ ..
My take on it all is that nobody else knows the journey or backstory to get anyone else to this point or their reasons for being here. And it’s their decision and choice to be here and face any potential consequences that might ensue.
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"She is not aware I am on here" I would normally say, how would you feel if she was cheating on you.  | |||
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"She is not aware I am on here I would normally say, how would you feel if she was cheating on you. "This
You’re not honest to your wife you’re a cheat! | |||
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"What I find strange is that as a man when I get a no to an email the main reason is me being married and not for them. It seems a woman that's married and after discrete fun without partner knowing gets a lot more response Maybe that just because men and women are different in mind set" Maybe they are, I don't know. Those who have been devastated by their partners cheating, men or women, will be less likely to meet married people. | |||
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"She is not aware I am on here I would normally say, how would you feel if she was cheating on you.
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"What I find strange is that as a man when I get a no to an email the main reason is me being married and not for them. It seems a woman that's married and after discrete fun without partner knowing gets a lot more response Maybe that just because men and women are different in mind set" Well no-one said life is fair. | |||
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"What I find strange is that as a man when I get a no to an email the main reason is me being married and not for them. It seems a woman that's married and after discrete fun without partner knowing gets a lot more response Maybe that just because men and women are different in mind set" are you actually reading their profiles?...because most people seem to mention it on their profile if theyre not interested in meeting cheats. Also im not sure how you know what response married women get on here? The only difference i can see is that you never see them in the forums whining about how unfair it is that people dont want to meet them. | |||
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"i know it not good them the wife or parter but sometime if you not getting at home and trying to keep hand in until wife or parter up to it again ,os doing on qt " Really  | |||
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"She is not aware I am on here" Then your not honest...simples your cheating on her | |||
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"She is not aware I am on here" up front and honest with a group of strangers on here, but lying and cheating to your wife  | |||
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"i know it not good them the wife or parter but sometime if you not getting at home and trying to keep hand in until wife or parter up to it again ,os doing on qt Really " | |||
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"She is not aware I am on here Then your not honest...simples your cheating on her "This! | |||
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"Fantastic it’s on your profile, I’m sure there are lots of married men and women on here that haven’t disclosed this on their profiles. I do feel sorry for the husband/wife though that has no idea the other is playing away (or even on this site) and they are blissfully unaware, sitting at home thinking there other half is working etc. There are two sides to a story and you never know the other might be doing the same! Would we knowingly meet a married woman? I don’t know is the answer to that. We were approached by a married lady and we were talking for a while but something didn’t sit right so the answer is no I think based on the above. Geeky x" | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun " Gosh,I think you need to change your GP | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Gosh,I think you need to change your GP "Why. She is dead sexy lol | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Gosh,I think you need to change your GP
Why. She is dead sexy lol"Lol! So do you still have these erection problems, that your wife has caused, if so, you may struggle a little on here!   | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun " You’ve been together 40 years so you met when you was 10????? | |||
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"how would you like it if your wife was having an affair behind your back could be a thought/question" Already asked that, OP is still thinking about it. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun You’ve been together 40 years so you met when you was 10????? " Yep in primary school. Absolute 100%. Been together that long | |||
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"What I find strange is that as a man when I get a no to an email the main reason is me being married and not for them. It seems a woman that's married and after discrete fun without partner knowing gets a lot more response Maybe that just because men and women are different in mind set" It could be although I am sure there are men about who wouldn't either. The thing is there are probably less women on the site than men so you will have a hard time whether you are married or not. There are some people who play with marrieds so keep looking, you may find what you are looking for. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun You’ve been together 40 years so you met when you was 10????? " Hmmm....that's young, maybe she was saying no to haribos | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun You’ve been together 40 years so you met when you was 10????? Yep in primary school. Absolute 100%. Been together that long" I met my ex husband when I was 11 and were 40 next year (might not be together now but still good friends!) Geeky x | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun You’ve been together 40 years so you met when you was 10????? Hmmm....that's young, maybe she was saying no to haribos " | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Gosh,I think you need to change your GP
Why. She is dead sexy lol
Lol! So do you still have these erection problems, that your wife has caused, if so, you may struggle a little on here! "That’s why I have only met one women. Why you taking the piss. Are you medically trained? Because I never went with another person until 3 years ago it’s not hardly been used in all that time with another women. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun You’ve been together 40 years so you met when you was 10????? Hmmm....that's young, maybe she was saying no to haribos "ZZZZ | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun You’ve been together 40 years so you met when you was 10????? Yep in primary school. Absolute 100%. Been together that long I met my ex husband when I was 11 and were 40 next year (might not be together now but still good friends!) Geeky x" But his wife been saying no for 40 years! | |||
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"Dishonest with wife but honest with people on here? How does that work?! Surely that can't be possible. " Being honest about being married, of course it is possible. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun You’ve been together 40 years so you met when you was 10????? Yep in primary school. Absolute 100%. Been together that long" Maybe get her to join here with you, maybe she just fancies it with someone else! | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Gosh,I think you need to change your GP
Why. She is dead sexy lol
Lol! So do you still have these erection problems, that your wife has caused, if so, you may struggle a little on here!
