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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who else thinks when a woman messages you 1st you automatically think yeah fake profile lol ano i do as its a rare thing to happen lol anyone else think this way?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who else thinks when a woman messages you 1st you automatically think yeah fake profile lol ano i do as its a rare thing to happen lol anyone else think this way??"
Truth?...Couldn't really say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not these days but when I very first started doing this I had a message from a really hot girl. I didn't believe she could be real so made her send me a picture of herself holding that days news paper! I can't believe she didn't just tell me to do one  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not these days but when I very first started doing this I had a message from a really hot girl. I didn't believe she could be real so made her send me a picture of herself holding that days news paper! I can't believe she didn't just tell me to do one "
Lmfao thats a good one al keep that in mind for the nxt woman to message me 1st lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had many women message me first on here,usually telling me not to bother my hole messaging them but it still counts yes?"
Lol yeah still counts lol |
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"Who else thinks when a woman messages you 1st you automatically think yeah fake profile lol ano i do as its a rare thing to happen lol anyone else think this way??"
I send first messages when I’m planning a meet
I’m a real profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who else thinks when a woman messages you 1st you automatically think yeah fake profile lol ano i do as its a rare thing to happen lol anyone else think this way??"
yes its rare but not unknown
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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I have messaged first a couple of times. The most memorable was a guy with a lime up
His arse. I messaged to say it was the first time I’d seen that on fab and he is the one getting my strap on up his arse on my pictures a few days later.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who else thinks when a woman messages you 1st you automatically think yeah fake profile lol ano i do as its a rare thing to happen lol anyone else think this way??"
At first I thought that but after a while I realized they were/are genuine. The odd one still comes through but easily spotted
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"I have messaged first a couple of times. The most memorable was a guy with a lime up
His arse. I messaged to say it was the first time I’d seen that on fab and he is the one getting my strap on up his arse on my pictures a few days later.
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...is the winner! 
I dare say your beau might have got extra points were the lime also inside a bottle of a certain Mexican beer at the time.  |
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I have had girls message first, no big deal , I like it when they message first it means they are really interested in you and will not waste your time.
This is key, once you have a lady that will not waste your time, it means her time is valuable and she is free from mental bondage of society . |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Nope doesn't usually phase me at all and don't tend to immediately think that either unless there's something really suss about the way they write or their profile and even then I give them the benefit of the doubt until they have enough rope to hang themselves |
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I think both guys and ladies need to stop looking for acceptance and validation in the opposite sex, I think it is more on the guys side, it is better to love and appreciate yourself first , I know a lot of ladies would like to message first but they worry too much about perception.e.g " am I too big , am I too skinny, is my breast too big, is my bum too tiny, would he like me etc
In my opinion if I like someone, I am going to talk to them. If they say no, I will move on, I think we need to overcome the fear of someone saying no, in my mind, if I talk to you and you say no , I see it as your loss not mine and move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn’t happen often but had a few. For all I have read though on here about how men write crap messages and that’s why they get no response an deleted, the ones Iv had from couples or women are usually ‘send face pic’ or ‘hey you ok?’
Just to clarify though I don’t care. I’m just happy they messaged me first  |
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The ones that message us first lately,need to read profile because they will message wanting to meet. We smoke they don't and they don't meet over 40 and we don't play separately so basicly all they did was look at pictures |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"when they message first it means they are really interested in you and will not waste your time.
Shame more guys don't get this part "
They don't get it because some of those messages come from fake profiles who DO waste your time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send first messages on occasion, I’ve definitely been accused of being fake despite being verified several times
Same lol "
Nothing is real on here until the person is actually in front of you.... |
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Hold on a sec....
I’m sure this is against the rules....
Women, girls, aren’t NOT allowed to message first, it’s the first rule of fabclub right???
I’m sure it’s rule 41.3 section c sub section 3.2i
Where are the mods to put these delirious people right
Ha women sending a first message, as if
HG
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