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over a year ago
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"Since the last veri?
I’ve just seen seven years
That is assuming that the person has had no meets between verifications....not everyone verifies, so never assume "
I never do. I’m trans. It’s rare I get a veri.
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My most recent visible verification is over five years old - but it's not the most recent, as when people leave the site their veri's disappear with them....
....but not everyone leaves them anyway - I've had more recent meets, and though I left for them, they didn't reciprocate....
....plus people can be active through other sites - so just because there's no recent veris here, doesn't mean anything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just had a meet and not been verified. Is this a regular thing then? To be honest it doesn't bother me either way but having no verifications puts some off doesn't it... ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've just had a meet and not been verified. Is this a regular thing then? To be honest it doesn't bother me either way but having no verifications puts some off doesn't it... "
I wouldn't get hung up about veris, especially being a woman. You will find the ones you like and are right for you without the green tick aiding I think.
Saying that, been a while since my last verify here haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what you mean.
On my profile's displayed veris there's a period over a year, mainly because it was a few years ago now and most who verified me from then have left the site (I do hope it wasn't my doing!)
In actual terms of veris at the time given I've probably been without one for 2 or 3 months on occasion as I'll have concentrated on meeting with those I'd met with before as sex does often get better with these meets, the often quoted line on women's profiles appears to be the truth!
In terms of actual meets when on site though, and discounting the month or so without meets immediately when I joined (and got a feel for the site and my profile and approach etc) the longest I've been without one is probably about 10-14 days, usually due to real life getting in the way (it's annoying like that!) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depends what you mean.
On my profile's displayed veris there's a period over a year, mainly because it was a few years ago now and most who verified me from then have left the site (I do hope it wasn't my doing!)
In actual terms of veris at the time given I've probably been without one for 2 or 3 months on occasion as I'll have concentrated on meeting with those I'd met with before as sex does often get better with these meets, the often quoted line on women's profiles appears to be the truth!
In terms of actual meets when on site though, and discounting the month or so without meets immediately when I joined (and got a feel for the site and my profile and approach etc) the longest I've been without one is probably about 10-14 days, usually due to real life getting in the way (it's annoying like that!)"
I was just surprised to see someone with just two veris from seven years ago and still here. I kinda assume they’ve been away from the site without deleting their account and have recently come back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Depends what you mean.
On my profile's displayed veris there's a period over a year, mainly because it was a few years ago now and most who verified me from then have left the site (I do hope it wasn't my doing!)
In actual terms of veris at the time given I've probably been without one for 2 or 3 months on occasion as I'll have concentrated on meeting with those I'd met with before as sex does often get better with these meets, the often quoted line on women's profiles appears to be the truth!
In terms of actual meets when on site though, and discounting the month or so without meets immediately when I joined (and got a feel for the site and my profile and approach etc) the longest I've been without one is probably about 10-14 days, usually due to real life getting in the way (it's annoying like that!)
I was just surprised to see someone with just two veris from seven years ago and still here. I kinda assume they’ve been away from the site without deleting their account and have recently come back. "
I'd imagine your assumption to be correct. I've had friends have a relationship, get wed, have a kid or two and get divorced in that time frame! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Depends what you mean.
On my profile's displayed veris there's a period over a year, mainly because it was a few years ago now and most who verified me from then have left the site (I do hope it wasn't my doing!)
In actual terms of veris at the time given I've probably been without one for 2 or 3 months on occasion as I'll have concentrated on meeting with those I'd met with before as sex does often get better with these meets, the often quoted line on women's profiles appears to be the truth!
In terms of actual meets when on site though, and discounting the month or so without meets immediately when I joined (and got a feel for the site and my profile and approach etc) the longest I've been without one is probably about 10-14 days, usually due to real life getting in the way (it's annoying like that!)
I was just surprised to see someone with just two veris from seven years ago and still here. I kinda assume they’ve been away from the site without deleting their account and have recently come back.
I'd imagine your assumption to be correct. I've had friends have a relationship, get wed, have a kid or two and get divorced in that time frame!"
Pah. I did all that in less than three years. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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