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Is there any lesbian on here who has a story of how other girls hit on them so many times that they eventually gave in and became lesbians?
Are there any straight ladies on here who can say that they used to be lesbians and got hit on by so many guys that they eventually became straight?
Is there any homosexual male here who can tell me he used to be straight but got hit on so many times by guys that he decided to give up pussy altogether?
I am asking all these questions because there seems to be an air of LIVE LIKE ME OR I WONT LET YOU LIVE. LIVE LIKE ME OR YOU ARE NOT OPEN MINDED.
Do women get other women trying to convert them? I believe in leaving people to do what they want but not forcing other people to do same. This is becoming an issue gradually and unless there is protection for all, this benign thing is gradually snowballing into something that we cannot manage.
Students are being dismissed.
Medical professionals are losing their jobs. One part of society can stand on top of the mountains and proclaim (sexuality) and every commentary on the matter has to be hush hush or else....
On the other hand, if you as much as make a bit of noise on the alternative, then you are unfeeling, close minded, backward, uncivilised.
In Short, I am a heterosexual male and therefore seek out only heterosexual females. By extension, I guess lesbians seek out heterosexual women. U can still venture that bisexual females seek out bisexual men, heterosexual men, and (bi) women. The logic so far points to the fact the bisexual men will seek out other bi and homosexual men, and women ( bi or heterosexual)
The permutation of who seeks out who is not the point here. The worry here is that society is making it acceptable for one aspect of the debate to talk and walk with their chests out while the other side of the debate is being discussed only in the backstreets.
I hang my g string on the line at the bus stop and you have to duck underneath to get on the bus but you dare not hang your granny panties on the same line.
I sense something brewing up.
There is no way of knowing that the bus driver is gay straight bi or whatever and that is the way it should be. If on the other hand, he/she/etc had an LGBTQ wrist band on, is that acceptable? If he/she/tee has on a wristband that says STRAIGHT, is that acceptable?
Should they both be fired? If on the other hand, I have Noway of knowing the sexual preference or orientation of my local Gp/ bus driver/ social worker/ then conducting " business" with them will be so much professional and devoid of all the ooos and aaaahs that could be brought in.
Am I living in cuckoo land? |
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"I'm sorry don't really understand what your post is about.
I think he asked out a lesbian and she got annoyed by it
Thanks for clarification xx"
I'm only 30% confident in that answer. First i thought he was complaining about guys messaging him for gay sex but then i got completely lost about doctors losing their jobs over it. |
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Is this kind of like the all lives matter thing?!
Or the 'why is it OK to say you're looking g for black cock big mot White cock?' thing?
Essentially complaining about people being comfortable enough to show that they are LBGTQ because people don't go about saying they are straight or feel they can't. |
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over a year ago
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It would appear that you’re very concise and well constructed question(s) on here have met with the usual bewilderment when someone has an in anywhere near above average.
Let’s all go back to talking about tits, bums and cocks and football.
Or pretend we all like “curvy” women for the onbviou but cringeworthy reason. |
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"It would appear that you’re very concise and well constructed question(s) on here have met with the usual bewilderment when someone has an in anywhere near above average.
Let’s all go back to talking about tits, bums and cocks and football.
Or pretend we all like “curvy” women for the onbviou but cringeworthy reason."
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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Op I think you’re living about 3 decades ago, in this day and age it’s acceptable to be any sexual orientation, you’re talking about people being fired in certain professions because they’re bi or anything else when in fact that’s now illegal, also who cares wether your bus driver or mp is straight or gay? Is that seriously something you’d consider when getting on a bus? I can genuinely say I don’t, I may think he/she is nice and a giggle but that’s about as far as it goes, no one cares what anyone else is anymore and ffs no one can be changed by being hit on enough, I was born bi and that can’t be changed wether I want it to or not, peer pressure wouldn’t change that either and oddly enough I’m happy to be bi |
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Well I had the hots for this well cool cafe owner blokey. I told my friend and she said he is gay, I was a bit peeved. Standing behind him in the queue in a shop I felt very sexually attracted to him though. He's well hot. I wouldn't try to convert him though. XXX |
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Growing up I Truely believed I was 100% lesbian had girlfriends etc etc.... then 11 years ago I met a guy don’t really know what happened  and it messed with my head for a long time the fact I was attracted to him and he became a really good friend of mine, now he has been my mr fb for nearly ten years, and I wouldn’t change a thing turns out I was obviously bi and not lesbian as my profile states he is the only guy I’ve let actually fuck me! I know like to suck guys off and my next step is taking it further for mmf..... so yes in my eyes lesbians can be bi without even knowing it like myself |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there any lesbian on here who has a story of how other girls hit on them so many times that they eventually gave in and became lesbians?
