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"It was very much like my first bwc (big White cock)............ But black. "Oh you beat me to it. | |||
"how was the feeling of your first BBC x we have arranged to meet a guy in Manchester soon so mrs m can sample her first one xxx " Nice of you to share your excitement but not everyone will share your enthusiasm on your subject matter and you may get some negative responses. Good luck though and have fun. | |||
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"jesus here we go again..... I think the more this subject comes up the more I feel annoyed and the more I feel sad.... and then you wonder why people get perceptions and where they get them from" Fabio you always seems to comment of these posts. We know you dont like people sterotyping or asking why no one will fuck asian, black etc etc, but rather than steering clear of these posts you always feel you need to post you comments. why not let everyone live their life and if you dont like the post just dont enter and comment. | |||
" Fabio you always seems to comment of these posts. We know you dont like people sterotyping or asking why no one will fuck asian, black etc etc, but rather than steering clear of these posts you always feel you need to post you comments. why not let everyone live their life and if you dont like the post just dont enter and comment." because it is a forum and people are allowed to have a view... just as you are allowed yours. if every position was "happy clappy" then people would only ever see half a viewpoint..... heck, tell you what, lets take it a step further...let just tell people what they want to hear and what they want to see... that way they can just live in the rosey bubble without realising that they may be turning off as many people as they are trying to attract.... happy shiney people holding hands hey.... people want to play up stereotypes... cool, be my guest... but I am guessing that you would rather be known as being "that nice guy" than opposed to "that asian guy".... if you want to be known as the latter then you play it up for all it is worth... however if there are negative consequences to doing that then I don't want to see one thread of "people don't seem to want to meet because......" | |||
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"jesus here we go again..... I think the more this subject comes up the more I feel annoyed and the more I feel sad.... and then you wonder why people get perceptions and where they get them from" you and me both this is getting Stupid know  | |||
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" Fabio you always seems to comment of these posts. We know you dont like people sterotyping or asking why no one will fuck asian, black etc etc, but rather than steering clear of these posts you always feel you need to post you comments. why not let everyone live their life and if you dont like the post just dont enter and comment. because it is a forum and people are allowed to have a view... just as you are allowed yours. if every position was "happy clappy" then people would only ever see half a viewpoint..... heck, tell you what, lets take it a step further...let just tell people what they want to hear and what they want to see... that way they can just live in the rosey bubble without realising that they may be turning off as many people as they are trying to attract.... happy shiney people holding hands hey.... people want to play up stereotypes... cool, be my guest... but I am guessing that you would rather be known as being "that nice guy" than opposed to "that asian guy".... if you want to be known as the latter then you play it up for all it is worth... however if there are negative consequences to doing that then I don't want to see one thread of "people don't seem to want to meet because......" " its not about being "that asian guy" or "that nice guy". to be honest i dont care, in fact i think you care more than i do! yes everyone can express their views but on many of these posts you are always there almost trolling. If i see a post i dont like the look of i wont post on it. If you find these posts offensive then report them. | |||
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"I can write about my first long skinny black cock to relieve the tension if anyones interested. All the cocks I have met belonged to some very nice chaps attached to them." for the love of god please dotn write about the cocks being skinny, that will really open up a can of worms lol | |||
"I don't often get involved but if you don't like a subject matter then why not leave it for those who do. For people to preach that it has been done before isn't helpful and to be honest comes across as rude. There are many new people so why not let them express them self and move on if you don't like. "exactly, the OP is asking for experiences as his wife is due to have a big one. People on here may be able to offer tips like spread legs wider, or use mroe lube or whatever. but there are people who like to suck the life out of the party and while he may have a valid reason to do so a little tact might be appreciated. Manners and consideration go a long way. | |||
"I can write about my first long skinny black cock to relieve the tension if anyones interested. All the cocks I have met belonged to some very nice chaps attached to them. for the love of god please dotn write about the cocks being skinny, that will really open up a can of worms lol " Yes, well it was worm-like but very rigid. My favourite was a very fat one about 6 inches long. It went like a train. It was a pinky brown colour. | |||
"I can write about my first long skinny black cock to relieve the tension if anyones interested. All the cocks I have met belonged to some very nice chaps attached to them. for the love of god please dotn write about the cocks being skinny, that will really open up a can of worms lol Yes, well it was worm-like but very rigid. My favourite was a very fat one about 6 inches long. It went like a train. It was a pinky brown colour." lol tope the trains were better than the london ones, those things are slow and you wait ages for one of them and the service is por too lol | |||
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"....People on here may be able to offer tips like spread legs wider,...." LMFAO! | |||
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We met a guy on holiday in Cap d'Agde who was not huge, but larger than Mrs R had taken before. He was very good with it and as long as he is not in a rush to catch a bus home, you should have a lot of fun.
