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Have you ever had someone approach you in the street to tell you your looking fantastic?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has only happened once, a lady walked up to me at a bus stop and said I looked handsome and could she kiss me! I think she was slightly under the influence of something, it was flattering and a bit creepy at the same time! |
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over a year ago
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Yeah it happens to me a fair amount and I don’t even look great.
I get it mainly off older women. Last time was just yesterday. Time before that was last Friday (though that was a weird bloke in kings cross), before that was 2 weeks ago in LA, and so on...
It makes me feel really embarrassed and awkward tbh.
I imagine it must be even worse for women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I've had it a couple if times. I was once shopping in river island and a really attractve woman said I was stunning and then asked me if I'd like to get a coffee. First off I thought wow then I thought why??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a guy actually chase me down the street last year to stop and tell me I have the most amazing arse he has ever seen and could he have my phone number. Wasn't sure whether to be flattered or giggle as he only looked to be about 18! |
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Yes. It was around 1994. Another woman stopped me outside a shop and told me, bloody hell you look absolutely gorgeous blah blah blah.
Then she saw my car - a battered old 1litre fiesta and laughed telling me it didn’t match.  |
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Yes it's happened a few times, usually they just give me a compliment and get on their way so I don't have time to feel uncomfortable about it. One time at work though a guy just stood in front of me telling me how beautiful I and wouldn't move on, that was weird. |
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"Yes it's happened a few times, usually they just give me a compliment and get on their way so I don't have time to feel uncomfortable about it. One time at work though a guy just stood in front of me telling me how beautiful I and wouldn't move on, that was weird."
Yeah, sorry about that  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Two d*unk men in azda last week were making passes at me until my bf walked up and stood behind them and made a few comments to them x "
Yes, that's not very nice, I wouldn't like that. |
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"Yes it's happened a few times, usually they just give me a compliment and get on their way so I don't have time to feel uncomfortable about it. One time at work though a guy just stood in front of me telling me how beautiful I and wouldn't move on, that was weird.
Yeah, sorry about that "
You back again! You weirdo! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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People are very kind and I get a few compliments from strangers, most often women.
I take them as genuinely meant, and thank them for their kind words.
It makes me feel happy, and also, I guess approachable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I often get compliments on my looks, hair, shoes and style - from women and men.
I always smile and thank them, and it puts an extra spring in my step. I do give a lot of compliments to strangers myself, and it's nice to see the effect they have  |
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I'm a taxi driver and a young female passenger sd omg uv got grandchildren,no way u look amazing must v had ur kids when u were 16. Must admit it was a boost to my ego considering my son is 29 and my daughter 27 x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was out for one of my walks one day and a lady stopped me to compliment me on my hair. Then she asked to stroke it! Apparently it felt quite soft for red hair. It was nice to have a compliment but a bit weird too lol |
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By *jr123Man
over a year ago
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"Yes a few times and I just think what are you after you weirdo x "
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I've told a couple of very good platonic female friends that they looked great and very sexy but it ruined our friendship. It was only meant as a compliment but they took it the wrong way. Not everyone who compliments a woman is a weirdo or want's to get in your knickers. Sometimes it is just a compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get compliments on my hair, tattoos and clothes quite a lot from strangers - it’s a huge confidence boost! I also like to compliment people on something cool I like about them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Random compliments from strangers make me uneasy
I like it but don't like it at the same time ...
If it's an old lady telling me I've got a beautiful smile or something like that - then it's allowed 
But if it's a man then it makes me feel uneasy
But as soon as I turned 40 I became invisible - so it rarely happens anymore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in a meeting and a female medical professional told me I had a pretty face in the middle of discussions. Flattered but mortified as it was hardly the place |
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"How does it make you feel ? "
Just confirmed what I already knew! Made me smile but I positively beamed when the hot hunk at the gym congratulated me on my weight loss and said he was impressed by my motivation and improvement. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
my job means I wear crap clothes so outside of that I dress smart keep in shape so I do get the odd compliment specially at dancing.
I just say a polite thank you and return the compliment |
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This is not quite the same but I have on 3 separate occasions been told I have a sexy voice by random females. One was definitely telesales so perhaps doesn't count as she would be trying to flog something!
The others were my credit card account when I had misplaced it and last time when negotiating a new phone contract. I can't lie and admit it gives a little ego boost even though I have always hated hearing my own voice! |
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A few times over the years on nights out, ranging from "you're cute" to "You're coming home with me!", but as it was nights out I'm assuming drink had a lot of influence  still a confidence boost though! |
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We often get stopped & complimented on how we look (probably because we always make an effort & stand out from the crowd) it's nice that there are people who appreciate the effort we make, and we always thank them for their kindness.