Are there any straight ladies on here who can say that they used to be lesbians and got hit on by so many guys that they eventually became straight?
Is there any homosexual male here who can tell me he used to be straight but got hit on so many times by guys that he decided to give up pussy altogether?
I am asking all these questions because there seems to be an air of LIVE LIKE ME OR I WONT LET YOU LIVE. LIVE LIKE ME OR YOU ARE NOT OPEN MINDED.
Do women get other women trying to convert them? I believe in leaving people to do what they want but not forcing other people to do same. This is becoming an issue gradually and unless there is protection for all, this benign thing is gradually snowballing into something that we cannot manage.
Students are being dismissed.
Medical professionals are losing their jobs. One part of society can stand on top of the mountains and proclaim (sexuality) and every commentary on the matter has to be hush hush or else....
On the other hand, if you as much as make a bit of noise on the alternative, then you are unfeeling, close minded, backward, uncivilised.
In Short, I am a heterosexual male and therefore seek out only heterosexual females. By extension, I guess lesbians seek out heterosexual women. U can still venture that bisexual females seek out bisexual men, heterosexual men, and (bi) women. The logic so far points to the fact the bisexual men will seek out other bi and homosexual men, and women ( bi or heterosexual)
The permutation of who seeks out who is not the point here. The worry here is that society is making it acceptable for one aspect of the debate to talk and walk with their chests out while the other side of the debate is being discussed only in the backstreets.
I hang my g string on the line at the bus stop and you have to duck underneath to get on the bus but you dare not hang your granny panties on the same line.
I sense something brewing up.
There is no way of knowing that the bus driver is gay straight bi or whatever and that is the way it should be. If on the other hand, he/she/etc had an LGBTQ wrist band on, is that acceptable? If he/she/tee has on a wristband that says STRAIGHT, is that acceptable?
Should they both be fired? If on the other hand, I have Noway of knowing the sexual preference or orientation of my local Gp/ bus driver/ social worker/ then conducting " business" with them will be so much professional and devoid of all the ooos and aaaahs that could be brought in.
Am I living in cuckoo land?"
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"Op I think you’re living about 3 decades ago, in this day and age it’s acceptable to be any sexual orientation, you’re talking about people being fired in certain professions because they’re bi or anything else when in fact that’s now illegal, also who cares wether your bus driver or mp is straight or gay? Is that seriously something you’d consider when getting on a bus? I can genuinely say I don’t, I may think he/she is nice and a giggle but that’s about as far as it goes, no one cares what anyone else is anymore and ffs no one can be changed by being hit on enough, I was born bi and that can’t be changed wether I want it to or not, peer pressure wouldn’t change that either and oddly enough I’m happy to be bi "
Thanks for chipping in but just that you know, we all can see u misunderstood the post. Or you just chose to interpret it your own way. |
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"Is there any lesbian on here who has a story of how other girls hit on them so many times that they eventually gave in and became lesbians?
Are there any straight ladies on here who can say that they used to be lesbians and got hit on by so many guys that they eventually became straight?
Is there any homosexual male here who can tell me he used to be straight but got hit on so many times by guys that he decided to give up pussy altogether?
I am asking all these questions because there seems to be an air of LIVE LIKE ME OR I WONT LET YOU LIVE. LIVE LIKE ME OR YOU ARE NOT OPEN MINDED.
Do women get other women trying to convert them? I believe in leaving people to do what they want but not forcing other people to do same. This is becoming an issue gradually and unless there is protection for all, this benign thing is gradually snowballing into something that we cannot manage.
Students are being dismissed.
