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Anyone else fed up with the lack of effort?
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Profiles with no public pics or sometimes no pics at all, "fill in later" in the text bit, messages that are little more than "hi" and sometimes not even more than that.
Then...they complain they get no meets!!
MAKE AN EFFORT
I have lots of (I hope) enticing pics, informative friendly text on my profile. I don't expect to be for everyone, nor that I fancy everyone who fancies me but honestly is it just me? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
To be honest I just tend to ignore profiles that have no effort attached to them and concentrate on the ones that do, and that interest me.
Kind of figure it's their loss if they've not bothered to put some effort in, and not my concern  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"To be honest I just tend to ignore profiles that have no effort attached to them and concentrate on the ones that do, and that interest me.
Kind of figure it's their loss if they've not bothered to put some effort in, and not my concern "
Funny.... I'm always being told it's my loss |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"Profiles with no public pics or sometimes no pics at all, "fill in later" in the text bit, messages that are little more than "hi" and sometimes not even more than that.
Then...they complain they get no meets!!
MAKE AN EFFORT
I have lots of (I hope) enticing pics, informative friendly text on my profile. I don't expect to be for everyone, nor that I fancy everyone who fancies me but honestly is it just me? "
Reciprocity is a rather odd concept. |
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Why is it odd to expect people to make an effort? I don't necessarily expect reciprocity but certainly more than 1 poor pic and "fill in later" and "hi" it's just so lazy and actually I think a little arrogant to think that they're so great that's all it takes.
Not learning from their errors either by the looks of things as many have no veris either. |
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over a year ago
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"Profiles with no public pics or sometimes no pics at all, "fill in later" in the text bit, messages that are little more than "hi" and sometimes not even more than that.
Then...they complain they get no meets!!
MAKE AN EFFORT
I have lots of (I hope) enticing pics, informative friendly text on my profile. I don't expect to be for everyone, nor that I fancy everyone who fancies me but honestly is it just me? "
fill in the later? Really that is lazy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure what else to put on a profile tbh other than the fact I'm looking for a FWB who's up for a laugh and some regular socials/meets.
I honestly don't have a long list of requirements (minimum 8" cock etc) and don't have any particular kinks that make me stand out from the average guy on here.
As for sending messages I kind of gave up after the first month on here as I got fuck all in the way of responses and I tried humour, cheeky flirting etc but found most of the messages were deleted without reading.
I've tried face pics, non face pics, body pics... none of which have worked and I'd say I'm an average looking guy... certainly no uglier than some of the chaps that seemed to have some success on here! 
I've now resorted to a profile pic of my fat arse and one private face pic if I ever get a request. I guess that probably puts me well and truly in the "not made much of an effort" bracket!  |
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The no pic issue doesn't bother me as long as I'm sent one in private after a few messages and I'm not being hounded to send more. It doesn't take long to fill in profile text though does it? A littlw bit about yourself and a bit of personality is far more enticing than nothing. |
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"The no pic issue doesn't bother me as long as I'm sent one in private after a few messages and I'm not being hounded to send more. It doesn't take long to fill in profile text though does it? A littlw bit about yourself and a bit of personality is far more enticing than nothing. "
Exactly! Show some personality!
Or else why would you expect a response?
I also tend to get annoyed with "how you finding fab" or "had much luck on here" when if they've read my profile and seen my veris they'd have a fair idea already, pointless unimaginative questions. |
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"The no pic issue doesn't bother me as long as I'm sent one in private after a few messages and I'm not being hounded to send more. It doesn't take long to fill in profile text though does it? A littlw bit about yourself and a bit of personality is far more enticing than nothing.
Exactly! Show some personality!
Or else why would you expect a response?
I also tend to get annoyed with "how you finding fab" or "had much luck on here" when if they've read my profile and seen my veris they'd have a fair idea already, pointless unimaginative questions. "
HA!!! I still prefer, 'how are you finding fab' to 'can I buy your dirty socks?' That was a conversation starter!  |
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"Profiles with no public pics or sometimes no pics at all, "fill in later" in the text bit, messages that are little more than "hi" and sometimes not even more than that.
Then...they complain they get no meets!!
MAKE AN EFFORT
I have lots of (I hope) enticing pics, informative friendly text on my profile. I don't expect to be for everyone, nor that I fancy everyone who fancies me but honestly is it just me? "
We don't get fed up, we use the block button very often.
Fill in later. Block.
TV. Block.
Not looking for our age. Block.
Rant profile. Block.
Etc... Block. |
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"To be honest I just tend to ignore profiles that have no effort attached to them and concentrate on the ones that do, and that interest me.
Kind of figure it's their loss if they've not bothered to put some effort in, and not my concern "
Yup, this, or if they clearly cannot be bothered to read mine. Quelle domage!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???"
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking. "
You’ve updated yours lol I’ll give you a shout out hahah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking. "
We are all attention seekers on fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest I just tend to ignore profiles that have no effort attached to them and concentrate on the ones that do, and that interest me.
