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No verifications, no meet. No meet, no verifications.
So how does a guy get started? I appreciate straight white single men are 10 a penny on here and women and couples have a lot of guys to choose from. If that's just the way it us then I'll just have to be patient but I feel I'll be waiting a long time.  |
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over a year ago
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"No verifications, no meet. No meet, no verifications.
So how does a guy get started? I appreciate straight white single men are 10 a penny on here and women and couples have a lot of guys to choose from. If that's just the way it us then I'll just have to be patient but I feel I'll be waiting a long time. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials! Meet someone for coffee-another single white male with no verifications helps both of you prove you are genuine human beings. I think some people forget verifications aren't necessarily for people you've snagged. Also if you can attend a party at a local club you can get verified by the club as well as other party goers, e venue if you don't play when you are there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A member has to be verified - before they can verify anyone else.
To get your first verification, get known amongst the other members - use the Forums, the Chatrooms, Cam if you can - don't be obesssed with getting verified - you will only put folks off if they think they are only wanted for a verification.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No verifications, no meet. No meet, no verifications.
So how does a guy get started? I appreciate straight white single men are 10 a penny on here and women and couples have a lot of guys to choose from. If that's just the way it us then I'll just have to be patient but I feel I'll be waiting a long time. "
This is your header "Non predatory straight guy looking to jump down deep rabbit holes"
Let that sink in. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
Beyond the shadows. |
Personally I think some people put too much stock into verification's and a lot of new people fall into this trap. More often then not its not the lack of verification's that is holding someone back, as there are people out there willing to meet people with out Verification's. I spend a lot of my time on fab in chat room's and I've noticed that the one's that do well are the ones that have the funny banter and the ones that take time to cultivate some sort of rapport as apposed to the "get your tits out" insta gratification brigade. |
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"No verifications, no meet. No meet, no verifications.
So how does a guy get started? I appreciate straight white single men are 10 a penny on here and women and couples have a lot of guys to choose from. If that's just the way it us then I'll just have to be patient but I feel I'll be waiting a long time. This is your header "Non predatory straight guy looking to jump down deep rabbit holes"
Let that sink in."
+1 
Very off putting.
OP, you've only been here 2 weeks. Have patience. Most people are with family over the festive season.
Get out to organised socials. |
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"No verifications, no meet. No meet, no verifications.
So how does a guy get started? I appreciate straight white single men are 10 a penny on here and women and couples have a lot of guys to choose from. If that's just the way it us then I'll just have to be patient but I feel I'll be waiting a long time. This is your header "Non predatory straight guy looking to jump down deep rabbit holes"
Let that sink in."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion, your profile doesn't do you any favours!!
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I agree
Profiles can come across quite harsh at times. Words can mean different things to different people reading them.
Your profile to me - tells me you are arrogant and up yourself. I wouldn't meet you with ten Verifications. However to another woman. It may be a turn on ??
Perhaps re think your profile wording ? |
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. You've shot yourself in the foot there.