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Bi male does this make you gay?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay? |
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"
You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum.  |
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?
You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum. "
 Sir is Not Gay !!! |
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"Not it doesn't!
People and their bloody labels! "
What would the site be like if we all IDd as this
Gender: Neutral
Age: 18-99
Height: yes
Weight: yes
Smoker : TBC
Marital Status: TBC
Sexuality: Yes please
Location: UK
Is this what the anti labelling folk would like to see  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One question.
Are you romantically interested in other men?
If the answer is no, then no you’re not gay.
We can’t control what we find hot, so just enjoy it man.  |
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Probably makes you gay while you're doing it but then if you quickly have sex with the lady you'll turn straight again. If he's in your bum while you're in hers and you leave it there I'm afraid you will then be bi.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay
If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay
If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!
Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet?? |
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"Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay
If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay
If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!
Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??"
Think you are being rather judgemental... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay
If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay
If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!
Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??
Think you are being rather judgemental..."
Thanks. |
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Men worry about how their attractions define them more than women because being a gay/bi man is still considered 'dirty' or shameful by many. It's something that can still get you assaulted or worse, sadly.
On fab, at least, it's assumed almost by default that all women are at least bi-curious and this is a desirable trait. Bi men are largely seen in the same light as smokers and cheats.
OP, don't worry about what anything makes you. If you fancy trying some D and you find a consenting person then give it a whirl!  If you find after that it's not your bag of fish then at least you had the courage to test your boundaries and your should be proud of yourself.
Don't worry about having to change your fab profile to indicate your sexuality. Most bi curious guys are listed as straight and will only mention their passing partiality to man-meat in a message. And that's fine too. If the people you message have an issue with that then pass them bi
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay
If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay
If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!
Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??"
But if they like woman as well they are bisexual not gay  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I was under the assumption that a gay man was not sexually interested in women. That they were only interested in men. If someone is attracted to women also, how does that make them gay? .... Or have things changed and I'm just out of touch with it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is it about us bloody British, labels and more bloody labels. So what if anyone only likes opposite sex or occasionally likes a little of both or strictly sticks to own sex. So long honesty prevails and fun takes place who gives a fuck. Just be honest with who you meet and be bloody polite. It's ok to just say thanks but no thanks or yes please. Sermon over lol. |
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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago
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"Bi means still means gay???"
no it does not.I have had a couple of bi experiences,mixed feelings on it,but love women and have an amazing sex life with my wife and I can assure you I am not gay or want to be.your comments are very judgemental.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi means still means gay???"
Erm, no it makes you bi. Gay means you have no interest sexually in the opposite sex. Bi people have sexual interest in both sexes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not it doesn't!
People and their bloody labels! "
Labels are not the problem, everyone has and needs labels, that's how we communicate, we can't not have labels, that's not opinion, that's fact.
People can choose to be part of a label or not, that's up to them, that's a person's preference, the labels aren't going away, don't blame the labels. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Bi means still means gay???"
Still trying to wind people up I see 
OP no it doesn't make you gay in the slightest, unless of course you only have an interest in same sex sex and staying that way.
As for labelling - each to their own as to whether to do so or not, personally I think by choosing not to identify as bi/bi curious (when you are either, and have an interest in acting on it) you're closing as many doors as you think you're opening.
The vast majority on here are not bothered either way, but by choosing to appeal to the minority that won't meet bi men, you're potentially closing yourself off to the chance of meeting those that actively seek out bi men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi means still means gay???
Still trying to wind people up I see
OP no it doesn't make you gay in the slightest, unless of course you only have an interest in same sex sex and staying that way.
As for labelling - each to their own as to whether to do so or not, personally I think by choosing not to identify as bi/bi curious (when you are either, and have an interest in acting on it) you're closing as many doors as you think you're opening.
The vast majority on here are not bothered either way, but by choosing to appeal to the minority that won't meet bi men, you're potentially closing yourself off to the chance of meeting those that actively seek out bi men."
Still gay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"
Not really, but you're also not technically straight, as you have gay fantasies to some degree.
Why does it need to be a category though? You be you dude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi means still means gay???
Still trying to wind people up I see
OP no it doesn't make you gay in the slightest, unless of course you only have an interest in same sex sex and staying that way.
As for labelling - each to their own as to whether to do so or not, personally I think by choosing not to identify as bi/bi curious (when you are either, and have an interest in acting on it) you're closing as many doors as you think you're opening.
The vast majority on here are not bothered either way, but by choosing to appeal to the minority that won't meet bi men, you're potentially closing yourself off to the chance of meeting those that actively seek out bi men.
Still gay."
Still have a blatent lie as your username. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi means still means gay???
Still trying to wind people up I see
OP no it doesn't make you gay in the slightest, unless of course you only have an interest in same sex sex and staying that way.
