"Quite often if people are treated as if they are leading ladies they will begin to behave as if they are. "
Ok so now I understand what you meant by Prima Donna OP.
So yes, I think the gender imbalance must have a great impact on how some women behave on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fair point..... so that would be every woman on Fab then....
It could be every woman you've come into contact with but I'm not a prima donna. I'm not a soprano for a start more alto."
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"I wouldn't say that OP, most the women I know on here seem to be strong, assertive women who know what they want. That doesn't make them prima donnas!!!"
Can't stand them myself, havn't seen that many around here though there are plenty of ego bruised men it seems.  |
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"I wouldn't say that OP, most the women I know on here seem to be strong, assertive women who know what they want. That doesn't make them prima donnas!!!
Can't stand them myself, havn't seen that many around here though there are plenty of ego bruised men it seems. "
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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I may not be to everyone's taste but I'm not going to shag any guy just because I'm on a swinging site, Ive still got standards, if that makes me a Prima Donna then I'll wear the label with pride. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say that OP, most the women I know on here seem to be strong, assertive women who know what they want. That doesn't make them prima donnas!!!
Can't stand them myself, havn't seen that many around here though there are plenty of ego bruised men it seems. "
You can't stand what Frisky? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may not be to everyone's taste but I'm not going to shag any guy just because I'm on a swinging site, Ive still got standards, if that makes me a Prima Donna then I'll wear the label with pride. "
It's not about shagging around... look up up the non-opera definition of Prima Donna |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"I may not be to everyone's taste but I'm not going to shag any guy just because I'm on a swinging site, Ive still got standards, if that makes me a Prima Donna then I'll wear the label with pride.
It's not about shagging around... look up up the non-opera definition of Prima Donna"
I know what it means, are you referring to women who you think might believe they are more attractive than you think they are because of the ratio of men to women? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may not be to everyone's taste but I'm not going to shag any guy just because I'm on a swinging site, Ive still got standards, if that makes me a Prima Donna then I'll wear the label with pride.
It's not about shagging around... look up up the non-opera definition of Prima Donna
I know what it means, are you referring to women who you think might believe they are more attractive than you think they are because of the ratio of men to women?"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I may not be to everyone's taste but I'm not going to shag any guy just because I'm on a swinging site, Ive still got standards, if that makes me a Prima Donna then I'll wear the label with pride.
It's not about shagging around... look up up the non-opera definition of Prima Donna
I know what it means, are you referring to women who you think might believe they are more attractive than you think they are because of the ratio of men to women?"
I am saying that some women develop an inflated opinion of themselves due to the massive amount of attention they receive. This then leads to behaviour which can only be associated with Prima Donna status.... and has little to do with the 'real world' |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I may not be to everyone's taste but I'm not going to shag any guy just because I'm on a swinging site, Ive still got standards, if that makes me a Prima Donna then I'll wear the label with pride.
It's not about shagging around... look up up the non-opera definition of Prima Donna
I know what it means, are you referring to women who you think might believe they are more attractive than you think they are because of the ratio of men to women?
I am saying that some women develop an inflated opinion of themselves due to the massive amount of attention they receive. This then leads to behaviour which can only be associated with Prima Donna status.... and has little to do with the 'real world'"
To be honest, I think I'm fecking awesome with or without the 'attention' I receive on fab  |
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over a year ago
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"I may not be to everyone's taste but I'm not going to shag any guy just because I'm on a swinging site, Ive still got standards, if that makes me a Prima Donna then I'll wear the label with pride.
It's not about shagging around... look up up the non-opera definition of Prima Donna
I know what it means, are you referring to women who you think might believe they are more attractive than you think they are because of the ratio of men to women?
I am saying that some women develop an inflated opinion of themselves due to the massive amount of attention they receive. This then leads to behaviour which can only be associated with Prima Donna status.... and has little to do with the 'real world'
To be honest, I think I'm fecking awesome with or without the 'attention' I receive on fab "
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"I wouldn't say that OP, most the women I know on here seem to be strong, assertive women who know what they want. That doesn't make them prima donnas!!!
Can't stand them myself, havn't seen that many around here though there are plenty of ego bruised men it seems.
You can't stand what Frisky?"
Prima Donna women. Not many about luckily. I think men misinterpret women exerting power because of their own ego perspective sometimes too. |
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"I may not be to everyone's taste but I'm not going to shag any guy just because I'm on a swinging site, Ive still got standards, if that makes me a Prima Donna then I'll wear the label with pride.
It's not about shagging around... look up up the non-opera definition of Prima Donna
I know what it means, are you referring to women who you think might believe they are more attractive than you think they are because of the ratio of men to women?
