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Unicorns can afford to pick and choose as every one wants them. It seems that your new to the lifestyle and not done much swinging. Veri's seem to point to social only.
Being a Bi (Pansexual) fem, who is part of a couple. I have been a unicorn. Nothing in your profile stands out from the 1000's. For me I'm asking myself is she doing it for her fella? Along with the feeling of being used to take a Bi cherry. You going for the top prize of the unicorn.
My advice would be to work your way through the ranks. Goto clubs and private house parties. Meet and play with couples, get to know fems and get yourself known in the swinging world. I think then your have a better chance of finding and playing as a ffm. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Typical negativity on post thanks everyone.
Yes we have been to clubs
Yes poppy has been with ladys
And in a D/S relation ship that we have with others we play with men and wemon just not found any on Fab yet.
Anyone got anymore negativity. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Typical negativity on post thanks everyone.
Yes we have been to clubs
Yes poppy has been with ladys
And in a D/S relation ship that we have with others we play with men and wemon just not found any on Fab yet.
Anyone got anymore negativity."
Not directed at all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry but I don’t want to work my way through the ranks!
I’m very perticular with who I play with and what I am looking for
I’m not doing this for my “fella” his my husband and I am doing this for myself
Not too sure how to make our profile stand out really as I don’t want to put naked pictures on our page, we have plenty of face pictures which many don’t have
We have been to a house party but didn’t play with anyone because no one took our fancy, I refuse to play if I don’t feel a connection of some sort with someone
We have played with others before just not from fab, we are new to the area and don’t know where the clubs etc are around here
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"Sorry but I don’t want to work my way through the ranks!
I’m very perticular with who I play with and what I am looking for
I’m not doing this for my “fella” his my husband and I am doing this for myself
Not too sure how to make our profile stand out really as I don’t want to put naked pictures on our page, we have plenty of face pictures which many don’t have
We have been to a house party but didn’t play with anyone because no one took our fancy, I refuse to play if I don’t feel a connection of some sort with someone
We have played with others before just not from fab, we are new to the area and don’t know where the clubs etc are around here
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How many have you searched for on fab locally and messaged with a nice intro? |
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"there are loads of Cpl's with Bi Fem. dont get us wrong we are not complaining at all lol Cpl's are fab.
But a unicorn would be nice x"
If it's just a girl for Poppy, for ff only, then the other woman could be single or from a couple?? |
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over a year ago
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"Yes it would be just for me but hubby would be present as well just to watch "
I'd never meet under these circumstances.
I want a woman one on one not jist to put on a show |
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"Yes it would be just for me but hubby would be present as well just to watch
I'd never meet under these circumstances.
I want a woman one on one not jist to put on a show "
OP you’ll find many unicorns feel patronised by that word and expected to be a performing seal for the hubby to watch. It’s not attractive.
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
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I can never get my head around this..
Why don't the guys let the ladies play and go to the pub for a chat and a few beers while they have some fun?
Why do guys always want to watch? Give and take surely?
If more did this then there would be more ladies to play with surely?
Just a thought
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"I can never get my head around this..
Why don't the guys let the ladies play and go to the pub for a chat and a few beers while they have some fun?
Why do guys always want to watch? Give and take surely?
If more did this then there would be more ladies to play with surely?
Just a thought
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Can’t let her out of his sight...she might like it too much  |
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
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"I can never get my head around this..
Why don't the guys let the ladies play and go to the pub for a chat and a few beers while they have some fun?
Why do guys always want to watch? Give and take surely?
If more did this then there would be more ladies to play with surely?
Just a thought
Can’t let her out of his sight...she might like it too much "
Lol - yep maybe |
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"If only I lived a lot closer....and I was younger....and....lol, ok lots of things. But I am sure you will find what you are looking for. Good luck.  "
Yeah I’m too far and too old too but the OP is hot. Just the hubby thing will put a lot off. Either do FF or have a full on 3 way is your best chance or stick out for exactly what you want knowing it may never happen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If only I lived a lot closer....and I was younger....and....lol, ok lots of things. But I am sure you will find what you are looking for. Good luck. "
Thank you my lovely, age doesn’t mean a thing lol
Shame you are so far away, I’m sure we could have lots of fun x |
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"Cos it’s called cuckholding and it’s a thing u do with your partner for fun "
Cuckolding (no h) is where the woman gets fucked by guys. Having a bit of lesbo sex in front of your hubby is a show
Anyway good luck finding a woman up for that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If only I lived a lot closer....and I was younger....and....lol, ok lots of things. But I am sure you will find what you are looking for. Good luck.
