(Mrs derby here??)How many of you ladies had a really good mate like a geniune friend that also when feeling need to have the added fun...is it possible..i really want to find someone to do this with that u can chat about swinging life style aswell as good vent and laugh ??  |
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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago
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Hi
It’s Mrs Legin here, I’ve found several good friends on here and now have vanilla times with them, I have found you can talk about anything (I mean anything) and have the fun part as well when we feel like it.
Perfect x |
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I did this several years ago..lasted over a year.... consequently..... he became somewhat possessive, which in turn ruined our friendship..... have never tried again since... but it can happen as I know many that are fortunate enough to have it.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs here!
See I totally get that, we made great friends in a couple who we socialise on a vanilla level but can also chat swinging and have a huge laugh.
But hoping I can make that connection with a single female too.
That’s the thing with the swinging world, when socialising with vanilla friends it kinda lingers around the boring level  xx |
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Glad not just me i just think ot fun and sense of ease and repect..helps too when u no them makes it easy...be nice to send hubby out when i had crazy non stop day with our sons lol and he as normal over excited lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ahh I'd love this as well 
But I'm always working when the socials are happening.
I've sort of tried to plan one but it's so difficult with different people's schedules and the fact that I work shifts |
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That’s the thing with the swinging world, when socialising with vanilla friends it kinda lingers around the boring level xx"
God, yes. Sitting in the pub or someone’s house talking about fuggle stuff without the added frisson of spicing it up with fablife. Bitch has a couple of old fuggle friends who know about her adventures to a greater or lesser extent and it helps greatly, but with a good fab friend (lover or otherwise) you can discuss the details more openly with someone who empathises rather than just has a prurient interest, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I currently have 4 guys that meet from here and class them as good friends. Canntalk to each about different things happening in life and love it.
If wasn’t for 4 of them I would prob have gave up on fab and attempted to get a boyfriend again but this way I can have the good parts of each when I want even if it’s just a chat or spooning etc x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"(Mrs derby here??)How many of you ladies had a really good mate like a geniune friend that also when feeling need to have the added fun...is it possible..i really want to find someone to do this with that u can chat about swinging life style aswell as good vent and laugh ?? "
I had a friend who I used to discuss my sex life with, ended up having 3somes with her and her hubby on a regular basis. Also met some of their friends and had some fun too! This was before hubby was aware. I miss those days. Jay |
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I used to have a female friend that was on here also. She gave it up when she found a boyfriend. She gave me up too
Was good to have someone to chat to about stuff. We were often wing women for each other for safety.
I'd love another fab friend (non sexual) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to have a female friend that was on here also. She gave it up when she found a boyfriend. She gave me up too
Was good to have someone to chat to about stuff. We were often wing women for each other for safety.
I'd love another fab friend (non sexual) "
Ahh this exact same thing happened to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to have a female friend that was on here also. She gave it up when she found a boyfriend. She gave me up too
Was good to have someone to chat to about stuff. We were often wing women for each other for safety.
I'd love another fab friend (non sexual)
Ahh this exact same thing happened to me "
Think she thought that I'd let it slip that she'd been on here? I'd never do that.
Not a threat to her new relationship at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to have a female friend that was on here also. She gave it up when she found a boyfriend. She gave me up too
Was good to have someone to chat to about stuff. We were often wing women for each other for safety.
I'd love another fab friend (non sexual)
Ahh this exact same thing happened to me
Think she thought that I'd let it slip that she'd been on here? I'd never do that.
Not a threat to her new relationship at all. "
My friend met her guy on here and I still got thrown away lol |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"I used to have a female friend that was on here also. She gave it up when she found a boyfriend. She gave me up too
Was good to have someone to chat to about stuff. We were often wing women for each other for safety.
I'd love another fab friend (non sexual)
Ahh this exact same thing happened to me
Think she thought that I'd let it slip that she'd been on here? I'd never do that.
Not a threat to her new relationship at all. "
That's a shame a swinging friend to chat all things fab is really great. I have a female friend at work who is on here and we often get together to chat about the lifestyle - we've never played together though and have no intention to do so. |
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By *4tCouple
over a year ago
warrington |
"Hi
It’s Mrs Legin here, I’ve found several good friends on here and now have vanilla times with them, I have found you can talk about anything (I mean anything) and have the fun part as well when we feel like it.
Perfect x"
wanna be friends? |
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