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Meet Now vs Planned Meets
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?"
I think there's a fine line between the 2. Leave it too long and the interest can wane as people will naturally look at others but I like to talk a bit first make sure there's at least similar interests |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?
Planned for me OP....it takes time to make this look meet worthy 
MrsK x"
Fantastic ink from an inked man x |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Meeting in a club is fine for spontaneous as in my head I've "planned" for it to an extent, if that makes sense - meeting through Fab most definitely planned and after spending some time chatting on here and building anticipation is my preference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?
Planned for me OP....it takes time to make this look meet worthy
MrsK x
Fantastic ink from an inked man x"
Cheers Jack  |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?
I think there's a fine line between the 2. Leave it too long and the interest can wane as people will naturally look at others but I like to talk a bit first make sure there's at least similar interests "
If you look up the phrase nail on the head. It would most likely refer you to this post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Much prefer planned. Have done a few 'instant' meets and all a bit too clinical. Fuck and go. It lacks the build up anticipation and pre meet excitement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Planned unless we happen to meet people by chance in a club.  "
Exactly how my Fab journey has been. That includes socials and private events. You just never know who you might bump into. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?
Planned for me OP....it takes time to make this look meet worthy
MrsK x"
Pfffffft oh please MrsK stop teasing. You know you look like that with minimal effort 
Talking about teasing...
Snow in the East Midlands was only brief this morning! I suppose that is a whole different topic. |
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We only ever do spontaneous now , there are so many reasons for this .
A planned meet requires all parties to be free on the arranged date and time , which is often impossible as we need to get sitters .
Something else may come up .
Illness .
And so on ......
When we are on our way out , sitter in place , we may put up a meet then and this works well for us . |
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"Planning is difficult for us due to family and takes military precision. That said looking forward to some planned meets coming up soon.
Ps do folks plan and meet or expect banter as a lead up?
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Planned meet today cancelled due to injury to other party planning didn't work again.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Planning is difficult for us due to family and takes military precision. That said looking forward to some planned meets coming up soon.
Ps do folks plan and meet or expect banter as a lead up?
Planned meet today cancelled due to injury to other party planning didn't work again. "
I hope you find somebody to cover him/her/them/they |
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"Planning is difficult for us due to family and takes military precision. That said looking forward to some planned meets coming up soon.
Ps do folks plan and meet or expect banter as a lead up?
Planned meet today cancelled due to injury to other party planning didn't work again.
I hope you find somebody to cover him/her/them/they "
Thanks. We're looking at plans. We still have a 50/50 and phone friends
B post a meet
C club
D stay in
Apologies for posting on someones thread. But got to laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Planning is difficult for us due to family and takes military precision. That said looking forward to some planned meets coming up soon.
Ps do folks plan and meet or expect banter as a lead up?
Planned meet today cancelled due to injury to other party planning didn't work again.
I hope you find somebody to cover him/her/them/they
Thanks. We're looking at plans. We still have a 50/50 and phone friends
B post a meet
C club
D stay in
Apologies for posting on someones thread. But got to laugh. "
I’ve analysed your pictures and can confirm that you will definitely get a meet today |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last minute meets can be good especially if you find yourself at a loose end.
Our last meet was arranged for 3hrs later, which gives just about enough time to fill the wrinkles with polyfilla etc |
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By *itnkatCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you like a spontaneous meet or like to take your time and plan it properly?
I think there's a fine line between the 2. Leave it too long and the interest can wane as people will naturally look at others but I like to talk a bit first make sure there's at least similar interests "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only so spontaneous meets, our free time alters so quickly with work kids and other activities we do, that we could plan for a month in the future and 3 days before it could all change, and we don't like to mess people about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We prefer planned, but sometimes the horn just strikes and we meet a local right away.
As for clubs, constant horn so why not, roll on February so we can go back to Chameleons.
Got to live life to the max  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my biggest dislikes of this site. People thinking you can pop round at 1 in the morning and they live 50 miles away.. Then get mad at you when you say sorry... |
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