That’s why I have only met one women. Why you taking the piss. Are you medically trained?
Because I never went with another person until 3 years ago it’s not hardly been used in all that time with another women. "No I'm not taking the piss, it's humour, apologies if you were offended | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Gosh,I think you need to change your GP
Why. She is dead sexy lol
Lol! So do you still have these erection problems, that your wife has caused, if so, you may struggle a little on here!
That’s why I have only met one women. Why you taking the piss. Are you medically trained?
Because I never went with another person until 3 years ago it’s not hardly been used in all that time with another women.
No I'm not taking the piss, it's humour, apologies if you were offended "Doh. Sorry . Not normally like that lol
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun You’ve been together 40 years so you met when you was 10????? Yep in primary school. Absolute 100%. Been together that long I met my ex husband when I was 11 and were 40 next year (might not be together now but still good friends!) Geeky x But his wife been saying no for 40 years! " Ooooohhhh I see lol | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun " 40 years... You're 50... Apparently | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Gosh,I think you need to change your GP
Why. She is dead sexy lol
Lol! So do you still have these erection problems, that your wife has caused, if so, you may struggle a little on here!
That’s why I have only met one women. Why you taking the piss. Are you medically trained?
Because I never went with another person until 3 years ago it’s not hardly been used in all that time with another women.
No I'm not taking the piss, it's humour, apologies if you were offended
Doh. Sorry . Not normally like that lol
I should receive a medal after putting up with it lol"Friends? | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun " same here,
If we openly post our status it gives others the freedom to make a choice, surely that is for the best for all. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun same here,
If we openly post our status it gives others the freedom to make a choice, surely that is for the best for all."Yes it is | |||
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"I won't go to into the reasons I am on here I think that's down to me and potential person I'm meetings as well all have our reasons for being on here. That said if I was getting fulfilment at home then I won't be on here. How would I feel if she played away, surprised as I have discussed the things I'm into with her and she's not into them. What I mean by being honest is that I put it in my profile so those looking can see that I am and make an informed decision based on it. I bet there are s lot of men on here that don't disclose it. " Thanks for your reply | |||
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"I won't go to into the reasons I am on here I think that's down to me and potential person I'm meetings as well all have our reasons for being on here. That said if I was getting fulfilment at home then I won't be on here. How would I feel if she played away, surprised as I have discussed the things I'm into with her and she's not into them. What I mean by being honest is that I put it in my profile so those looking can see that I am and make an informed decision based on it. I bet there are s lot of men on here that don't disclose it. " Purely as a matter of demographics, most so called singles on here will be attached. Most don't say so because they know it lessens their chance of a meet. I never understand why people who deceive their partners care about dishonesty with random strangers. It seems a strange moral stance to me. | |||
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"I appreciate a lot of people disagree with it, but if I'm upfront about it people know from the outset. This is not a site to be judgemental and day if a person is wrong it right fit looking for it doing what they are. There are plenty of people into things on this site that I find strange or weird but that's their business I'm not here to judge them" The best thing to do is remain up front but don't make it a discussion point if you aren't prepared for people to disagree. | |||
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"She is not aware I am on here I would normally say, how would you feel if she was cheating on you.
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You’re not honest to your wife you’re a cheat! "well said. | |||
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"I have no issues with people disagreeing." I can see that. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Gosh,I think you need to change your GP
Why. She is dead sexy lol
Lol! So do you still have these erection problems, that your wife has caused, if so, you may struggle a little on here!