Yeah I’m too far and too old too but the OP is hot. Just the hubby thing will put a lot off. Either do FF or have a full on 3 way is your best chance or stick out for exactly what you want knowing it may never happen "
We are quite happy to have a three way as well, I just wouldn’t meet a person by myself I’m not comfortable with that
We haven’t even told others what we would want to do, we haven’t got replies back to any messages we have sent to single females |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Cos it’s called cuckholding and it’s a thing u do with your partner for fun
Cuck your hubby by playing with a lady?
That's new to me, live and learn ehh
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Yup many new things to learn |
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"Cos it’s called cuckholding and it’s a thing u do with your partner for fun
Cuckolding (no h) is where the woman gets fucked by guys. Having a bit of lesbo sex in front of your hubby is a show
Anyway good luck finding a woman up for that"
Nope it’s called cuckqueening |
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
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"If only I lived a lot closer....and I was younger....and....lol, ok lots of things. But I am sure you will find what you are looking for. Good luck.
Yeah I’m too far and too old too but the OP is hot. Just the hubby thing will put a lot off. Either do FF or have a full on 3 way is your best chance or stick out for exactly what you want knowing it may never happen
We are quite happy to have a three way as well, I just wouldn’t meet a person by myself I’m not comfortable with that
Kind of narrows things down a bit then...
We haven’t even told others what we would want to do, we haven’t got replies back to any messages we have sent to single females "
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"Cos it’s called cuckholding and it’s a thing u do with your partner for fun
Cuckolding (no h) is where the woman gets fucked by guys. Having a bit of lesbo sex in front of your hubby is a show
Anyway good luck finding a woman up for that
Nope it’s called cuckqueening "
Nope that’s where the man fucks other women and the female partner enjoys it watching or hearing about it  |
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"Cos it’s called cuckholding and it’s a thing u do with your partner for fun "
What about if a women was interested and her partner wanted watch would you accept that? If not then not very fair expecting a female to accept your fella watching. If you did then you get your fun your partner gets to watch and so does the male half to a couple. Might be easier to find someone that way. |
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"Cos it’s called cuckholding and it’s a thing u do with your partner for fun
Cuckolding (no h) is where the woman gets fucked by guys. Having a bit of lesbo sex in front of your hubby is a show
Anyway good luck finding a woman up for that
Nope it’s called cuckqueening
Nope that’s where the man fucks other women and the female partner enjoys it watching or hearing about it "
Nope it’s not
Cuckolding is what ever u want it to be |
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"Cos it’s called cuckholding and it’s a thing u do with your partner for fun
What about if a women was interested and her partner wanted watch would you accept that? If not then not very fair expecting a female to accept your fella watching. If you did then you get your fun your partner gets to watch and so does the male half to a couple. Might be easier to find someone that way. "
Yup that’s fine as well more the merrier |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well whatever it is and you want it how you want it isn't working for you. So I'd say a change of tactic or approach might be in order
Good luck x "
We haven’t even told any one what we are wanting yet
I’m happy to have a threesome, happy to have a foursome, happy to have a singe man with hubby in the room, happy to have a woman while hubby or her partner Is in the room, happy to have a single female while my hubby is in the room ???????
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cos it’s called cuckholding and it’s a thing u do with your partner for fun
What about if a women was interested and her partner wanted watch would you accept that? If not then not very fair expecting a female to accept your fella watching. If you did then you get your fun your partner gets to watch and so does the male half to a couple. Might be easier to find someone that way.