Kind of figure it's their loss if they've not bothered to put some effort in, and not my concern
Yup, this, or if they clearly cannot be bothered to read mine. Quelle domage! "
Lol need to add txt to my profile 
Why did someone not tell me this 11 years ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab "
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference. |
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference. "
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. |
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. "
like putting their bum on say?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??"
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??"
Yes haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... "
Hahaha. Good. It's too late at night for an argument. I'm too old and knackered |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... "
I like the bum personaly lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... "
if you're part of the in crowd you're in if you're not you're not ,we can't all fit in |
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now...
I like the bum personaly lol "
The lack of female attention already making you "FAB Bi" eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... if you're part of the in crowd you're in if you're not you're not ,we can't all fit in "
*Sighs*
It's fairly clique free tho this thread...  |
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... if you're part of the in crowd you're in if you're not you're not ,we can't all fit in
*Sighs*
It's fairly clique free tho this thread... "
time of day maybe |
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... if you're part of the in crowd you're in if you're not you're not ,we can't all fit in
*Sighs*
It's fairly clique free tho this thread... time of day maybe "
I prefer this time on the forum. People are far more chilled and fun |
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"Nope. They make it easy for me to ignore/ block. It's the sly buggers that pretend to make an effort that bug me "
Exactly this. Frustrating to start well with two messages or so, then devolve into soulless text speak or demands for what I should do... |
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... if you're part of the in crowd you're in if you're not you're not ,we can't all fit in
*Sighs*
It's fairly clique free tho this thread... time of day maybe
I prefer this time on the forum. People are far more chilled and fun "
I'm always fun ,I wake up with a smile and my eyes close with one x |
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... if you're part of the in crowd you're in if you're not you're not ,we can't all fit in
*Sighs*
It's fairly clique free tho this thread... time of day maybe
I prefer this time on the forum. People are far more chilled and fun I'm always fun ,I wake up with a smile and my eyes close with one x "
I bet you were sitting there, crying in your lager as you were typing that.... |
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... if you're part of the in crowd you're in if you're not you're not ,we can't all fit in
*Sighs*
It's fairly clique free tho this thread... time of day maybe
I prefer this time on the forum. People are far more chilled and fun I'm always fun ,I wake up with a smile and my eyes close with one x
I bet you were sitting there, crying in your lager as you were typing that.... "
Guinness please x |
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... if you're part of the in crowd you're in if you're not you're not ,we can't all fit in
*Sighs*
It's fairly clique free tho this thread... time of day maybe
I prefer this time on the forum. People are far more chilled and fun I'm always fun ,I wake up with a smile and my eyes close with one x "
I masturbate twice a day too! |
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"I just literally amended mine two sentences was lazy but I didn’t wanna dribble on...is it any good now??? Too long or short???
Mate you've already got one thread... 2 is majorly attention seeking.
We are all attention seekers on fab
I disagree. Some on here come on for general discussion and try and be selective about posting. A select few post on anything and everything and crave the attention. Big difference.
If you have a profile on here then I'm guessing you want people to look at it. There are varying degrees of attention seeking. Some only want a little attention, some want a lot. But I don't believe anyone is on here because they don't want to be noticed. Even those that hide their profiles talk to some, so expect a little attention off those they get on with. like putting their bum on say??
That's only cos it's better than my face.
Sorry, was more about some of the narcissists who post on here and was gonna go off on a rant again. I've wound the neck back in now... if you're part of the in crowd you're in if you're not you're not ,we can't all fit in
*Sighs*
It's fairly clique free tho this thread... time of day maybe
I prefer this time on the forum. People are far more chilled and fun I'm always fun ,I wake up with a smile and my eyes close with one x
I masturbate twice a day too! "
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Don't forget 'man looking for women ' or the ever cheesy 'here for a good time not a long no time'
I'm not going to get on my soap box about text speak or misused apostrophes, particularly in 'lady's' etc. Just not difficult. When will men realise you need to read profiles, if you're contacting the wrong people you won't get any results. It's like going to b&q and asking for bread and milk if not, you won't get what you want. |
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"Don't forget 'man looking for women ' or the ever cheesy 'here for a good time not a long no time'
I'm not going to get on my soap box about text speak or misused apostrophes, particularly in 'lady's' etc. Just not difficult. When will men realise you need to read profiles, if you're contacting the wrong people you won't get any results. It's like going to b&q and asking for bread and milk if not, you won't get what you want. "
Ok that profile is a piss-take right?!?! 
Even scan reading it made my eyes bleed!!!
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"Don't forget 'man looking for women ' or the ever cheesy 'here for a good time not a long no time'
I'm not going to get on my soap box about text speak or misused apostrophes, particularly in 'lady's' etc. Just not difficult. When will men realise you need to read profiles, if you're contacting the wrong people you won't get any results. It's like going to b&q and asking for bread and milk if not, you won't get what you want. "
but how many people are exactly how it reads on the tin not many |
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