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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are you like in real life vs on here? I don’t mean physically. I just mean as a person...
They always say watch out for the quiet ones. Are you as sexually outgoing and open in your day to day life? Or would people be shocked to find you on here?
I’m intrigued to see what your answers are.
Personally, I think everyone I know would be surprised that I act the way I do behind closed doors (and online). I’m fairly quiet and reserved in my day to day life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am pretty much as I am here, my friends and people I work with wouldn’t be shocked by knowing about this side of me - if they thought about it they would probably guess.
I understand that we have different sides to ourselves depending on who we are with, but we are the same person so it shouldn’t be a shock to anyone that knows us well. |
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Given I have friends who seem to think I've been celibate for almost 16 years - yea I thin there'd be some  faces
But my close friends are more open minded themselves - some have even experimented with swinging and 2 friends know the lot but they're like sisters to me.
But acquaintances/ex work colleagues type people - clueless |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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I, him, tell the truth, if they don’t ask I don’t tell, odd how people who do joke about swinging and clubs don’t believe you when you, rather exaggerate, going to them, a touch of reverse psychology.
An old friend of mine used to take (he was married) his girlfriend to the local pub, now who on earth would do that????
Now who on this earth  |
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Everyone i know would be shocked/horrified if i revealed what i got up to. Im just a normal middle aged woman who blends quietly into the background. My friend actually said to me the other day she thought it sad as i was living like a nun. Little does she know how i come alive at swingers clubs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually enjoy that as part of the fun, being quite tame in 'real life' and people not knowing!  people I know always make jokes that it's the quiet ones you need to watch out for, love that I secretly know they're right!!  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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A Peruvian sharman called Don Americo Yabu once said, “there are two sorts os energy, domestic energies that is heavy, drain and draws strength... and then there is Salka, free energy, Mother Earths energy, live, empowering emerging, emerging.
Living in domestic is not good, living with domestic and salka is what Freud would call Ego. Living in total Salka well that is also unhealthy.
Well, in my world. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"A Peruvian sharman called Don Americo Yabu once said, “there are two sorts os energy, domestic energies that is heavy, drain and draws strength... and then there is Salka, free energy, Mother Earths energy, live, empowering emerging, emerging.
Living in domestic is not good, living with domestic and salka is what Freud would call Ego. Living in total Salka well that is also unhealthy.
Well, in my world. "
Ps, analogy isn’t a bad thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty reserved and never discuss my sex life with people who aren't involved in it. As to what people might think, I have up worrying about that years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One or two close friends would perhaps not be surprised if they knew.
The majority of people would be gobsmacked if they knew I am here.
To me, this separate life aspect is part of the thrill of being here but I understand completely that there are people for whom the dual life is like living in denial. Not for me though |
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