Yup that’s fine as well more the merrier "
Maybe try looking for a couple then there’s plenty on here where the male half doesn’t play but likes to watch. |
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"Cos it’s called cuckholding and it’s a thing u do with your partner for fun
Cuckolding (no h) is where the woman gets fucked by guys. Having a bit of lesbo sex in front of your hubby is a show
Anyway good luck finding a woman up for that
Nope it’s called cuckqueening
Nope that’s where the man fucks other women and the female partner enjoys it watching or hearing about it
Nope it’s not
Cuckolding is what ever u want it to be "
ok hunny whatever you say, obviously more expert than me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well whatever it is and you want it how you want it isn't working for you. So I'd say a change of tactic or approach might be in order
Good luck x
We haven’t even told any one what we are wanting yet
I’m happy to have a threesome, happy to have a foursome, happy to have a singe man with hubby in the room, happy to have a woman while hubby or her partner Is in the room, happy to have a single female while my hubby is in the room ???????
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Well re-title your post as you have Poppy wants a woman |
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By *j48Man
over a year ago
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"Well whatever it is and you want it how you want it isn't working for you. So I'd say a change of tactic or approach might be in order
Good luck x
We haven’t even told any one what we are wanting yet
I’m happy to have a threesome, happy to have a foursome, happy to have a singe man with hubby in the room, happy to have a woman while hubby or her partner Is in the room, happy to have a single female while my hubby is in the room ???????
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Maybe put that on your profile, tailor your initial message to the recipients profile.. Some times you'll get a reply sometimes you won't. That's the way the cookie crumbles in here
With regard to your post earlier - you're not comfortable with meting a person on your own
Hmm - create a way to make it more comfortable?
Suggest a coffee and some shopping with a lady for a couple of hours in town, see how you get on..
If you do great. If not you've had a couple of hours out having a chat and you've met a fellow swinger in the real world..
That I would suggest would be a safe way to meet a lady?
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OP the biggest problem you have is the disparity in numbers - there just aren't that many women on fab and everyone wants to meet them.
Of the ladies on here very few would want the kind of meet you describe where only the ladies play and put on a floor show for your partner. They are out there but you have to search for them and be prepared for a long wait to find the right person.
I would suggest tailoring your profile towards the people you want to meet.
I can't give you specific profile advice because it is against the rules if you haven't asked for it. So I will suggest you do a forum search for profile advice. Mostly it is single men who ask for advice but the replies apply to anyone and there will be some good replies out there that you can apply to your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well whatever it is and you want it how you want it isn't working for you. So I'd say a change of tactic or approach might be in order
Good luck x
We haven’t even told any one what we are wanting yet
I do but not comfortable meeting alone
I’m happy to have a threesome, happy to have a foursome, happy to have a singe man with hubby in the room, happy to have a woman while hubby or her partner Is in the room, happy to have a single female while my hubby is in the room ???????
Well re-title your post as you have Poppy wants a woman "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there are loads of Cpl's with Bi Fem. dont get us wrong we are not complaining at all lol Cpl's are fab.
But a unicorn would be nice x"
mythical and you know what that means  |
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By *i-DottyWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes it would be just for me but hubby would be present as well just to watch "
I get chatting to quite a few ladies on here then the fateful line above comes into conversations and I despair all over again 
1:1 girly fun is such good fun and very satisfying. Why on earth anyone would think it's ok for hubby / BF / FB to be sat in the corner watching wanking himself off is beyond me!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it would be just for me but hubby would be present as well just to watch
I get chatting to quite a few ladies on here then the fateful line above comes into conversations and I despair all over again
1:1 girly fun is such good fun and very satisfying. Why on earth anyone would think it's ok for hubby / BF / FB to be sat in the corner watching wanking himself off is beyond me!! "
oh you know exactly why but hey such is life we can't all have the fantasies we want |
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By *i-DottyWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes it would be just for me but hubby would be present as well just to watch
I get chatting to quite a few ladies on here then the fateful line above comes into conversations and I despair all over again
1:1 girly fun is such good fun and very satisfying. Why on earth anyone would think it's ok for hubby / BF / FB to be sat in the corner watching wanking himself off is beyond me!! oh you know exactly why but hey such is life we can't all have the fantasies we want "
I just wish people would be honest on their profile that this is what they are looking for, save wasting my time (and others!). |
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"Yes it would be just for me but hubby would be present as well just to watch
I get chatting to quite a few ladies on here then the fateful line above comes into conversations and I despair all over again
1:1 girly fun is such good fun and very satisfying. Why on earth anyone would think it's ok for hubby / BF / FB to be sat in the corner watching wanking himself off is beyond me!! oh you know exactly why but hey such is life we can't all have the fantasies we want
I just wish people would be honest on their profile that this is what they are looking for, save wasting my time (and others!). "
do things not change as you develop in this life oh and the other thing in my experience women within couples aren't generally regarded as lesbians they are usually encouraged to go down that route by hubby and his fantasy so I think mostly that will be the ultimate goal that hubby watches if nothing else |
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Your best chance will be at a club.