Just a thought though, when you chat to the guy, make sure he knows the lady is nervous and worried about how he is going to get all "that in there". Slow and easy from him and she can regulate the speed of entry as she feels more comfortable.
Good luck with that and now.... Anyone want a skinny white cock???  | |||
"....People on here may be able to offer tips like spread legs wider,.... LMFAO!" thank you, im here all week | |||
" exactly, the OP is asking for experiences as his wife is due to have a big one. People on here may be able to offer tips like spread legs wider, or use mroe lube or whatever. but there are people who like to suck the life out of the party and while he may have a valid reason to do so a little tact might be appreciated. Manners and consideration go a long way." oh dear lord, for the love of god... if you genuinely believe that they wanted tips on how to deal with a big one.. then I have a nigerian prince with money needing put into your account that you may want to have a word with... as others have then said.. if you genuinely believe that was the question then the answer would be the same if it was a "big cock", a "big black cock" and a "big white cock" signed ... the life of the party (not) | |||
"....People on here may be able to offer tips like spread legs wider,.... LMFAO! thank you, im here all week "That doesn't surprise me | |||
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" exactly, the OP is asking for experiences as his wife is due to have a big one. People on here may be able to offer tips like spread legs wider, or use mroe lube or whatever. but there are people who like to suck the life out of the party and while he may have a valid reason to do so a little tact might be appreciated. Manners and consideration go a long way. oh dear lord, for the love of god... if you genuinely believe that they wanted tips on how to deal with a big one.. then I have a nigerian prince with money needing put into your account that you may want to have a word with... as others have then said.. if you genuinely believe that was the question then the answer would be the same if it was a "big cock", a "big black cock" and a "big white cock" signed ... the life of the party (not)" But if the guy is black, he has a black cock! Why hide the fact!  | |||
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" exactly, the OP is asking for experiences as his wife is due to have a big one. People on here may be able to offer tips like spread legs wider, or use mroe lube or whatever. but there are people who like to suck the life out of the party and while he may have a valid reason to do so a little tact might be appreciated. Manners and consideration go a long way. oh dear lord, for the love of god... if you genuinely believe that they wanted tips on how to deal with a big one.. then I have a nigerian prince with money needing put into your account that you may want to have a word with... as others have then said.. if you genuinely believe that was the question then the answer would be the same if it was a "big cock", a "big black cock" and a "big white cock" signed ... the life of the party (not)" LOl farther _abio, i actually do believe them, i liek to give people the benefit of the doubt and why not. I dont like to live being sceptical about people, give a little and recieve a lot. Oh i cant put any more money in my account. i actually have another guy who has my bank details and will be transfereing monies very soon, there has been some delays but these things happen. Anyway the IR will become suspicious if i have £100,000,000 in my account. but feel free to give them your account details
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"i remeber bbc coming into our house with my parents 1st telly in 1954.it was great.Andy Pandy bill and ben muffin the mule" wasnt born then but i have a very similar monent when i watched bbc HD... similar but not exactly | |||
"i remeber bbc coming into our house with my parents 1st telly in 1954.it was great.Andy Pandy bill and ben muffin the mule wasnt born then but i have a very similar monent when i watched bbc HD... similar but not exactly "Muffin in HD? Its bad enough watching the sweaty open pores in Corrie!!! | |||
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"the cock was ok but he needed a shower" He'd have been shown the door and told to walk through it! | |||
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"i remeber bbc coming into our house with my parents 1st telly in 1954.it was great.Andy Pandy bill and ben muffin the mule wasnt born then but i have a very similar monent when i watched bbc HD... similar but not exactly
Muffin in HD? Its bad enough watching the sweaty open pores in Corrie!!!"Who is ben muffin.... and andy pandy??? lol | |||