I am saying that some women develop an inflated opinion of themselves due to the massive amount of attention they receive. This then leads to behaviour which can only be associated with Prima Donna status.... and has little to do with the 'real world'"
Women on her have lots of choice, a lot of men don’t like that! |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?"
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say that OP, most the women I know on here seem to be strong, assertive women who know what they want. That doesn't make them prima donnas!!!
Can't stand them myself, havn't seen that many around here though there are plenty of ego bruised men it seems.
You can't stand what Frisky?
Prima Donna women. Not many about luckily. I think men misinterpret women exerting power because of their own ego perspective sometimes too."
Rejected men often take that stance with me. It's laughable really but if it makes them feel better.... |
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over a year ago
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"I may not be to everyone's taste but I'm not going to shag any guy just because I'm on a swinging site, Ive still got standards, if that makes me a Prima Donna then I'll wear the label with pride.
It's not about shagging around... look up up the non-opera definition of Prima Donna
I know what it means, are you referring to women who you think might believe they are more attractive than you think they are because of the ratio of men to women?
I am saying that some women develop an inflated opinion of themselves due to the massive amount of attention they receive. This then leads to behaviour which can only be associated with Prima Donna status.... and has little to do with the 'real world'"
In all honesty, I think some get so many derogatory comments and rude messages, because some men think they are easy lays for being on fab, that they take on a 'put up with no shit attitude'. |
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"I may not be to everyone's taste but I'm not going to shag any guy just because I'm on a swinging site, Ive still got standards, if that makes me a Prima Donna then I'll wear the label with pride.
It's not about shagging around... look up up the non-opera definition of Prima Donna
I know what it means, are you referring to women who you think might believe they are more attractive than you think they are because of the ratio of men to women?
I am saying that some women develop an inflated opinion of themselves due to the massive amount of attention they receive. This then leads to behaviour which can only be associated with Prima Donna status.... and has little to do with the 'real world'
Women on her have lots of choice, a lot of men don’t like that!"
Yes, I think it shocks them because they are not used to 'ordinary' women exerting any power. Some of them are rude with it I am sure, but that's more about their lack of character and integrity, same as the denigrating men. |
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over a year ago
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them"
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible"
I think you are underestimating women's ability to perceive reality. Most of us have real world communication all the time, we just have to say no more on fab. Saying no to dozens of men you find totally unappealing does nothing to alter your perception of reality. |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
I think you are underestimating women's ability to perceive reality. Most of us have real world communication all the time, we just have to say no more on fab. Saying no to dozens of men you find totally unappealing does nothing to alter your perception of reality. "
And certainly doesn't make me feel special. |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible"
Ah but it isn't completely impossible. We just have to choose who we communicate with intelligently. |
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I also see men who are part of mf couples behaving the same ... demands, conditions, must send face pic with first message etc., etc.
Well really? Quite frankly I'm not interested in dealing with self-obsessed people. |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible"
How many women have you conversed with, on here? |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say that OP, most the women I know on here seem to be strong, assertive women who know what they want. That doesn't make them prima donnas!!!
Can't stand them myself, havn't seen that many around here though there are plenty of ego bruised men it seems.
Yep!"
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"I also see men who are part of mf couples behaving the same ... demands, conditions, must send face pic with first message etc., etc.
Well really? Quite frankly I'm not interested in dealing with self-obsessed people."
It's got nothing to do with being self obsessed, it's just operating in a buyers market surrounded by idiots who don't read profiles! |
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over a year ago
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
Ah but it isn't completely impossible. We just have to choose who we communicate with intelligently. "
Fair point. Although intelligent communication is probably frowned on.... |
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over a year ago
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
How many women have you conversed with, on here?"
Hundreds... including you |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
Ah but it isn't completely impossible. We just have to choose who we communicate with intelligently.
Fair point. Although intelligent communication is probably frowned on...."
Why would that be? |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
Ah but it isn't completely impossible. We just have to choose who we communicate with intelligently.
Fair point. Although intelligent communication is probably frowned on...."
Far from it, based on the conversations I have. It's about choosing the ones who are the most like minded  |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
How many women have you conversed with, on here?
Hundreds... including you"
A conversation with me on the forums? |
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"Quite often if people are treated as if they are leading ladies they will begin to behave as if they are.
Ok so now I understand what you meant by Prima Donna OP.
So yes, I think the gender imbalance must have a great impact on how some women behave on here."
Bit of both I think.
We’re not all the same though!! |
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"I also see men who are part of mf couples behaving the same ... demands, conditions, must send face pic with first message etc., etc.
Well really? Quite frankly I'm not interested in dealing with self-obsessed people.
It's got nothing to do with being self obsessed, it's just operating in a buyers market surrounded by idiots who don't read profiles! "
I didn't realise this is a market ... but I know what you're trying to say. There are, nevertheless, some very self obsessed people around ... |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
How many women have you conversed with, on here?