A lot of ladies will choose to play whilst in the couples room.
We have had more fun in there than by trying to find the Unicorns on here.
You will get given a hard time as it’s what most seem to be seeking and the others love to have a pop at you.
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"This thread highlights why I'm no longer interested in meeting couples.
Who wants to be made to feel like just another pair of tits in the room."
That is a real shame because we aren't all the same. When we meet a woman either me on my own or for MFF fun we want her to feel comfortable with us and have equal fun. You should leave the room with jelly legs and a big grin not feeling like a sex toy.
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"This thread highlights why I'm no longer interested in meeting couples.
Who wants to be made to feel like just another pair of tits in the room.
That is a real shame because we aren't all the same. When we meet a woman either me on my own or for MFF fun we want her to feel comfortable with us and have equal fun. You should leave the room with jelly legs and a big grin not feeling like a sex toy.
Bun "
as a couple though whoever you invite to join you for sex male or female or both and irrespective of whether they have jelly legs and whether they are respected they are just a sex object for that moment and all satisfied and jelly legged you send them packing |
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There are a lot of single females on here who meet couples but the amount of couples searching for a female heavily outweigh them.
Make sure your attitude towards the female is right (eg that she won't just be a fuck toy then thrown aside) and sent quality messages.
Fab social events and clubs are also a great way to meet single females.
Good luck in your search |
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"This thread highlights why I'm no longer interested in meeting couples.
Who wants to be made to feel like just another pair of tits in the room.
That is a real shame because we aren't all the same. When we meet a woman either me on my own or for MFF fun we want her to feel comfortable with us and have equal fun. You should leave the room with jelly legs and a big grin not feeling like a sex toy.
Bun as a couple though whoever you invite to join you for sex male or female or both and irrespective of whether they have jelly legs and whether they are respected they are just a sex object for that moment and all satisfied and jelly legged you send them packing "
No, that is not true at all. we have never thought of anyone or treated anyone as a sex object and we never ever would, they are another person with feelings, fantasies, and we always try to make sure that if there I see anything new they want to try or do that we do it. We often have repeat meets too! |
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I have to be honest OP, your the title of your thread seems inaccurate to me.
I'm a unicorn (who is happy to be called so), and I meet with couples and single women. Whether you choose to call it cuckolding or cuckqueening it means one thing to me - threesome.
In my humble opinion if there is a third party in the same room, no matter what if any involvement they have they are part of the dynamic. Which means the dynamic is between the three of you. Even if he's sat in a chair doing absolutely nothing, its part of a fantasy/scenario that involves three of you not just the two women.
As someone said above, it comes as a disappointment when the words 'my hubby will be there to watch'. If you've approached someone and explained that from the start then great. But if it's been dropped in halfway down the line, or you've specifically mentioned FF only, I find that deceitful, and would be an immediate no for me.
Good luck though OP, we do exist |
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"This thread highlights why I'm no longer interested in meeting couples.
Who wants to be made to feel like just another pair of tits in the room.
That is a real shame because we aren't all the same. When we meet a woman either me on my own or for MFF fun we want her to feel comfortable with us and have equal fun. You should leave the room with jelly legs and a big grin not feeling like a sex toy.
Bun as a couple though whoever you invite to join you for sex male or female or both and irrespective of whether they have jelly legs and whether they are respected they are just a sex object for that moment and all satisfied and jelly legged you send them packing "
How very naive and misguided. I have never felt like a couples sex toy. I go to meets with my own needs and fantasies, as well as the other parties involved. If what you're saying is the case, then they would also feel like sex toys.
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"This thread highlights why I'm no longer interested in meeting couples.
