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Hard and rough - what's the difference?
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over a year ago
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Hard sex is being fucked really hard that you know about it. Rough sex I see as being pinned down which I don't really like because I bruise very easily. So hard over rough anytime xx |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"Hard sex is being fucked really hard that you know about it. Rough sex I see as being pinned down which I don't really like because I bruise very easily. So hard over rough anytime xx"
That is pretty much my thinking. But I wonder if some people see slapping/being pinned down etc, as in the hard category. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hard sex is being fucked really hard that you know about it. Rough sex I see as being pinned down which I don't really like because I bruise very easily. So hard over rough anytime xx
That is pretty much my thinking. But I wonder if some people see slapping/being pinned down etc, as in the hard category."
I wouldn't but that's me, everyone got there own definition of things. |
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"Hard sex is being fucked really hard that you know about it. Rough sex I see as being pinned down which I don't really like because I bruise very easily. So hard over rough anytime xx"
That would be my definition.
I bruise like a peach... Luckily I can blame my job for the bruises  |
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For us it’s a difference between being punched in the face or waking up in A&E. We have boundaries which are non negotiable. Each to their own but eroticism in our world has no place for either. Alpha males and sluts may have differing views. Fill your boots.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard sex = Her doing "destroyer of the universe" while he is maintaining "formidable face" .... it's a yoga thing.
Rough Sex = A quick d*unken shag in the large bin behind the kebab shop. |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"Love being fucked hard, rough sex doesn’t turn me on at all.
Bend me over and fuck me hard, just how I like it  "
I enjoy hard sex. Have never had rough sex, but neither do I want too. And that bum looks lovely bent over. |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"Hard sex is being fucked really hard that you know about it. Rough sex I see as being pinned down which I don't really like because I bruise very easily. So hard over rough anytime xx
That would be my definition.
I bruise like a peach... Luckily I can blame my job for the bruises "
 liking the new pics! Very nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like both, but finding guys who can do it but know the limits and can control their aggression when doing so is hard to come by.
I enjoy power play which I'd class as rough, but hard usually comes as part of it. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I like both, but finding guys who can do it but know the limits and can control their aggression when doing so is hard to come by.
I enjoy power play which I'd class as rough, but hard usually comes as part of it. "
Love your answer.
We personally play this way and it can change each time depending upon mood, etc,. It’s imperative to keep an aspect of control especially with rough play, it’s all good and well getting ‘in the moment’ but better to be safe than sorry, always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hard sex = just quick, powerful thrusts, really going for it.
Rough sex = Scratching, biting, being held down, spanking, maybe a bit of resistance play (I like a lover 'forcing' my legs apart while I pretend to struggle). Only done with people I know well and trust.
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I like both, but finding guys who can do it but know the limits and can control their aggression when doing so is hard to come by.
I enjoy power play which I'd class as rough, but hard usually comes as part of it. "
It's all about trust. I agree with the aggression part. Safewords are a great way to go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hard sex = just quick, powerful thrusts, really going for it.
Rough sex = Scratching, biting, being held down, spanking, maybe a bit of resistance play (I like a lover 'forcing' my legs apart while I pretend to struggle). Only done with people I know well and trust.
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Quite like this too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hard sex = just quick, powerful thrusts, really going for it.
Rough sex = Scratching, biting, being held down, spanking, maybe a bit of resistance play (I like a lover 'forcing' my legs apart while I pretend to struggle). Only done with people I know well and trust.
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Totally this for us. |
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Used to date a woman who liked it rough. Pinned down,choked,face slapped,hair pulled,name calling, all that kind of thing. Her words were "I like to be treated like shit in the bedroom". Nice lass she was till she turned Into a nutjob |
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By *ill74 OP Man
over a year ago
New forest area |
"Hard sex = just quick, powerful thrusts, really going for it.
Rough sex = Scratching, biting, being held down, spanking, maybe a bit of resistance play (I like a lover 'forcing' my legs apart while I pretend to struggle). Only done with people I know well and trust.
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I do like spanking to be fair, not for the pain element. I am a bum man, and love the sound, the ripple of a bum being spanked. I was once asked to bite a ladys' nipples during a meet, surprised me to be honest. I was careful, but she seemed to enjoy it. |
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