"I'm with ya Fabio my friend..its just a big cock! "BBC" thing does my head in!! I can't stand it when i receive messages saying"do you do black guys?" or are you interested in black guys? I'm interested in nice ,attractive,articulate guys--colour and race is insignificant!" Nd thts gr8.. any chnce of a m33t iz a blck gy | |||
Howver it means its origins are racist...now the quetion is if you consider it transgressive today are u racist...i am ignoring those who prefer black men for aesthetic reasons(i.e the skin contrast) but focusing on the ,"its the naughtiest thing i can think of " group.
As far as i can see it is not racism, just a limited imagination. i have a friend who is a sex worker, she was telling me of her favourite current client, he masturbates while she tells him of being gang banged by black men. He considers this the wildest sexual activity imaginable!
We all have taboos, i prefer to explore mine, and they are in no way related to skin colour. It would be a better world if no one had stereotypical outdated ideas, no racist assumptions,no slut shaming, queer bashing. However this is not going to happen overnight.i do think this particular fantasy will die out tho, as the othering of different races becomes less easy as the country becomes more mixed and multicultural | |||
"I'm with ya Fabio my friend..its just a big cock! "BBC" thing does my head in!! I can't stand it when i receive messages saying"do you do black guys?" or are you interested in black guys? I'm interested in nice ,attractive,articulate guys--colour and race is insignificant!" At some point he is going to have to tell you he is black! Why not do it at the outset? Not everyone wants to meet people outside their colour, so the more info the better. Methinks people are way to sensitive! | |||
"I'm with ya Fabio my friend..its just a big cock! "BBC" thing does my head in!! I can't stand it when i receive messages saying"do you do black guys?" or are you interested in black guys? I'm interested in nice ,attractive,articulate guys--colour and race is insignificant!" Swinging is a different market tho at times. People will advertise what they feel is their unique selling point and that might have been his. Its no different advertising that a person is a BBW, or messaging and saying are you interested in large breasted women cos I'm one of those, or do you like redheads cos I'm one of those, do you like squirters,or heavy cummers, cos I'm one of those. Swinging is an arena to explore the fantasy. we all play up and emphasise our attributes as a selling point | |||
"I'm with ya Fabio my friend..its just a big cock! "BBC" thing does my head in!!" Why? BBC is a preference, while I admit a bbc can be good or bad experience just like a Big White Cock it is still a preference and has such it can make the experience more enjoyable! C prefers big breasts, so sex with a small breasted woman may not turn him on so much and therefore not so enjoyable! BBC, BBW,SM etc are all just preferences that people enjoy. If some had asked the question can you remember your first BBW would the answer be just has good as the small ugly woman! H's is first bbc was just as good as the last one and hopefiully the next one! | |||
"jesus here we go again..... I think the more this subject comes up the more I feel annoyed and the more I feel sad.... and then you wonder why people get perceptions and where they get them from" Seconded...don't know why I even opened this. I agree Fab, I find it sad too this racial stereotyping! | |||
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"I'm with ya Fabio my friend..its just a big cock! "BBC" thing does my head in!! I can't stand it when i receive messages saying"do you do black guys?" or are you interested in black guys? I'm interested in nice ,attractive,articulate guys--colour and race is insignificant!" I get this too - from black guys advertising their attributes and making stereotypical statements. If they, as black men, are happy to use the stereotyping to their advantage its foolish me or anyone else getting indignant on their behalf. | |||
"i am a BI male and have seen more cocks than most women and the biggest i have ever seen was white thick and very tasty ( ahh memories ) and 14' and oh my god most black cocks are like white cocks and it is who they are attached to and how they use them that matters now lets clear this subject up once and for all the only difference between a white male and a black male is the level of melanomine in their skin and the rest is myth and i would never judge some1 by the colour of their skin " All this may be true, but, it's what turns people on that count i.e a preference. While the porn industry may play to stereo types, they make film that turn people on and therefore sell and there are plenty of interracial film out there! | |||
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"how was the feeling of your first BBC x we have arranged to meet a guy in Manchester soon so mrs m can sample her first one xxx " I have had a huge white cock, but I am sure it wouldn't matter what colour it was as long as it is used well | |||
