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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been a swinger for about 14 years , I’m happily married and my wife is also a swinger , we are a couple and also play as singles , for the time being I’m playing alone as my wife is very busy with home life , she is fully aware
If you are married and your partner is unaware of your sexual activities , this make you a cheat , not a swinger , real swingers are people that want sexual fun , parties etc without any other person getting hurt .
Food for thought before you meet singles , most will be married cheats
Happy Christmas you filthy animals xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In other news:
Vatican confirms the Pope is Catholic.
Rare footage found of a Bear shitting in the woods.
Did he use the rabbit to wipe?  "
Apparently so |
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"In other news:
Vatican confirms the Pope is Catholic.
Rare footage found of a Bear shitting in the woods."
"Thanks Tom, now back to our studio to find out if the sun rose today and a debate on whether death and taxes are still prevalent in our society." |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a swinger for about 14 years , I’m happily married and my wife is also a swinger , we are a couple and also play as singles , for the time being I’m playing alone as my wife is very busy with home life , she is fully aware
If you are married and your partner is unaware of your sexual activities , this make you a cheat , not a swinger , real swingers are people that want sexual fun , parties etc without any other person getting hurt .
Food for thought before you meet singles , most will be married cheats
Happy Christmas you filthy animals xx "
The anointed one, be sure to rub the oil into every nook and cranny. |
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"I’ve been a swinger for about 14 years , I’m happily married and my wife is also a swinger , we are a couple and also play as singles , for the time being I’m playing alone as my wife is very busy with home life , she is fully aware
If you are married and your partner is unaware of your sexual activities , this make you a cheat , not a swinger , real swingers are people that want sexual fun , parties etc without any other person getting hurt .
Food for thought before you meet singles , most will be married cheats
Happy Christmas you filthy animals xx "
Indeedy !
Knowledge is everything
The worst ones tho are the ones that swing together and still cheat ! I know a few that ‘cheat’ with the very same people they swing with as a couple
Not good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people who swing seperately mention their other halves profile or their couples profile. That is a quick way to verify they are doing it with each others knowledge."
this is very true  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a swinger for about 14 years , I’m happily married and my wife is also a swinger , we are a couple and also play as singles , for the time being I’m playing alone as my wife is very busy with home life , she is fully aware
If you are married and your partner is unaware of your sexual activities , this make you a cheat , not a swinger , real swingers are people that want sexual fun , parties etc without any other person getting hurt .
Food for thought before you meet singles , most will be married cheats
Happy Christmas you filthy animals xx
Indeedy !
Knowledge is everything
The worst ones tho are the ones that swing together and still cheat ! I know a few that ‘cheat’ with the very same people they swing with as a couple
Not good "
a positive comment shame most people thought I was just having a dig  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a swinger for about 14 years , I’m happily married and my wife is also a swinger , we are a couple and also play as singles , for the time being I’m playing alone as my wife is very busy with home life , she is fully aware
If you are married and your partner is unaware of your sexual activities , this make you a cheat , not a swinger , real swingers are people that want sexual fun , parties etc without any other person getting hurt .
Food for thought before you meet singles , most will be married cheats
Happy Christmas you filthy animals xx "
But if the cheating person doesn't want their partner to get hurt... then can they be a 'real' swinger? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a swinger for about 14 years , I’m happily married and my wife is also a swinger , we are a couple and also play as singles , for the time being I’m playing alone as my wife is very busy with home life , she is fully aware
If you are married and your partner is unaware of your sexual activities , this make you a cheat , not a swinger , real swingers are people that want sexual fun , parties etc without any other person getting hurt .