Who wants to be made to feel like just another pair of tits in the room.
That is a real shame because we aren't all the same. When we meet a woman either me on my own or for MFF fun we want her to feel comfortable with us and have equal fun. You should leave the room with jelly legs and a big grin not feeling like a sex toy.
Bun as a couple though whoever you invite to join you for sex male or female or both and irrespective of whether they have jelly legs and whether they are respected they are just a sex object for that moment and all satisfied and jelly legged you send them packing
No, that is not true at all. we have never thought of anyone or treated anyone as a sex object and we never ever would, they are another person with feelings, fantasies, and we always try to make sure that if there I see anything new they want to try or do that we do it. We often have repeat meets too! "
I did say " for that moment" you don't keep the people in a back room so you send them home and although you may have repeat meets they are still for sex yes |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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As a bi female in a couple who is extremely fussy about people I want to have set with all I can say is keep looking theses mythical beasts are about, most don't like the term unicorn.
I wish you good luck on your quest.
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"As a bi female in a couple who is extremely fussy about people I want to have set with all I can say is keep looking theses mythical beasts are about, most don't like the term unicorn.
I wish you good luck on your quest.
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quest that word is quite mythical to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread highlights why I'm no longer interested in meeting couples.
Who wants to be made to feel like just another pair of tits in the room.
That is a real shame because we aren't all the same. When we meet a woman either me on my own or for MFF fun we want her to feel comfortable with us and have equal fun. You should leave the room with jelly legs and a big grin not feeling like a sex toy.
Bun as a couple though whoever you invite to join you for sex male or female or both and irrespective of whether they have jelly legs and whether they are respected they are just a sex object for that moment and all satisfied and jelly legged you send them packing "
what would you propose the alternative would be?
your assertion is naive in the extreme and suggests that the individual joining a couple of either gender has nothing to gain from the experience... |
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"This thread highlights why I'm no longer interested in meeting couples.
Who wants to be made to feel like just another pair of tits in the room.
That is a real shame because we aren't all the same. When we meet a woman either me on my own or for MFF fun we want her to feel comfortable with us and have equal fun. You should leave the room with jelly legs and a big grin not feeling like a sex toy.
Bun as a couple though whoever you invite to join you for sex male or female or both and irrespective of whether they have jelly legs and whether they are respected they are just a sex object for that moment and all satisfied and jelly legged you send them packing
No, that is not true at all. we have never thought of anyone or treated anyone as a sex object and we never ever would, they are another person with feelings, fantasies, and we always try to make sure that if there I see anything new they want to try or do that we do it. We often have repeat meets too! I did say " for that moment" you don't keep the people in a back room so you send them home and although you may have repeat meets they are still for sex yes "
We usually meet in a club. And after we have all had our fun and a chat afterwards we all go home when we are ready. We don't send anyone anywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You may find it a lot easier meeting a lady at a club.
If you are ever at an event I am and please do feel free to say hello, if you would like to. "
but are you not in demand at the club to ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Good morning everyone
So where shall I start
I  have messaged ladies and not even had replies back
We get lots of messages from couples and singles no problems
We want a threesome be that with a single lady or a lady within a couple and her partner doesn’t want to play, he can be there or can not be there
No one is just a sex toy ??
We don’t set out to just have hubby watching, we would like the chance to start having fun with a lady while he watches not even touching himself and then progress to him joining in with us or even me watching me and her for a few mins and then all having fun together
His major turn on is to see me with someone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you're being as proactive as you say. Then the only nugget I can offer comes courtesy of the Forums resident Swedish beef cake, our dearest ShagTonight.
'Patience is the key'
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"You may find it a lot easier meeting a lady at a club.
If you are ever at an event I am and please do feel free to say hello, if you would like to. but are you not in demand at the club to ?? "
I'm not sure what you mean?
I'm not a resource. |
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"This thread highlights why I'm no longer interested in meeting couples.
Who wants to be made to feel like just another pair of tits in the room.
That is a real shame because we aren't all the same. When we meet a woman either me on my own or for MFF fun we want her to feel comfortable with us and have equal fun. You should leave the room with jelly legs and a big grin not feeling like a sex toy.
