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What really pisses me off, is that you send a really nice polite message to a woman.
And they just delete you without a no thanks or not interested.
If guys do this it is classed as rude or offensive.
A polite yes or no would suffice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh no I have broad shoulders lol"
Because I can ignore any message I want!
I get hundreds a day so should I message them all back? No!! Plus your profile doesn't excite me so yes I'd ignore and delete too! |
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"What really pisses me off, is that you send a really nice polite message to a woman.
And they just delete you without a no thanks or not interested.
If guys do this it is classed as rude or offensive.
A polite yes or no would suffice"
Familiarise yourself with the site FAQ’s op. No reply = not interested.  |
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I’m trying a new tack.
Yes OP you are correct. Rude and ignorant the lot of them. What do you propose to stop this? Compulsory answering or their account is deleted?
Just think of all the messsges you’d receive then. I haven’t looked at your profile btw, but here’s some possible examples.
Fuck off you’re too old
Sorry I don’t meet cheaters
You’re gay - not for me
You think I meet fatties
No ta, I read your compulsory verifications that say you don’t use deodorant.
Which of those do you like most ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plus your married which also puts folks off.
O christ alive. It's gonna go right off now!"
I really know how to put the boot in 
He did say he had broad shoulders, funny he's not come back though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't even have a picture on your profile OP. Women get a lot of messages, unfortunately, if I were to respond to every nice message I recievde, I'd be doing admin work, not actually enjoying this site and would likely leave.
A no response is a person's way of saying no thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh no I have broad shoulders lol
Because I can ignore any message I want!
I get hundreds a day so should I message them all back? No!! Plus your profile doesn't excite me so yes I'd ignore and delete too! "
exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had guys ignore or delete my messages. I assume they're not interested, so I continue my search.
I'd most likely ignore your message as I'm not meeting married men. I used to reply with a thanks, but no thanks, but I always get pestered as to why, or get insulted. Fat Slag is the most popular insult |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Plus your married which also puts folks off.
O christ alive. It's gonna go right off now!
I really know how to put the boot in
He did say he had broad shoulders, funny he's not come back though! "
With steel toe caps haha |
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I love when people who admit to cheating are doing so to be 'honest'. Lol all that honesty flowing your partners way.
obviously this is a general comment and no way relating to the OP. You stick at it tiger. |
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OP may have a point, But should realise the shear volume of messages we get, to answer them all would be a full time job and I've given my secretary the week off!
Saying thatif it's a typical"Fancy a fuck"
message then just delete.
If on the other hand someone has read your profile and crafts a nice message then I try to answer it.
But cant get to them all..sorry in advance |
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One other thing you should know, sort of related, If we leave the PM up when on cam the screen fills up with messages,I mean fills right up and you cant even answer one because they all go on top of each other. it's impossible! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What really pisses me off, is that you send a really nice polite message to a woman.
And they just delete you without a no thanks or not interested.
If guys do this it is classed as rude or offensive.
A polite yes or no would suffice"
Are you sure it’s classed as rude or offensive why guys do this? I don’t think you are correct there.
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Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.
Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.
A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.
I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!! |
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"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.
Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.
A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.
I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"
Does your wife know? Because if she did, then that would be honest x |
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"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.
Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.
A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.
I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"
Aha aha aha. Oh fuck that’s so funny. Bless your little cotton socks op and well done for reading through and taking the time to understand everyone that’s been decent enough to reply to you.
We shouldn’t have bothered  |
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"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.
Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.
A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.
I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"
Are you "very honest" with your wife about being on here? |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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I've had abuse for doing just that today OP. Really no need.
He sent 4 messages, borderline pestering...which I don't like...I replied along the lines that I wasn't obligated to reply to any of his messages which he should take as an 'I'm not interested' as per fabs guidelines.
Before I read messages I look at the profile, if they're too far away, can't accommodate or a short arse I usually don't bother replying because clearly they haven't taken 2 minutes to read my profile to see what sort of guy I'm looking for. I actually find that quite rude.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wish this had been raised before!!
Hold on. I’ll PM you links to some previous ones. Shouldn’t take long if I start now I may finish before bedtime. "
Which bedtime |
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"I just wish this had been raised before!!
Hold on. I’ll PM you links to some previous ones. Shouldn’t take long if I start now I may finish before bedtime.
Which bedtime "
I was only planning on doing the last 24 hours  |
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It's beyond belief really. You're dead against lying and cheating regarding the good folk of FAB. It's something you'd never do. It's a shame you don't find it necessary to afford your wife the same courtesy.