(We also get recognised from being on tv or youtube) |
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Nobody ever approached me in the street to tell me I look fantastic. Strangers have sometimes complimented me on clothes. I get occasional comments about my looks from people, mostly women. But fantastic...never |
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By *oojCouple
over a year ago
Exeter |
Oh dear we compliment strangers if they look good, better desist if it makes them feel weird, just if someone has taken the time and trouble to look good in our eyes feel it right to compliment appropriately and not creepily.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On holiday last year I was walking to my room, a very confident woman complimented me as she was opening her door to her room. I felt fantastic. It was a lovely wink with it too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happens to Kitten all the time ..just got back off holiday and a guy was chatting her up at the bar. I got back and she says” look, told you wasn’t here alone”
Then he asked how serious it was and we flashed our wedding rings ... |
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All the time, without being big headed it gets so boring now. It actually puts me off someone as it makes me paranoid they're only after one thing. So now instead of saying "thanks" I just say "cool". Some see it as rude but it gets a bit stale hearing it. |
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I've had people come up to me and tell me they like my shoes/dress/outfit etc but not quite to say I look amazing or anything like that. It's nice.
I did have a lady behind me in the queue in poudlound compliment me on my long hair, normal enough, but then she just wouldn't stop talking about it and how shiny it was, it was a bit much
Sassy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once out jogging one evening in Aberdeen I ran past a girl walking with her (I assume) boyfriend and a couple of other friends. As I passed she called out after me "would you like to fuck me?" To the evident displeasure of her boyfriend. Unsurprisingly decided to keep running lol.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have quite a few times it's nice and makes you feel good ..i also get messages on here saying I see you in blah blah or walking down the street but we're to scared to say anything lol |
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When dressed as a girl I have had it quite a lot both from real women and admirers.
Also get quite a few compliments about my piercings as there aren't many people with as many as me.
Once while paying for parking, a guy behind me in the queue was besotted. He knew I wasn't a real girl but was gushing with compliments and desperate to buy me lunch or a drink or anything. I'm not into guys so declined but it was nice, he was charming and lovely, might not have been so nice otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have.
Little old man takes my arm and declares how beautiful I am, proposed to me and said;
"got lots of money, it's all yours, i'm 87 so not got long"
Awww he was very sweet lol.
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"Yeah it happens to me a fair amount and I don’t even look great.
I get it mainly off older women. Last time was just yesterday. Time before that was last Friday (though that was a weird bloke in kings cross), before that was 2 weeks ago in LA, and so on...
It makes me feel really embarrassed and awkward tbh.
I imagine it must be even worse for women "
Now I’m dying of curiosity to what you look like! |
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Not usually - quite possibly because I usually walk about with a 'don't come near me' resting bitch face, though I remember a guy in the tube ticket office always used to go on about my eyes ... 30 years ago! And for some reason the staff at the STI clinic always compliment me on what I'm wearing when I go in for checkups  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Woman tend to say it to each other a lot I find and had it said to me numerous times from other woman. Usually I love your - hair/clothes/coat/Shoes etc and
I’ve said the same to other woman.
As for guys had the usual in pubs and clubs but in the day time less often. One that sticks to mind was in Morrisons, I clocked a guy smiling at me but smiled back and carried on shopping. We ended up on the same isle and he said to me I just want to say you look fantastic and I love seeing a woman dress the way you do (I was dressed in a 50s style full circle dress) I thanked him and carried on shopping. Then bless him he was waiting by then check outs and said can I give you my number. I thanked him and said no as wasn’t single but it did make me feel good the rest of the day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Alot of the time... usually in bars because men usually want to pick you up so but women often approach too. I'm the female of this couple but it happens to him too. When it's a really good looking guy or woman it's flattering, and when it just down the corner shop it's seems more genuine and not just a pick up  |
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If someone said it to me(Mr) first thing I would ask them was if they are high?
Or under the influence of drink or an escaped mental patient!
As that is the only time it would happen.
I have said it once and I will never do it again.
I was sitting eating my lunch in my van (yup probably thinking letchy old builder)
Well I don't do that oi oi thing or anything so crass.
Anyway I was sitting pondering the wonder's of the universe this absolutely stunning lady in her late 20's standing at the bus stop about 10 ft away.
It's not often that I am left in awe but this lady was gorgeous.
I carried on eating my cous cous when I suddenly decided out of nowhere to compliment her.
I wasn't trying to impress her or pull her or do anything other than pay a beautiful lady a compliment on a warm summers day.
Hoping that she would go ahead with her day with maybe a spring in her step and a smile on her face.
So trying my very hardest to be polite and respectful, not letchy and pervy.
I said in a raised voice,not shouting.
Hello there, can I just say that you have brightened up my day and made my lunch break a very sunny one.
You are by far one of the most beautiful women I have ever had the pleasure to lay my eyes on and I wish you a pleasant day and thank you for looking like you do.
Smiled and was just about to drive off when.
Well you can fuck off you dirty old man,I know how fuck pretty I am I don't need an old pervert like you telling me !
I just smiled and sighed, and said it's such a shame that your inner beauty doesn't match your outer beauty.
Good day.
So the one and only time shall remain that way.
Never again. |
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"If someone said it to me(Mr) first thing I would ask them was if they are high?
Or under the influence of drink or an escaped mental patient!
As that is the only time it would happen.
I have said it once and I will never do it again.
I was sitting eating my lunch in my van (yup probably thinking letchy old builder)
Well I don't do that oi oi thing or anything so crass.