Food for thought before you meet singles , most will be married cheats
Happy Christmas you filthy animals xx "
i must say this is just a general thought of mine , right or wrong , I’m not saying people saying they are single are cheats , but over the past 14 years , (6 on Fab) we have come across many that are ,
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Everyone has there own reasons to be on fab. Being judgemental about others whilst being smug about their own situation in comparison shows a narrow minded lack of intellect and understanding. Many women as well as men on this site are married and here without their partners knowledge. May I suggest that fab site add a category for profiles for "married but looking". This would save much time and would allow the "perfect" person who started this thread to immediately hit the block button along with anyone else. Simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has there own reasons to be on fab. Being judgemental about others whilst being smug about their own situation in comparison shows a narrow minded lack of intellect and understanding. Many women as well as men on this site are married and here without their partners knowledge. May I suggest that fab site add a category for profiles for "married but looking". This would save much time and would allow the "perfect" person who started this thread to immediately hit the block button along with anyone else. Simple. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone has there own reasons to be on fab. Being judgemental about others whilst being smug about their own situation in comparison shows a narrow minded lack of intellect and understanding. Many women as well as men on this site are married and here without their partners knowledge. May I suggest that fab site add a category for profiles for "married but looking". This would save much time and would allow the "perfect" person who started this thread to immediately hit the block button along with anyone else. Simple. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Everyone has there own reasons to be on fab. Being judgemental about others whilst being smug about their own situation in comparison shows a narrow minded lack of intellect and understanding. Many women as well as men on this site are married and here without their partners knowledge. May I suggest that fab site add a category for profiles for "married but looking". This would save much time and would allow the "perfect" person who started this thread to immediately hit the block button along with anyone else. Simple. "
im far from perfect , however I’m also very open minded and well educated ,
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m also very busy at home too , I also work full time , my wife’s job is working from home which restricts her time for having lots of sexy fun like she use to do , hoping the new year will bring us more fun together, as this is what I prefer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I won't meet one half of swinging couples. I'd rather meet a cheating person as they won't be discussing our meet. "
this. Way too much game playing. This is why I also don't meet couples full stop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a swinger for about 14 years , I’m happily married and my wife is also a swinger , we are a couple and also play as singles , for the time being I’m playing alone as my wife is very busy with home life , she is fully aware
If you are married and your partner is unaware of your sexual activities , this make you a cheat , not a swinger , real swingers are people that want sexual fun , parties etc without any other person getting hurt .
Food for thought before you meet singles , most will be married cheats
Happy Christmas you filthy animals xx
Indeedy !
Knowledge is everything
The worst ones tho are the ones that swing together and still cheat ! I know a few that ‘cheat’ with the very same people they swing with as a couple
Not good a positive comment shame most people thought I was just having a dig "
How is that a positive comment? Think you need a re read op??
So called holier than though swingers then meeting behind their partners back? Hmmmm |
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"I’m also very busy at home too , I also work full time , my wife’s job is working from home which restricts her time for having lots of sexy fun like she use to do , hoping the new year will bring us more fun together, as this is what I prefer "
Sounds like she's bored with the swinging couple life
She may be working from home ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a swingers site where people meet up to satisfy there carnal desires...so in an environment like this why the hell are people so judgemental of others personal situation? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they know they are cheating.
If they engage in swinging activities they are still swingers, albeit cheating ones.
So does that mean I'm a swinging cheat or a cheating swinger? "
You can be who ever you like here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they know they are cheating.
If they engage in swinging activities they are still swingers, albeit cheating ones.
So does that mean I'm a swinging cheat or a cheating swinger? "
Good point. How about using a geographical feature? Man of Kent or Kentish Man uses the River Medway.
In this case we can use the M62.
If you're north of (or travelling eastbound on) the M62 you are a swinging cheat.
If you are south of (or travelling westbound on) the M62 are a cheating swinger.
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"I think they know they are cheating.
If they engage in swinging activities they are still swingers, albeit cheating ones.
So does that mean I'm a swinging cheat or a cheating swinger? You can be who ever you like here. "
You can pretend to be who ever you like here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think they know they are cheating.
If they engage in swinging activities they are still swingers, albeit cheating ones.
So does that mean I'm a swinging cheat or a cheating swinger? You can be who ever you like here.
You can pretend to be who ever you like here "
In that case, I'm Mary Fucking Poppins! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been a swinger for about 14 years , I’m happily married and my wife is also a swinger , we are a couple and also play as singles , for the time being I’m playing alone as my wife is very busy with home life , she is fully aware
If you are married and your partner is unaware of your sexual activities , this make you a cheat , not a swinger , real swingers are people that want sexual fun , parties etc without any other person getting hurt .
Food for thought before you meet singles , most will be married cheats
Happy Christmas you filthy animals xx "
thanks for sharing can we see your wife's agreement to play certificate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has there own reasons to be on fab. Being judgemental about others whilst being smug about their own situation in comparison shows a narrow minded lack of intellect and understanding. Many women as well as men on this site are married and here without their partners knowledge. May I suggest that fab site add a category for profiles for "married but looking". This would save much time and would allow the "perfect" person who started this thread to immediately hit the block button along with anyone else. Simple. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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111% of some statistics are made up, OP how did you derive your 90% claim?
Work and family commitments put my wife and I in separate countries, but she is aware I am on here as a single.
Furthermore I don't meet for sex unless she is with me, so you are not cheating, I am not cheating, none of the single people who are actually single are cheating... so my guess would be 76.3% of the singles on here are cheating some of the time.
I also suspect the pope may be agnostic, but likes the uniform |
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"I think they know they are cheating.
If they engage in swinging activities they are still swingers, albeit cheating ones.