Medical professionals are losing their jobs. One part of society can stand on top of the mountains and proclaim (sexuality) and every commentary on the matter has to be hush hush or else....
On the other hand, if you as much as make a bit of noise on the alternative, then you are unfeeling, close minded, backward, uncivilised.
In Short, I am a heterosexual male and therefore seek out only heterosexual females. By extension, I guess lesbians seek out heterosexual women. U can still venture that bisexual females seek out bisexual men, heterosexual men, and (bi) women. The logic so far points to the fact the bisexual men will seek out other bi and homosexual men, and women ( bi or heterosexual)
The permutation of who seeks out who is not the point here. The worry here is that society is making it acceptable for one aspect of the debate to talk and walk with their chests out while the other side of the debate is being discussed only in the backstreets.
I hang my g string on the line at the bus stop and you have to duck underneath to get on the bus but you dare not hang your granny panties on the same line.
I sense something brewing up.
There is no way of knowing that the bus driver is gay straight bi or whatever and that is the way it should be. If on the other hand, he/she/etc had an LGBTQ wrist band on, is that acceptable? If he/she/tee has on a wristband that says STRAIGHT, is that acceptable?
Should they both be fired? If on the other hand, I have Noway of knowing the sexual preference or orientation of my local Gp/ bus driver/ social worker/ then conducting " business" with them will be so much professional and devoid of all the ooos and aaaahs that could be brought in.
Am I living in cuckoo land?"
Your intellect is above many on here.
The youth is different today and follow the crowd, especially this business on gay rights and sexuality. We've never been hit on by same sex people when swinging, everyone has followed everyone's wishes.
Mr Littlesox is str8 and whilst in a 69 with a woman, a guy sucked his cock. Afterwards when I told him, he didn't mind, wasn't bothered, didn't/won't convert him but if a guy asked him, he would decline.
I think you need to choose a psychology forum for this question, it's way beyond most on here, lol. |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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Your intellect is above many on here.
The youth is different today and follow the crowd, especially this business on gay rights and sexuality. We've never been hit on by same sex people when swinging, everyone has followed everyone's wishes.
Mr Littlesox is str8 and whilst in a 69 with a woman, a guy sucked his cock. Afterwards when I told him, he didn't mind, wasn't bothered, didn't/won't convert him but if a guy asked him, he would decline.
I think you need to choose a psychology forum for this question, it's way beyond most on here, lol."
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Your intellect is above many on here.
The youth is different today and follow the crowd, especially this business on gay rights and sexuality. We've never been hit on by same sex people when swinging, everyone has followed everyone's wishes.
Mr Littlesox is str8 and whilst in a 69 with a woman, a guy sucked his cock. Afterwards when I told him, he didn't mind, wasn't bothered, didn't/won't convert him but if a guy asked him, he would decline.
I think you need to choose a psychology forum for this question, it's way beyond most on here, lol.
I always feel like sarcasm doesn't come across well on the internet."
It's not supposed to be sarcastic, it's fact. Just because you're offended, it doesn't mean you're right!! |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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Your intellect is above many on here.
The youth is different today and follow the crowd, especially this business on gay rights and sexuality. We've never been hit on by same sex people when swinging, everyone has followed everyone's wishes.
Mr Littlesox is str8 and whilst in a 69 with a woman, a guy sucked his cock. Afterwards when I told him, he didn't mind, wasn't bothered, didn't/won't convert him but if a guy asked him, he would decline.
I think you need to choose a psychology forum for this question, it's way beyond most on here, lol.
I always feel like sarcasm doesn't come across well on the internet.
It's not supposed to be sarcastic, it's fact. Just because you're offended, it doesn't mean you're right!!"
I'm not offended.
Well, only a little bit by some of the utter stupidity exhibited on this thread. |
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Your intellect is above many on here.
The youth is different today and follow the crowd, especially this business on gay rights and sexuality. We've never been hit on by same sex people when swinging, everyone has followed everyone's wishes.
Mr Littlesox is str8 and whilst in a 69 with a woman, a guy sucked his cock. Afterwards when I told him, he didn't mind, wasn't bothered, didn't/won't convert him but if a guy asked him, he would decline.
