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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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another 1 to start a debate what rules do cpls set as an example and just an example
no oral sex as regarded as to intimate by bth parties in the cpl
i have heard that some ban kisses and keep that just for them selves
and others it is no holds barred but no full sex
what rules do all you cpls set and yes i have a friend and we have rules but that another topic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When i met with 'a friend' i dont set any rules at all
I still see myself as a single woman meeting with a friend so still free to do what i want
thats just me tho lol
being a couple and meeting with a friend really isnt the same thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"any rule that an individual or couple decides is good for them is not really up for debate, is it?"
i get the feeling hes after tips on what rules to set with his friend when meeting
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i agree that ppl cpls singles whatever can set they own rules and keep them to themselves that is their right however i wanted to start a debate so what rules do ppl have if you wish to share so the fun debate can start  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have one rule only we let eachother know when we are meeting, who and where that's it
And that will always be it even when eventually we live together xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so that sounds like an open relationship those require the max level of trust good on you"
Trust and emotional exclusivity are the only things paramount to me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to clarify me and friend have a list of 10 rules and if u wish i will list them  "
just one question
and its not a dig i really am just curious
but why would you set rules with someone whos just a friend?
Surely if you are both single but just meet up for play you have no obligation to each other?
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"to clarify me and friend have a list of 10 rules and if u wish i will list them
just one question
and its not a dig i really am just curious
but why would you set rules with someone whos just a friend?
Surely if you are both single but just meet up for play you have no obligation to each other?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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because me and this friend are way more than friends and have know each other for over 12 years and we are very close
and the rules stops awkward moments that would spoil things so that why we have rules |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we all lead normal lifes dont we?
I work, im a single mum, i like to have fun, but when i leave this site and the people i have met off it i fo back to being mum and working to provide for my kids |
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my/our biggest most important ruls is no means no, next respect we demand it if i'm not comfortable, or not happy with the persom we meet, and dont want to play then it's no, other rules are mostly guidlines for us like kissing ect mostly i dont but if i want i do as with other guidlines, of course we expect to respect others limits too all be it we only meet singly guys x mostly it's on our profile |
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If you want to start a debate i suggest u drop the obsession with what couples do and ask open ended questions.