Hundreds... including you
A conversation with me on the forums?"
No, in private. I wrote to point out that you had spelt Virginia Woolf's name wrong... |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
Ah but it isn't completely impossible. We just have to choose who we communicate with intelligently.
Fair point. Although intelligent communication is probably frowned on....
Far from it, based on the conversations I have. It's about choosing the ones who are the most like minded "
Which often get lost in the crowd.... |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
How many women have you conversed with, on here?
Hundreds... including you
A conversation with me on the forums?
No, in private. I wrote to point out that you had spelt Virginia Woolf's name wrong..."
I don't remember that. Must have been a long time ago. And, you have a great memory. |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
Ah but it isn't completely impossible. We just have to choose who we communicate with intelligently.
Fair point. Although intelligent communication is probably frowned on....
Far from it, based on the conversations I have. It's about choosing the ones who are the most like minded
Which often get lost in the crowd...."
No. They stand out from the crowd. |
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"I also see men who are part of mf couples behaving the same ... demands, conditions, must send face pic with first message etc., etc.
Well really? Quite frankly I'm not interested in dealing with self-obsessed people.
It's got nothing to do with being self obsessed, it's just operating in a buyers market surrounded by idiots who don't read profiles!
I didn't realise this is a market ... but I know what you're trying to say. There are, nevertheless, some very self obsessed people around ..."
I am sure - plenty of narcissists of both sexes I'll warrant, as my ex would say 'lots of fucked up puppies here! ' |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
How many women have you conversed with, on here?
Hundreds... including you
A conversation with me on the forums?
No, in private. I wrote to point out that you had spelt Virginia Woolf's name wrong...
I don't remember that. Must have been a long time ago. And, you have a great memory. "
The only similarity to an elephant, I'm afraid |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
How many women have you conversed with, on here?
Hundreds... including you
A conversation with me on the forums?
No, in private. I wrote to point out that you had spelt Virginia Woolf's name wrong...
I don't remember that. Must have been a long time ago. And, you have a great memory.
The only similarity to an elephant, I'm afraid"
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
How many women have you conversed with, on here?
Hundreds... including you
A conversation with me on the forums?
No, in private. I wrote to point out that you had spelt Virginia Woolf's name wrong...
I don't remember that. Must have been a long time ago. And, you have a great memory.
The only similarity to an elephant, I'm afraid
You wouldn't want their knees."
Or their flatulence... |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
Ah but it isn't completely impossible. We just have to choose who we communicate with intelligently.
Fair point. Although intelligent communication is probably frowned on....
Far from it, based on the conversations I have. It's about choosing the ones who are the most like minded
Which often get lost in the crowd...."
As the Brain said, they really do stand out |
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"Does Fab attract Prima Donnas…… or does the gender imbalance on the site create them?
Both. But don't get me started on the types of men it attracts and what the gender imbalance does to them
You are quite right to point that out. Women have a hard time from many blokes who are complete aresholes. But the imbalance creates an 'unreal world' scenario meaning that real world communication between two people becomes almost impossible
How many women have you conversed with, on here?
Hundreds... including you
A conversation with me on the forums?
No, in private. I wrote to point out that you had spelt Virginia Woolf's name wrong...
I don't remember that. Must have been a long time ago. And, you have a great memory.
The only similarity to an elephant, I'm afraid
You wouldn't want their knees."
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Some of the women on here are some of the sexiest, liberated, confident women I have seen.
The patriarch have been allowed to fuck women for years, being clear that quantity over quality is key and clear on their preferences. Women have been seen as sluts if they have multiple partners and expected to comply with male demands.
So women are reclaiming their sexuality, challenging socially accepted norms and primarily, having fun, indulging their fantasies and meeting their own needs.
If that makes me a prima donna, I shall etch this on my fucking crown and wear it with pride,k as at least I have a smile on my face !
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I dont have an issue. Most seem ok, get the odd rejection but i know im not for everyone so it dont bother me. Maybe try treating them like a lady and you will have less problems. Some have bad manners but some guys do too. Your going to get it from time to time. |
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"I dont have an issue. Most seem ok, get the odd rejection but i know im not for everyone so it dont bother me. Maybe try treating them like a lady and you will have less problems. Some have bad manners but some guys do too. Your going to get it from time to time."
The voice of reason. Nice avatar pic |
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"I dont have an issue. Most seem ok, get the odd rejection but i know im not for everyone so it dont bother me. Maybe try treating them like a lady and you will have less problems. Some have bad manners but some guys do too. Your going to get it from time to time.
The voice of reason. Nice avatar pic "
Yes makes a nice change to the unappealing cock pics so many guys put up! |
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