I think you need to choose a psychology forum for this question, it's way beyond most on here, lol.
I always feel like sarcasm doesn't come across well on the internet.
It's not supposed to be sarcastic, it's fact. Just because you're offended, it doesn't mean you're right!!
I'm not offended.
Well, only a little bit by some of the utter stupidity exhibited on this thread."
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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Your intellect is above many on here.
The youth is different today and follow the crowd, especially this business on gay rights and sexuality. We've never been hit on by same sex people when swinging, everyone has followed everyone's wishes.
Mr Littlesox is str8 and whilst in a 69 with a woman, a guy sucked his cock. Afterwards when I told him, he didn't mind, wasn't bothered, didn't/won't convert him but if a guy asked him, he would decline.
I think you need to choose a psychology forum for this question, it's way beyond most on here, lol.
I always feel like sarcasm doesn't come across well on the internet.
It's not supposed to be sarcastic, it's fact. Just because you're offended, it doesn't mean you're right!!
I'm not offended.
Well, only a little bit by some of the utter stupidity exhibited on this thread.
Don't worry if it's beyond you."
Trust me. It's not.
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I may be wrong, but I think the main thrust of the OP's question was, are we going too much towards appeasement of those who choose an alternative lifestyle, in that they can "shout it from the rooftops", but if anyone is of a mind to dissent, they get castigated for it.
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Life has a funny way of showing you up. You see: when you bend over trying to peek into your neighbor's backside, the fella behind you does not need to bend at all. Easy. That's a Chinese saying by the way.
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"Is there any lesbian on here who has a story of how other girls hit on them so many times that they eventually gave in and became lesbians?
Are there any straight ladies on here who can say that they used to be lesbians and got hit on by so many guys that they eventually became straight?
Is there any homosexual male here who can tell me he used to be straight but got hit on so many times by guys that he decided to give up pussy altogether?
I am asking all these questions because there seems to be an air of LIVE LIKE ME OR I WONT LET YOU LIVE. LIVE LIKE ME OR YOU ARE NOT OPEN MINDED.
Do women get other women trying to convert them? I believe in leaving people to do what they want but not forcing other people to do same. This is becoming an issue gradually and unless there is protection for all, this benign thing is gradually snowballing into something that we cannot manage.
Students are being dismissed.
Medical professionals are losing their jobs. One part of society can stand on top of the mountains and proclaim (sexuality) and every commentary on the matter has to be hush hush or else....
On the other hand, if you as much as make a bit of noise on the alternative, then you are unfeeling, close minded, backward, uncivilised.
In Short, I am a heterosexual male and therefore seek out only heterosexual females. By extension, I guess lesbians seek out heterosexual women. U can still venture that bisexual females seek out bisexual men, heterosexual men, and (bi) women. The logic so far points to the fact the bisexual men will seek out other bi and homosexual men, and women ( bi or heterosexual)
The permutation of who seeks out who is not the point here. The worry here is that society is making it acceptable for one aspect of the debate to talk and walk with their chests out while the other side of the debate is being discussed only in the backstreets.
I hang my g string on the line at the bus stop and you have to duck underneath to get on the bus but you dare not hang your granny panties on the same line.
I sense something brewing up.
There is no way of knowing that the bus driver is gay straight bi or whatever and that is the way it should be. If on the other hand, he/she/etc had an LGBTQ wrist band on, is that acceptable? If he/she/tee has on a wristband that says STRAIGHT, is that acceptable?
Should they both be fired? If on the other hand, I have Noway of knowing the sexual preference or orientation of my local Gp/ bus driver/ social worker/ then conducting " business" with them will be so much professional and devoid of all the ooos and aaaahs that could be brought in.
Am I living in cuckoo land?"
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"Is there any lesbian on here who has a story of how other girls hit on them so many times that they eventually gave in and became lesbians?
Are there any straight ladies on here who can say that they used to be lesbians and got hit on by so many guys that they eventually became straight?
Is there any homosexual male here who can tell me he used to be straight but got hit on so many times by guys that he decided to give up pussy altogether?
I am asking all these questions because there seems to be an air of LIVE LIKE ME OR I WONT LET YOU LIVE. LIVE LIKE ME OR YOU ARE NOT OPEN MINDED.