That’s why I have only met one women. Why you taking the piss. Are you medically trained?
Because I never went with another person until 3 years ago it’s not hardly been used in all that time with another women.
No I'm not taking the piss, it's humour, apologies if you were offended
Doh. Sorry . Not normally like that lol
I should receive a medal after putting up with it lol
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Gosh,I think you need to change your GP
Why. She is dead sexy lol
Lol! So do you still have these erection problems, that your wife has caused, if so, you may struggle a little on here!
That’s why I have only met one women. Why you taking the piss. Are you medically trained?
Because I never went with another person until 3 years ago it’s not hardly been used in all that time with another women.
No I'm not taking the piss, it's humour, apologies if you were offended
Doh. Sorry . Not normally like that lol
I should receive a medal after putting up with it lol
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun 40 years... You're 50... Apparently" Was meant to be we have been together 40 years. Yes since 10. Never last they said. Only thing that never lasted was my erections | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun 40 years... You're 50... Apparently Was meant to be we have been together 40 years. Yes since 10. Never last they said. Only thing that never lasted was my erections "See..you do have a sense of humour...you'll get the hang of it...so to speak | |||
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"What I find strange is that as a man when I get a no to an email the main reason is me being married and not for them. It seems a woman that's married and after discrete fun without partner knowing gets a lot more response Maybe that just because men and women are different in mind set" Supply & demand is a factor, you won’t find a woman starting a thread about not getting a meet, regardless if she has a partner or not! | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun 40 years... You're 50... Apparently Was meant to be we have been together 40 years. Yes since 10. Never last they said. Only thing that never lasted was my erections
See..you do have a sense of humour...you'll get the hang of it...so to speak "You know when your doing something and shouldn’t be posting. I was in that mood lol sorry x | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun 40 years... You're 50... Apparently Was meant to be we have been together 40 years. Yes since 10. Never last they said. Only thing that never lasted was my erections
See..you do have a sense of humour...you'll get the hang of it...so to speak
You know when your doing something and shouldn’t be posting.
I was in that mood lol sorry x
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"I won't go to into the reasons I am on here I think that's down to me and potential person I'm meetings as well all have our reasons for being on here. That said if I was getting fulfilment at home then I won't be on here. How would I feel if she played away, surprised as I have discussed the things I'm into with her and she's not into them. What I mean by being honest is that I put it in my profile so those looking can see that I am and make an informed decision based on it. I bet there are s lot of men on here that don't disclose it. " At least you have been upfront about it on your profile many aren't. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun " 40 years together but you are only 50. Blimey you got together young | |||
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"I think people have the wrong end of the stick as I accidentally deleted my originally opening post. It was what are people's thought on a married person on here and one whose upfront about it in his profile so women can't decide with all the facts, and if there is likely to be many women that go for a married man It is not a whinge or a moan" I think you've got your answer then ... some married men do and some don't, and some women mind and some don't. I just suggest you only approach those women who don't mind and only approach anyone if you're at ease with yourself about it. | |||
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"If you decide to cheat OP, that is your business. I'm thankful you are at least open about it on fab, even if you are not honest to your wife. So many on here pretend to be single, which galls me far more. Being upfront allows someone to make an informed choice on whether to meet you or not. Not everyone will meet a married man, but some will. It's finding those that are comfortable with your current marital status "well said. | |||
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"Possibly like guys that go to the clubs mentioned on here and are not open about being married and the woman or women discover afterwards." My last comment on this ... it doesn't matter what others do ... just do what you can live with. I'm no longer sure what you want from this thread. No-one here can give you permission so you feel better about it. | |||
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"Many will take umbrage at the phrase ‘up front and honest about it’ - just wait and see!
Maybe just use ‘up front about it’ ..
My take on it all is that nobody else knows the journey or backstory to get anyone else to this point or their reasons for being here. And it’s their decision and choice to be here and face any potential consequences that might ensue.
