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Chatting away to what seemed like quite a sensible 30 year old last night, messages flowing backwards and forwards when from out of nowhere he throws in " so when are you coming to sit your sloppy wet pussy on my face".
Nothing to do with the chat so just blocked him and deleted the messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chatting away to what seemed like quite a sensible 30 year old last night, messages flowing backwards and forwards when from out of nowhere he throws in " so when are you coming to sit your sloppy wet pussy on my face".
Nothing to do with the chat so just blocked him and deleted the messages.
What line kills it for you? "
Yeah why do they do this? Random messages. I had a text message ´like bullets?’ the previous conversation was just general how are you |
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Not on this site but had a message from a guy telling me that I shouldn't be on there.
I said that its fine with Mr to which he replied "It may be fine with him, but its not fine with me".
May have had something to do with the fact that I had said no thank you a few weeks previously  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Not on this site but had a message from a guy telling me that I shouldn't be on there.
I said that its fine with Mr to which he replied "It may be fine with him, but its not fine with me".
May have had something to do with the fact that I had said no thank you a few weeks previously "
Of course... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chatting away to what seemed like quite a sensible 30 year old last night, messages flowing backwards and forwards when from out of nowhere he throws in " so when are you coming to sit your sloppy wet pussy on my face".
Nothing to do with the chat so just blocked him and deleted the messages.
What line kills it for you? "
I find this interesting as well. It's called finesse in getting to know someone even on here. And I'm afraid to say that not all folk know how to win people over through conversation. Respect goes along way. In fact THE best experiences I've ever had was without sex talk. Just amazing when you have a proper connection that you relate to. |
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"Chatting away to what seemed like quite a sensible 30 year old last night, messages flowing backwards and forwards when from out of nowhere he throws in " so when are you coming to sit your sloppy wet pussy on my face".
Nothing to do with the chat so just blocked him and deleted the messages.
What line kills it for you? "
I found this happened all the time when I moved chat over to something like Kik as a prelude to meeting.
Almost all of them went from being totally ‘normal ‘ on Fab to sending me cock pics and wanking videos, asking for explicit pics and vids in return, and constantly asking when we were having sex!
I got rid of Kik!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty much anything similar to the OP. Chatting along nicely, think, right, this guy is nice and respectful them boom, a crude immature and out of the blue graphic message! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Pretty much anything similar to the OP. Chatting along nicely, think, right, this guy is nice and respectful them boom, a crude immature and out of the blue graphic message! "
I get this all the time! I always say I just prefer a 'normal' conversation, nothing worse than getting your hopes up and then they just fuck it up!
Some men (that is what I am looking for and chatting to) Just don't have a bloody clue |
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over a year ago
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"Pretty much anything similar to the OP. Chatting along nicely, think, right, this guy is nice and respectful them boom, a crude immature and out of the blue graphic message!
I get this all the time! I always say I just prefer a 'normal' conversation, nothing worse than getting your hopes up and then they just fuck it up!
Some men (that is what I am looking for and chatting to) Just don't have a bloody clue "
Nope. They dont
Ive been chatting to a few men over the last few days
I've explained that I've been poorly over Christmas ( still am)
And that because of that, I am very behind with my new year admin etc
Every single one of them has ignored what Ive said and asked me to meet them that day
As soon as they do that, I've lost interest
If they cant converse like big boys, they are history |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The youngsters just can’t cut it with conversation. You should try us older guys. "
I've not always found that to be the case. Some younger guys I've chatted to and met were lovely, others not so. Some older guys I've chatted to have come out with stuff you'd only expect a teenage boy on heat to come out with to the point you actually think are you really 52 (or whatever)! |
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over a year ago
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"The youngsters just can’t cut it with conversation. You should try us older guys.
I've not always found that to be the case. Some younger guys I've chatted to and met were lovely, others not so. Some older guys I've chatted to have come out with stuff you'd only expect a teenage boy on heat to come out with to the point you actually think are you really 52 (or whatever)!"
You're telling me
Yesterday a guy told me he wanted to do something ( not sure what, never got that far) to my 'clitty'
He was 45
I wasn't convinced tbh |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"The youngsters just can’t cut it with conversation. You should try us older guys.
I've not always found that to be the case. Some younger guys I've chatted to and met were lovely, others not so. Some older guys I've chatted to have come out with stuff you'd only expect a teenage boy on heat to come out with to the point you actually think are you really 52 (or whatever)!"
Absolutely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chatting away to what seemed like quite a sensible 30 year old last night, messages flowing backwards and forwards when from out of nowhere he throws in " so when are you coming to sit your sloppy wet pussy on my face".
Nothing to do with the chat so just blocked him and deleted the messages.
What line kills it for you? "
Not really killed a conversation yet. Just because it's a sex/swinger site doesn't mean we have to act differently to when in normal situations. Some people should engage their brain before their cocks etc. Not all guys the same (well I hope not)   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chatting away to what seemed like quite a sensible 30 year old last night, messages flowing backwards and forwards when from out of nowhere he throws in " so when are you coming to sit your sloppy wet pussy on my face".