Bun as a couple though whoever you invite to join you for sex male or female or both and irrespective of whether they have jelly legs and whether they are respected they are just a sex object for that moment and all satisfied and jelly legged you send them packing "
(Mr here)
Look pal, you don't know us or how we play, or our relationship with who we play with. We definately dont treat or think of people in the way that your insulting comment insinuates.
That same stupid comment could be made about singles meeting each other. If you ever get meet verified you might be able to make a more informed comment. Also this thread is about couples meeting single ladies, you are a single bloke, so with no due respect, your comments are only dragging the thread down. |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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"Isn’t there any side to swinging where fantasies come into it?
Surely swinging in itself is a fantasy "
Of course it is.
But not many single bisexual women have the fantasy of being used for a man's pleasure. That's quite specialist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not simply change your profile to describe what it is you actually want.
It appears you want a variety of things and the thread now seems to be going in circles.
You say your messages are going unread or ignored, people read profiles before deciding to reply or not. Therein lies your solution. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Isn’t there any side to swinging where fantasies come into it?
Surely swinging in itself is a fantasy
Of course it is.
But not many single bisexual women have the fantasy of being used for a man's pleasure. That's quite specialist."
It’s not just for his pleasure it’s for mine as well, we are vouyers as well, it would literally be for like 2 mins so he could just sit back and be like ya my wife is pleasuring another lady or she’s being pleasured and then join in
But as I keep repeating myself we haven’t even had the chance to tell anyone this info yet as we don’t get past the first message of introducing ourselves |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
North Oxfordshire |
"Isn’t there any side to swinging where fantasies come into it?
Surely swinging in itself is a fantasy
Of course it is.
But not many single bisexual women have the fantasy of being used for a man's pleasure. That's quite specialist.
It’s not just for his pleasure it’s for mine as well, we are vouyers as well, it would literally be for like 2 mins so he could just sit back and be like ya my wife is pleasuring another lady or she’s being pleasured and then join in
But as I keep repeating myself we haven’t even had the chance to tell anyone this info yet as we don’t get past the first message of introducing ourselves "
Well, you can assume that if they don't reply to your first message then they're not interested in your profile, no matter what you're going to go on and say.
But you really need to frame it as 'we're looking for a threesome' rather than 'Poppy is looking for another woman' because that would imply that you want to meet one to one rather than as a threesome.
To be honest, the thing is, as a bisexual woman I don't need to meet couples for threesomes on sites like this. I can just go to a swing club and have a threesome. Hell, I can have a threesome with several of my mates who are couples.
The other thing, of course, is that there's loads of pictures of Samantha looking sexy on your profile, but no pictures of Jonathan looking sexy. Where's the provocative pictures of him in revealing outfits? A bisexual woman is into both women and men - not just women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These posts are as common as the desperate single male posts - surely not much more damages your credibility than ranting about not being able to find someone!- There’s a million posts of this nature on the forums; we’ve given advice on it before... copied and pasted—
here’s a problem in meeting the lady alone, the women we’ve met wanted to meet us both to see how chemistry was with all the relevant parties etc. If the two ladies got on but the guy didn’t afterwards it would create an issue for a couple who wanted a FFM.
Also, try hard to pick couples who don’t get jealous or restrict anything you want to do. We’ve been told time and time again by girls we’ve met that when a female gets into the action she’s sometimes not allowed to do certain things, which is off putting.
pick a couple who genuinely want to play with a girl, rather than a girl who wants to play with a girl “because her man deserves it”. That puts the guy on an unnecessary pedestal. If you want to play with both a guy and girl, ensure you get to do what you want with both
And not feel left out. We’ve always been complimented on the fact that Chelsea and I both focus on the girl together and that they got to play with us both.
Finally get all three of you out, get dressed up, have a few drinks and then just let nature takes its course
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Isn’t there any side to swinging where fantasies come into it?
Surely swinging in itself is a fantasy
Of course it is.
But not many single bisexual women have the fantasy of being used for a man's pleasure. That's quite specialist.
It’s not just for his pleasure it’s for mine as well, we are vouyers as well, it would literally be for like 2 mins so he could just sit back and be like ya my wife is pleasuring another lady or she’s being pleasured and then join in
But as I keep repeating myself we haven’t even had the chance to tell anyone this info yet as we don’t get past the first message of introducing ourselves
Well, you can assume that if they don't reply to your first message then they're not interested in your profile, no matter what you're going to go on and say.