So does that mean I'm a swinging cheat or a cheating swinger? You can be who ever you like here.
You can pretend to be who ever you like here "
Can I be Clark Kent? I like his innocent demeanor, hiding a steel clad exuberance of testosterone.
No where did I put my coffee? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well according to the Oxford Dictionary the definition is "A person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.". Granted a swinger may also be cheating, but the two are not mutually exclusive. |
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Thanks OP but I've worked out people on here will tell you what they think you want to hear as most are naïve anyway. Most are cheating with no conscience and think they're clever but cheats and liars always get found out. Cycle of life. I personally cannot wait for them to be sussed hahaha. Have fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well according to the Oxford Dictionary the definition is "A person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.". Granted a swinger may also be cheating, but the two are not mutually exclusive."
You mean less than 3 is not swinging? That would mean 100% of those meeting for 1 to 1 sex are cheating on the Oxford Englush Dictionary...
I think that may be treason...  |
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Official statistics show that around 75% of people aged between 30 and 55 (which covers most here) are married or living with a partner. If we add on people who have a partner with whom they do not live, I suggest 85% of people in that prime swinging age group are in a relationship of some sort.
Of course, it may be that most alleged singles on here come within that small minority not in a relationship but I think that unlikey. Hence if you swing with a single, whatever they may say, it is very likely they are cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We worked out ages ago less than 0.01% of the population are swingers, So the national statistics are skewed way off track when applied to such a small sample size.
So really there are no actual figures that matter apart from dress or boxers size |
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"I think they know they are cheating.
If they engage in swinging activities they are still swingers, albeit cheating ones.
So does that mean I'm a swinging cheat or a cheating swinger? You can be who ever you like here.
You can pretend to be who ever you like here
Can I be Clark Kent? I like his innocent demeanor, hiding a steel clad exuberance of testosterone.
No where did I put my coffee?"
Yes, of course. You just need to make a start by wearing your underpants on the outside of your trousers. People will understand, honest |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"I think they know they are cheating.
If they engage in swinging activities they are still swingers, albeit cheating ones.
So does that mean I'm a swinging cheat or a cheating swinger? You can be who ever you like here.
You can pretend to be who ever you like here
Can I be Clark Kent? I like his innocent demeanor, hiding a steel clad exuberance of testosterone.
No where did I put my coffee?
Yes, of course. You just need to make a start by wearing your underpants on the outside of your trousers. People will understand, honest "
 such a good look |
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Can I be Clark Kent? I like his innocent demeanor, hiding a steel clad exuberance of testosterone.
No where did I put my coffee?
Yes, of course. You just need to make a start by wearing your underpants on the outside of your trousers. People will understand, honest
such a good look "
I thought so, but the security man at Asda wasn't so enthusiastic  |
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"We worked out ages ago less than 0.01% of the population are swingers, So the national statistics are skewed way off track when applied to such a small sample size.
So really there are no actual figures that matter apart from dress or boxers size "
There's about 45 million adults in this country. 0.01 of that would be 4500 people. There's. Way more than that on this site alone |
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"We worked out ages ago less than 0.01% of the population are swingers, So the national statistics are skewed way off track when applied to such a small sample size.
So really there are no actual figures that matter apart from dress or boxers size
There's about 45 million adults in this country. 0.01 of that would be 4500 people. There's. Way more than that on this site alone "
But 245,000 of them are single guys just pervin'
It will be higher than 4500 though. |
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"I think they know they are cheating.
If they engage in swinging activities they are still swingers, albeit cheating ones.
So does that mean I'm a swinging cheat or a cheating swinger? You can be who ever you like here.
You can pretend to be who ever you like here
Can I be Clark Kent? I like his innocent demeanor, hiding a steel clad exuberance of testosterone.
No where did I put my coffee?
Yes, of course. You just need to make a start by wearing your underpants on the outside of your trousers. People will understand, honest "
I'm on it, pictures to follow x |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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Can I be Clark Kent? I like his innocent demeanor, hiding a steel clad exuberance of testosterone.
No where did I put my coffee?
Yes, of course. You just need to make a start by wearing your underpants on the outside of your trousers. People will understand, honest
such a good look
I thought so, but the security man at Asda wasn't so enthusiastic "
Maybe he just thought you had stolen them |
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Can I be Clark Kent? I like his innocent demeanor, hiding a steel clad exuberance of testosterone.
No where did I put my coffee?
Yes, of course. You just need to make a start by wearing your underpants on the outside of your trousers. People will understand, honest
such a good look
I thought so, but the security man at Asda wasn't so enthusiastic
Maybe he just thought you had stolen them "
No, he mumbled something like 'fuck off you pervy bastard' . Didn't seem very professional at all  |
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