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why are we never belived??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok as you will see from our profile, we are a couple, and a very well verified couple who have been swinging a couple of years. Now every once in a blue moon we will play alone. Mrs obviously has no problem getting meets, Mr gets called a cheat etc. We dont advertise on our profile anymore because all we got was messages from single guys. How can we BOTH be belived lol??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've given up on getting a meet to be honest seeing that yes it's all single men that reply so I know I'm fighting a losing battle and the way our life is at the moment it's a bit hard to arrange with a couple as we can't accom at the drop of a hat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think it may be time for us to just meet as a couple all the time. To be fair there are alot of men cheating etc on here, so it is understandable, but if its a guy from a well verified profile....is that not a clue?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on how comfortable you are with it. If you don't mind the wife having fun don't forget you could always watch and take photos.
Yes I would like to have extra martial fun with another woman but just because I'm not getting any doesn't mean I shouldn't let her do so.
Okay yes meeting other couples is the way forward thouh then it's not just 1 person but 2 that have to meet both of your requirements so I'm always a bit nervous of what to say lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest im not keen on meeting male half of couples
Its not because i dont beleive them that they are 'allowed' to play alone, i just really cant be bothered with it
I find they are usually on borrow time and have to be back in a certain amount of time, plus i find they spend most of the night talking about the mrs and to be quite blunt i dont meet guys to sit talking about their wifes all night, then you get some whos wifes insist on talking to you before hand, which again im not willing to do
I just prefure single guys to be single
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"sad to say the old double standard strikes again.  "
that is a generalisation, not evey1 has double standards, it is just easier for a woman to meet guys than a guy to meet woman, here or out there in the real world, nothing to do with double standards unless the guys meetin the woman meet men to but have a dif standard  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This week alone I have had 3 messages from the male half of the couple.. when I have asked to talk to the female half.. wham blocked..
There lies your problem..
I dont mind the time limits as no one meets me for more than an hour.. but we get the same with Master meeting alone. I am more than prepared to verify that Master is allowed.. ( haha, like he needs my permission) but women dont seem to want to when I am in the know..
SO it works both ways..
cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it may be time for us to just meet as a couple all the time. To be fair there are alot of men cheating etc on here, so it is understandable, but if its a guy from a well verified profile....is that not a clue?? "
Seriously well verified single men are almost the same as women, rare as rocking horse shit |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest im not keen on meeting male half of couples
Its not because i dont beleive them that they are 'allowed' to play alone, i just really cant be bothered with it
I find they are usually on borrow time and have to be back in a certain amount of time, plus i find they spend most of the night talking about the mrs and to be quite blunt i dont meet guys to sit talking about their wifes all night, then you get some whos wifes insist on talking to you before hand, which again im not willing to do
I just prefure single guys to be single
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I must be missing the point here but if you meet up with another woman other then your wife the idea is not to be talking about her but spending the time concentrating on the woman thats there with you??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would never in a million years talk about my partner unless the lady i was meeting asked me about her. And as for borrowed time, the reason we do this occasionally is because of the days we work, so we get to play with no time limits |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it may be time for us to just meet as a couple all the time. To be fair there are alot of men cheating etc on here, so it is understandable, but if its a guy from a well verified profile....is that not a clue??
Seriously well verified single men are almost the same as women, rare as rocking horse shit"
woohoo my lookatme response |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally not keen on meeting male half of a couple. Rarely attracted to them. "
thankfuck i ditched my wife...from my massive yacht...are u joining me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it may be time for us to just meet as a couple all the time. To be fair there are alot of men cheating etc on here, so it is understandable, but if its a guy from a well verified profile....is that not a clue??
Seriously well verified single men are almost the same as women, rare as rocking horse shit
woohoo my lookatme response "
lol no I think not. My veris are seriously minimal. Was far more a statement of opinion than a look at who I've shagged comment. |
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"ok as you will see from our profile, we are a couple, and a very well verified couple who have been swinging a couple of years. Now every once in a blue moon we will play alone. Mrs obviously has no problem getting meets, Mr gets called a cheat etc. We dont advertise on our profile anymore because all we got was messages from single guys. How can we BOTH be belived lol?? "
This is why i am so anti cheating on this site,swinging is about sexual openness and honesty, and those of us who are, have to explain our lives in ways that are unnecessary if the site was not full of adulterers looking for a quickie.
When we were meeting via contact mags and snail mail in the olden days, there was a lot more acceptance of the fact open relationships exist.
However many swinging couples do meet seperatly, try clubbing and socials to get to know people, once they do, they will believe u
Good luck
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Well, I would like to admit that I do meet the male half of a couple profile as I feel it is very easy to tell the wheat from the chaf and sometimes that is the way I prefer it. But I always make it clear I am looking for quality time, which they are more than willing to give....so I have no idea why you are finding it difficult OP but don't give up hope we are here trust me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"supply and demand, lots more guys lookin woman than woman lookin men, so more chance a woman gettin a meet than a guy, it's maths"
Someone points out the facts... it is purely maths!
More men than women on here. It's not rocket science... |
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"Easy - you both put a photo on the profile of your missus holding up a piece of paper saying you have permission to meet and fuck the living daylights out of people "
Might be a simple solution. Shame we can't load video like another site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its a fair point about the good old days with mags and snail mail lol. if we were a profile that was on here over a year with no verifications then id understand more lol x |
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