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MFM couples do you prefer the other guy to have a big cock or a smaller cock?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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MFM couples do you prefer the other guy to have a bigger cock or a smaller cock? Ladies do you want someone bigger than your regular man? Guys do want the other guy to be smaller than you?  |
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I feel for the guys who aren't blessed in the appendage department.
It seems many women aren't looking for a small or stubby one.
Visually they will also say they prefer one that's larger and thicker, I presume?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some guys enjoy the innocent humiliation as well as someone else pleasing their partner. So I assume many couples want bigger, then again some kinky couples like a guy with a smaller cock for fun.  |
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"Some guys enjoy the innocent humiliation as well as someone else pleasing their partner. So I assume many couples want bigger, then again some kinky couples like a guy with a smaller cock for fun. "
Erm. Maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For a threesome it's about the chemistry, everyone has to get on, the cock size doesn't really come into it for us.
It's no good inviting someone with a big cock if he doesn't know how to play/share. |
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It’s not so important to me to be honest. I think big cocks are kind of cool and nice to handle. Horny to look at too but I’ve had a few experiences where they don’t perform so well as average guys. |
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"It’s not so important to me to be honest. I think big cocks are kind of cool and nice to handle. Horny to look at too but I’ve had a few experiences where they don’t perform so well as average guys. "
agreed
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"MFM couples do you prefer the other guy to have a bigger cock or a smaller cock? Ladies do you want someone bigger than your regular man? Guys do want the other guy to be smaller than you? "
Got nothing to do with cock size for us.
We're not in this because hubby has a small cock, or because Mrs wants a monster cock.
We're in this for a bit of fun.
We meet at clubs - by the time the cocks come out, there's already a physical attraction, we've already chatted and agreed to play.
Hopefully the guy brings a bit more to the table than just a cock. Otherwise we could save our club entry fees and just buy a foot long dildo. |
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"In my experience most couples looking for a guy want him to be big. But also if that couple looks for a girl she can't be hotter than the Mrs  strange "
Pmsl. I’ve gotta ask, how is the latter message conveyed ?  |
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"In my experience most couples looking for a guy want him to be big. But also if that couple looks for a girl she can't be hotter than the Mrs strange
Pmsl. I’ve gotta ask, how is the latter message conveyed ? "
And also to all the totally hot fems who struggle to get meets with couples - listen up! I’m the opposite. I struggle to watch swing partners with ladies i don’t find attractive.  |
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"MFM couples do you prefer the other guy to have a bigger cock or a smaller cock? Ladies do you want someone bigger than your regular man? Guys do want the other guy to be smaller than you?
Got nothing to do with cock size for us.
We're not in this because hubby has a small cock, or because Mrs wants a monster cock.
We're in this for a bit of fun.
We meet at clubs - by the time the cocks come out, there's already a physical attraction, we've already chatted and agreed to play.
Hopefully the guy brings a bit more to the table than just a cock. Otherwise we could save our club entry fees and just buy a foot long dildo. "
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I've enjoyed a few MMFs - mainly with a FB in clubs. So far all the guys have been smaller than me and i'd really like us to play with a really big, thick cock. - at least bigger and thicker than mine. |
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All things considered I prefer my wife to have someone bigger. The whole idea is to gather new experiences so why go for the same cock size that she has already? I also think she orgasms more with a bigger man inside her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"MFM couples do you prefer the other guy to have a bigger cock or a smaller cock? Ladies do you want someone bigger than your regular man? Guys do want the other guy to be smaller than you?
Got nothing to do with cock size for us.
We're not in this because hubby has a small cock, or because Mrs wants a monster cock.
We're in this for a bit of fun.
We meet at clubs - by the time the cocks come out, there's already a physical attraction, we've already chatted and agreed to play.
Hopefully the guy brings a bit more to the table than just a cock. Otherwise we could save our club entry fees and just buy a foot long dildo. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a lot of invites to meets and parties just for this reason. I find it very flattering,but there is an expectation to perform like a bull.
Personally,I enjoy the intimacy with a woman,so I tend to be a gentle lover-it can disappoint people. It’s just my nature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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From my experience as a single guy playing with couples, the hubby always likes the other guy to have a bigger cock as they love to see their lady pleasured with it. It turns hubby on as much as wifey. |
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"From my experience as a single guy playing with couples, the hubby always likes the other guy to have a bigger cock as they love to see their lady pleasured with it. It turns hubby on as much as wifey."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I am surprised nobody wants a smaller one just for fun and to test whether the statement, "it's not about size it's about how you use it" can be used?
