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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wanted everyone's take on this as read someone's profile that said kissing is for lovers ??? not swinging.
i have met a few women/cpls and nearly ALL of them have kissed as for me it's a good way to start proceedings but appreciate every one has a different idea. |
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Tongue all read to roll on this one...
Kissing is part of foreplay for me, in a club is different, e.g. mmmmf not always possible, so miss it.
But for one on one, or threesome then do think twice about emailing those who say no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is a Big part for me ...... I love kissing when playing would feel so weird if i never kissed when having sex ..... would not feel right ... thay said ok to shag but not kiss .... would put me off as you kiss in oral the body too and i love all that x jo xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most of the time I dont kiss.. simply because I dont need it to get me in the mood.. ( joys of being always 100% ready for fun) Often have meets where its in, strip, play and they leave..
but do have the odd meet here and there where we do a bit of foreplay and on occassion I kiss.. its just different... I can live without it..
I love kissing my Master but on the whole others I find it rather a chore.. although there are the few exceptions  but most of my meets are pure sex... little sensual play..
But I have worked out that it turns Master on as well as the guy I am playing with, so get more from it for that.. .. I would never kiss in a group play.. its not what its about for that..
Cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well kissing does help calm the nerves a little I think. Even though some guys like to talk the big guy image, when they are up close and personal to a woman who after their body, they may get a few nerves. Lets face it, yeah some guys will be ready to perform at a moment's notice, but there are others that need a little encouragement, so giving them something inimate as a kiss and a good snogging session may help them. However, everyone is different to what they want. Yeah the ranchy porno stuff is fantastic, yeah get the cock and give it a good seeing to, but people do have feelings and sometimes people do like to have an initmate moment to share. Remembering that some people may not even be getting that tender touch at home, so if you are sharing your body then really it shouldn't matter what you do as long as you have respect for one another. To me its not all about taking, it is about giving as well and lets face it some guys are very lonely and they do need that kiss and cuddle. I like it both ways really but we are all different in what we like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i rarely get turned on if the other party kiss
the only time i am not bothered about kissing is if it is a completely one sided meet where the other party just wants suckin off
that way it doesn't matter if i am turned on or not
geez it sounds cold when i right it down like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I am not bothered about kissing 'randoms for sex',
I Have never met a man for sex who was upset that I didnt want to hold hands or kiss his mouth as I was dragging him onto a bed and going down on a different piece of him.
With some women it is different but as a rule I dont kiss mouth to mouth during swinging.
Now have that annoying song 'pretty woman' in my head  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i had a MMF and i wasnt allowed to kiss the wife as it was deemed too intimate, but licking her pussy was ok  "
lol, will share some hot kisses when i see you  |
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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago
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Well ill add some variety and say we dont kiss. We keep something to ourselves. Our preference although a lot havent been bothered by it anyway. Only one couple refused, as it was absolutely imperative they did kiss. |
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" Now have that annoying song 'pretty woman' in my head "
Think that's where the idea came from .. Pros don't kiss .. or so the film lead us to believe. I personally do not have a clue if they do or don't LOL
Jock can turn me on bigtime with just a kiss .. others don't have quite that effect on me but still enjoy it
Kissing good and it's all part of the fun in my book x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when we started out we decided on no kissing as we felt it was a level of intimacy we didn't wish to share but as time went on we found it all rather awkward without kissing so decided it would be best to change that particular rule although there are many occasions where kissing isn't involved on my part as i just want fucking without any other level of intimacy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the type of meet - if there is actually kissing
As someone said a good kiss gets me all juicy much more of a turn on
a bad kiss gets to go home as it can turn me right off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny thing is, when I was married I seldom kissed my husband as he smoked and that put me right of.
I don't always kiss during meets, it depends how extreme my play is. I'm not always seeking intimacy just raw hedonistic pleasure. Some playmates though, their kiss is a major turn on.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all your comments a mixed reaction but we are all different in different situations.
Would certainly like to kiss some of you lol
Take care and have fun !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see kissing the same as sex
A lot of people say its to intimate but i see it like this
If you can diffirenciate the difference between making love and fucking, why cant you do that with kissing?
Surely it the feelings behind who you doing an act with that makes it intimate not the act itself?
What i really dont get are couples where the women can kiss each other but not kiss the men, how is kissing a woman less intimate than issing a man? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't not kiss others because I see it as to intimate but because I don't really enjoy it with others... I certainly won't kiss on every meet... And men are nearly always told by master at the start of a session that kissing is led by me...
I have had the odd occasion where I've enjoyed it but I prefer not to kiss... I would actually forgo any foreplay with meets and get straight to sucking or fucking. Lol
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jay says that for her kissing is far less intimate than somebody making her squirt. Bill says that kissing is an important part great sex, swinging or not! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well ill add some variety and say we dont kiss. We keep something to ourselves. Our preference although a lot havent been bothered by it anyway. Only one couple refused, as it was absolutely imperative they did kiss."
Give us a kiss Yorkshire  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What i really dont get are couples where the women can kiss each other but not kiss the men, how is kissing a woman less intimate than issing a man?"
I have seen that on some profiles (yes, I do look at couples to check out the Ladies, lol!)
Each to their own, but in my very limited experience with men (Yep, I did try them on for size at one time!!!) and comparing kissing a Guy with kissing a Woman, I would say kissing a woman is MORE intimate. Now that may just be 'cos I'm a big ol' Lesbian, lol!
Kissing a woman is just the biggest turn on for me, whether it's soft and gentle or full throttle with tongues and sucking and biting!!!!!
So, kissing is a must for me
Oh, Dear, I seem to be having a little flush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love to kiss, best way to get the party started, along with some touching in certain areas work well as well.
Although some couples only kiss each other, wedo not have a issue with him doing so. Just not as sexy, without it. |
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