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I think it's because it goes against the tradition of the vanilla world. The excitement of breaking the rules and doing something naughty, the look on the ladies face as she's being pleasures by others, seeing her being slutty and your own personal porn star...
And then there's the reclaim sex!
Wife sharing can keep the spark and excitement going in the relationship and bring the couple closer together |
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"I think it's because it goes against the tradition of the vanilla world. The excitement of breaking the rules and doing something naughty, the look on the ladies face as she's being pleasures by others, seeing her being slutty and your own personal porn star...
And then there's the reclaim sex!
Wife sharing can keep the spark and excitement going in the relationship and bring the couple closer together"
It’s definitely brought us closer and made our sex like go through the roof (only disadvantage is when she got a guy with a cock that mine just don’t come close too lol) but the upside is hearing her moan more  |
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By *iliciousCouple
over a year ago
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Male typing here..I've explored this within myself for many years now, and think it is multi-faceted (for me anyway) so here is some brutal honesty
-seeing her enjoy herself, of course. If we truly love our partner then why not?
-we are brought up that nice girls say "no" and fascinated by the ones who actually "liked" sex...well welcome to your own reinforcement of that idea.
- yes it's a live porn movie
- there is the alpha make part of it. You are "lending" out this woman who is turning all these men on, but guess what - you get to take her home and have sex with her every day.
I love it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We arranged a single guy last night to take Mrs Littlesox back to his. She was tied up and they sucked and fucked.
Life is too short, we don't mind arranging extra cock and pussy for her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male typing here..I've explored this within myself for many years now, and think it is multi-faceted (for me anyway) so here is some brutal honesty
-seeing her enjoy herself, of course. If we truly love our partner then why not?
-we are brought up that nice girls say "no" and fascinated by the ones who actually "liked" sex...well welcome to your own reinforcement of that idea.
- yes it's a live porn movie
- there is the alpha make part of it. You are "lending" out this woman who is turning all these men on, but guess what - you get to take her home and have sex with her every day.
I love it. "
My other half totally agrees on the last paragraph...
We also love the high it gives us after a session.. Enhances our own sexual climax |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think sometimes Carl prefers to share and watch me than to actually play himself..turns him on massively "
we had a mff and we both enjoyed it, equally watching each other with her and also seeing her happy enjoying us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's because it goes against the tradition of the vanilla world. The excitement of breaking the rules and doing something naughty, the look on the ladies face as she's being pleasures by others, seeing her being slutty and your own personal porn star...
And then there's the reclaim sex!
Wife sharing can keep the spark and excitement going in the relationship and bring the couple closer together"
I second that
Watching Mrs marmite being my personal porn star is great... and I can see from all angles what she enjoys, whilst I am er... enjoying too 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm still trying to work it out myself. I thought it was so I could see my wife enjoying herself and have my own personal pornstar. She said her first meet last night on her own. I didn't get to see anything but hearing about it and seeing how happy it made her was unreal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want Eve to enjoy all things in life, even if that's other guys.
I love seeing the confidence it gives her and the pleasure she gets from it.
I don't want her getting to 50 and being disappointed that she didn't try things.
We are without a doubt together for life. so I trust her to have fun.. but still jump in bed and watch Masterchef with me after we're done 
Adam |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I want Eve to enjoy all things in life, even if that's other guys.
I love seeing the confidence it gives her and the pleasure she gets from it.
I don't want her getting to 50 and being disappointed that she didn't try things.
We are without a doubt together for life. so I trust her to have fun.. but still jump in bed and watch Masterchef with me after we're done
Adam"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Male typing here..I've explored this within myself for many years now, and think it is multi-faceted (for me anyway) so here is some brutal honesty
-seeing her enjoy herself, of course. If we truly love our partner then why not?
-we are brought up that nice girls say "no" and fascinated by the ones who actually "liked" sex...well welcome to your own reinforcement of that idea.
- yes it's a live porn movie
- there is the alpha make part of it. You are "lending" out this woman who is turning all these men on, but guess what - you get to take her home and have sex with her every day.
I love it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As people have said already it's the live porn in front of you and your loved one being that porn star.
The best bit is when she looks you in the eye as she's getting fucked or sucking cock  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby typing here. i think it is normal if we love our wives but still want to share them. it needs lots of trust and understanding to realise that sharing her does not go against loving her. to see the lust in her eyes and watch her try a new cock is a real turn on |
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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago
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I can remember the first time he suggested we met another man to share sexy with .... I think he thought I would back out and I thought he would... then we were at this man’s front door... and play we did.... afterwards I was shocked at how I felt.. And it kind of sealed us... horny, trusting, alpha male thing going on, me just having relaxed filthy fun and mostly I loved the fact we had them walked away together and boom we joined Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's because it goes against the tradition of the vanilla world. The excitement of breaking the rules and doing something naughty, the look on the ladies face as she's being pleasures by others, seeing her being slutty and your own personal porn star...