But you really need to frame it as 'we're looking for a threesome' rather than 'Poppy is looking for another woman' because that would imply that you want to meet one to one rather than as a threesome.
To be honest, the thing is, as a bisexual woman I don't need to meet couples for threesomes on sites like this. I can just go to a swing club and have a threesome. Hell, I can have a threesome with several of my mates who are couples.
The other thing, of course, is that there's loads of pictures of Samantha looking sexy on your profile, but no pictures of Jonathan looking sexy. Where's the provocative pictures of him in revealing outfits? A bisexual woman is into both women and men - not just women. "
Hubby wote the title for this his not brilliant with his words all the time lol
We literally don’t have any of him really due to him being away all the time, his just come back
Only pics I have are in his work gear and can’t use them on here
We have private ones we can send ppl
When we message
He doesn’t wear revealing outfits apart from boxers and boxers are not sexy
We are put off profiles that have cock pics and lady bits all on display, it’s quite crude so we don’t put them on our page either |
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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago
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He doesn’t wear revealing outfits apart from boxers and boxers are not sexy
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Boxers can be *very* sexy.
Quite frankly - I won't play with someone if I can't see what their body looks like. I don't mean they have to be completely naked, but I want to know that I find them attractive. |
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I’d want to meet you if I was female!!
I can’t suggest a profile rewrite as you’ve not asked for any advice.
After returning to Fab as a ‘single’ male profile I had to rewrite my blurb clearly saying what I was after, being upfront about my sexuality and homelife. Visiting lots of clubs also helped me explore, have lots of fun and narrow down the clubs I like.
Being new to an area is a great excuse for you to head out and explore the clubs. The club listings page gives you a steer on what’s around you. Also I see what meets are posted, who’s online that fit my criteria and try to post in the forums.
If I fit what people describe, I like their verifications and those who’ve verified them, I will send an email. Sending messages to people who don’t want them is a waste of my and their time.
Sometimes couples and women even message me first, the cheeky so and so’s 
Either way, chins up and have fun x |
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"Just another case of shooting down every suggestion given to help.
Is there any point anyone else offering suggestions?"
exacyly this. There's lots of advice on here followed by, but this, but that. I started typing another advice post, but just deleted it.
OP, take the advice on board, or do it your way. It makes no difference to anyone else.
Good luck, have fun. |
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"Just another case of shooting down every suggestion given to help.
Is there any point anyone else offering suggestions?
exacyly this. There's lots of advice on here followed by, but this, but that. I started typing another advice post, but just deleted it.
OP, take the advice on board, or do it your way. It makes no difference to anyone else.
Good luck, have fun."
Me and bun are regularly knee deep in unicorns (of the single lady and bi fem couple variety) but hey what do we know for all our advice above to make sense
I’m sure you’ll figure it out sometime. Or not |
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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago
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As single bi female I wouldn’t meet you after reading the replies you’ve been giving on here to people who are only offering advice you’ve asked for
(also, just because it’s driving me nuts, cuckholding is where the man watches his partner with someone else, and cuckqueening is exactly the same but obviously with the woman watching, it’s definitely not a ‘it can be what anyone wants’ type of term)
You seem to change your mind on what you want to make a point and tell everyone they are wrong, to me that’s coming across as arrogant, a very unattractive trait, maybe I’m wrong here but you’ve posted a thread asking for advice and there’s my opinion |
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By *i-DottyWoman
over a year ago
Norwich |
"Good morning everyone
So where shall I start
I have messaged ladies and not even had replies back
We get lots of messages from couples and singles no problems
We want a threesome be that with a single lady or a lady within a couple and her partner doesn’t want to play, he can be there or can not be there
No one is just a sex toy ??
We don’t set out to just have hubby watching, we would like the chance to start having fun with a lady while he watches not even touching himself and then progress to him joining in with us or even me watching me and her for a few mins and then all having fun together
His major turn on is to see me with someone else "
Once again you are describing a threesome, at least be honest about It, you Will get slightly further! |
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