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Hardened swingers - who are they?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not one obviously, and neither are you, so who is? What's the definition of 'hardened swinger' and have you EVER met anyone who describes themself in this way? |
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"I'm not one obviously, and neither are you, so who is? What's the definition of 'hardened swinger' and have you EVER met anyone who describes themself in this way?"
Yeah, I've met a couple - they've been doing it for years, they have many veris, and they're not going to change any time soon.
Most of the people I have met are the kind who are not hardened swingers and don't meet that many people or don't hang around on the site for long. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I smile to myself sometimes. So many here for sex but keeping themselves separate from people who have more sex than an arbitrary acceptable amount  "
Exactly. The site is awash with petty judgement. I hope you understood the irony in the original post. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have seen plenty of profiles that say "we are not hardened swingers". Do they mean they just soft swing?"
Yeah, for 15 years and with about 40 couples a year..
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"I smile to myself sometimes. So many here for sex but keeping themselves separate from people who have more sex than an arbitrary acceptable amount "
Well, I assume you are referring to the content of my post, but it is not a question of judgement at all on my part, it is merely a question of me knowing my own desires. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I smile to myself sometimes. So many here for sex but keeping themselves separate from people who have more sex than an arbitrary acceptable amount
Well, I assume you are referring to the content of my post, but it is not a question of judgement at all on my part, it is merely a question of me knowing my own desires. "
I hadn't read SS's post as referring to anything in the thread. I assumed she was just reflecting what we all know - people on this sex site are judged for having sex. Too much, too little, with the wrong type of person, in the wrong way..hence the nonsense about 'I'm not a hardened swinger '... |
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"I smile to myself sometimes. So many here for sex but keeping themselves separate from people who have more sex than an arbitrary acceptable amount
Well, I assume you are referring to the content of my post, but it is not a question of judgement at all on my part, it is merely a question of me knowing my own desires.
I hadn't read SS's post as referring to anything in the thread. I assumed she was just reflecting what we all know - people on this sex site are judged for having sex. Too much, too little, with the wrong type of person, in the wrong way..hence the nonsense about 'I'm not a hardened swinger '..."
It is human nature to be judgemental for sure. |
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I agree op. I think it’s a silly phrase!
I imagine most would see me as a ‘hardened swinger ‘ as I use the site to its full potential via hot photos (essentially a free advertising and marketing page to lure innocent/unsuspecting young men   ), the forums and actually meeting people for sex (though this bit seems to be frowned upon - go figure!  )
I meet very regularly compared to some (I don’t have sex with people in the ‘real world ‘ - every sexual encounter I have is with the men and women of fab!) and rarely compared to others!
I don’t judge others by the number of their meets - be it few or many. In fact I’d only avoid those who clearly regularly B.B. and meet others who do the same - but that’s a health issue rather than a moral judgement issue!
If a ‘hardened swinger’ is someone who meets when they say they will and can negotiate the minefield of fab without getting hurt, but retaining their own humanity, though - then send them to me please! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I agree op. I think it’s a silly phrase!
I imagine most would see me as a ‘hardened swinger ‘ as I use the site to its full potential via hot photos (essentially a free advertising and marketing page to lure innocent/unsuspecting young men ), the forums and actually meeting people for sex (though this bit seems to be frowned upon - go figure! )
I meet very regularly compared to some (I don’t have sex with people in the ‘real world ‘ - every sexual encounter I have is with the men and women of fab!) and rarely compared to others!
I don’t judge others by the number of their meets - be it few or many. In fact I’d only avoid those who clearly regularly B.B. and meet others who do the same - but that’s a health issue rather than a moral judgement issue!
If a ‘hardened swinger’ is someone who meets when they say they will and can negotiate the minefield of fab without getting hurt, but retaining their own humanity, though - then send them to me please! Xx"
Nice post! And great profile and pics. |
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"I agree op. I think it’s a silly phrase!
I imagine most would see me as a ‘hardened swinger ‘ as I use the site to its full potential via hot photos (essentially a free advertising and marketing page to lure innocent/unsuspecting young men ), the forums and actually meeting people for sex (though this bit seems to be frowned upon - go figure! )
I meet very regularly compared to some (I don’t have sex with people in the ‘real world ‘ - every sexual encounter I have is with the men and women of fab!) and rarely compared to others!
I don’t judge others by the number of their meets - be it few or many. In fact I’d only avoid those who clearly regularly B.B. and meet others who do the same - but that’s a health issue rather than a moral judgement issue!
If a ‘hardened swinger’ is someone who meets when they say they will and can negotiate the minefield of fab without getting hurt, but retaining their own humanity, though - then send them to me please! Xx
Nice post! And great profile and pics."
Thanks lovely! Some great pics yourself! |
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"I smile to myself sometimes. So many here for sex but keeping themselves separate from people who have more sex than an arbitrary acceptable amount
Well, I assume you are referring to the content of my post, but it is not a question of judgement at all on my part, it is merely a question of me knowing my own desires. "
No, just a general observation. |
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"I smile to myself sometimes. So many here for sex but keeping themselves separate from people who have more sex than an arbitrary acceptable amount
Well, I assume you are referring to the content of my post, but it is not a question of judgement at all on my part, it is merely a question of me knowing my own desires.
No, just a general observation."
Cool, thanks for clarifying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I agree op. I think it’s a silly phrase!
I imagine most would see me as a ‘hardened swinger ‘ as I use the site to its full potential via hot photos (essentially a free advertising and marketing page to lure innocent/unsuspecting young men ), the forums and actually meeting people for sex (though this bit seems to be frowned upon - go figure! )
I meet very regularly compared to some (I don’t have sex with people in the ‘real world ‘ - every sexual encounter I have is with the men and women of fab!) and rarely compared to others!
I don’t judge others by the number of their meets - be it few or many. In fact I’d only avoid those who clearly regularly B.B. and meet others who do the same - but that’s a health issue rather than a moral judgement issue!
If a ‘hardened swinger’ is someone who meets when they say they will and can negotiate the minefield of fab without getting hurt, but retaining their own humanity, though - then send them to me please! Xx"
Great post, I am on my way.  |
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"One who doesn't mind inappropriate touching in a club, apparently. "
People’s definition of what’s inappropriate , and what to do about it , differ .
If the thread you are reffering to is the one I think you are quoting , the very same thread also stated that lots of people on here aren’t swingers at all .
Back to topic , we are hardened , or seasoned swingers . We are happy in pretty much any consensual situation , don’t judge what others do , and love this lifestyle . |
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We are hardened swingers. Have been doing it 50 years between us. We're not at it morning noon and night. But at least once a week either as a single male (fem out of action) or as a couple we par take in some sort of swinging activity. It's our lifestyle choice. Most recently - last 3 years we have dipped into Ddsm kink. Infact going to a club tonight. So change it up all the time. We never do the same thing twice in a row. So one night doggin, next meet will be hotel meet, then club ect. We spice it up keep it fresh, so it's as exciting as the day we started. We love it and will continue until we are phyically unable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not one obviously, and neither are you, so who is? What's the definition of 'hardened swinger' and have you EVER met anyone who describes themself in this way?"
Also is 'Professional' a code word for snobby swingers?? |
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