As for labelling - each to their own as to whether to do so or not, personally I think by choosing not to identify as bi/bi curious (when you are either, and have an interest in acting on it) you're closing as many doors as you think you're opening.
The vast majority on here are not bothered either way, but by choosing to appeal to the minority that won't meet bi men, you're potentially closing yourself off to the chance of meeting those that actively seek out bi men.
Still gay.
Still have a blatent lie as your username."
Yes I must choose an alternative corny yet slightly creepy one...darn...you've already took it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still gay.
Still deluded and attention seeking
I have to contest deluded....
I wouldn't - it fits perfectly "
I think someone got his flirty pants on..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Makes you open minded doesn't it???
Why pigeon hole yourself?
If you were heterosexual, would you sleep with every woman? If you were gay would you sleep with every guy?
Attraction is attraction, who cares what others thing apart from the people involved? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi means still means gay???
Still trying to wind people up I see
OP no it doesn't make you gay in the slightest, unless of course you only have an interest in same sex sex and staying that way.
As for labelling - each to their own as to whether to do so or not, personally I think by choosing not to identify as bi/bi curious (when you are either, and have an interest in acting on it) you're closing as many doors as you think you're opening.
The vast majority on here are not bothered either way, but by choosing to appeal to the minority that won't meet bi men, you're potentially closing yourself off to the chance of meeting those that actively seek out bi men.
Still gay.
Still have a blatent lie as your username.
Yes I must choose an alternative corny yet slightly creepy one...darn...you've already took it."
Does me alright mate. A lot better than a blatent lie backed up by a sometimes knob shot avatar I'd imagine. |
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"
Certainly not; Bi yes; nowt wrong with that just like there is nowt wrong with being gay either.
Dave is so pleased he discovered his Bi side, just ask him, as he always blmaes me for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What does it matter, I get messages winks views from straight 'so called' men when I reply they say the are bi but don't want to say so. I only meet bi/gay men singles. Couples don't care if the male is straight or bi
It's just another label |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"
No. As a man you’re only homosexual should you be only attracted to men. Just go wherever your enjoyment takes you and think little.
“Do what thou wilt” Aleister Crowley |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my ideal mmf situation. I have no intention of fucking the guy. It has no appeal to me. I just wanna be the one receiving and sucking. Are any guys the opposite? |
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"In my ideal mmf situation. I have no intention of fucking the guy. It has no appeal to me. I just wanna be the one receiving and sucking. Are any guys the opposite?"
Yes Sir won’t receive - he top bi and will suck |
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"Bi means still means gay???no it does not.I have had a couple of bi experiences,mixed feelings on it,but love women and have an amazing sex life with my wife and I can assure you I am not gay or want to be.your comments are very judgemental."
I'm fairly sure this guy is just amusing himself by winding people up with purposely provocative contributions.
No offence to the OP but I find the question quite silly. That is unless the question relates more to a concern of being seen as guy by others.....who cares, just do what feels good |
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"Bi means still means gay???no it does not.I have had a couple of bi experiences,mixed feelings on it,but love women and have an amazing sex life with my wife and I can assure you I am not gay or want to be.your comments are very judgemental.
I'm fairly sure this guy is just amusing himself by winding people up with purposely provocative contributions.
No offence to the OP but I find the question quite silly. That is unless the question relates more to a concern of being seen as guy by others.....who cares, just do what feels good "
Agree but these nom threads are good to identify people with similar interests and those with prejudice. There’s a few such threads going on currently for bi , black or bi and black. Enjoy  |
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"Bi means still means gay???no it does not.I have had a couple of bi experiences,mixed feelings on it,but love women and have an amazing sex life with my wife and I can assure you I am not gay or want to be.your comments are very judgemental.
I'm fairly sure this guy is just amusing himself by winding people up with purposely provocative contributions.
No offence to the OP but I find the question quite silly. That is unless the question relates more to a concern of being seen as guy by others.....who cares, just do what feels good
Agree but these nom threads are good to identify people with similar interests and those with prejudice. There’s a few such threads going on currently for bi , black or bi and black. Enjoy "
Are there now lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?
You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum.
Sir is Not Gay !!! "
Wow he’s hot & can stay hard in mine as long as he likes! |
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?
You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum.
Sir is Not Gay !!!
Wow he’s hot & can stay hard in mine as long as he likes!"
Your profiles hidden. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely if like me you like having sex with men and women then your bisexual not gay? I love it so what's not to like. Just go with the flow and enjoy yourself and don't worry about labels. |
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The deciding factor is what do you do if you're in a pub and dancing queen by abba or I will survive by Gloria gaynor is played ?
get up, dance wildly and sing along followed by crying in the toilets and you've caught the gay
Shout out who put this crap on ?!.. You're straight or maybe gay but trying to overly mask it
Hope this helps |
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"Not it doesn't!