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"To turn it round the other way, we get mails from men asking do we want BBC, so it obviously suits some people to use their BBC. I also want to say that not all black men have huge cocks." this is not a slight at your post at all rugby the point is that I don't condone either side using it... its a vicious cicle where people use it because they see other use it.. and then people pick up on it because they think it improves their chances.. and the complain when it doesnt I said further up to that if people want to use it as a selling point then they also can't then complain if it is used against them... I don't have a problem with preferences, each to there own (I see events such as coffee a creme advertised, I have been asked to go, I don't go out of my prinicple) what I do have a problem with the stereotype's people have and the stigma's attached to them... and that what I will always fight, and voice my concerns with.... | |||
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"Sorry HPC, must have been posting the same time xx"  xx | |||
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" what I do have a problem with the stereotype's people have and the stigma's attached to them... and that what I will always fight, and voice my concerns with...." But sadly, that is always going to happen Fabio, not just with colour or swinging, but with life altogether. | |||
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"how was the feeling of your first BBC x we have arranged to meet a guy in Manchester soon so mrs m can sample her first one xxx " ITS OK AS LONG AS THEY CAN KEEP IT HARD WHICH IS RARE. | |||
"Personally, I read the original post as being very excited about their meet and wanting to share that excitement, and hope that none of the posts on this thread do not in any way diminish that. I hope they have a whale of a time!! " Me too  And me too | |||
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"how was the feeling of your first BBC x we have arranged to meet a guy in Manchester soon so mrs m can sample her first one xxx ITS OK AS LONG AS THEY CAN KEEP IT HARD WHICH IS RARE." i seem to be doing well with big cocks lately.. all have stayed nice and hard for me..
cali x | |||
"Sniggers.....Raise wants to fuck the inbetweeners! "hahahahaha get it up ye honeypot xxx | |||
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"Where is the 'what would you do to the poster above' thread when you need it?" Just start one...need one too... | |||
"Where is the 'what would you do to the poster above' thread when you need it? Just start one...need one too... "okay.... watch that space.. | |||
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"Saw a drama once where someone said they looked forward to the day when everyone would describe "that guy over there..." as "the one with the red tie" rather than "the black guy". You never know, it might happen. Would be grand. " Heard a brilliant thing along the same lines on the radio a while back. A guy had been trying to point out which person in a room full of people was 'Peter'. He tried everything, saying 'it's the guy wearing the blue tie, the guy in the corner, the guy drinking a beer etc, all to no avail. Her later explained this to Peter and said that despite his best efforts he had not been able to identify Peter to the person he was talking to. To which Peter replied 'Why didnt you just say Peter is the 6'7" black guy over there, you muppet'. So it kinda works both ways | |||
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"Oh dear, having read this thread i'm worried now i might be deemed as racist! " I'm sure the guys you meet don't think that  -K- | |||
"Oh dear, having read this thread i'm worried now i might be deemed as racist! " better to worry you might be than insist you could never be ! | |||
"Oh dear, having read this thread i'm worried now i might be deemed as racist! " lol just focus on ur likes...oh...focus on me lol x | |||
"how was the feeling of your first BBC x we have arranged to meet a guy in Manchester soon so mrs m can sample her first one xxx " I didn't want to get involved with this one, but having read all the comments, I found myself first agreeing with Fabio, then with Iconic and thereafter backwards and forwards between the different views. There was something that bugged me and I couldn't put my finger on it. Then it hit me! What's slightly disturbing about the OP is the tone of it. It's a fair question, for what it is, but there is an element of treating the whole notion of "black cock" as something perverse and therefore naughty and exciting. It isn't meant to be racist, at least I don't think it's intentional, but I think there is a slight tendency to treat the whole notion as something not to be done, except as an item on a tick list where one can say "yup! Tried that!" This is different to other threads where people discuss BBWs etc. These normally fall into two clear camps … those for and those against. Very rarely do they share the same sentiment as the OP. I'm sure, as stated earlier, that this wasn't intended, but having put this in writing has helped me to clarify my unease with it. Hopefully this has also helped others. | |||