Nothing to do with the chat so just blocked him and deleted the messages.
What line kills it for you?
Not really killed a conversation yet. Just because it's a sex/swinger site doesn't mean we have to act differently to when in normal situations. Some people should engage their brain before their cocks etc. Not all guys the same (well I hope not) "
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In fairness to most guys we chat to they can hold a conversation and we get along great.
Age means nothing though as for some reason it seems to be the guys in their mid 40's who are the worse offenders for this type of messaging.
All going good then out of the blue comes the one liner as if they cant hold in their frustration and it leaks out into their message??
Move on to the next one and stop asking ourselves if it was something we had said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That would kill it for me to OP.
Last week I was chatting to a guy, nice conversation until we started talking about heritage. Told him.i was half Welsh/Irish.
His reply "you're a bit of a mongrel then" 
Couldn't understand my offence when I said I didn't appreciate being compared to a scabby dog
Then guys complain about the lack of meets they get. With some of their kind behaving as described here and above no wonder. |
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over a year ago
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"In fairness to most guys we chat to they can hold a conversation and we get along great.
Age means nothing though as for some reason it seems to be the guys in their mid 40's who are the worse offenders for this type of messaging.
All going good then out of the blue comes the one liner as if they cant hold in their frustration and it leaks out into their message??
Move on to the next one and stop asking ourselves if it was something we had said "
I mean I can understand him being excited about the prospect of possibly meeting with you guys. I mean who wouldn't. But have a little think before sending the message. There's always a time and a place for things x |
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We both enjoy a natter with couples and have never understood the urgency to jump straight into ‘dirty talking’. Find it a total turn off to be fair. We’re no prudes but people need to seduce our minds first.
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One of the problems with any site is ,some people tend to forget that they are actually conversing with real people ,for example ,if they were in the pub would they walk up to someone and say can I fuck you ,I dont think so |
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By *andycd20000TV/TS
over a year ago
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If I’m chatting with someone on here. I ask them to let me know if I’m offending them. I would try and see what they like and don’t like. But just go straight to sex. Which is fine with me. But I try and respect them. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Had similar op, all going well them out if the blue asks Mrs if she's up for rimming him which flummoxed her a little, he then said if Mr has a problem with it not to worry as he will put me right when he gets to speak with me. What a damn cheek!! |
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"In fairness to most guys we chat to they can hold a conversation and we get along great.
Age means nothing though as for some reason it seems to be the guys in their mid 40's who are the worse offenders for this type of messaging.
All going good then out of the blue comes the one liner as if they cant hold in their frustration and it leaks out into their message??
Move on to the next one and stop asking ourselves if it was something we had said
I mean I can understand him being excited about the prospect of possibly meeting with you guys. I mean who wouldn't. But have a little think before sending the message. There's always a time and a place for things x "
Our sentiments exactly, just don't see the need |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In fairness to most guys we chat to they can hold a conversation and we get along great.
Age means nothing though as for some reason it seems to be the guys in their mid 40's who are the worse offenders for this type of messaging.
All going good then out of the blue comes the one liner as if they cant hold in their frustration and it leaks out into their message??
Move on to the next one and stop asking ourselves if it was something we had said
I mean I can understand him being excited about the prospect of possibly meeting with you guys. I mean who wouldn't. But have a little think before sending the message. There's always a time and a place for things x
Our sentiments exactly, just don't see the need "
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I had a guy last year I was speaking to with high hopes.
I said from the beginning I only ever do a social meet in public first (due to a bad experience) and only at the weekend, well he kept trying to push to come to mine during the week, until I got totally fed up with it and he left.
Now back on and after maybe 3 messages, what did I wake up to? Yes, you guessed it, a message to say 'shall I just come round to yours later today?' (add in some sexual chat of course)
I just ignored, some people just never learn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chatting away to what seemed like quite a sensible 30 year old last night, messages flowing backwards and forwards when from out of nowhere he throws in " so when are you coming to sit your sloppy wet pussy on my face".
Nothing to do with the chat so just blocked him and deleted the messages.
What line kills it for you?
I found this happened all the time when I moved chat over to something like Kik as a prelude to meeting.
Almost all of them went from being totally ‘normal ‘ on Fab to sending me cock pics and wanking videos, asking for explicit pics and vids in return, and constantly asking when we were having sex!
I got rid of Kik! "
Same here even though I would tell them that I dont do phone sex and if they do send pics etc its delete and block |
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We get that messaging can be misconstrued at times and its sometimes hard to put what you want to express without the risk of innuendo sneaking in.
It can be great fun at times then suddenly in comes that one liner that just kills it stone dead!
Its as if the brain detaches from their fingers and the words just get typed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like I said time and a place and if your chat is heading that way then like a meet take it one step at a time. Build the anticipation don't just ruin it by using your cock to type the message. Tease the mind and the body will follow in an even better way than you can imagine. Than just one cheesy crap one liner  |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Yes it may be on my list of interests but its not all i am, so any mention of anal or ws is a total turnoff...i just know where the conversation is heading and i just cannot be pissing arsed with it |
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It’s tough to judge sometimes. What’s sexually appealing to one person could be a complete turn off to someone else. It is a minefield sometimes.