Do women get other women trying to convert them? I believe in leaving people to do what they want but not forcing other people to do same. This is becoming an issue gradually and unless there is protection for all, this benign thing is gradually snowballing into something that we cannot manage.
Students are being dismissed.
Medical professionals are losing their jobs. One part of society can stand on top of the mountains and proclaim (sexuality) and every commentary on the matter has to be hush hush or else....
On the other hand, if you as much as make a bit of noise on the alternative, then you are unfeeling, close minded, backward, uncivilised.
In Short, I am a heterosexual male and therefore seek out only heterosexual females. By extension, I guess lesbians seek out heterosexual women. U can still venture that bisexual females seek out bisexual men, heterosexual men, and (bi) women. The logic so far points to the fact the bisexual men will seek out other bi and homosexual men, and women ( bi or heterosexual)
The permutation of who seeks out who is not the point here. The worry here is that society is making it acceptable for one aspect of the debate to talk and walk with their chests out while the other side of the debate is being discussed only in the backstreets.
I hang my g string on the line at the bus stop and you have to duck underneath to get on the bus but you dare not hang your granny panties on the same line.
I sense something brewing up.
There is no way of knowing that the bus driver is gay straight bi or whatever and that is the way it should be. If on the other hand, he/she/etc had an LGBTQ wrist band on, is that acceptable? If he/she/tee has on a wristband that says STRAIGHT, is that acceptable?
Should they both be fired? If on the other hand, I have Noway of knowing the sexual preference or orientation of my local Gp/ bus driver/ social worker/ then conducting " business" with them will be so much professional and devoid of all the ooos and aaaahs that could be brought in.
Am I living in cuckoo land?"
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"I may be wrong, but I think the main thrust of the OP's question was, are we going too much towards appeasement of those who choose an alternative lifestyle, in that they can "shout it from the rooftops", but if anyone is of a mind to dissent, they get castigated for it.
Maybe? "
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I think it's definitely cuckoo land op.
Preference is just that and no one is forced to do anything that they don't want to do. Anything else is wrong, in any direction. I feel like I've entered a time warp and been thrown back 100 years.
The natural force is to let consenting adults live as they wish. Accepting others opens no floodgates that converts the rest of society, due to wristband pressure |
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Nobody 'chooses' their sexual orientation... If the OP is pissed off because another man has approached him, then he needs to change his filters. If he's pissed off because he approached a woman who rejected his advances then there's plenty of other women on here to choose from.
If appeasement is not victimising someone for being different then I'm all for appeasement. But someone living their lives to the fullest openly without hurting anybody else is nobody's business. Just be a decent person.
But if we're to say that people should keep it to themselves that they're gay at work to be professional then maybe others shouldn't talk about their husbands and wives at work either and keep everything you know- strictly professional. Obviously I don't feel this way because it's frankly ridiculous. People are allowed opposing views but we're also allowed to challenge those views.
Homophobes have had a few of decades of having to 'appease' gay/bi people while in some countries you can still be murdered and imprisoned for being so. Have your views but tolerance of intolerance is the end of tolerance and it should always be challenged. In my opinion  |
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Also- everybody has the right to say no to someone's advances whether they come from a gay/bi/straight man or woman. It isn't just gay people who don't take no for an answer. The forums are full of straight women who have complained about being harrassed by straight men. Sexual attraction doesn't just come down to the sex you're attracted to or we'd all be in trouble. |
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"Also- everybody has the right to say no to someone's advances whether they come from a gay/bi/straight man or woman. It isn't just gay people who don't take no for an answer. The forums are full of straight women who have complained about being harrassed by straight men. Sexual attraction doesn't just come down to the sex you're attracted to or we'd all be in trouble. "
On one hand, I completely agree. I mean, I've been knocked back more time than I can remember. But on the other hand, if a profile on here says "I'm straight, not interested in men" and they chose to ignore that and contact you anyway, it can get a little boresome.
However! That's why the admin created message filters. So, block those you don't want to hear from. It's about 7 clicks, if you're lazy. |
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"Is there any lesbian on here who has a story of how other girls hit on them so many times that they eventually gave in and became lesbians?
