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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a single female looking to find another to play with a friend
Proving rather difficult at the minute. Are most reluctant to play in a mff with a non couple? I know I'd be willing but I'm starting to think that makes me odd  |
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May be when you see some of these single female profiles and they ask for a fem to come play with her and the friend the friend is her husband and it's just another couple trying to get a female to play with them !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single female looking to find another to play with a friend
Proving rather difficult at the minute. Are most reluctant to play in a mff with a non couple? I know I'd be willing but I'm starting to think that makes me odd "
Make a separate couples profile with your "friend"
Not being funny but having 420 friendly on your profile will put a lot of females off. I certainly wouldn't meet anyone with that on their profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single female looking to find another to play with a friend
Proving rather difficult at the minute. Are most reluctant to play in a mff with a non couple? I know I'd be willing but I'm starting to think that makes me odd "
Perhaps if you added this search for a friend on your profile. Girlies would know what you were available  |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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Finding genuine single females looking to play with other women is so difficult, the amount of men that contact me pretending to be women or have a friend / wife / girlfriend who wants to play with a woman on her own but doesn't have a profile of her own... |
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"I'm a single female looking to find another to play with a friend
Proving rather difficult at the minute. Are most reluctant to play in a mff with a non couple? I know I'd be willing but I'm starting to think that makes me odd
Make a separate couples profile with your "friend"
Not being funny but having 420 friendly on your profile will put a lot of females off. I certainly wouldn't meet anyone with that on their profile.
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...and that’s why I’m pleased that those who are 420 friendly have it on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a single female looking to find another to play with a friend
Proving rather difficult at the minute. Are most reluctant to play in a mff with a non couple? I know I'd be willing but I'm starting to think that makes me odd
Make a separate couples profile with your "friend"
Not being funny but having 420 friendly on your profile will put a lot of females off. I certainly wouldn't meet anyone with that on their profile.
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I don't want a couples profile because we're not a couple it is just to tick a box off each of our lists. A one off so to speak.
And as for the 420 thing isn't honesty the best policy? And anyone who has an issue with that doesn't need to get in touch |
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"I'm a single female looking to find another to play with a friend
Proving rather difficult at the minute. Are most reluctant to play in a mff with a non couple? I know I'd be willing but I'm starting to think that makes me odd
Make a separate couples profile with your "friend"
Not being funny but having 420 friendly on your profile will put a lot of females off. I certainly wouldn't meet anyone with that on their profile.
I don't want a couples profile because we're not a couple it is just to tick a box off each of our lists. A one off so to speak.
And as for the 420 thing isn't honesty the best policy? And anyone who has an issue with that doesn't need to get in touch "
Absolutely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hang on! Not enough ladies involved in the swinging scene as it is, please don’t all start playing with each other. What are us guys meant to do?"
Do what we all do well...play with ourselves  |
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I enjoy FF fun, however the number of fems that contact me and then drop the .....oh would you like to play with my male friend too, is starting to royally piss me off. I play with couples too, but I don't play with fems that think they can pull the wool over my eyes. Be bloody honest from the start! Including 420 issue. Informed choices all round. |
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Mrs SP here and yes I'm part of a couple but we are only on the scene specifically for the social and our freinds ... bi play ...own partner play and exibishonism
I am quite happy to play with ladies on my own and M is also quite happy for this too and actally encourages it ...although we have no problems at all in our local clubs finding this and couples who respect our boundaries I do agree though it's quite difficult to find this on a private meet or regular basis ....so any ladies in my area looking for just FF or females to become freinds and possibly more give me a shout  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hang on! Not enough ladies involved in the swinging scene as it is, please don’t all start playing with each other. What are us guys meant to do?
Do what we all do well...play with ourselves "
Turn Fab straight?
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Now my turn
Mr sp here i totally agree with mrs sp she is free in the day and i would welcome any lady who would like to get to know mrs better
I work so im not gna be sneaking back etc she does it for herself not for me .. so ladys you have my full permission with a few rules
No squirt on the bed.
Bring your own batteries
Noise level minimum
Make me a brew if i come home when your done ok xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely the way forward is to meet a couple of times for FF only, then if you get on ask directly if they are up for MFF. "
I'm more than happy to regularly meet a lady I have some of my own boxes to tick. Just rather be honest about my intention |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Mrs SP here and yes I'm part of a couple but we are only on the scene specifically for the social and our freinds ... bi play ...own partner play and exibishonism
I am quite happy to play with ladies on my own and M is also quite happy for this too and actally encourages it ...although we have no problems at all in our local clubs finding this and couples who respect our boundaries I do agree though it's quite difficult to find this on a private meet or regular basis ....so any ladies in my area looking for just FF or females to become freinds and possibly more give me a shout "
I'd be happy to play if you'd have me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Patience is the key lol
MRSP again ....I 've waited two years lol ...ps hide your haribos or MRSP will be after them "
Yes lol, 2 years is a good time. I will hide the haribos for a while, mrsp can have them tonight  |
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"Surely the way forward is to meet a couple of times for FF only, then if you get on ask directly if they are up for MFF. "
I'd rather know that from the outset. If I want to fuck a man Ive got a few that I can call on. It's the 'I'm only after FF lie' that I find deceptive. If they are after FFM approach ladies as a couple. |
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"I'm a single female looking to find another to play with a friend
Proving rather difficult at the minute. Are most reluctant to play in a mff with a non couple? I know I'd be willing but I'm starting to think that makes me odd
Make a separate couples profile with your "friend"
Not being funny but having 420 friendly on your profile will put a lot of females off. I certainly wouldn't meet anyone with that on their profile.