I’ve chatted about the most mundane boring stuff for ages with some people. One sexual comment and they’ve turned into nymphomaniacs telling me all they’re wildest fantasies and complete filth. Others just radio silence.
Can be tricky trying to lead a convo to sexy talk. This guy clearly needed smooth lessons but there’s always a danger of crashing and burning trying to woo gorgeous ladies on or off fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you dressed?" generally kills it for me.
A common routine is ... Passable conversation, passable conversation, passable conversation, so can I fuck you then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s tough to judge sometimes. What’s sexually appealing to one person could be a complete turn off to someone else. It is a minefield sometimes.
I’ve chatted about the most mundane boring stuff for ages with some people. One sexual comment and they’ve turned into nymphomaniacs telling me all they’re wildest fantasies and complete filth. Others just radio silence.
Can be tricky trying to lead a convo to sexy talk. This guy clearly needed smooth lessons but there’s always a danger of crashing and burning trying to woo gorgeous ladies on or off fab. "
Lol yes. Nice guys who hold lovely polite intelligent conversation when I'm in a mood to hear "mmm get yer keks off wench"
It's a fine line  |
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"The youngsters just can’t cut it with conversation. You should try us older guys. "
Age makes no difference. 31 year old fb is one of the most mature guys iv ever met and iv spoken to a 47 year old that came across like a sleazy immature teenager |
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"The youngsters just can’t cut it with conversation. You should try us older guys.
Age makes no difference. 31 year old fb is one of the most mature guys iv ever met and iv spoken to a 47 year old that came across like a sleazy immature teenager "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its hard to have a convo by message tho can take 3 or 4 days to get a responce with all the messages you gals get the se forget what we sent in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Main conversation killer for me - do you meet alone? The first time I politely explain I don't the second time they get blocked.
Other conversation killers would be any message adressed to my husband about me as if I am unable to think or respond for myself, or any first message aimed directly at me that ignores the fact my husband even exists. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pretty much anything similar to the OP. Chatting along nicely, think, right, this guy is nice and respectful them boom, a crude immature and out of the blue graphic message!
I get this all the time! I always say I just prefer a 'normal' conversation, nothing worse than getting your hopes up and then they just fuck it up!
Some men (that is what I am looking for and chatting to) Just don't have a bloody clue "
Or they start trying to steer the conversation that way.
Are you having any 'fun' today? (wink)
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over a year ago
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Or they start trying to steer the conversation that way.
Are you having any 'fun' today? (wink)
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We had this daily for about 4 months from a couple - well the guy in a couple she didn't use the site
Every day I'd list the mundane shit we were doing, the next morning the same damn message! |
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Or they start trying to steer the conversation that way.
Are you having any 'fun' today? (wink)
*delete*
We had this daily for about 4 months from a couple - well the guy in a couple she didn't use the site
Every day I'd list the mundane shit we were doing, the next morning the same damn message!"
"Doing the ironing." Maybe it turned him on. |
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Or they start trying to steer the conversation that way.
Are you having any 'fun' today? (wink)
*delete*
We had this daily for about 4 months from a couple - well the guy in a couple she didn't use the site
Every day I'd list the mundane shit we were doing, the next morning the same damn message!
"Doing the ironing." Maybe it turned him on. "
Perhaps he was board
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Ladies take it easy on the guys, they are not machines. They cannot read your minds, at the end of the day, this is not a relationship site , it is a sex site for people looking for multiple partners.
A guys job is to get you interested and then close the deal. |
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"Ladies take it easy on the guys, they are not machines. They cannot read your minds, at the end of the day, this is not a relationship site , it is a sex site for people looking for multiple partners.
A guys job is to get you interested and then close the deal."
Like a used car salesman?
I hate being asked questions that are obviously answered in my profile (because it's proof they aren't so interested in me that they find out what I bothered to create said profile)
But what really twists my tit and instantly kills the conversation is the pouty message like "can tell you're not interested in me".
I have blocked every single messenger who has even hinted at that line. You can't tell anything about people over messages and some people it takes several meets to really understand! |
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I killed a conversation with a friend dead once when d*unk! We was chatting away on Facebook and she sent me a what do you like to do sex wise message.
I thought bonus, and replied. Turns out the original message wasn’t meant for me |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"A lot of men think being crude is sexy and it’s not it bores a lot of women and couples "
Couldn't agree more and at a guess I'd say it doesn't work in the main, it doesn't with us. As a side note and really not related because of the rarity of my experiences, the most sexually crude person I've (he) ever met was a woman, made my eyes water and I'm far from shy.  |
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"I killed a conversation with a friend dead once when d*unk! We was chatting away on Facebook and she sent me a what do you like to do sex wise message.
I thought bonus, and replied. Turns out the original message wasn’t meant for me "
Oops : / I hope it didn't kill your friendship too x |
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