"how was the feeling of your first BBC x we have arranged to meet a guy in Manchester soon so mrs m can sample her first one xxx I didn't want to get involved with this one, but having read all the comments, I found myself first agreeing with Fabio, then with Iconic and thereafter backwards and forwards between the different views. There was something that bugged me and I couldn't put my finger on it. Then it hit me! What's slightly disturbing about the OP is the tone of it. It's a fair question, for what it is, but there is an element of treating the whole notion of "black cock" as something perverse and therefore naughty and exciting. It isn't meant to be racist, at least I don't think it's intentional, but I think there is a slight tendency to treat the whole notion as something not to be done, except as an item on a tick list where one can say "yup! Tried that!" This is different to other threads where people discuss BBWs etc. These normally fall into two clear camps … those for and those against. Very rarely do they share the same sentiment as the OP. I'm sure, as stated earlier, that this wasn't intended, but having put this in writing has helped me to clarify my unease with it. Hopefully this has also helped others. " think you hit the nail on the head there but peeps tend to be on here in pursuit of fantasies so it's bound to seem a little exploitative at times. | |||
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"how was the feeling of your first BBC x we have arranged to meet a guy in Manchester soon so mrs m can sample her first one xxx I didn't want to get involved with this one, but having read all the comments, I found myself first agreeing with Fabio, then with Iconic and thereafter backwards and forwards between the different views. There was something that bugged me and I couldn't put my finger on it. Then it hit me! What's slightly disturbing about the OP is the tone of it. It's a fair question, for what it is, but there is an element of treating the whole notion of "black cock" as something perverse and therefore naughty and exciting. It isn't meant to be racist, at least I don't think it's intentional, but I think there is a slight tendency to treat the whole notion as something not to be done, except as an item on a tick list where one can say "yup! Tried that!" This is different to other threads where people discuss BBWs etc. These normally fall into two clear camps … those for and those against. Very rarely do they share the same sentiment as the OP. I'm sure, as stated earlier, that this wasn't intended, but having put this in writing has helped me to clarify my unease with it. Hopefully this has also helped others. think you hit the nail on the head there but peeps tend to be on here in pursuit of fantasies so it's bound to seem a little exploitative at times." You're absolutely right. I just think we all need to be carefully how we express our interest. Afterall there are people involved, and with that all their thoughts, feelings, and emotions. | |||
"theres sexual stereotyping as well as racial...its part of fab/swinging in general no??? but saying something like we are seeking BBC is not racist/stereotyping its asking for what it exactly is. start making some broad generalisations which turn BBC's into "them type of guys"- now thats a different thing. I doubt that anyone really thinks they are being invited as black guys as anything less than being people...they just happen to be black Im actually really sorry for the OP at such an innocent and common type of fantasy for lots of people to have their post turned into negative kneejerkedness.....AGAIN! " There's nothing wrong with the request I think the worry is the way it has been phrased, albeit inadvertently. Also what you said about being treated as people who just happen to be black is naive. Part of the reaction to this thread is due to people who have experienced the exact opposite. It is a non trivial concern! Don't try to trivialise it! | |||
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"theres sexual stereotyping as well as racial...its part of fab/swinging in general no??? but saying something like we are seeking BBC is not racist/stereotyping its asking for what it exactly is. start making some broad generalisations which turn BBC's into "them type of guys"- now thats a different thing. I doubt that anyone really thinks they are being invited as black guys as anything less than being people...they just happen to be black Im actually really sorry for the OP at such an innocent and common type of fantasy for lots of people to have their post turned into negative kneejerkedness.....AGAIN! There's nothing wrong with the request I think the worry is the way it has been phrased, albeit inadvertently. Also what you said about being treated as people who just happen to be black is naive. Part of the reaction to this thread is due to people who have experienced the exact opposite. It is a non trivial concern! Don't try to trivialise it!" sorry but have to point out ur username mate...i stopped drawing attention to my colour a while ago...altho i describe myself as a blackmix IN my profile...but honestly cant u see u are already in a type of stereotyped name???? | |||
