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over a year ago
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"How do you know if you are bi? Can you be bi without having tried anything? What's the rules!?  "
You have to learn the handshake first.
Seriously, if you think of the opposite sex in a sexual way and want to do intimate pelasureable things with them then thats the feelings in place.
How you act on those feelings will tell you what you consider your own sexuality to be. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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you look at the mens underwear section of the next catalogue.... and trace the outline of the cock with your finger.... you are curious.
if you trace with your tongue.... you are bi.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I just wonder whether fantasy and reality are very different here. I haven't found the ideal couple so don't know how I would or wouldn't react that's all |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I just wonder whether fantasy and reality are very different here. I haven't found the ideal couple so don't know how I would or wouldn't react that's all"
think about it, if you decide you want to... tell them it's your first time... if they have anything about them, they will take it slowly and respect your option to change your mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you look at the mens underwear section of the next catalogue.... and trace the outline of the cock with your finger.... you are curious.
if you trace with your tongue.... you are bi.
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I do that!! Does that make me bi??? Ms ps I do it with calvin klein underwear boxes too until I get chucked out of debenhams lol  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"you look at the mens underwear section of the next catalogue.... and trace the outline of the cock with your finger.... you are curious.
if you trace with your tongue.... you are bi.
I do that!! Does that make me bi??? Ms ps I do it with calvin klein underwear boxes too until I get chucked out of debenhams lol "
am so proud of ya xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you know if you are bi? Can you be bi without having tried anything? What's the rules!? "
Seriously mate if you have to ask that question you ain't
I've known I was attracted to men since I was a boy
My sexuality got the better of me in my twenties and I hated it
I tried to commit suicide 4 times because of it
Then I accepted and embraced it
Like I said if ya have to ask ya ain't xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you know if you are bi? Can you be bi without having tried anything? What's the rules!?
Seriously mate if you have to ask that question you ain't
I've known I was attracted to men since I was a boy
My sexuality got the better of me in my twenties and I hated it
I tried to commit suicide 4 times because of it
Then I accepted and embraced it
Like I said if ya have to ask ya ain't xx"
I don't agree, I questioned myself for years - was I wasn't I? Finally had my first experience with a woman at 25 and it turned into a long term relationship. Now I'm dating guys again but I still would like the option to sleep with a woman now and then. Hence why I'm here 
Only you know yourself and only you can say when you're ready to do anything about it. |
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Actually I disagree with what I put having seen how you put it
But it was how the question first read to me
A lot of folk try it because they think it's the in thing
(have actually had people say that to me honestly)
That was the reason for my answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually I disagree with what I put having seen how you put it
But it was how the question first read to me
A lot of folk try it because they think it's the in thing
(have actually had people say that to me honestly)
That was the reason for my answer "
Yes, I've known that too. I've also known girls snog their mates to get a guy's attention which is a bit backwards if you think about it but I can see why it works!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Actually I disagree with what I put having seen how you put it
But it was how the question first read to me
A lot of folk try it because they think it's the in thing
(have actually had people say that to me honestly)
That was the reason for my answer
Yes, I've known that too. I've also known girls
snog their mates to get a guy's attention which is a bit backwards if you think about it but I can see why it works!! "
So can I lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well then I'd say you're bi-curious but just because you're curious about something it doesn't mean you have to act on it. I've always been curious to know how it would feel to get electricuted but there aint no way I'm gonna go sticking my finger in a plug socket! |
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"Well then I'd say you're bi-curious but just because you're curious about something it doesn't mean you have to act on it. I've always been curious to know how it would feel to get electricuted but there aint no way I'm gonna go sticking my finger in a plug socket!"
Well said, but now I'm curious why you're curious about electrocution! Katy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well then I'd say you're bi-curious but just because you're curious about something it doesn't mean you have to act on it. I've always been curious to know how it would feel to get electricuted but there aint no way I'm gonna go sticking my finger in a plug socket!
Well said, but now I'm curious why you're curious about electrocution! Katy."
Haha! Absolutely no idea just one of those things I've always wondered ever since being a kid  |
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"Well then I'd say you're bi-curious but just because you're curious about something it doesn't mean you have to act on it. I've always been curious to know how it would feel to get electricuted but there aint no way I'm gonna go sticking my finger in a plug socket!
Well said, but now I'm curious why you're curious about electrocution! Katy.
Haha! Absolutely no idea just one of those things I've always wondered ever since being a kid "
OK, well glad to hear you're not going to try it Not quite the same, but for years I was curious about being spit-roast |
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"OK, well glad to hear you're not going to try it Not quite the same, but for years I was curious about being spit-roast "
I'm guessing you're not curious any more? |
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"OK, well glad to hear you're not going to try it Not quite the same, but for years I was curious about being spit-roast
I'm guessing you're not curious any more? "
No It's a little bit like being electrocuted, but in a non-lethal kind of way  Katy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you are sexually attractive to both genders you are Bisexual. Simples.
Since you're not sure I'd say you're Bi-curious, but that's just me.
& no you don't need experience to be any sexuality. Do you become straight only once you sleep with a member of the opposite sex?
I knew I was Bi at 15 but never slept with a woman until I was 27. A good friend of mine is also Bi, but has never slept with a woman.
Experience has nothing to do with sexuality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you look at the mens underwear section of the next catalogue.... and trace the outline of the cock with your finger.... you are curious.
if you trace with your tongue.... you are bi.
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Haaa haaa haaa haaa...oooooh View! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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the physical act pails into insignificance when compared to the time u spend wondering should i / shouldn't i and torturing yourself over it.
if the curiosity is there act on it or you'll drive yourself potty ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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as loads have said you dont have to have tried it too know you would like it and are bi. I thought and fantasied about it for years but only had women. And only once i'd started swinging and met a bi couple and felt comfortable trying it with them did I realise I had been bi all along. After alls said and done you know your limits and once you have fantasied about it your there!! you will meet the right couple or guy or tv to try it and if you let them know its your first time they will guide you throught it im sure, as i have with others over the years. good luck xx |
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