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We've had this a bit recently...
Guys sends a message, looks good, we reply, start chatting, arrange a meet for a few days hence, then he goes silent.
Presumably in such circumstances getting interest is enough for their self esteem.
Oh hum. |
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"We've had this a bit recently...
Guys sends a message, looks good, we reply, start chatting, arrange a meet for a few days hence, then he goes silent.
Presumably in such circumstances getting interest is enough for their self esteem.
Oh hum."
Funny you say that lately I had few couples who have messaged me first then I replied and since then I never heard back. They have Veris to say they are genuine. This site baffles me at times  |
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over a year ago
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"We've had this a bit recently...
Guys sends a message, looks good, we reply, start chatting, arrange a meet for a few days hence, then he goes silent.
Presumably in such circumstances getting interest is enough for their self esteem.
Oh hum.
Funny you say that lately I had few couples who have messaged me first then I replied and since then I never heard back. They have Veris to say they are genuine. This site baffles me at times "
Maybe one half messaged without the other being there and the other half didn't fancy a meet when they viewed you profile ? Who knows, odd site this is at times. |
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"We've had this a bit recently...
Guys sends a message, looks good, we reply, start chatting, arrange a meet for a few days hence, then he goes silent.
Presumably in such circumstances getting interest is enough for their self esteem.
Oh hum.
Funny you say that lately I had few couples who have messaged me first then I replied and since then I never heard back. They have Veris to say they are genuine. This site baffles me at times "
That's possibly a bit different. You might send a message and the tone of the reply might then put you off.
We are talking about situations where you have been chatting for a bit...
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"Happens all the time on here sadly. Last minute nerves maybe or just no intention of meeting in the first place ? "
I laugh whenever someone gave 'nerves' as an excuse to be a timewaster.
As one post above rightly mentioned, they were horny fantasist and use the contact to relieve themselves.
Just block and dont forget to report. |
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"We had this at a club recently. Guy said how he would love to play with Mrs so we invited him in and he couldn’t last longer then 10 seconds"
Poor guy never watched something about mary then lol |
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They probably get greater sexual gratification from the messages, or building up your hopes only to dash them later, thanmight from the actual encounter.
We think that's what's happened when we've found ourselves in the same situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of fake profiles just like the chit chat to fill out there fantasise just wank material when it comes down to a meet they dont show then hide there profile |
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"We had this at a club recently. Guy said how he would love to play with Mrs so we invited him in and he couldn’t last longer then 10 seconds"
Eh? Have you posted on the wrong thread? |
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It happened a few times to me as well. This one time I arranged a meet with a couple then they canceled last minute. But I was cool with it, then half hour later msgs me asking to meet now and I didnt see the msg till least half HR later cause I thought I wasn't meeting anyone. But when I replied I got no reply lol so she was obviously pissed and since then haven't heard from them. I don't think it was my fault though. |
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"Happens all the time on here sadly. Last minute nerves maybe or just no intention of meeting in the first place ?
I laugh whenever someone gave 'nerves' as an excuse to be a timewaster.
As one post above rightly mentioned, they were horny fantasist and use the contact to relieve themselves.
Just block and dont forget to report."
Report for what? |
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"Happens all the time on here sadly. Last minute nerves maybe or just no intention of meeting in the first place ?
I laugh whenever someone gave 'nerves' as an excuse to be a timewaster.
As one post above rightly mentioned, they were horny fantasist and use the contact to relieve themselves.
Just block and dont forget to report.
Report for what? "
Now under 'report', you have new item:
"Arranged a meet but didn't turn up".
Go to the person's profile and report if they do that.
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By *ndeenaMan
over a year ago
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"We've had this a bit recently...
Guys sends a message, looks good, we reply, start chatting, arrange a meet for a few days hence, then he goes silent.
Presumably in such circumstances getting interest is enough for their self esteem.
Oh hum."
Sorry to hear that. |
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"We've had this a bit recently...
Guys sends a message, looks good, we reply, start chatting, arrange a meet for a few days hence, then he goes silent.
Presumably in such circumstances getting interest is enough for their self esteem.
Oh hum."
We let our guard down and decided to meet a single guy for a change. We met up for a drink, all got on and decided on a meet a couple of weeks later. All sorted, date and time agreed and spoke to him the evening before to check all was good. 10 mins before he was due we texted our address and tada - no show. Eventually replied to say he was elsewhere in the country and no apology. Blocked.
A month later another guy contacted us who seemed ok and we thought we'd give it one more try cos the single guys always swear they're genuine/ not timewasters etc. Drink was good and arranged to meet to play and yep - disappeared on the day.
Luckily the day wasn't wasted as we contacted a local couple on the same day, met up and have great fun with them.
So, single guys are once again blocked. |
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"We've had this a bit recently...
Guys sends a message, looks good, we reply, start chatting, arrange a meet for a few days hence, then he goes silent.
Presumably in such circumstances getting interest is enough for their self esteem.
Oh hum."
I know what you mean OP I’ve chatted to guys after a while given them my Kik (which I no longer have for this reason) asked them if they’d like to meet them they either ghost at this point or agree a date then poof a disappearing act houdini would be proud of! Peculiar 
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"Happens all the time on here sadly. Last minute nerves maybe or just no intention of meeting in the first place ?
I laugh whenever someone gave 'nerves' as an excuse to be a timewaster.
As one post above rightly mentioned, they were horny fantasist and use the contact to relieve themselves.
Just block and dont forget to report.
Report for what?
Now under 'report', you have new item:
"Arranged a meet but didn't turn up".
Go to the person's profile and report if they do that.
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How didn’t we know about this?!! Could’ve used it a good few times! |
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Happened to Frankie and myself- from about 4 different guys in the last 6 months. 2 of them have done it twice to us now.
(We're the fools for inviting them both the second time around). Never any apologies either. Pleased about this report for not showing up option now though, we will definitely be using in future.
Happy 2018 all. |
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