"Maybe you need to lighten up. Sorry had to say that. "hahahha was gonna say that ages ago....cue comments haha | |||
"It was very much like my first bwc (big White cock)............ But black.
Oh you beat me to it."and me lol feels the same your muff cant tell the difference lol | |||
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"how was the feeling of your first BBC x we have arranged to meet a guy in Manchester soon so mrs m can sample her first one xxx I didn't want to get involved with this one, but having read all the comments, I found myself first agreeing with Fabio, then with Iconic and thereafter backwards and forwards between the different views. There was something that bugged me and I couldn't put my finger on it. Then it hit me! What's slightly disturbing about the OP is the tone of it. It's a fair question, for what it is, but there is an element of treating the whole notion of "black cock" as something perverse and therefore naughty and exciting. It isn't meant to be racist, at least I don't think it's intentional, but I think there is a slight tendency to treat the whole notion as something not to be done, except as an item on a tick list where one can say "yup! Tried that!" This is different to other threads where people discuss BBWs etc. These normally fall into two clear camps … those for and those against. Very rarely do they share the same sentiment as the OP. I'm sure, as stated earlier, that this wasn't intended, but having put this in writing has helped me to clarify my unease with it. Hopefully this has also helped others. " This was why i brought up the first recorded porn in this meme, from the 20's, and its racist roots. The idea that black men are somehow "other" and therefore this is a taboo fantasy is disturbing...however is it racism or lack of experience. Here i am hoist on my own, i cant define racism petard...so i need to fall back on if it makes some black men uncomfortable then...... Great post as usual | |||
"I also find myself agreeing in part with Fabio and Black Bolt. But my views below are what I keep coming back to. There is an enormous amount of sexual stereotyping. Yeah there are women who want to try a black guy out, and the OPs post might have come across in this way, though I really do think it was intended as a lighthearted post expressing excitement rather than a racist remark. But there are guys who meet with BBWs cos they 'wanna try a fat girl out' or 'wanna try a large breasted girl out' or 'wanna try an older bird out'. Its everywhere on swinging sites and I do think its the arena to express that. There are some of us who have a unique selling point and we over emphasise that. Raise is known for writing utter filth, he couldn't do that in real life, one day in the workplace with comments like he makes and he'd be sacked. Others emphasise their size with the initials of BBw somewhere in their username or profile. Some, like me, use pictures, some emphasise the size of their cocks and some guys use the word 'Black' in their usernames to emphasise that selling point because there's a market for it. I go to those Blackman Fan Club parties, actually not cos I 'fancy a bit of black' but because it feeds my ego. I don't see black guys as a kind of taboo that I need to fulfil, because in effect I see the whole umbrella of swinging as a taboo. Deep down I have the thoughts that shagging random strangers of whatever colour is, not wrong cos that's too harsh a word, but its not something to be proud of either. Its a slightly shameful secret that I enjoy - therefore its all a taboo for me. But I like the parties because I feel like a queen for the night. For some reason, which does surprise me, I am popular, in demand, by these black guys. I have offers from the majority of men in there, gorgeous, ripped, young, fit men, and they are chasing me! They wouldn't chose me in real life, I am, to them, a stereotype. Do I play up to it whilst I'm there - fuck yeah of course I do. I don't feel I'm being racist, I don't feel they are. Its nothing more ominous than going to a party where I'm gonna be in demand every time I go. If I had the same level of adoration at a German men fan club, or a Ginger haired mans fan club, I'd go. It isn't the guys' colour but how I'm treated myself when I'm there. I don't feel I'm exploiting guys and I don't feel exploited. Maybe inadvertently we are being exploitive but we're all coming out of there with a smile on our faces so let the fun continue "As you point out, you are not playing with black men because you think it breaks rules or is naughtier than playing with white men...this is one of those tricky subjects where intent does matter.i read a lot of porn online, there is a whole genre of nice white women being forced to have sex with dirty nasty black men, and many who get off on the idea it is taboo. | |||
