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Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like?  |
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"Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like? "
I think you have answered your own question as they clearly do. However I can't see any reason why they would think that unless they wear a bag over their heads all the time! |
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It usually takes us a bit of back and forth before we'll feel comfortable sending a face pic. We need to feel like we get on with someone on a sociable level before we think about meeting them.
We've met up with some couples without seeing face pics before hand.  |
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"Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like?
I think you have answered your own question as they clearly do. However I can't see any reason why they would think that unless they wear a bag over their heads all the time!"
correct and if the attraction isn't there what's the point surely. |
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"Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like? "
Do you send your face pic in your message requesting theirs? |
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"Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like?
Do you send your face pic in your message requesting theirs?"
of course so yes |
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"Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like?
Do you send your face pic in your message requesting theirs? of course so yes "
Then I agree with your frustration! |
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"Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like?
Do you send your face pic in your message requesting theirs? of course so yes "
if we message someone first we like the sound of them and they are possibly be on the same level as us,we would enclose a photo of us and go from there.They reply with photos if they like us or say sorry your not for etc this hasn't happened yet haha! But yeah the attraction has to there allround. |
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It frustrates me when people put on their profile that they will delete/block you if your first msg doesn't have a face pic attached. Yet their is no face pic to be seen on theirs? Come on people it works both ways x |
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"It frustrates me when people put on their profile that they will delete/block you if your first msg doesn't have a face pic attached. Yet their is no face pic to be seen on theirs? Come on people it works both ways x"
But that's their choice. They are running their profile in a way that suits them. You don't need to comply, they are not holding a gun to your head. |
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"It frustrates me when people put on their profile that they will delete/block you if your first msg doesn't have a face pic attached. Yet their is no face pic to be seen on theirs? Come on people it works both ways x"
Absolutely! See the separate 'No face pic no reply' thread ... fascinating! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It frustrates me when people put on their profile that they will delete/block you if your first msg doesn't have a face pic attached. Yet their is no face pic to be seen on theirs? Come on people it works both ways x
But that's their choice. They are running their profile in a way that suits them. You don't need to comply, they are not holding a gun to your head. "
I agree ... It tells you a lot about them and their attitude so is useful in helping to know who to avoid. |
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I think there are a lot of pushy couples on this site. A bit cocky for my liking asking for face pics on the first message (usually just the bloke being nosey).
Follow your instincts and send a face pic when comfortable.  |
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"I think there are a lot of pushy couples on this site. A bit cocky for my liking asking for face pics on the first message (usually just the bloke being nosey).
Follow your instincts and send a face pic when comfortable. "
yeah totally loads of the male parts of the couple being pushy and sending friends requests after 1 message just so he can have a wank over the Mrs haha! Really is off putting and instant block and there is a few nice ones we've spoken to in our friebds list so not all bad at all |
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"I think there are a lot of pushy couples on this site. A bit cocky for my liking asking for face pics on the first message (usually just the bloke being nosey).
Follow your instincts and send a face pic when comfortable. yeah totally loads of the male parts of the couple being pushy and sending friends requests after 1 message just so he can have a wank over the Mrs haha! Really is off putting and instant block and there is a few nice ones we've spoken to in our friends list so not all bad at all "
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"It frustrates me when people put on their profile that they will delete/block you if your first msg doesn't have a face pic attached. Yet their is no face pic to be seen on theirs? Come on people it works both ways x
But that's their choice. They are running their profile in a way that suits them. You don't need to comply, they are not holding a gun to your head. "
I never reply. Just saying what's out there seeing as this thread is about face pics |
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"Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like? "
They couldn't find the face to go with the body on Google images? 
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"Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like?
I think you have answered your own question as they clearly do. However I can't see any reason why they would think that unless they wear a bag over their heads all the time! correct and if the attraction isn't there what's the point surely."
Very true and if your not atracted to them you would save time for both parties by not continuing the chat. My profile states that if you have no photos either in the message or on your profile I will block with no exceptions and I have a growing block list. People if you were to meet a stranger in the pub or street and strike up a conversation do you both imediatly turn your back to each other? This may be a swinging site and the reasons for conversing is ultimately to meet and have sex it's still polite and necessary to see who you are talking too. |
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"Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like?
I think you have answered your own question as they clearly do. However I can't see any reason why they would think that unless they wear a bag over their heads all the time! correct and if the attraction isn't there what's the point surely.
Very true and if your not atracted to them you would save time for both parties by not continuing the chat. My profile states that if you have no photos either in the message or on your profile I will block with no exceptions and I have a growing block list. People if you were to meet a stranger in the pub or street and strike up a conversation do you both imediatly turn your back to each other? This may be a swinging site and the reasons for conversing is ultimately to meet and have sex it's still polite and necessary to see who you are talking too."
In your case it's a reasonable thing to expect as you have already published your picture. No problem to state that. It's where people ask for a face pic but don't share theirs ... |
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"Why is it sometimes you get a message off someone and there is no face pic attatched,when you ask for a face pic they don't reply? Do you they think you will meet them without even seeing what they look like?
I think you have answered your own question as they clearly do. However I can't see any reason why they would think that unless they wear a bag over their heads all the time! correct and if the attraction isn't there what's the point surely.
Very true and if your not atracted to them you would save time for both parties by not continuing the chat. My profile states that if you have no photos either in the message or on your profile I will block with no exceptions and I have a growing block list. People if you were to meet a stranger in the pub or street and strike up a conversation do you both imediatly turn your back to each other? This may be a swinging site and the reasons for conversing is ultimately to meet and have sex it's still polite and necessary to see who you are talking too.
In your case it's a reasonable thing to expect as you have already published your picture. No problem to state that. It's where people ask for a face pic but don't share theirs ..."
Yes your right and I find it very odd that they expect you to let them see what you look like but not let you see them. However if I send a message and the requirements are a face pic in the message I still put one in as it shows I have read their profile. In the time I have been on here I am still at a loss as to why people don't read the profile before sending a message. |
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