Also, you seem very flippant with the "if being married scuppers things on here" for you opener, but here you are having a right old whinge about not getting what you want and what you feel is owed to you from members. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wish this had been raised before!!
Hold on. I’ll PM you links to some previous ones. Shouldn’t take long if I start now I may finish before bedtime. "
Well if you insist, can we do the bareback debate next!!! |
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"I just wish this had been raised before!!
Hold on. I’ll PM you links to some previous ones. Shouldn’t take long if I start now I may finish before bedtime.
Well if you insist, can we do the bareback debate next!!! "
You like a full box then     |
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"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.
Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.
A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.
I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"
Seriously if we get 100's a day we should have the decency to reply?? Ffs get real!! Read the FAQ. |
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"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.
Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.
A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.
I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!
Seriously if we get 100's a day we should have the decency to reply?? Ffs get real!! Read the FAQ. "
I’ve honestly never seen a guy daft enough to start a thread like this, post that. It’s almost worthy of the B word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is written rejection so important to you?
Have you responded to all the junk mail that comes through your door.
If a response is so important to you then on behalf of all the women who have rejected you past, present and future .. no thanks |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.
Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.
A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.
I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"
FFS Entitlement much?
Sometimes I do wonder how some people have the audacity to type what they do and if they actually believe it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP what is the maximum amount of messages you would reply to on a daily basis, and how much time on a daily basis would you be prepared to spend replying to messages?
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What really pisses me off, is that you send a really nice polite message to a woman.
And they just delete you without a no thanks or not interested.
If guys do this it is classed as rude or offensive.
A polite yes or no would suffice"
Obviously the recipient doesn't find your advances as nice and polite as you think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have just wondered into one of the most violent plains I have ever come across.. the fab forums, mars was quite volatile but this place.. good luck OP |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
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How long do you think it takes to reply to 100 messages?
Then whilst your messaging 100 more come in because youre online
Then because you've replied to some they respond asking why
You'd be messaging all day! No time for a job, or kids, unless of course you miss sleep just to keep the unsolicited message senders sweet
Fuck that shit. I couldnt even be arsed to repky to 10 that dont interest me or havnt read my profile, let alone that many |
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"And today's fab award for shooting yourself in both feet goes to..
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Don’t be hasty, there are other contenders.
Give them enough rope ....
In fact today is a first for me. Usually I’m mesmerised by posts of single women and couples. Single guys have got the gold today! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is written rejection so important to you?
Have you responded to all the junk mail that comes through your door.
If a response is so important to you then on behalf of all the women who have rejected you past, present and future .. no thanks "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the effort I put in my messages along I deserve to smash. Otherwise they're just being rude
Smash "
yea smash that pussy so hard the neighbours call the rspca |
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I can't possibly reply to all the messages I get - and I clearly state I am Not looking to meet out of a club or party - unless I know you but still get asked to meet at ur hotel or wherever......why should I reply when most don't bother to read my profile or want to be the exception!!!
Then if I do respond with a simple 'no thanks' I get questioned on why not or abuse because of the rejection.....
If my new response offends you OP then feel free to block me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the effort I put in my messages along I deserve to smash. Otherwise they're just being rude
Smash yea smash that pussy so hard the neighbours call the rspca "
Great filter for trolls |
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I don't think the Op has done himself no favours , he is expressing himself, there is nothing wrong with that Op , Op look, you can have an opinion as long as you are not an inconveniece to anybody.
Infact lets take it to level 2, instead of messaging the ladies and waiting for a reply ,learn how to get the ladies to chase you and you be the one making the choice , how about that. |
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"For the effort I put in my messages along I deserve to smash. Otherwise they're just being rude
Smash yea smash that pussy so hard the neighbours call the rspca
Great filter for trolls"
yeah I hate them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you think that Nigerian General feels OP? He can't even give away all his millions despite all his wonderfully crafted emails
Brilliant. "
Or the ppi calls |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for all your kindly advice, and to answer a few of your replies.
Whenever i send a message i always send a face pic with the message, and you are right i am married but at least i dont hide the fact so very honest there.
A lot of women on this site although they get hundreds of messages a day should still have the decentantcy to reply.
I may not get hundreds per day i wish but i ensure i reply to all that has made the effort!!!!"
I'd believe that sentiment more if you'd replied to every comment individually OP, rather than blanket reply. Priceless! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What really pisses me off, is that you send a really nice polite message to a woman.
And they just delete you without a no thanks or not interested.
If guys do this it is classed as rude or offensive.
A polite yes or no would suffice"
I'll just say a polite no now then...there, does that feel better? |
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