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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well absolutely love it lol
I am in to the soft slow and sensual side of it all, taking time with each other, teasing and prolonging the anticipation. Watching others and taking in all the atmosphere, massages/kissing and making good friends.Social just as important than the naughty side.
Everyone has their own views and that's cool, i don't really like the bravado side and "I have a big cock and fuck for hours" or " I am going to destroy your wife" banging away just not for me and tbh i pop quite quick at times so prolonging it and focusing on the womans pleasure is what I like to do.
Wife loves it that way too.
Never gave a lady an orgasm with my cock always hands/tongue and toys.
The most liberating thing is being with like minded friends and being relaxed and having a laugh, no drama no jealousy just totally free.
May or may not be your cup of tea but would like to hear others thoughts. Vanilla friends make me laugh when someone jokes about our hot tub, they think it is so seedy and an untrusting lifestyle. |
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"Well absolutely love it lol
I am in to the soft slow and sensual side of it all, taking time with each other, teasing and prolonging the anticipation. Watching others and taking in all the atmosphere, massages/kissing and making good friends.Social just as important than the naughty side.
Everyone has their own views and that's cool, i don't really like the bravado side and "I have a big cock and fuck for hours" or " I am going to destroy your wife" banging away just not for me and tbh i pop quite quick at times so prolonging it and focusing on the womans pleasure is what I like to do.
Wife loves it that way too.
Never gave a lady an orgasm with my cock always hands/tongue and toys.
The most liberating thing is being with like minded friends and being relaxed and having a laugh, no drama no jealousy just totally free.
May or may not be your cup of tea but would like to hear others thoughts. Vanilla friends make me laugh when someone jokes about our hot tub, they think it is so seedy and an untrusting lifestyle."
The main thing is to do what you both want to do, not what others want to do with or to you!
Our view is that it can be great fun with the right people st the right time.
Enjoy your hot tub, we love them! |
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"Well absolutely love it lol
I am in to the soft slow and sensual side of it all, taking time with each other, teasing and prolonging the anticipation. Watching others and taking in all the atmosphere, massages/kissing and making good friends.Social just as important than the naughty side.
Everyone has their own views and that's cool, i don't really like the bravado side and "I have a big cock and fuck for hours" or " I am going to destroy your wife" banging away just not for me and tbh i pop quite quick at times so prolonging it and focusing on the womans pleasure is what I like to do.
Wife loves it that way too.
Never gave a lady an orgasm with my cock always hands/tongue and toys.
The most liberating thing is being with like minded friends and being relaxed and having a laugh, no drama no jealousy just totally free.
May or may not be your cup of tea but would like to hear others thoughts. Vanilla friends make me laugh when someone jokes about our hot tub, they think it is so seedy and an untrusting lifestyle."
Best hobby ever. Love the social side so liberating and fun talking openly Fi xx |
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"Well absolutely love it lol
I am in to the soft slow and sensual side of it all, taking time with each other, teasing and prolonging the anticipation. Watching others and taking in all the atmosphere, massages/kissing and making good friends.Social just as important than the naughty side.
Everyone has their own views and that's cool, i don't really like the bravado side and "I have a big cock and fuck for hours" or " I am going to destroy your wife" banging away just not for me and tbh i pop quite quick at times so prolonging it and focusing on the womans pleasure is what I like to do.
Wife loves it that way too.
Never gave a lady an orgasm with my cock always hands/tongue and toys.
The most liberating thing is being with like minded friends and being relaxed and having a laugh, no drama no jealousy just totally free.
May or may not be your cup of tea but would like to hear others thoughts. Vanilla friends make me laugh when someone jokes about our hot tub, they think it is so seedy and an untrusting lifestyle."
Agree with a lot of what you say, i myself am fairly new to it all and since going from single page to a couple i rarely play myself, at least fully, leave that to gf.
Refreshing to see someone be so honest as most on here would have you believe they are the best at this and best at that. Easy to spot though.
Enjoy the social side as well although i can be very mistrusting of a lot on here and see through a lot of bullshit from them. Most have hidden agendas and are chancers. Though when you do get nice and genuine folk it does make up for it.
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"Well absolutely love it lol
I am in to the soft slow and sensual side of it all, taking time with each other, teasing and prolonging the anticipation. Watching others and taking in all the atmosphere, massages/kissing and making good friends.Social just as important than the naughty side.
Everyone has their own views and that's cool, i don't really like the bravado side and "I have a big cock and fuck for hours" or " I am going to destroy your wife" banging away just not for me and tbh i pop quite quick at times so prolonging it and focusing on the womans pleasure is what I like to do.
Wife loves it that way too.
Never gave a lady an orgasm with my cock always hands/tongue and toys.
The most liberating thing is being with like minded friends and being relaxed and having a laugh, no drama no jealousy just totally free.
May or may not be your cup of tea but would like to hear others thoughts. Vanilla friends make me laugh when someone jokes about our hot tub, they think it is so seedy and an untrusting lifestyle.
Agree with a lot of what you say, i myself am fairly new to it all and since going from single page to a couple i rarely play myself, at least fully, leave that to gf.
Refreshing to see someone be so honest as most on here would have you believe they are the best at this and best at that. Easy to spot though.
Enjoy the social side as well although i can be very mistrusting of a lot on here and see through a lot of bullshit from them. Most have hidden agendas and are chancers. Though when you do get nice and genuine folk it does make up for it.
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