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"When a single female profile, 2 weeks old, with no pics or verifications says 'she' received over 400 messages.....can this be right.....discuss? "
I got 850 within the first 24 hrs. No pics. No veris. Minimal text. Alot of men (they were mainly men) prey on fresh meat. |
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Ha, I'm glad you used the 'D' as that's exactly what I was thinking. As a genuine male, with admittedly limited verifications on here but 30+ on another site, it does make me question persisting with my dalliance with Fabs. Why on earth spend time trying to stand out amongst all this desperation? |
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Honestly speaking a lots of ladies make it look bigger ,than is in the reality ! Views is one thing but messages . A lot of BS ! I see some guys would not look at them in the street twice ! But on fab they make it look that I a irresistible ! Don't believe everything people tell you on here ! Would be interesting to make a profile without a picture and see ! I don't believe it !!! |
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Oh damn Kinky-Minx has busted this single male who's pretending to be a single male I used the term 'she' as I'm questioning how would anyone know that this is even a female? I've been swinging for over 10 years and genuinely lost count of the amount of tricks, scams, fakers and drama I've come across. Just seems to be amplified on this site. |
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over a year ago
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"Honestly speaking a lots of ladies make it look bigger ,than is in the reality ! Views is one thing but messages . A lot of BS ! I see some guys would not look at them in the street twice ! But on fab they make it look that I a irresistible ! Don't believe everything people tell you on here ! Would be interesting to make a profile without a picture and see ! I don't believe it !!! "
When I first joined I had a shadow avatar and a few lines profile wise, I think it was 100+ messages on day 1.
Then I discovered filters! |
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"Honestly speaking a lots of ladies make it look bigger ,than is in the reality ! Views is one thing but messages . A lot of BS ! I see some guys would not look at them in the street twice ! But on fab they make it look that I a irresistible ! Don't believe everything people tell you on here ! Would be interesting to make a profile without a picture and see ! I don't believe it !!!
When I first joined I had a shadow avatar and a few lines profile wise, I think it was 100+ messages on day 1.
Then I discovered filters!"
So 400 in 2 weeks is very believable then?.....just crazy.....I'm not sure if it's even good for the recipient....what do you all think? |
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"Honestly speaking a lots of ladies make it look bigger ,than is in the reality ! Views is one thing but messages . A lot of BS ! I see some guys would not look at them in the street twice ! But on fab they make it look that I a irresistible ! Don't believe everything people tell you on here ! Would be interesting to make a profile without a picture and see ! I don't believe it !!!
When I first joined I had a shadow avatar and a few lines profile wise, I think it was 100+ messages on day 1.
Then I discovered filters!
So 400 in 2 weeks is very believable then?.....just crazy.....I'm not sure if it's even good for the recipient....what do you all think? "
Fun to start but the novelty soon wears off! |
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Men like you was my biggest irritation. Questioning wether I’m a woman or genuine. Why don’t you just meet verified users. An let her find her feet. An you do get that many messages I’m surprised she isn’t getting more.  |
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"Oh damn Kinky-Minx has busted this single male who's pretending to be a single male I used the term 'she' as I'm questioning how would anyone know that this is even a female? I've been swinging for over 10 years and genuinely lost count of the amount of tricks, scams, fakers and drama I've come across. Just seems to be amplified on this site."
You're new round these 'ere parts aintcha  |
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"When a single female profile, 2 weeks old, with no pics or verifications says 'she' received over 400 messages.....can this be right.....discuss? "
Haha yes all the time I have had 2300 in the last couple weeks simply because a couple new pics I put up |
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"So 400 in 2 weeks is very believable then?.....just crazy.....I'm not sure if it's even good for the recipient....what do you all think? "
Yes it's true .... we cope .... we think most of the guys on here are idiots  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a single profile for a while, no pics and minimal info - hundreds of messages. Mostly men but the odd couple thrown in. To be honest it got tiresome real quick. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
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So 400 in 2 weeks is very believable then?.....just crazy.....I'm not sure if it's even good for the recipient....what do you all think? "
My friend joined.....then left after a week as she was bombarded with messages!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, the amount of messages in the first few weeks is mind-blowing. It's flattering at first, then a bit scary, then becomes overwhelming. Despite having said all that, I love it here |
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Mrs biggest annoyance is the repeat messages.
"Hey how are you?"
Ten seconds later
"You ok Hun you haven't replied?"
Another ten seconds later
"Have I said something to offend you?"
Five seconds later
"Clearly I am not your type and you are to busy to reply"
Three seconds later
" Clearly you are so special that you can't be bothered to reply,(followed by a barrage of abuse) so I won't message again and wish you happy swinging"
Two weeks later
"Hey Hun how's you, remember we chatted a few weeks ago? You still up for that meet?"
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"Honestly speaking a lots of ladies make it look bigger ,than is in the reality ! Views is one thing but messages . A lot of BS ! I see some guys would not look at them in the street twice ! But on fab they make it look that I a irresistible ! Don't believe everything people tell you on here ! Would be interesting to make a profile without a picture and see ! I don't believe it !!! "
So are you saying that newbie females don't get innundated with messages in the first few days? Interesting from a female profile. What's your secret? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No doubt lots of ladies receive hundreds of messages,pictures or not on profile,but who knows how many messages someone gets anyway,anyone can claim to get any number of messages with no way of being able to look at another persons profile and message count  |
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"Mrs biggest annoyance is the repeat messages.
