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Couples what sort of message do you like
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over a year ago
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Have sent lots of messages to couples some get a response but majority don't I'm never disrespectful or do the hi how are you I try and tailor each message to their profile no copy and paste messages. I don't think my profile is too bad and I've had several meets with single females but would like to start meeting cples so what sort of message gets your attention? |
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"Have sent lots of messages to couples some get a response but majority don't I'm never disrespectful or do the hi how are you I try and tailor each message to their profile no copy and paste messages. I don't think my profile is too bad and I've had several meets with single females but would like to start meeting cples so what sort of message gets your attention?"
People are unique individuals. You may send a message to one couple and they think it is great. You may send the same message to other couples and they think it is shit.
Tailor your message to whoever you are emailing.
Also lots of people have said before they open a message they look at the person's profile. If they don't like the profile the message gets deleted. |
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A message that shows that the sender has actually read our profile (which is a very small minority in our experience on here) is a very good start.
We couldn't begin to count the number of messages we just delete from people (mostly single guys) who obviously haven't. |
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"A message that shows that the sender has actually read our profile (which is a very small minority in our experience on here) is a very good start.
We couldn't begin to count the number of messages we just delete from people (mostly single guys) who obviously haven't."
We'd also add understood and ability to communicate accordingly. Very unfortunately simple but seems lost on the whole |
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We're not too bothered if the initial message is brief, it's the messages after that which are important to us.
When we receive a message we look at the profile and that's what we decide if we're going to reply. |
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"We're not too bothered if the initial message is brief, it's the messages after that which are important to us.
When we receive a message we look at the profile and that's what we decide if we're going to reply. "
Would my profile make you want to reply? |
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"We're not too bothered if the initial message is brief, it's the messages after that which are important to us.
When we receive a message we look at the profile and that's what we decide if we're going to reply.
Would my profile make you want to reply?"
If you leave aside the fact that our requirements don't match, yes yours is the type of profile we would reply. It's clear what you are offering and what you expect |
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"A message that shows that the sender has actually read our profile (which is a very small minority in our experience on here) is a very good start.
We couldn't begin to count the number of messages we just delete from people (mostly single guys) who obviously haven't."
I make you 100% right not bothered to read no reply!
Polite but still no chances get a reply but and I’ll happily chat!
Then there’s the “wanna fuck?” Messages how many of those work? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I never send the wanna fuck messages can't believe they actually work tbh but they must for some I try and tailor each message to the individual profile |
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"A message that shows that the sender has actually read our profile (which is a very small minority in our experience on here) is a very good start.
We couldn't begin to count the number of messages we just delete from people (mostly single guys) who obviously haven't."
same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We dont meet single guys anymore but when we did ones who actually chatted to mr badcherry and realised it was a 3 way thing always got a reply  "
Yes yes yes.....hate messages from guys that assume it's the woman only that will read it....manners to both halves if the couple are needed
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"A message that shows that the sender has actually read our profile (which is a very small minority in our experience on here) is a very good start.
We couldn't begin to count the number of messages we just delete from people (mostly single guys) who obviously haven't."
And who meets our needs. The amount of messages we get from people just trying their luck. It’s annoying  |
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"A message that shows that the sender has actually read our profile (which is a very small minority in our experience on here) is a very good start.
We couldn't begin to count the number of messages we just delete from people (mostly single guys) who obviously haven't."
^^exactly this. It states what we are looking for at the top of our profile but 90% of our messages are from straight guys.
We probably get the odd message only that is worthy of reply. Most are just deleted because there's either zero thought or they aren't what we are looking for and would have known that if they'd read the profile instead of just seeing a pic of one of us. |
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