Are there any straight ladies on here who can say that they used to be lesbians and got hit on by so many guys that they eventually became straight?
Is there any homosexual male here who can tell me he used to be straight but got hit on so many times by guys that he decided to give up pussy altogether?
I am asking all these questions because there seems to be an air of LIVE LIKE ME OR I WONT LET YOU LIVE. LIVE LIKE ME OR YOU ARE NOT OPEN MINDED.
Do women get other women trying to convert them? I believe in leaving people to do what they want but not forcing other people to do same. This is becoming an issue gradually and unless there is protection for all, this benign thing is gradually snowballing into something that we cannot manage.
Students are being dismissed.
Medical professionals are losing their jobs. One part of society can stand on top of the mountains and proclaim (sexuality) and every commentary on the matter has to be hush hush or else....
On the other hand, if you as much as make a bit of noise on the alternative, then you are unfeeling, close minded, backward, uncivilised.
In Short, I am a heterosexual male and therefore seek out only heterosexual females. By extension, I guess lesbians seek out heterosexual women. U can still venture that bisexual females seek out bisexual men, heterosexual men, and (bi) women. The logic so far points to the fact the bisexual men will seek out other bi and homosexual men, and women ( bi or heterosexual)
The permutation of who seeks out who is not the point here. The worry here is that society is making it acceptable for one aspect of the debate to talk and walk with their chests out while the other side of the debate is being discussed only in the backstreets.
I hang my g string on the line at the bus stop and you have to duck underneath to get on the bus but you dare not hang your granny panties on the same line.
I sense something brewing up.
There is no way of knowing that the bus driver is gay straight bi or whatever and that is the way it should be. If on the other hand, he/she/etc had an LGBTQ wrist band on, is that acceptable? If he/she/tee has on a wristband that says STRAIGHT, is that acceptable?
Should they both be fired? If on the other hand, I have Noway of knowing the sexual preference or orientation of my local Gp/ bus driver/ social worker/ then conducting " business" with them will be so much professional and devoid of all the ooos and aaaahs that could be brought in.
Am I living in cuckoo land?"
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"Also- everybody has the right to say no to someone's advances whether they come from a gay/bi/straight man or woman. It isn't just gay people who don't take no for an answer. The forums are full of straight women who have complained about being harrassed by straight men. Sexual attraction doesn't just come down to the sex you're attracted to or we'd all be in trouble.
On one hand, I completely agree. I mean, I've been knocked back more time than I can remember. But on the other hand, if a profile on here says "I'm straight, not interested in men" and they chose to ignore that and contact you anyway, it can get a little boresome.
However! That's why the admin created message filters. So, block those you don't want to hear from. It's about 7 clicks, if you're lazy. "
Absolutely, 100% and this is the thing. Obviously I'm not saying that people should constantly hound others even after a polite no, or like you say, it states on the person's profile that they aren't interested in men and people keep trying anyway but my main point is that harrassment can come in various forms. A local girl had a status on a few weeks ago about a man who went to the trouble of having five profiles, all of various ages and preferences- two of which he'd paid for! She had to knock back every profile and block him to stop him contacting her. I go out with lesbian friends who won't even hold hands or show affection to each other in straight bars because immediately some straight lads will make comments or make inappropriate comments about taking them both home as if they're only there to serve their wants and needs... even in jest there is a more worrying angle to think about with this.
With my profile, people often contact me to ask if I'll fuck them or if they can blow me despite what it says on my profile and when I say no the attitude changes or they ask why I won't do as they ask... and these messages often aren't from those who identify on their profile as gay or bi.
My biggest gripe with the OP is that he's asking if we're living in cloud cuckoo land by not allowing a certain narrative and it seems to be a narrative where people should still be allowed to say to others, 'I don't like your lifestyle so keep it to yourself please,' so that anybody who does identify as gay or bi should still go about their business quietly. The irony is that the less people have these attitudes the less push-back there'll be. I don't want to wear a wristband telling people who I sleep with at work, or seduce and convert all the straight men... though there's been a few I wouldn't have minded. Haha. I find it all a little bizarre too that his are views that are shared on a site where people are looking for sex.
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