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How many hotwifes deny their cuckolds
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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago
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"Hang on, am I to understand you haven't fucked your own wife for 2 years?
I think I would be looking for a new woman by now!"
I know. It seems like a bonkers thing to actively seek and then maintain.
Fuck that (If nothing else!) |
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"Genuine question op as I'm totally bewildered by this. What pleasure do you get from no sex?"
Tease and denial is pleasure. That's not the same as being ignored sexually. That's just debilitating to a relationship. |
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"He's specifically asked other cucks this question. Why are people crapping over his post just because they don't understand?"
It illustrates the difference between "swingers", and people who are on the site for sex. (hopefully) . |
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We enjoy a little cuckold role play but only to enhance our own lovemaking. Thats why we swing.
I can even understand a relationship where only the woman plays with other men but the husband only ever fucks his own wife. But to be denied sex is just cruel.
But that's just my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Genuine question op as I'm totally bewildered by this. What pleasure do you get from no sex?
Tease and denial is pleasure. That's not the same as being ignored sexually. That's just debilitating to a relationship. "
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"We enjoy a little cuckold role play but only to enhance our own lovemaking. Thats why we swing.
I can even understand a relationship where only the woman plays with other men but the husband only ever fucks his own wife. But to be denied sex is just cruel.
But that's just my opinion."
He's not denied sex, he's denied penetration. There is a difference. |
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"2 year's?! Are you happy with that,it's a blinking long time! So you're not allowed to make love (penetration) to her."
Could be wrong and don't want to speak out of turn, but think I've chatted to the OP previously (or certainly someone in the same situation) and they claimed to be very happy with the situation. |
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"2 year's?! Are you happy with that,it's a blinking long time! So you're not allowed to make love (penetration) to her.
Could be wrong and don't want to speak out of turn, but think I've chatted to the OP previously (or certainly someone in the same situation) and they claimed to be very happy with the situation. "
That's great if they're both happy,it's just seems a long time to be denied it to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2 year's?! Are you happy with that,it's a blinking long time! So you're not allowed to make love (penetration) to her.
Could be wrong and don't want to speak out of turn, but think I've chatted to the OP previously (or certainly someone in the same situation) and they claimed to be very happy with the situation.
That's great if they're both happy,it's just seems a long time to be denied it to me."
I agree, it's a long time to go without but it's part of the whole cuck scene isn't it. Denial, humiliation etc. the cucks will often get a release of course however im the OPs case it's obviously not penetrative sex.
Like anything, some will take things further than others. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He probably prefers his fleshlight  im only allowed a fleshlight
Genuine question, are you happy and satisfied with the current arrangement?? "
I love being subservient to her - complete mind fuck as well as sexually amazing . Lick her daily and make her orgasm . She has a regular fuck buddy from her work she sees 2/3 times a week . Allowed fleshlight when let out chastity cage |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He probably prefers his fleshlight im only allowed a fleshlight
Genuine question, are you happy and satisfied with the current arrangement?? I love being subservient to her - complete mind fuck as well as sexually amazing . Lick her daily and make her orgasm . She has a regular fuck buddy from her work she sees 2/3 times a week . Allowed fleshlight when let out chastity cage"
Fair enough. Glad it works for you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP I must say I admire you as that is some commitment to the cause.
Can I ask do you watch your wife with the other guy?
I love to watch my wife with other men but don't think of myself as a cuck."
I love to watch - the look on her face as she takes another guy and looking at me when she sucks him |
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As I said above, I totally get the cuckold domme thing. But to be denied the pleasure of ones own wifes body and only allowed to wank into a plastic pussy is a level of control that I do not understand. Infact in my eyes it's borderline abuse. |
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Swinging is an alturnative life style. Although I find a lot don't have alturnative thinking. Like someone said it seporates the swingers from the sex site hunters.
Just tje word Daddy sends most off on a negative downward slagging off spin.
If you don't like or understand someone elses concept, do some research. Find out about it, educate yourself, if you still don't like it - fair enough. But that's what makes the world go round. We are all differant.