I don't want a couples profile because we're not a couple it is just to tick a box off each of our lists. A one off so to speak.
And as for the 420 thing isn't honesty the best policy? And anyone who has an issue with that doesn't need to get in touch "
OP I think this may be your problem.
Very few ladies want to be there just to tick a box for you and your male friend. They want to be valued and treated as a person rather than a living sex toy.
If a lady wants to meet a couple she will look at couples profiles. If she wants to meet a single (of any gender) she will look at singles profiles.
Be honest about what you seek on your profile and if necessary start a couples profile.
I do think you will struggle to find what you seek on here but it's not impossible. Clubs may be a better option for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As it says on my profile, I would love a little one on one time with another woman, if she is interested in mff with my fwb sometime then that can be discussed once we have got to know eachother better, if not then I am fine with that too. Aswell as new playmates it would be nice to find new naughty girlie friends for shopping, coffee, nights out, vanilla and fab and just having a giggle..whether we become playmates or not |
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"Mrs SP here and yes I'm part of a couple but we are only on the scene specifically for the social and our freinds ... bi play ...own partner play and exibishonism
I am quite happy to play with ladies on my own and M is also quite happy for this too and actally encourages it ...although we have no problems at all in our local clubs finding this and couples who respect our boundaries I do agree though it's quite difficult to find this on a private meet or regular basis ....so any ladies in my area looking for just FF or females to become freinds and possibly more give me a shout
I'd be happy to play if you'd have me "
can you send me a face pic hun xx |
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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago
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Agreed I get a lot of women message me and ask if their fella can watch. No thanks. I’m not all that into men to begin with and I’m VERY picky with men. Honestly I think I’m gay sometimes, but then I look at my fiancé or Adam Driver and get a twinge in the neither regions so I can’t be gay
All I want is a “girlfriend” who’ll go out to eat with me or to the movies and let me go down on her aswell haha, a friend with benefits who doesn’t want to bamboozle me with a penis. Seems hard to find |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to meet a female play friend, even if she’s part of couple, but the time together would just be me and a female and no one else (unless another female wanted to join lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single female looking to find another to play with a friend
Proving rather difficult at the minute. Are most reluctant to play in a mff with a non couple? I know I'd be willing but I'm starting to think that makes me odd
Make a separate couples profile with your "friend"
Not being funny but having 420 friendly on your profile will put a lot of females off. I certainly wouldn't meet anyone with that on their profile.
I don't want a couples profile because we're not a couple it is just to tick a box off each of our lists. A one off so to speak.
And as for the 420 thing isn't honesty the best policy? And anyone who has an issue with that doesn't need to get in touch
OP I think this may be your problem.
Very few ladies want to be there just to tick a box for you and your male friend. They want to be valued and treated as a person rather than a living sex toy.
If a lady wants to meet a couple she will look at couples profiles. If she wants to meet a single (of any gender) she will look at singles profiles.
Be honest about what you seek on your profile and if necessary start a couples profile.
I do think you will struggle to find what you seek on here but it's not impossible. Clubs may be a better option for you."
Spot on |
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Any ladies that are interested we are having a ladies only social on Fri 2nd Feb in Liverpool (night time) Details are on the forum or feel free to om me. Strictly ladies only and must have a minimum of 2 meet veris. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
Shrewsbury |
"It must be a common theme here ....I would love another women to join us (lou that is) but they seem to be like rocking horse Sh*t......."
They are about it just if you all find each other attractive or not |
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From past experience it can be a bit daunting putting faith in what appears to be a single female profile, wanting another single female to play with a male friend.
It rings alarm bells the same way a male profile or "couple" profile does when asking the same.
I'm sure you're very genuine but perhaps there could be a way of all people involved having contact in some way? Does the other person have a profile on here?
Best of luck to all of you who are looking for this, I may be at some point too. Unfortunately it's rhe odd cretins that make it hard work for the rest of us xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely the way forward is to meet a couple of times for FF only, then if you get on ask directly if they are up for MFF.
I'd rather know that from the outset. If I want to fuck a man Ive got a few that I can call on. It's the 'I'm only after FF lie' that I find deceptive. If they are after FFM approach ladies as a couple."
I was thinking more along the lines of a F fwb who is also interested in ffm, rather than only meeting with the intention of going further. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"Agreed I get a lot of women message me and ask if their fella can watch. No thanks. I’m not all that into men to begin with and I’m VERY picky with men. Honestly I think I’m gay sometimes, but then I look at my fiancé or Adam Driver and get a twinge in the neither regions so I can’t be gay
All I want is a “girlfriend” who’ll go out to eat with me or to the movies and let me go down on her aswell haha, a friend with benefits who doesn’t want to bamboozle me with a penis. Seems hard to find "
Oh my god yes. This.
Why is this so hard to find...  |
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