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When there is no longer a spark

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Isn't it better to be honest to a person and tell them, rather than just keep saying sorry I can't meet tonight everytime they message.

I've been honest in saying this yet I'm made to feel the bad person

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think I would do the same and if they didn't take it well cut contact with them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes be honest

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By *sRedbbwWoman over a year ago

Amwythig

Just done the same thing because fb wasn't satisfying me like he first was. If he's making you feel bad, he's a dick and you should be glad you've moved on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just done the same thing because fb wasn't satisfying me like he first was. If he's making you feel bad, he's a dick and you should be glad you've moved on "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Best to be honest. Relationships and dynamics change and an adult would understand that.

If you don't let them down you'll be letting yourself down.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Isn't it better to be honest to a person and tell them, rather than just keep saying sorry I can't meet tonight everytime they message.

I've been honest in saying this yet I'm made to feel the bad person

Better to be tactfully honest.

Don't allow someone the power to make you feel bad just because they do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Swinging is NSA so don’t feel you have to do anything. If the spark has gone tell him so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rather be honest then both can move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone doesn’t message me back like they used to then I soon get the hint and move on, as ABBA said “it’s the name of the game”.

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