Stop degrading the op. It's his lifestyle choice. Good on him, I have no problem in life choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuckolding very popular in the alt world it satisfies a different often deep need within each person taking part .. each to their own we all have our kinks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swinging is an alturnative life style. Although I find a lot don't have alturnative thinking. Like someone said it seporates the swingers from the sex site hunters.
Just tje word Daddy sends most off on a negative downward slagging off spin.
If you don't like or understand someone elses concept, do some research. Find out about it, educate yourself, if you still don't like it - fair enough. But that's what makes the world go round. We are all differant.
Stop degrading the op. It's his lifestyle choice. Good on him, I have no problem in life choice. "
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"He's specifically asked other cucks this question. Why are people crapping over his post just because they don't understand?"
Because we're trying to understand how a man gets pleasure out of this.
Sue fucks other men with my blessing but we both know that if I asked her not to do it she would stop out of respect for me. The difference seems to be that we have mind blowing sex afterwards.
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Hello. Mr here.
I am a chaste cuckold. We started playing with chastity without any concept of where it would lead ... I played away so it was suggested as an interim thing until trust was regained.
Without orgasms (denial for a week, which became weeks, then months and now practically years) we noticed I was much more focussed and attentive.
Our relationship went from being mediocre to being brilliant.
When we married, we agreed I would not have sex. My Wife of course has needs and she is free to meet them as She wishes.
I wouldn't change anything. It works really well for us. Nothing I do for my Wife or the household feels like a chore. I am happy to serve.
As we progressed into the cuckolding I was worried there would be feelings of jealousy. There have been none. I love it when other men satisfy my wife. I do get frustrated and a little envious but that fuels subservience and my desire to serve.
Over the years my Wife has grown in confidence and the journey has proved to be very exciting.
I am proud of the commitment I have made. And I am confident our marriage will last. The man I was pre-chastity would have screwed it up.
I don't think it is for everyone and I don't want to evangelise but for couples who do go down this route, you should keep an open mind and have respect for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Denial can be a major part of cuckolding and a huge turn on.
2 years is longer than I'd want to go but just demonstrates OPs commitment to the lifestyle. |
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"Swinging is an alturnative life style. Although I find a lot don't have alturnative thinking. Like someone said it seporates the swingers from the sex site hunters.
Just tje word Daddy sends most off on a negative downward slagging off spin.
If you don't like or understand someone elses concept, do some research. Find out about it, educate yourself, if you still don't like it - fair enough. But that's what makes the world go round. We are all differant.
Stop degrading the op. It's his lifestyle choice. Good on him, I have no problem in life choice. "
Definitely this!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think every couple has a different idea of what cuckoldry is , for us it’s verging on ‘hotwife’ scenarios . Denial and humiliation just doesn’t cut it for either of us but husband watching his wife with another man does . We are all different and like different aspects of sex . |
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"Swinging is an alturnative life style. Although I find a lot don't have alturnative thinking. Like someone said it seporates the swingers from the sex site hunters.
Just tje word Daddy sends most off on a negative downward slagging off spin.
If you don't like or understand someone elses concept, do some research. Find out about it, educate yourself, if you still don't like it - fair enough. But that's what makes the world go round. We are all differant.
Stop degrading the op. It's his lifestyle choice. Good on him, I have no problem in life choice. "
I thought he wanted to be degraded? |
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"4 years cuckold and been denied her Pussy for past 2 years - get to lick her only - how many cucks are fully denied ? "
I, sissy, have not been cuckolded yet though hope to soon as mistress has found a few guys who she likes and may move further with. She’s clear that she is free to take lovers as and when she likes.
I do have sex in that she fucks me but I am caged fairly permanently. I was allowed to cum 3 times in 2017. I love being under her control and denied. I hate the feeling after I have cum I become far more critical and less submissive/compliant whereas when I’m fucked I’m no less horny and subservient although I have multiple very powerful orgasms, without a real ejaculation. |
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"Hang on, am I to understand you haven't fucked your own wife for 2 years?
I think I would be looking for a new woman by now!
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I'm trying to understand but the pennies not dropping. He's dry she's having a great time... (sings) ain't nothing going on but the rent. .. sorry op I just do not understand but I admire ur abstaining ability xx |
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