People and their bloody labels!
What would the site be like if we all IDd as this
Gender: Neutral
Age: 18-99
Height: yes
Weight: yes
Smoker : TBC
Marital Status: TBC
Sexuality: Yes please
Location: UK
Is this what the anti labelling folk would like to see "
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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago
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"Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay
If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay
If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!
Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??
Think you are being rather judgemental...
Thanks."
You labeller you....if he is still looking for female fun at worst Bi .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Which bit don't men get??? If you fantasise about sexual encounters with another man...you're gay
If you touch another man's cock and enjoy it...you're gay
If you have sex with someone who has a cock and breast implants...you're gay!
Stop being homophobic and get out of your closet??
Think you are being rather judgemental...
Thanks.
You labeller you....if he is still looking for female fun at worst Bi .."
Worst? In my opinion it's the best being bi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's hot is what it is...it's a kink or potentially a path to more play with men. Either way you what to involve both sexes. In my eyes that's more fun than the 'don't even want to come anywhere near another man's bits' attitude.
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?
You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum. "
It’s tight and warm - it’s difficult not to get harder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?
You're only gay if you keep your hard-on while you're inside a man's bum.
Sir is Not Gay !!!
Wow he’s hot & can stay hard in mine as long as he likes!
Your profiles hidden. "
Not anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"
Not if you keep one foot on the floor! |
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"Men worry about how their attractions define them more than women because being a gay/bi man is still considered 'dirty' or shameful by many. It's something that can still get you assaulted or worse, sadly.
On fab, at least, it's assumed almost by default that all women are at least bi-curious and this is a desirable trait. Bi men are largely seen in the same light as smokers and cheats.
OP, don't worry about what anything makes you. If you fancy trying some D and you find a consenting person then give it a whirl! If you find after that it's not your bag of fish then at least you had the courage to test your boundaries and your should be proud of yourself.
Don't worry about having to change your fab profile to indicate your sexuality. Most bi curious guys are listed as straight and will only mention their passing partiality to man-meat in a message. And that's fine too. If the people you message have an issue with that then pass them bi
Good luck and don't be afraid to explore yourself! "
Well said, and my sentiments exactly. It's ok for a woman to be bi, but men are very much so not treated in the same way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I was under the assumption that a gay man was not sexually interested in women. That they were only interested in men. If someone is attracted to women also, how does that make them gay? .... Or have things changed and I'm just out of touch with it? "
Christ! You're so last year... Where have you been!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"
It makes you Bisexual, but if you're worrying about it enough to ask, you may not be ready.
Take it from someone that's been there, make sure you're comfortable with yourself before trying it. |
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
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"Men worry about how their attractions define them more than women because being a gay/bi man is still considered 'dirty' or shameful by many. It's something that can still get you assaulted or worse, sadly.
On fab, at least, it's assumed almost by default that all women are at least bi-curious and this is a desirable trait. Bi men are largely seen in the same light as smokers and cheats.
OP, don't worry about what anything makes you. If you fancy trying some D and you find a consenting person then give it a whirl! If you find after that it's not your bag of fish then at least you had the courage to test your boundaries and your should be proud of yourself.
Don't worry about having to change your fab profile to indicate your sexuality. Most bi curious guys are listed as straight and will only mention their passing partiality to man-meat in a message. And that's fine too. If the people you message have an issue with that then pass them bi
Good luck and don't be afraid to explore yourself! "
Spot on |
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Never heard of bi if you live in a full time relationship with a man or you only sleep with men then you gay if you sleep with both your bi if you only sleep with women your straight it's not complicated really is it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I have a fantasy about winning the lotto does that make me a millionaire ?
I think you're looking to be bi - playful in a threesome.
If you eventually do stuff with a male that will make you bi but gay no way.
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Never heard of bi if you live in a full time relationship with a man or you only sleep with men then you gay if you sleep with both your bi if you only sleep with women your straight it's not complicated really is it "
Going off the number of threads asking questions similar to this it is apparently very complicated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" You're only gay if you have a legally binding agreement with another same sex partner. Anything else is just "mucking about!""
Dammit man I ended up reading that in a Kenneth Williams voice. |
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"I have a fantasy of a mmf threesome i dont want to penetrate a man, or be penetrated maybe a BJ or hand play or generally touching being close when playing with F. Does this make me gay?"
Yes... Your gay |
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" You're only gay if you have a legally binding agreement with another same sex partner. Anything else is just "mucking about!"
Dammit man I ended up reading that in a Kenneth Williams voice. "
ooooooh stop mucking about! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So i played rugby orten had my head near other guys cocks in scrums and patented a bollock twist after a tackle
Also showered and had baths with many men over the years
Are you saying all rugby players are gay.
Or mma fighters
Or most team based athletes in general
Dont think so fella
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