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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love bareback... only with my husband
Not only do I like to help protect against unwanted things... I like to keep something 'exclusive' and ultimate for him |
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the only safe sex is no sex darlings, condoms do not protect you from all sti. And how many of you girls insist on a condom when giving a bj???, not many of you I suspect, please please above all else, make an effort to know something about the person you are about to exchange bodily fluids with, and get yourself tested at least every 3 months, it is a free service, make use of it, hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love bareback... only with my husband
Not only do I like to help protect against unwanted things... I like to keep something 'exclusive' and ultimate for him"
this is us exactly...while condoms have their limitations and we accept don't provide full protection, some things are special just for us and this is one of them |
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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago
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"the only safe sex is no sex darlings, condoms do not protect you from all sti. And how many of you girls insist on a condom when giving a bj???, not many of you I suspect, please please above all else, make an effort to know something about the person you are about to exchange bodily fluids with, and get yourself tested at least every 3 months, it is a free service, make use of it, hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxxx"
Well said, Ruby !
Jane x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the only safe sex is no sex darlings, condoms do not protect you from all sti. And how many of you girls insist on a condom when giving a bj???, not many of you I suspect, please please above all else, make an effort to know something about the person you are about to exchange bodily fluids with, and get yourself tested at least every 3 months, it is a free service, make use of it, hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxxx
Well said, Ruby !
Jane x"
I agree. The way some people talk about the condom, you'd think it was a bulletproof vest!
Personally, I'm not going to demonise people who bareback because they bareback and I don't.
Like it was said earlier: each to their own. Whether we like it or not, this lifestyle carries risk to our health. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the only safe sex is no sex darlings, condoms do not protect you from all sti. And how many of you girls insist on a condom when giving a bj???, not many of you I suspect, please please above all else, make an effort to know something about the person you are about to exchange bodily fluids with, and get yourself tested at least every 3 months, it is a free service, make use of it, hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxxx
Well said, Ruby !
Jane x
I agree. The way some people talk about the condom, you'd think it was a bulletproof vest!
Personally, I'm not going to demonise people who bareback because they bareback and I don't.
Like it was said earlier: each to their own. Whether we like it or not, this lifestyle carries risk to our health."
This topic is done to death every...other...day!!! Pointless as barebackers are demonised they're hardly likely to come out and declare their love for it are they!
What is scary is the blind naivety of some that do believe a condom is akin to a haz mat suit therefore they practice "safe sex"...o...k. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most like it.. But sadly not possible to do all the time.
We admit to having the odd person here and there that we do go bare with and to be honest sex with condoms does spoil it a bit... Hence I mostly do meets that are just oral...
But with that one or two people we go bare with I love the more complete feeling of having them fill me... It's just great... Even better when master takes me immediately after... It's just fantastic...
If there were less risks we would do it more often... As its just so much better...
Cali x
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I would say that condoms are akin to seat belts. Just because you are wearing a seat belt it won't stop others or yourself driving stupidly and it could fail. But its safer than driving without one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots do on sites like this, But you will not find alot posting in forums about it .. as thay know it may put some of meeting them ... No one same here all diffrent and diffrent things turn them on even the Risks . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i don't meet women sexually and am not a great fan of penetrative sex with men so condoms don't figure with me - sorry, but if i had to suck on a condom, i'd sooner not bother !
i have been literally gobsmacked by the amount of men that have been more than willing to 'chance it' had i agreed to anal - and a great deal of them had 'safe sex only' pasted all over their profile.
so don't always believe what people say. obviously any sex other than 'safe' is (quite rightly) frowned upon and very few will openly admit to it upfront as it would put them top of the 'block list 100'
like others have said, the only really safe sex is no sex, so none of us can say we are always 'safe'
you just have to take measures to cut the risk and make sure you get a full MOT on a regular basis.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do agree that most just won't say they do...
Which makes it harder..
But the original question was who likes it... I don't think many would say they didn't... Be it just with your partner or with others..
It makes it half hearted sex for me without the cum in me... So I opt for more oral.
It's not as rare as it seems when you get these threads.
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all take risks in meeting other swingers and in an ideal world everyone should get tested every couple of months...
well in an ideal world there wouldn't be any STD's lol
wouldnt that be great??? |
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We all take risks in meeting other swingers and in an ideal world everyone should get tested every couple of months...
well in an ideal world there wouldn't be any STD's lol
wouldnt that be great??? "
oh thatd be heaven i love bare back soo muck better but wouldnt dream of it not even if we met few times, only hubby gets bare back, pity it's not an ideal world xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh thatd be heaven i love bare back soo muck better but wouldnt dream of it not even if we met few times, only hubby gets bare back, pity it's not an ideal world xx "
Same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Much prefer bareback, but I always play safe. I should imagine that's the same for most people on here. In an ideal world there would be no STD's or unplanned pregnancies, but we don't live in an ideal world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love bareback sex and anyone who says they don't are just saying it to take the moral highground. Can't beat the natural feel of sex and filling a pussy full of cum is amazing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love to go bareback with Sir. But seeing as I'm not on any birth control just yet, it isn't an option. Yes, I have gone bareback with a few meets (Sir knows), but have had the tests and they thankfully came back all clear. Certainly will not be doing that with future meets!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I love oh natural and to be fair the only time i cum through penetration is when its bare back but there is other ways and I value my health too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think if we are honest we'd all prefer to not use condoms if it was a realistic choice
i bloody hate them, im not the sort of person who does the forplay then shags till we have done, i like to swap and change, bit of oral, bit of a shag, back to the oral etc swap and change thro out and its such a pain taking condoms off, putting them back on, having to stop to do this really kills the flo of things and i can tell some guys get peed off at me keep taking them off but hey thats just how i work lol
but they are a necessary must |
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By *asyfranWoman
over a year ago
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Amazing how people come on a bareback thread to state they don't play bareback.