Declare your status to anyone who may be interested and they can make their own informed decision whether they wish to meet or not. "This | |||
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"I have a new married FWB, he comes to my house XXX" Oh | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun 40 years together but you are only 50. Blimey you got together young "Someone is telling porkies somewhere one could perhaps be cynical and wonder if this is a deliberate ploy to avoid people’s message filters | |||
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"I have a new married FWB, he comes to my house XXX" Round. Of. Applause. | |||
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"I have a new married FWB, he comes to my house XXXRound. Of. Applause." Hehe! | |||
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"I have a new married FWB, he comes to my house XXXRound. Of. Applause. Hehe! "That should have said... Slow. Round. Of. Applause. | |||
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"I have a new married FWB, he comes to my house XXXRound. Of. Applause. Hehe!
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Slow. Round. Of. Applause." | |||
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"I have a new married FWB, he comes to my house XXX" That's sweet. | |||
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"I reckon most people on here are in the thirty to fifty age group. According to government stats about 80% of people in that age group are married or living with a partner. Add in people who have a significant other they don't live with and I reckon we can say about 85% of 30-50s are attached. Even if we assume the small percentage who are genuinely single are more likely to come on a swingers site, it's virtually statistically certain that a clear majority of alleged singles on here are attached. Moral : if you want to be sure you are not shagging a cheater, don't meet singles. " And where does that leave the ones that are genuinely single? Bit of a sweeping statement there! | |||
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"I reckon most people on here are in the thirty to fifty age group. According to government stats about 80% of people in that age group are married or living with a partner. Add in people who have a significant other they don't live with and I reckon we can say about 85% of 30-50s are attached. Even if we assume the small percentage who are genuinely single are more likely to come on a swingers site, it's virtually statistically certain that a clear majority of alleged singles on here are attached. " I agree to a certain extent with your theory with the exception of the ‘moral’ implying that only singles cheat, couples are capable of that too. Moral : if you want to be sure you are not shagging a cheater, don't meet anyone! | |||
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"I reckon most people on here are in the thirty to fifty age group. According to government stats about 80% of people in that age group are married or living with a partner. Add in people who have a significant other they don't live with and I reckon we can say about 85% of 30-50s are attached. Even if we assume the small percentage who are genuinely single are more likely to come on a swingers site, it's virtually statistically certain that a clear majority of alleged singles on here are attached. I agree to a certain extent with your theory with the exception of the ‘moral’ implying that only singles cheat, couples are capable of that too. Moral : if you want to be sure you are not shagging a cheater, don't meet anyone!"  | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun 40 years together but you are only 50. Blimey you got together young "Read the thread it tells you. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun " Looks like being married isn't the only thing men on here lie about. And guys on here wonder why they get such a bad rep | |||
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"Can anyone honestly say that haven't kept something from there other half ?" 'Those shoes were £150 not £50' is a bit different to 'I'm having casual sex with a variety of different people behind your back honey.' Don't you think? | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Looks like being married isn't the only thing men on here lie about. And guys on here wonder why they get such a bad rep "Where’s the lie in my post love. | |||
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"Should say wife not knowing" Well you want to try being honest with her instead of the woman on fab . Who do you think more of ? | |||
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"What I find strange is that as a man when I get a no to an email the main reason is me being married and not for them. It seems a woman that's married and after discrete fun without partner knowing gets a lot more response Maybe that just because men and women are different in mind set are you actually reading their profiles?...because most people seem to mention it on their profile if theyre not interested in meeting cheats. Also im not sure how you know what response married women get on here? The only difference i can see is that you never see them in the forums whining about how unfair it is that people dont want to meet them." This... | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Looks like being married isn't the only thing men on here lie about. And guys on here wonder why they get such a bad rep
Where’s the lie in my post love. "Married 40 years but you're 50 years old? I'm no mathematician | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Looks like being married isn't the only thing men on here lie about. And guys on here wonder why they get such a bad rep
Where’s the lie in my post love.
Married 40 years but you're 50 years old?
I'm no mathematician "Where’s it say married 40 in my message you quoted. Please tell the world. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Looks like being married isn't the only thing men on here lie about. And guys on here wonder why they get such a bad rep
Where’s the lie in my post love.
Married 40 years but you're 50 years old?
I'm no mathematician
Where’s it say married 40 in my message you quoted.
Please tell the world. "I actually can't tell if you're joking or not? "My wife.....over 40 years together" Your very own words | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Looks like being married isn't the only thing men on here lie about. And guys on here wonder why they get such a bad rep
Where’s the lie in my post love.
Married 40 years but you're 50 years old?
I'm no mathematician
Where’s it say married 40 in my message you quoted.
