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over a year ago
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Hi guys, i hope someone can help. Im due to visit a swinging club this afternoon, Gems in Yeovil and im really after some advice re signals, what to do etc. Can anyone help???  |
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There are no universal signals,which i know isnt what you want to hear 
If someone is clearly flirting...then they probably wont mind you asking if they want to go play.
Some people say a discrete touch on the leg or shoulder is acceptable to ask ppl playing if u may join in, i hate it tho,
If the club has a group room just joining in may be acceptable
Do not follow couples or singe fems around like a lost puppy, it dosent work! 
Chat, mix, see whats happening in the Jacuzzi if it has one, politeness goes a long way...and above all relax and have fun! |
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If there are more than 3men touching a lady you can normally take an educated guess that she won't mind an extra pair of hands. If only two men best to just ask or look with a gesture to the alpha male...lol...failing that go to Bristol Zoo and take some notes about how the chimps go about it.. |
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"If there are more than 3men touching a lady you can normally take an educated guess that she won't mind an extra pair of hands. If only two men best to just ask or look with a gesture to the alpha male...lol...failing that go to Bristol Zoo and take some notes about how the chimps go about it.."
If the female is swinging on a tyre, probably best just to watch |
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"If the female is swinging on a tyre, probably best just to watch"
I'd compliment her on her balance!
...oh... you didn't mean that kind of swinging, did you?  |
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"Check out this thread:
http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/71597
and the do's and don't's on the clubs website. And have fun!"
i know the message wasnt for us but
thanx we looked at ur link, we will be going to our first club in 5 weeks, good to know there is support and can chat get help thanx again |
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