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PERSONALITY Vs HOT BODY
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Even for a one off meet, I think if I can't connect with someone, or think they are an awful person, It's going to be difficult (not impossible obviously, I am a bloke after all).
If it's more than that, a FWB or similar, then the personality has to come first.
There's also the recognition that I may not be the hottest bloke ever!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously there has to be an initial atraction to start with but if the personality isn't there it just won't get past the chatting stage.
A good mix of attraction and personality is what I look for but it is quite rare to find in one person but when you do oh boy thats when the fireworks start |
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As you said on here OP surely it would have to be a hot body as you have no way of knowing what their personality is like until you meet them.
You can get a bit of an insight if they post in the forums or you get to chat but there’s nothing real till it’s there in front of you.
Plus then define HOT? as everyone will have what’s hot for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my books personally always wins
Love having the crack and banter and if something happens it happens if not no big deal - at least your getting to chat to like minded people |
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On here first thing I look for is body / looks and fingers crossed the personality is great too
I’m not looking for a bf as I already have one of those that ticks all my boxes and can take or leave meeting if I want
So yes I can be as superficial and picky as I want to and don’t have to answer to anyone  |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
On here, if we don't find someone's body/face appealing. It's unlikely that we'd take the time to discover their personality.
Equally, if someone is visually attractive but turns out to be a complete knob. That's not going to work either, unless they don't utter a word while in our company.   |
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"On here, if we don't find someone's body/face appealing. It's unlikely that we'd take the time to discover their personality.
Equally, if someone is visually attractive but turns out to be a complete knob. That's not going to work either, unless they don't utter a word while in our company.
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Ball-gag?!
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
" On here? Body first. Every time. I only put effort in with those I find attractive. "
Me too. My vanilla friends are bursting with personality. I swing to fulfil my sexual fantasies and for these personality comes in second place after sexual attractiveness. |
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On here, a decent profile with good photos & a nice body is what is going to cause the initial attraction.
But, I've had socials with some seriously hot hunks & left after 10mins.
I don't care how hot you look, if you've got the personality of a tin of beans, can't spark my imagination or make me laugh, you ain't getting in my knickers. |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Obviously there has to be an initial atraction to start with but if the personality isn't there it just won't get past the chatting stage.
A good mix of attraction and personality is what I look for but it is quite rare to find in one person but when you do oh boy thats when the fireworks start"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think looks mean everything. I have been looked atmanytimes, chatted for ages , then when it comes to showing the face but I get a no thanks your not my type ( why don't they just say I think your ugly and have done with it ), then I get blocked before I can even reply. I thought men were shallow, but compared to women they are not in the same league ! |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
We can't play if there's nothing remotely in common, it can't be all physical for us, there has to be a mental aspect, ie, some commonality. If we were to play with people and niggling away was the fact we're not on the same wavelength although they have great aesthetics it wouldn't work for us as we wouldn't be comfortable enough to let go. |
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It doesn’t even get past the first message if we don’t think they’re hot , so definately body first .
From there a great personality is a bonus , but not the be all and end all . We can certainly enjoy great sex with someone who’s hot , but not with someone we don’t find attractive . |
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I want both, she's got to have a good personality as I want someone I feel relaxed with and can have a laugh together as well as filthy fun, but I'm also not attracted to larger ladies (sorry, just my preference) so athletic or curvy as long as the curves are in the right places |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it’s a bit of both but hot to me might not be to others .. I prefer a more curvy feminine woman ( boobs ! ) rather than a size 8 supermodel and we seek mostly bi play for me but personality is important because we like d/s play we want a woman or couple who can have the ability to talk openly and freely with us and who will be able to fully communicate their needs and limits etc .. and also to have s laugh and giggle sometimes our play sounds serious we like to just laugh and have fun too ! someone with the hottest body could be a complete bore . We also find that people shy away from us because I’m a larger woman with imperfections but as far as we are concerned it’s their loss !  |
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