Please tell the world.
I actually can't tell if you're joking or not?
"My wife.....over 40 years together"
Your very own words "Think you need to read thing properly. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun Looks like being married isn't the only thing men on here lie about. And guys on here wonder why they get such a bad rep
Where’s the lie in my post love.
Married 40 years but you're 50 years old?
I'm no mathematician
Where’s it say married 40 in my message you quoted.
Please tell the world.
I actually can't tell if you're joking or not?
"My wife.....over 40 years together"
Your very own words
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"If you’re not happy you should get a divorce. Lying and cheating on the person who’s meant to mean the most to you is awful. I wouldn’t be able to do it, the guilt would be too much. Be honest. Get a divorce if it’s not working. Go without sex. No way to live and it’s not sustainable long term. Do the right thing. " I’m A very very happily married man. She hardly don’t want sex. I very occasionally do something about it. If you don’t like it or people in my position it’s no concern of yours. I never lie to anyone on here. Always up front with my marital status. If people don’t like it then there plenty of other people on here who they can look to. People need to chill out. | |||
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"Can anyone honestly say that haven't kept something from there other half ?" Yes! We are 100% honest with each other about absolutely everything and have been from the first day we met. I guess meeting on a site like this helps in that respect. | |||
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"I am newish...so if this has been asked please forgive me. But do all the regulars on here think the split of cheating married people on here is 50/50..or more men cheat than women..? " I think men will far outnumber women as there are way more of them on the site | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun 40 years together but you are only 50. Blimey you got together young
Read the thread it tells you. "Your profile states that too are 50 years old. In your thread you say that your wife has said no to you more times than you can remember in over 40 years together. Were you children when you got married? | |||
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"i know it not good them the wife or parter but sometime if you not getting at home and trying to keep hand in until wife or parter up to it again ,os doing on qt Really "Hilariously glorious. Ms | |||
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"If you’re not happy you should get a divorce. Lying and cheating on the person who’s meant to mean the most to you is awful. I wouldn’t be able to do it, the guilt would be too much. Be honest. Get a divorce if it’s not working. Go without sex. No way to live and it’s not sustainable long term. Do the right thing. I’m A very very happily married man. She hardly don’t want sex. I very occasionally do something about it. If you don’t like it or people in my position it’s no concern of yours. I never lie to anyone on here. Always up front with my marital status. If people don’t like it then there plenty of other people on here who they can look to. People need to chill out. " Do what you want pal. Fact is if you can lie to the person closest to you for the sake of a shag then you are not an honest man. I feel sorry for your wife. Bite the bullet, tell her the truth or get a divorce. She probably suspects anyway. Find someone you won’t cheat on and let her find someone better than you. You have to live with yourself so do what you thinks right but don’t pretend to be a honest man. How would you feel if you found out your wife was fucking guys off fab behind your back? Is that cool? | |||
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"I reckon most people on here are in the thirty to fifty age group. According to government stats about 80% of people in that age group are married or living with a partner. Add in people who have a significant other they don't live with and I reckon we can say about 85% of 30-50s are attached. Even if we assume the small percentage who are genuinely single are more likely to come on a swingers site, it's virtually statistically certain that a clear majority of alleged singles on here are attached. Moral : if you want to be sure you are not shagging a cheater, don't meet singles. And where does that leave the ones that are genuinely single? Bit of a sweeping statement there! " It means there are some genuinely single people but they are highly likely to be a minority of self proclaimed singles. | |||
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"I think people are confused.i was just asking people if being married and honest about it in profile, is something that will work on the site or being married means unlikely to lead to a meet. Not about is it morally right etc " If you don't care about morals, lie and say you are single. It will increase your chance of a meet. | |||
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"My wife is like a nun and said no to me more times then I can remember over 40 years together. My doctor even Blaine’s her for my erection problems so after all this time ( I would never make her have sex or any form) I decided sod it. Let’s have some fun 40 years together but you are only 50. Blimey you got together young
Read the thread it tells you.
Your profile states that too are 50 years old.
In your thread you say that your wife has said no to you more times than you can remember in over 40 years together.
Were you children when you got married? "40 Years TOGETHER. Stop spreading fake news. Read the whole thread and stop trolling it. | |||
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"Can anyone honestly say that haven't kept something from there other half ?" Hand up | |||
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