Anyway I was sitting pondering the wonder's of the universe this absolutely stunning lady in her late 20's standing at the bus stop about 10 ft away.
It's not often that I am left in awe but this lady was gorgeous.
I carried on eating my cous cous when I suddenly decided out of nowhere to compliment her.
I wasn't trying to impress her or pull her or do anything other than pay a beautiful lady a compliment on a warm summers day.
Hoping that she would go ahead with her day with maybe a spring in her step and a smile on her face.
So trying my very hardest to be polite and respectful, not letchy and pervy.
I said in a raised voice,not shouting.
Hello there, can I just say that you have brightened up my day and made my lunch break a very sunny one.
You are by far one of the most beautiful women I have ever had the pleasure to lay my eyes on and I wish you a pleasant day and thank you for looking like you do.
Smiled and was just about to drive off when.
Well you can fuck off you dirty old man,I know how fuck pretty I am I don't need an old pervert like you telling me !
I just smiled and sighed, and said it's such a shame that your inner beauty doesn't match your outer beauty.
Good day.
So the one and only time shall remain that way.
Never again."
Don’t let one comment stop you.
Great sentiment. Keep it going. |
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"If someone said it to me(Mr) first thing I would ask them was if they are high?
Or under the influence of drink or an escaped mental patient!
As that is the only time it would happen.
I have said it once and I will never do it again.
I was sitting eating my lunch in my van (yup probably thinking letchy old builder)
Well I don't do that oi oi thing or anything so crass.
Anyway I was sitting pondering the wonder's of the universe this absolutely stunning lady in her late 20's standing at the bus stop about 10 ft away.
It's not often that I am left in awe but this lady was gorgeous.
I carried on eating my cous cous when I suddenly decided out of nowhere to compliment her.
I wasn't trying to impress her or pull her or do anything other than pay a beautiful lady a compliment on a warm summers day.
Hoping that she would go ahead with her day with maybe a spring in her step and a smile on her face.
So trying my very hardest to be polite and respectful, not letchy and pervy.
I said in a raised voice,not shouting.
Hello there, can I just say that you have brightened up my day and made my lunch break a very sunny one.
You are by far one of the most beautiful women I have ever had the pleasure to lay my eyes on and I wish you a pleasant day and thank you for looking like you do.
Smiled and was just about to drive off when.
Well you can fuck off you dirty old man,I know how fuck pretty I am I don't need an old pervert like you telling me !
I just smiled and sighed, and said it's such a shame that your inner beauty doesn't match your outer beauty.
Good day.
So the one and only time shall remain that way.
Never again."
That's a shame she couldn't just take a compliment without insulting you,horrible woman. |
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I think it's a shame that people feel they can't give compliments anymore. I think as long as the person doesn't hang around expectantly afterwards, it should be fine. On the rare occasions it's happened to me, it has really put a bounce in my step! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, when I was heavily pregnant it was a boiling hot summers day this lass bounds up to me, like a crazy Labrador. Tells me I look lovely and she liked my dressed and I cried my eyes out.  |
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I've had lots of ladies tell me they love my hair, from teenagers to elderly ladies.
It's usually red or pink.
Though the best has to be the small child who pointed at me and shouted very loudly: 'Mummy, that lady's got pink hair!"
Mum was horrified. I thought it was funny.
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"Never. I have guys turn their heads but never say anything.
I have really bad resting bitch face though so ive been told its too intimidating
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Well I'd say you look fantastic; then stroll off for me Tesco run ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I sometimes go out dressed head to toe in black leather,one charity collector complimented me on how good I looked,perhaps he was just trying to get me to put some change in his tin. Another time a very sexy looking lady gave me a big smile as we passed in the street,I smiled back,unfortunately the man with her was a heavy built builder type so didn't try chatting to her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope, the only place I get compliments from strangers is the internet - and people wonder why I'm a cynic "
What she said.
I get really awkward with compliments anyway so it's just as well. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi guy's i'm new to the forums & just wanted to drop by for a perv before work "
Welcome to the forums
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Had the car horns going but never approached in public, probably wouldn't know even if they were, never been good like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was out shopping with the boyf once. He went into a jewellery shop and asked me to wait outside. I sat on a bench and some guy came over to me and said I have the most amazing figure he's ever seen and then asked for my number.
I was both flattered and a little embarrassed as there were people staring everywhere. He was a good sport though and I explained I was here with my boyfriend, and kudos for having gigantic balls ha ha!
He did hang around to see if the boyfriend was real too, he gave him a wink and we carried on with our day. Its always nice to feel attractive so I dont mind a compliment... as long as tge person giving is respectful and doesnt push too far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi guy's i'm new to the forums & just wanted to drop by for a perv before work
Welcome to the forums
Thank you x
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Had the car horns going but never approached in public, probably wouldn't know even if they were, never been good like that."
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actually i did once have a guy approach me at a party and he told me i was , from the back the sexiest girl there .. tho as it wasnt a street party i guess it doesnt really count but i thought I'd mention it .it made me feel great |
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