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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Why the reluctance to do this if there's a chance of it leading to a longer term thing?
All I would like is..
Verified by meeting
25-45
Can accommodate
Local
This applies to singles and couples, both sexes.
Why so hard to meet on here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials are a good opportunity to see if there's compatibility, and more importantly, chemistry/ an attraction.
Socials work both ways, we've been to more than one and been told 'thanks, but no thanks' job done, saves future embarrassment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best to do a social in a local pub/bar. If you wish to progress, then you can go back to either parties house/hotel room, or, arrange another meet at a later date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always meet in costa or a local coffee shop and usually on my lunch hour. If they don't turn up or are not for me I've not wasted my time.
In reference to the OP I agree it's getting harder on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a social with a couple about 3 months ago. Was the best thing now we meet regularly not just for play meets ether. Also the female half meets them solo sometimes so has turned out to be a good thing. |
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From my experience on my single prof,I find if they won't do a social meet,they either cant be seen out with you ie attached
Or are too lazy to put any effort in and expect to comw straight over for fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had a social with a couple about 3 months ago. Was the best thing now we meet regularly not just for play meets ether. Also the female half meets them solo sometimes so has turned out to be a good thing. "
Impressive pair of.......Trophies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why the reluctance to do this if there's a chance of it leading to a longer term thing?
All I would like is..
Verified by meeting
25-45
Can accommodate
Local
This applies to singles and couples, both sexes.
Why so hard to meet on here?
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A social meet is a must to ascertain whether you are all compatible, then if all goes well and you get a fair wind who knows.
Nice to have chat over a coffee or a glass of wine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe they are attached or ashamed to meet A SWINGER *shriek!* in public.
Because a Swinger will talk loudly about sex and try to hump his leg. Filthy animals they are. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Well I'm looking for local and regular people I can accommodate but only when I know someone really well, but it seems they just want to come to mine for sex straight off lol, agreed, it's far nicer to have compatibility and trust there x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I'm looking for local and regular people I can accommodate but only when I know someone really well, but it seems they just want to come to mine for sex straight off lol, agreed, it's far nicer to have compatibility and trust there x"
Meh I can't be arsed with those types. They can meet someone else. I need a connection. I have a wank instead. |
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"Why the reluctance to do this if there's a chance of it leading to a longer term thing?
All I would like is..
Verified by meeting
25-45
Can accommodate
Local
This applies to singles and couples, both sexes.
Why so hard to meet on here?
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Do you not travel and maybe the lack of public pictures maybe a part?. It's all very long on here at times and if someone came across your profile and couldn't be bothered to ask for a public picture,then one of those could have potentially been your long term |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why the reluctance to do this if there's a chance of it leading to a longer term thing?
All I would like is..
Verified by meeting
25-45
Can accommodate
Local
This applies to singles and couples, both sexes.
Why so hard to meet on here?
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its not hard I'm meeting tomorrow  |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Why the reluctance to do this if there's a chance of it leading to a longer term thing?
All I would like is..
Verified by meeting
25-45
Can accommodate
Local
This applies to singles and couples, both sexes.
Why so hard to meet on here?
Do you not travel and maybe the lack of public pictures maybe a part?. It's all very long on here at times and if someone came across your profile and couldn't be bothered to ask for a public picture,then one of those could have potentially been your long term "
My avatar is regularly a face pic, I keep them for friends only as this site is full of pic collectors. I do travel but only locally to me as I drive in excess off 300 miles a week for work do I'm not willing to do it in my spare time either. I can accommodate as I live on my own but that takes trust and I certainly won't do that with random people of the Internet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Less choice in Cornwall?
Time is precious, so they would rather meet for a social then go on to play if all ok, rather than yet another day for the actual play? |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Less choice in Cornwall?
Time is precious, so they would rather meet for a social then go on to play if all ok, rather than yet another day for the actual play?"
I'm OK with that but they don't want the social part just play. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a meet tomorrow, I will definitely turn up, always do. If they don’t then hey ho. I am here to socialise and meet, whether publicly or in clubs. Not to um and ah and make excuses. Unfortunately Op I fall outside of 2 categories, age and distance. Saying that though the lady I am meeting tomorrow does live in Cornwall but spends a lot of time near me. If we do get on, I will definitely travel down to see her. If people make excuses to not meet lovely people like yourself Op, then that’s their loss.
Keep soldiering on...... |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I have a meet tomorrow, I will definitely turn up, always do. If they don’t then hey ho. I am here to socialise and meet, whether publicly or in clubs. Not to um and ah and make excuses. Unfortunately Op I fall outside of 2 categories, age and distance. Saying that though the lady I am meeting tomorrow does live in Cornwall but spends a lot of time near me. If we do get on, I will definitely travel down to see her. If people make excuses to not meet lovely people like yourself Op, then that’s their loss.
Keep soldiering on...... "
Thanks hun xxx |
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"From my experience on my single prof,I find if they won't do a social meet,they either cant be seen out with you ie attached
Or are too lazy to put any effort in and expect to comw straight over for fun.
Miss"
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"From my experience on my single prof,I find if they won't do a social meet,they either cant be seen out with you ie attached
Or are too lazy to put any effort in and expect to comw straight over for fun.
Miss
Basically this "
To be honest it's putting me off meeting anyone new. |
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"From my experience on my single prof,I find if they won't do a social meet,they either cant be seen out with you ie attached
Or are too lazy to put any effort in and expect to comw straight over for fun.
Miss
Basically this
To be honest it's putting me off meeting anyone new. "
It put me off meeting from this site years ago. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"From my experience on my single prof,I find if they won't do a social meet,they either cant be seen out with you ie attached
Or are too lazy to put any effort in and expect to comw straight over for fun.
Miss
Basically this
To be honest it's putting me off meeting anyone new.
It put me off meeting from this site years ago. "
Mainly still here for the forums lol x |
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"From my experience on my single prof,I find if they won't do a social meet,they either cant be seen out with you ie attached
Or are too lazy to put any effort in and expect to comw straight over for fun.
Miss
Basically this
To be honest it's putting me off meeting anyone new.
It put me off meeting from this site years ago.
Mainly still here for the forums lol x"
Yeh me too and to see whats going on in clubs. In fact I wouldn't meet men off here at all now. Easier to just pull on a night out. Genuine ladies and hot couples are ok tho. |
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