And then there's the reclaim sex!
Wife sharing can keep the spark and excitement going in the relationship and bring the couple closer together"
This. |
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"I want Eve to enjoy all things in life, even if that's other guys.
I love seeing the confidence it gives her and the pleasure she gets from it.
I don't want her getting to 50 and being disappointed that she didn't try things.
We are without a doubt together for life. so I trust her to have fun.. but still jump in bed and watch Masterchef with me after we're done
Adam "
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"Does the ladies share their man with other women?"
Things like birthday presents for her friends. You find yourself in a room with a woman who is clearly looking forward to unwrapping her "present" and making use of it
Interesting dynamic finding yourself being "considered" in this way, with a woman you have been "lent out to" (male _abcouple11 comments). |
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All the above about loving, sharing, wanting to see her happy, etc. Plus...
I think we have sperm-competition hard-wired into us, and seeing your woman taking another man's sperm sets-off something crazy - the hormones pulse and surge, the urge goes wild and you get huge lustful ejaculations. It's so carnal, it "triggers" and when it does it makes you feel so alive... So you want it to happen - which means... leads to... so many of the adverts on here for "extra cock", "gangbang at ours", etc.
Go for it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love seeing Belle realise how attractive she is and that it’s not only me that finds her outrageously hot! Another big turn on is that we can play, have fun, push boundaries and have the best sex of our lives.... knowing that nothing compares to the intimacy of just us |
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I’ve asked my hubby that question to!
He says he doesn’t know why he enjoys watching me being fucked by other men.
He like to watch them enter me, and watch their balls banging against my butt! Lol
He likes to watch my face to!
We aren’t cuckold, he watches a little! Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love seeing him with another woman so I think we’re on par!
Watching him and listening to him with another woman is totally different to when we are together which I found absolutely fascinating the first time round!
It’s sex and fun with another female with us is lust and intimate bonding that just doesn’t look or sound the same ????
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"As people have said already it's the live porn in front of you and your loved one being that porn star.
The best bit is when she looks you in the eye as she's getting fucked or sucking cock "
I've had the pleasure of having husbands watching their wives with me - and the horniest moment ever was when one wife turned to her husband and groaned "I love you" to him at the very moment that she felt me start to cum inside her.... |
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I think there is a real pleasure in knowing the person you love is enjoying them self and the freedom to express them self and their desires. I think there is a beautiful honesty and unselfishness about that. And it follows that if you love someone their flourishing in every aspect is your enjoyment. |
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"I think there is a real pleasure in knowing the person you love is enjoying them self and the freedom to express them self and their desires. I think there is a beautiful honesty and unselfishness about that. And it follows that if you love someone their flourishing in every aspect is your enjoyment."
Ooooft! Good answer |
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"As people have said already it's the live porn in front of you and your loved one being that porn star.
The best bit is when she looks you in the eye as she's getting fucked or sucking cock
I've had the pleasure of having husbands watching their wives with me - and the horniest moment ever was when one wife turned to her husband and groaned "I love you" to him at the very moment that she felt me start to cum inside her...."
WOW! |
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"I want Eve to enjoy all things in life, even if that's other guys.
I love seeing the confidence it gives her and the pleasure she gets from it.
I don't want her getting to 50 and being disappointed that she didn't try things.
We are without a doubt together for life. so I trust her to have fun.. but still jump in bed and watch Masterchef with me after we're done
Adam"
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"I've had the pleasure of having husbands watching their wives with me - and the horniest moment ever was when one wife turned to her husband and groaned "I love you" to him at the very moment that she felt me start to cum inside her....
WOW! "
It was certainly an intense moment - I think I came nearly as much and just hard as the first time less than an hour earlier..... |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Male typing here..I've explored this within myself for many years now, and think it is multi-faceted (for me anyway) so here is some brutal honesty
-seeing her enjoy herself, of course. If we truly love our partner then why not?
-we are brought up that nice girls say "no" and fascinated by the ones who actually "liked" sex...well welcome to your own reinforcement of that idea.
- yes it's a live porn movie
- there is the alpha make part of it. You are "lending" out this woman who is turning all these men on, but guess what - you get to take her home and have sex with her every day.
