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Does anyone else have our dynamic??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are finding it really difficult to find couples or lady's who share our dynamic.
Mr is full swap and yes I do like that, I'm happy to watch and do soft swap if with a couple, I'm also bi with the right lady but this isn't a must.
A lot of couples don't seem to work this way and find it strange that I'm not full swap but Mr is. Are we an unusual dynamic?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are finding it really difficult to find couples or lady's who share our dynamic.
Mr is full swap and yes I do like that, I'm happy to watch and do soft swap if with a couple, I'm also bi with the right lady but this isn't a must.
A lot of couples don't seem to work this way and find it strange that I'm not full swap but Mr is. Are we an unusual dynamic?? "
What you are doing isn't full swap though.
I would say from the male of the other couples point of view that there's nothing in it for him. Your husband gets to fuck his wife but all he gets is a snog and to watch. You're like bait so he can fuck a different female. If I were still with my former FWB I would want him to be able to fuck the female so wouldn't be interested in the kind of thing you are offering. XXX |
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"We are finding it really difficult to find couples or lady's who share our dynamic.
Mr is full swap and yes I do like that, I'm happy to watch and do soft swap if with a couple, I'm also bi with the right lady but this isn't a must.
A lot of couples don't seem to work this way and find it strange that I'm not full swap but Mr is. Are we an unusual dynamic??
What you are doing isn't full swap though.
I would say from the male of the other couples point of view that there's nothing in it for him. Your husband gets to fuck his wife but all he gets is a snog and to watch. You're like bait so he can fuck a different female. If I were still with my former FWB I would want him to be able to fuck the female so wouldn't be interested in the kind of thing you are offering. XXX"
thanks for the feed back maybe we will find someone eventually who thinks like we do |
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"We are finding it really difficult to find couples or lady's who share our dynamic.
Mr is full swap and yes I do like that, I'm happy to watch and do soft swap if with a couple, I'm also bi with the right lady but this isn't a must.
A lot of couples don't seem to work this way and find it strange that I'm not full swap but Mr is. Are we an unusual dynamic??
What you are doing isn't full swap though.
I would say from the male of the other couples point of view that there's nothing in it for him. Your husband gets to fuck his wife but all he gets is a snog and to watch. You're like bait so he can fuck a different female. If I were still with my former FWB I would want him to be able to fuck the female so wouldn't be interested in the kind of thing you are offering. XXX
thanks for the feed back maybe we will find someone eventually who thinks like we do "
I’d agree - If we meet as a couple, I get a kick from seeing G with the female as much as he does seeing me with the male. We are both straight, so in this scenario, it’s almost like you & he would be simply watching your hubby with me.
It’s not full swap & it’s not cuck-queaning either
Sounds like you need a bi-fem for a threesome, or maybe consider the cuck element if you do just enjoy seeing him play with others? x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thankyou so much this really makes sense now we have put our names down for this even xx
"Not sure if this event at Townhouse might be your sort of thing guys - given your dynamic?  x
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/720363"
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By *immCouple
over a year ago
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We are the same, but opposite. I am not expecting to touch or be touched by the female but thoroughly enjoy seeing Mrs pleasured and in pleasure. Not a cuckold, just enjoy seeing Mrs happy. |
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"We are the same, but opposite. I am not expecting to touch or be touched by the female but thoroughly enjoy seeing Mrs pleasured and in pleasure. Not a cuckold, just enjoy seeing Mrs happy."
Then meet the OP ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are finding it really difficult to find couples or lady's who share our dynamic.
Mr is full swap and yes I do like that, I'm happy to watch and do soft swap if with a couple, I'm also bi with the right lady but this isn't a must.
A lot of couples don't seem to work this way and find it strange that I'm not full swap but Mr is. Are we an unusual dynamic?? "
We have seen your dynamic before.... although seen it more often the other way around. But you do whats right for you
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Yes you're right, we have only just really established our dynamic and initially we're down as I fem couple but obviously now we are more comfortable with what we like so profile will be updated. There are lots of pics of him on our friends pics too x
"I note there is no pics of the male on the profile, which is a bit strange if he is the only one going to be shagging anyone.... "
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Fab!! I’m going too so I’ll see you there! xx
"Thankyou so much this really makes sense now we have put our names down for this even xx
Not sure if this event at Townhouse might be your sort of thing guys - given your dynamic? x
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/events/720363"
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"We are finding it really difficult to find couples or lady's who share our dynamic.
Mr is full swap and yes I do like that, I'm happy to watch and do soft swap if with a couple, I'm also bi with the right lady but this isn't a must.
A lot of couples don't seem to work this way and find it strange that I'm not full swap but Mr is. Are we an unusual dynamic??
What you are doing isn't full swap though.
I would say from the male of the other couples point of view that there's nothing in it for him. Your husband gets to fuck his wife but all he gets is a snog and to watch. You're like bait so he can fuck a different female. If I were still with my former FWB I would want him to be able to fuck the female so wouldn't be interested in the kind of thing you are offering. XXX
thanks for the feed back maybe we will find someone eventually who thinks like we do "
Why do you think like you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a simular dynamic but the other way round. S likes to watch me with other men/people. We see ourselves as voyeur and exhibitionist. We definitely aren't cuck as we are D/s... S is my Master.
In order for him to do any play with other women he has to feel fully comfortable with them and it doesn't happen a lot... even though I'm dying to watch him have sex with a gorgeous lady. M |
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probably better off looking for a friends with benefits couple or cuck couple so the guy can only sit and watch 