Right this is question for couples really or people who have been swinging as couples before .
How do you convince your partner to swing ? How do you even bring that subject up ? Who's idea was it first ?
I'm really open minded but not sure how would my gf react to such an idea especially when her sex drive has reached its lowest point possible I think ... maybe this could be the cure if I could get here involved who knows?? |
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Swinging isn't a sticking plaster for a struggling relationship. Nor is it a particularly healthy sign when one partner asks behind the other's back for advice on how to "convince" them to do something they may be reluctant about.
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"Right this is question for couples really or people who have been swinging as couples before .
How do you convince your partner to swing ? How do you even bring that subject up ? Who's idea was it first ?
I'm really open minded but not sure how would my gf react to such an idea especially when her sex drive has reached its lowest point possible I think ... maybe this could be the cure if I could get here involved who knows??"
You don't convince.
I suggest if her sex drive is at its lowest ebb you open up a discussion around that and really listen to each other. Genuinely, don't try to introduce swinging as a way to increase your partners sex drive.
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If a relationship has any cracks (and I'll guess since you're on here without your partners knowledge that there's likely to be some pretty big ones) Fab will do more damage than good. You're better to work on your relationship between you both first. Successful swinging couples are built on a strong foundation of trust, honesty, communication and respect. All things I would suspect yours is lacking at the moment.
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I didnt have to convince her. I brought the subject up after she let me send in naughty photos to a porn mag years ago. We had a long discussion on what we would and wouldnt want to try. It took us a good few year to actually join a website after that we perved and had a nose around the chat rooms and played on cam then it progressed from there. 
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"If a relationship has any cracks (and I'll guess since you're on here without your partners knowledge that there's likely to be some pretty big ones) Fab will do more damage than good. You're better to work on your relationship between you both first. Successful swinging couples are built on a strong foundation of trust, honesty, communication and respect. All things I would suspect yours is lacking at the moment.
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"If a relationship has any cracks (and I'll guess since you're on here without your partners knowledge that there's likely to be some pretty big ones) Fab will do more damage than good. You're better to work on your relationship between you both first. Successful swinging couples are built on a strong foundation of trust, honesty, communication and respect. All things I would suspect yours is lacking at the moment.
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