I love it. "
agree completely.
We did this a couple of times and it’s the pleasure of watching her with another guy knowing she can enjoy it, and as she watches you knowing it turns you on |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I'm still trying to work it out myself. I thought it was so I could see my wife enjoying herself and have my own personal pornstar. She said her first meet last night on her own. I didn't get to see anything but hearing about it and seeing how happy it made her was unreal."
that# both very horny & super trusting, but as you say - getting to hear the details is hot
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"As people have said already it's the live porn in front of you and your loved one being that porn star.
The best bit is when she looks you in the eye as she's getting fucked or sucking cock "
We love it! Life is for living. When it turns you both on as it does us...then go for it! |
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Wow!!!!
You see this is why I like reading threads on here!
We’re programmed by life to believe it’s wring but you still want it!
Took me years to admit to my wife I’d love to see her fucked! She said no btw and think she still believes it’s wrong!
If there is no emotions involved between wife and extra cock then he’s just a really good sex toy is how I look at it? If they developed feelings for each other different matter!
I love guys looking at my wife wanting her and knowing they wanna fuck her!
Great reading everyone thoughts on it and just reinforces that it’s not wrong and normal!
I often wonder if everyone has same thoughts as us? |
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"I used to share my Xmas toys when I got bored of mine and someone had a better one."
I think that perfectly encapsulates the dynamic behind the attraction of watching your partner getting fucked by others.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to share my Xmas toys when I got bored of mine and someone had a better one.
Don’t think you get it at all lol "
I get it plenty I'll have you know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to share my Xmas toys when I got bored of mine and someone had a better one.
Don’t think you get it at all lol "
However...on a serious note, I don't 'get it' I think when I find 'the one' she will blow my mind to the extent that the idea of someone else enjoying something so intimate with someone so sacred to me would be inconceivable.
I've never understood it, I think people try to justify it by thinking they're on a higher level of love that's open and 'truly free'...erm?
Being honest, most blokes probably just love the thrill of fucking some guys wife, no deep meaningful encounter...
must dash, I can hear the desperate white knights galloping!! |
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"I used to share my Xmas toys when I got bored of mine and someone had a better one.
Don’t think you get it at all lol
I get it plenty I'll have you know."
You think all these lovely people share there wife’s because there bored with them?
Trust me you don’t get it lol notbsaying you don’t get your leg over just not what 90% of this site is about |
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"I used to share my Xmas toys when I got bored of mine and someone had a better one.
Don’t think you get it at all lol
However...on a serious note, I don't 'get it' I think when I find 'the one' she will blow my mind to the extent that the idea of someone else enjoying something so intimate with someone so sacred to me would be inconceivable.
I've never understood it, I think people try to justify it by thinking they're on a higher level of love that's open and 'truly free'...erm?
Being honest, most blokes probably just love the thrill of fucking some guys wife, no deep meaningful encounter...
must dash, I can hear the desperate white knights galloping!!"
I’m not interested in fucking anyone’s wife except my own and yes I probably do have a love for her higher than you would understand which is why I would want to see her really enjoy herself and as long as it’s just sex no jealousy would creep in at all!
Sex is sex making love is what husband and wife do together!
Hope one day you do get it mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to share my Xmas toys when I got bored of mine and someone had a better one.
Don’t think you get it at all lol
However...on a serious note, I don't 'get it' I think when I find 'the one' she will blow my mind to the extent that the idea of someone else enjoying something so intimate with someone so sacred to me would be inconceivable.
I've never understood it, I think people try to justify it by thinking they're on a higher level of love that's open and 'truly free'...erm?
Being honest, most blokes probably just love the thrill of fucking some guys wife, no deep meaningful encounter...
must dash, I can hear the desperate white knights galloping!!
I’m not interested in fucking anyone’s wife except my own and yes I probably do have a love for her higher than you would understand which is why I would want to see her really enjoy herself and as long as it’s just sex no jealousy would creep in at all!
Sex is sex making love is what husband and wife do together!
Hope one day you do get it mate "
I'm tired of couples thinking it has something to do with jealousy..that's utter bollocks. I don't think you need to let people fuck someone you love to prove you're not jealous ffs???
Call me old fashioned but i'll merrily stick to my idea of love being a one on one thing when I find it. I love the movie 'indecent proposal' because it 'could' happen!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are very much in love, and you’d think I’d want her all to myself but no I love sharing her and obviously she loves it too (her words like a loaf of bread- Best of both ) lol"
Because your insecure??  |
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