Why?
Do you go onto every other thread of things you dont like to state you dont do them? Would you go on a watersports thread just to say you don't like it?
Non barebackers are so hung up they are missing out on the fun, all they do is hassle and preach to the barebackers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Amazing how people come on a bareback thread to state they don't play bareback.
Why?
Do you go onto every other thread of things you dont like to state you dont do them? Would you go on a watersports thread just to say you don't like it?
Non barebackers are so hung up they are missing out on the fun, all they do is hassle and preach to the barebackers.
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The OP asked a question...Better safe than sorry or Rock n roll worry later?
hence the responses |
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i posted in a previous post, in a perfect world, with no sti std unwanted babies aids hiv, if it was totally safe all the time, i would love bareback always over condoms, but its not so only bareback with my man |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Amazing how people come on a bareback thread to state they don't play bareback.
Why?
Do you go onto every other thread of things you dont like to state you dont do them? Would you go on a watersports thread just to say you don't like it?
Well said!
Bareback is how sex should be...being able to feel how wet and horny your partner is a massive turn on!!
Non barebackers are so hung up they are missing out on the fun, all they do is hassle and preach to the barebackers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to be honest i cant feel the difference if a guy has a condom on or not, so if it dont feel any better for me to not wear one why risk it?"
See the reason a guy can never get away without using one for me is it feels so different.. and feels not very good.. its a reason I mostly do oral ...
Plus you don't get that fantastic feeling as it empties in side you.. but I don't get that with 99% of my meets and It's the other reason I prefer oral with meets... As if I don't have that for some reason it feels unfinished...
Cali .x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I play bareback with sir! We been tested and have an agreement to only play bare together cus it's so bloody good! With others it's got to be covered! Hate the testing and the way I get looked down the nurses nose when I say I don't play with husband! They r harsh I find! Why can't we just not have the stds! Bloody spoil sports! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I play bareback with sir! We been tested and have an agreement to only play bare together cus it's so bloody good! With others it's got to be covered! Hate the testing and the way I get looked down the nurses nose when I say I don't play with husband! They r harsh I find! Why can't we just not have the stds! Bloody spoil sports!"
You must have horrible clinic.. I mostly get tested at my doctors.. but when I go to the clinic they are always lovely.. never make me feel bad at all...
cali. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I play bareback with sir! We been tested and have an agreement to only play bare together cus it's so bloody good! With others it's got to be covered! Hate the testing and the way I get looked down the nurses nose when I say I don't play with husband! They r harsh I find! Why can't we just not have the stds! Bloody spoil sports!
You must have horrible clinic.. I mostly get tested at my doctors.. but when I go to the clinic they are always lovely.. never make me feel bad at all...
cali. x"
Been twice, first time was fine second when I was a bit more honest about the lifestyle they were not impressed! I owned up as reading the forums, it seemed like every one here had good experiences with it and we're even given condoms! I was just advised that I should be honest if this was my thing!?!?
Think I will go to Cardiff next time rather than Newport, see if I get a better response, u would think they would be happy I was being responsible by being careful, I was there due to a split condom! Urgh, much easier just to stick with sir! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I play bareback with sir! We been tested and have an agreement to only play bare together cus it's so bloody good! With others it's got to be covered! Hate the testing and the way I get looked down the nurses nose when I say I don't play with husband! They r harsh I find! Why can't we just not have the stds! Bloody spoil sports!
You must have horrible clinic.. I mostly get tested at my doctors.. but when I go to the clinic they are always lovely.. never make me feel bad at all...
cali. x"
ive never had any problems either, but i mainly go to the STI clinic they hold at chams club on a monday each month so they know what your upto anyway seeing as its held in a swingers club
but even when i have used STI clinics they have been fine, infact a lot have been quite interested and asked me about it lol
then give you more free condoms than you can carry home lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I play bareback with sir! We been tested and have an agreement to only play bare together cus it's so bloody good! With others it's got to be covered! Hate the testing and the way I get looked down the nurses nose when I say I don't play with husband! They r harsh I find! Why can't we just not have the stds! Bloody spoil sports!
You must have horrible clinic.. I mostly get tested at my doctors.. but when I go to the clinic they are always lovely.. never make me feel bad at all...
cali. x
ive never had any problems either, but i mainly go to the STI clinic they hold at chams club on a monday each month so they know what your upto anyway seeing as its held in a swingers club
but even when i have used STI clinics they have been fine, infact a lot have been quite interested and asked me about it lol
then give you more free condoms than you can carry home lol"
Is that chams up country? Might have to find out if they do that in Newport! Might be easier! Wasn't offered a single condom, even though I said I was there due to one breaking! Maybe I should be more brash about the swinging! Lol, am still a bit shy about it, newbie see! Xx |
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Oh I absolutely love bareback.
But I bought a shed load of condoms from the NHS Freedoms site not so long ago, and I need to start using 'em up or they'll be past their expiry date.
Come on, ladies. Form an orderly queue please. |
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