"To turn it round the other way, we get mails from men asking do we want BBC, so it obviously suits some people to use their BBC. I also want to say that not all black men have huge cocks." Agree... 2incher here! | |||
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"To turn it round the other way, we get mails from men asking do we want BBC, so it obviously suits some people to use their BBC. I also want to say that not all black men have huge cocks. Agree... 2incher here!" Are your pants on fire- fibber! | |||
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"To turn it round the other way, we get mails from men asking do we want BBC, so it obviously suits some people to use their BBC. I also want to say that not all black men have huge cocks. Agree... 2incher here!" I think your tape measure might be busted Ahabs | |||
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"I've had a big tricolour cock in a red white and blue condom...does that count? "hopefully with a person attached to it... | |||
"theres sexual stereotyping as well as racial...its part of fab/swinging in general no??? but saying something like we are seeking BBC is not racist/stereotyping its asking for what it exactly is. start making some broad generalisations which turn BBC's into "them type of guys"- now thats a different thing. I doubt that anyone really thinks they are being invited as black guys as anything less than being people...they just happen to be black Im actually really sorry for the OP at such an innocent and common type of fantasy for lots of people to have their post turned into negative kneejerkedness.....AGAIN! There's nothing wrong with the request I think the worry is the way it has been phrased, albeit inadvertently. Also what you said about being treated as people who just happen to be black is naive. Part of the reaction to this thread is due to people who have experienced the exact opposite. It is a non trivial concern! Don't try to trivialise it! sorry but have to point out ur username mate...i stopped drawing attention to my colour a while ago...altho i describe myself as a blackmix IN my profile...but honestly cant u see u are already in a type of stereotyped name????" Well pointed out! But in my defence the name is not what it appears. It was chosen because I used to read Marvel comics as a child, see superhero thread, and Black Bolt is one of those characters. However the 'Black' bit was deliberate, not to exploit my blackness but to ensure, to those who did NOT wish to play with black guys, that I probably wasn't for them. And guess what? Despite having fairly clear photos on my profile I still get winks and messages from people and couples who clearly state their aversion to all things black. So you raise a good point but it doesn't apply on this occasion. Naive? Perhaps, but not opportunistic. | |||
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"jesus here we go again..... I think the more this subject comes up the more I feel annoyed and the more I feel sad.... and then you wonder why people get perceptions and where they get them from Fabio you always seems to comment of these posts. We know you dont like people sterotyping or asking why no one will fuck asian, black etc etc, but rather than steering clear of these posts you always feel you need to post you comments. why not let everyone live their life and if you dont like the post just dont enter and comment." +1 | |||
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"Do people that dont like, or disagree with, these topics and then feel the need to reply with their disapproval also reply to every profile they browse past and dont like the look to tell them of their disapproval? " some are to lazy even to browse someones profile...not me am a glorified perv | |||
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"Do people that dont like, or disagree with, these topics and then feel the need to reply with their disapproval also reply to every profile they browse past and dont like the look to tell them of their disapproval? some are to lazy even to browse someones profile...not me am a glorified perv" im not even glorified im just a perv | |||
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"Do people that dont like, or disagree with, these topics and then feel the need to reply with their disapproval also reply to every profile they browse past and dont like the look to tell them of their disapproval? " eh?