"Hey how are you?"
Ten seconds later
"You ok Hun you haven't replied?"
Another ten seconds later
"Have I said something to offend you?"
Five seconds later
"Clearly I am not your type and you are to busy to reply"
Three seconds later
" Clearly you are so special that you can't be bothered to reply,(followed by a barrage of abuse) so I won't message again and wish you happy swinging"
Two weeks later
"Hey Hun how's you, remember we chatted a few weeks ago? You still up for that meet?"
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The funny thing is with the new inbox system all that convo is still there even if you delete the messages. |
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So 400 in 2 weeks is very believable then?.....just crazy.....I'm not sure if it's even good for the recipient....what do you all think?
My friend joined.....then left after a week as she was bombarded with messages!!"
And this reply includes literally so many truths....the lack of QA of profiles and of respondees.....so a lot of good people walk away because they can't sort the wheat from the chaff on both sides....I guess you get what you pay for.....oh wait....this is a free of charge site...... |
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"Mrs biggest annoyance is the repeat messages.
"Hey how are you?"
Ten seconds later
"You ok Hun you haven't replied?"
Another ten seconds later
"Have I said something to offend you?"
Five seconds later
"Clearly I am not your type and you are to busy to reply"
Three seconds later
" Clearly you are so special that you can't be bothered to reply,(followed by a barrage of abuse) so I won't message again and wish you happy swinging"
Two weeks later
"Hey Hun how's you, remember we chatted a few weeks ago? You still up for that meet?"
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So true... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had guys blocked but after a couple of months, we knocked it off for the day and received some 170 messages off guys.
So 400 for a newbie single lady is right. The guys must be banking on the newbie being green and resulting in an immediate meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no way of being able to look at another persons profile and message count
I disagree, a male friend of mine opened a female profile to test the theory.
He believes women now "
Yes,he opened a new profile as a single female,the point i made was NO OTHER PERSON CAN LOOK AT SOMEONE ELSES MESSAGE TALLY can they ?! |
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"no way of being able to look at another persons profile and message count
I disagree, a male friend of mine opened a female profile to test the theory.
He believes women now
Yes,he opened a new profile as a single female,the point i made was NO OTHER PERSON CAN LOOK AT SOMEONE ELSES MESSAGE TALLY can they ?!"
Ok, no need to shout 
The point is that a new female profile gets 100s of messages. It's a fact. |
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"Honestly speaking a lots of ladies make it look bigger ,than is in the reality ! Views is one thing but messages . A lot of BS ! I see some guys would not look at them in the street twice ! But on fab they make it look that I a irresistible ! Don't believe everything people tell you on here ! Would be interesting to make a profile without a picture and see ! I don't believe it !!!
When I first joined I had a shadow avatar and a few lines profile wise, I think it was 100+ messages on day 1.
Then I discovered filters!
So 400 in 2 weeks is very believable then?.....just crazy.....I'm not sure if it's even good for the recipient....what do you all think?
Fun to start but the novelty soon wears off!"
 what they said.
Very very quickly wears off.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s also a reason why men and women don’t stay. The nice women become fed up of millions of messages from pests and become passive aggressive which puts the good men off. The good men also get fed up of waiting for women to trawl through hundreds of messages to respond.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs biggest annoyance is the repeat messages.
"Hey how are you?"
Ten seconds later
"You ok Hun you haven't replied?"
Another ten seconds later
"Have I said something to offend you?"
Five seconds later
"Clearly I am not your type and you are to busy to reply"
Three seconds later
" Clearly you are so special that you can't be bothered to reply,(followed by a barrage of abuse) so I won't message again and wish you happy swinging"
Two weeks later
"Hey Hun how's you, remember we chatted a few weeks ago? You still up for that meet?"
"
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"I think it’s also a reason why men and women don’t stay. The nice women become fed up of millions of messages from pests and become passive aggressive which puts the good men off. The good men also get fed up of waiting for women to trawl through hundreds of messages to respond.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure anyone should be flattered by hundreds of messages when they first come on here, especially with no or crap pictures, the attention is not directed at the specific individual more women as a whole (hole) x |
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"I think it’s also a reason why men and women don’t stay. The nice women become fed up of millions of messages from pests and become passive aggressive which puts the good men off. The good men also get fed up of waiting for women to trawl through hundreds of messages to respond.."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably why I don't bother messaging anyone. I know what it's like on here and I just sort of hang out on the forum. Things start up naturally but women on here have an unbelievable amount of attention to cope with. |
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"Wow, now I know we must be doing something wrong. We haven't had more than 100 messages the entire time we have been here.
Dxxx"
You're a couple though, they know they have to speak to the male and the female, where as women on their own are open to thousands of messages. I literally don't send any messages on here now it's a waste of time as by the time it's received they'll have had 600 more new ones to sift through |
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"Wow, now I know we must be doing something wrong. We haven't had more than 100 messages the entire time we have been here.
Dxxx"
I don’t remember us ever being inundated with messages either, although we’ve met some wonderful guys. It goes to show that the majority of single men on Fab have no interest in playing with MF couples.
Mrs |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
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Totally believe it to be true when we set up we had to untick meeting single guy box as received a silly amount of messages to deal with, even though we are a couple, a single girl must get 50 times more. Obviously people get an immediate high volume when new. We meet occaisonally but usually somebody we have chat with for a while just don't show that we do |
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