The hubby or regular partner would then feel more confident regarding size. 
It appears that there are a few greedy people out there.  |
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"I am surprised nobody wants a smaller one just for fun and to test whether the statement, "it's not about size it's about how you use it" can be used?
The hubby or regular partner would then feel more confident regarding size.
It appears that there are a few greedy people out there. "
I don't want to drive a Lamborghini because it drives well. I want to drive it because it looks sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest it shouldn't matter bigger or smaller as long as not pee wee, or a race horse, but it should be about the connection if the guy is the right person to meet"
We view it this way too. |
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"To be honest it shouldn't matter bigger or smaller as long as not pee wee, or a race horse, but it should be about the connection if the guy is the right person to meet
We view it this way too."
That's as maybe.. but "the first bite is with the eye". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Being tiny myself, I've no interest in big dicks, what's the point when half of its hanging out of me.
Yes I've seen amazing pics, some are very photogenic possibly more so than average/small and whilst I admire the pics, I've no desire to try big again.
I love rough sex, average sized is plenty, big just makes me feel like my internals are falling out for the next week and I've no interest in slow, intimate sex with strangers - only my hubby gets to see that side of me.
So for me I'd rather 2 or 3 average that fill me comfortably in the rough manner I crave  |
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We don't obsess with size but broadly speaking average to a bit above average best suits my girlfriend. However for oral fun there is no size limit. The bigger it is the easier it is for us to suck on together.
One observation I feel obliged to mention though. I used to indulge in cuckolding couples when I was single and the cuck didn't have to have a cock smaller than mine for humiliation to play a part if they were so inclined.
With one particular couple part of the humiliation was based on the fact that my slightly smaller cock gave the man's wife so much more pleasure. Sometimes its the less obvious things that make cuck role play all the more effective |
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Personally... 99% of the time ive been asked to cuckold is due to size preference. Not to stereotyoe it just comes with part of the fantasy and the culture of someone bigger stepping in has been put in place. Im honestly of the opinion that its definitely more about ehat you can do with what you have and I can say that proudly as a very well endowed man. But to say size doesn't matter is just nonsense and alot of people use that as a fail safe go to place when the dont rruly know how to express their own views. Size matters because every singke person that likes a cock will have a preference weither they admit it or not. Some want a certain aize weither its big or small for physical pleasure, aesthetic purposes or whatever. Weither everyone wants a big one is of course a different matter all together but this whole "size doesn't matter" auto reply is just nonsense.
Size definitely matters, it just matters in different ways for different people. |
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"Personally... 99% of the time ive been asked to cuckold is due to size preference. Not to stereotyoe it just comes with part of the fantasy and the culture of someone bigger stepping in has been put in place. Im honestly of the opinion that its definitely more about ehat you can do with what you have and I can say that proudly as a very well endowed man. But to say size doesn't matter is just nonsense and alot of people use that as a fail safe go to place when the dont rruly know how to express their own views. Size matters because every singke person that likes a cock will have a preference weither they admit it or not. Some want a certain aize weither its big or small for physical pleasure, aesthetic purposes or whatever. Weither everyone wants a big one is of course a different matter all together but this whole "size doesn't matter" auto reply is just nonsense.
Size definitely matters, it just matters in different ways for different people. "
Oh I agree that size plays a part. I have been swinging for many a year and have what you might call a pragmatic perspective. There are no perfect specimens anywhere on this planet be they male or female. what one lacks in one area can be made up for elsewhere. Oh and I am not just referring to physical attributes but among other things personality and attitude too.
I loved cuckold roleplay so not looking like the porn representation of what a Bull should look like wasn't going to stop me. I was always upfront about what was inside the tin and it never hindered my fair share of pleasure with couples. I think every cuckold couple I met had a big cock fantasy. However the mere fact that we met and had fun confirmed that in many instances the desire for a big juicy cock is just one piece of a bigger jigsaw.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't care, unless it's for DP then either a similar size or slightly bigger. I'm not big enough down there to comfortably accommodate more than 2 average sized at a time (and before the smart arses tell me it stretches, yes it does, uncomfortably so, so average sized is just fine for 2 at a time) |
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Good afternoon swingers. I’m relatively new to this and am eager to explore my sexuality with a couple. Met a few lovely ladies but am mostly just a wanker to be honest, good thing I can keep my self occupied in more than own way. I live in north London but am happy to travel and be a regular playmate  |
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... plus hub has very tight ass 