Its a forum...people post for open debate,its no limited to only post if you agree,and its one of the reasons its a bloody good forum! | |||
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"Holding my hands up, I havent read this post, read the title, jumped to the bottom.... Is it just me that finds the heading really offensive? Leaving now. "Well... No, I don't find it offensive. I am neither Black, nor do I have a big cock! I am guessing neither are or do you!
More to the point, I worry about people who get wound up trying to protect others! This is a forum for discussion and BBC is just another preference. | |||
"how was the feeling of your first BBC x we have arranged to meet a guy in Manchester soon so mrs m can sample her first one xxx " BBC= big black cock guy= well theres a person add both and what u have is a black guy with a big cock there is nothing absolutely offensive, and the thread has turned into a spectacle where it really should never have went. Again....is that again?-surely not! | |||
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"jesus here we go again..... I think the more this subject comes up the more I feel annoyed and the more I feel sad.... and then you wonder why people get perceptions and where they get them from Fabio you always seems to comment of these posts. We know you dont like people sterotyping or asking why no one will fuck asian, black etc etc, but rather than steering clear of these posts you always feel you need to post you comments. why not let everyone live their life and if you dont like the post just dont enter and comment." All the guy is saying is 'it doesnt matter'.. What would be the response if someone said 'i remember the first time I held hands with a black man'.. Whats the difference?...skin is skin. | |||
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"Black or White.... Big cocks are only useful if they attached to a man that knows how to use it
"I wield my massive negative energy power saber well | |||
"Black or White.... Big cocks are only useful if they attached to a man that knows how to use it
I wield my massive negative energy power saber well"Can we feel the force? | |||
"Black or White.... Big cocks are only useful if they attached to a man that knows how to use it
I wield my massive negative energy power saber well
Can we feel the force? "yoda have to | |||
"Black or White.... Big cocks are only useful if they attached to a man that knows how to use it
I wield my massive negative energy power saber well
Can we feel the force?
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"Black or White.... Big cocks are only useful if they attached to a man that knows how to use it
I wield my massive negative energy power saber well
Can we feel the force?
yoda have to
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"not had a big black one yet.. had big white ones, small white ones average white ones and small to average black ones... im sure ill get there one day.." ive had none of those...im coy | |||
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"I have in the past had two real girlfriends who were both black and i can tell you that the BBC thing is just a phallusy (!). There are big cocks of every creed and colour and black guys dont have a monopoly on them. I think the magic is the difference,the black/white thing. The two ladies i had relationships with expressed a preference for white guys and one in particular,got a particular kink out of watching herself being fucked by a white guy. I must admit it was the same for me. A very special thing for all concerned and i think there is something magical about black women." i too have had a couple of black girlfriends!,they did tell me they would not go with black guys but had a definite preference for white guys. since then i have seen some lovely big black ladies at clubs in west midlands (inc chams) who love the attention from white guys!. | |||
"how was the feeling of your first BBC x we have arranged to meet a guy in Manchester soon so mrs m can sample her first one xxx " Have only just 'discovered' this thread - but - in my experience - black cocks are no different to white cocks... the colour is immaterial to the feeling...
A cock is only as good as the rest of the guy it's attached to (including his brain) Doesn't matter what colour it is or what size it is if the guy is a total cock himself or if he has no idea what to do with it (some VV we men seem to think it's enough to have a large cock and that women should swoon in delight in the presence of one) | |||
