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"I'm in a hotel. Wanna meet?"

By *otSoNewWalesCouple OP Couple over a year ago

South Wales

Does this actually work?

We often get messages from some desperately optimistic guys inviting us to meet them at nearby hotels they're staying in.

We'd never do that. The chat, flirting and build up is a big part of the fun for us (though we accept we all approach this swinging lark from different angles).

So the question is; do these guys actually get people to visit them at the drop of a hat?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suppose it's a 1 in a million chance as opposed to 0 , glass half full etc. Plus it's a room you can use. Why not try. Never know afterall if the moon is blue and the tide is red it could happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some do meet that way. I'm sure they'd question your way of doing things too, op.

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

As a single female...I would never go on a meet like this. Just too risky. You don't know what you're walking into. Besides, it smacks of dial-a-shag...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get those all the time. As if !

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I used to get these messages on a daily basis, and they do really piss me off, as they don't include any info or pictures.

I started to respond with 'I'll just get my coat'

It took them a while to suss out I didn't actually know what hotel they were in

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I get these type of messages every day. Most annoying as they clearly haven't read my profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no idea if they do haha. I think these types of messages are normal on here. They don't know unless they try

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We wouldn’t, for us there needs to be more interaction before the messy stuff begins but this post has made me think.....for us it seems we need to go through a mini/speed courtship process, a friendly conversation, mutual physical attraction, a laugh and joke and a general good feeling.

That might only take an hour but without it I don’t think swinging would work for us

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By *orthatry84Couple over a year ago

cardiff

I much prefer spending some time having a bit of a flirt and building the expectation, makes it all the better when I meet them, just working on getting past the social stage now!

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By *onny MCMan over a year ago

Crawley

I got chatting to a sales rep on here who was staying a night in my home town and was looking for a nearby club. After deciding everywhere I recommended was too far from her hotel she invited me over for a meet instead. Had a fantastic evening, so Yes, they do happen and do work out.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

I had this on my single prof yest and no it doesnt,well with me anyway.

I like to get to know someone and not have them expect me to come to them after a few messages.

Miss

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By *VineMan over a year ago

The right place

It has worked for me. I’m often working away from home. More often than not it doesn’t but it’s worth a shot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I suppose it's a 1 in a million chance as opposed to 0 , glass half full etc. Plus it's a room you can use. Why not try. Never know afterall if the moon is blue and the tide is red it could happen"

Mini bars off limits!

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By *ringles0510Woman over a year ago

Central Borders

"I got chatting to a sales rep on here who was staying a night in my home town and was looking for a nearby club. After deciding everywhere I recommended was too far from her hotel she invited me over for a meet instead. Had a fantastic evening, so Yes, they do happen and do work out. "

After chatting, yeah that might work out really well. Chat is usually what's missing though. No chat, just a random invite from someone without even knowing what they look like

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By *ndonmaleMan over a year ago

Preston

I stay over in Manchester fairly regular, and am yet to meet anyone on the spur of the moment.

However I have had meets at my hotel after first chatting on here, then meeting for a drink before all agreed to return to my room.

I've also had just socials on my visits, it's just that I have a room and can accommodate if needed.

I don't see why it should be any different to accommodating at your home. I guess it depends on how you want to play.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I stay away two or three nights every week but I always put a meet up on my profile as well as messaging a lady who has caught my eye to chat with prior to me getting to my location. I regularly visit the same locations over and over again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes! it works for me. I wouldn't meet that night as I like a bit of notice usually. Saying that, one of the best meets I had was a short notice hotel meet!

I personally can't stand days and days of chat, it bores me senseless! For me the chatters aren't shaggers!

Hotels get around that I don't accom. And I'm possibly safer there than going to the guy's home as lots of people around so I could scream. Plus I would be on cctv in reception.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it does work for some people.

I met a man at a hotel one night to fulfill a fantasy, though he did message me a couple of days before to say he was staying in my area. We exchanged a few messages then left it at that until I knocked on his hotel door.

Angel

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By *rsTrellisWoman over a year ago

Cambridge

I would. If the guy had a good profile, nice pics and, crucially, plenty of good verifications.

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By *un4allxMan over a year ago

Arkley

It’s 50/50. A few of my meets have been spur of the moment hotel meeys after a drink in the bar if all agreeable, then back to the room. Sometimes I get a lot of interest and no meet, and other times little interest which turns into a really pleasurable meet for all. Very rare do I get a response from a single lady, but that is understandable. I always exchange face pics, and I have good verifications, so don’t be shy, next time I have a hotel, come along they are usually 4 and 5 star, not a Travellodge.

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By *un4allxMan over a year ago

Arkley

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By *appy squirrelWoman over a year ago

Norwich

a "wanna come over now and fuck" doesn't interest me.

but someone who is planning ahead which allows some time for a chat - why not? drink at the bar downstairs and see how it goes- perfect!

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By *eviantdeliteWoman over a year ago

Cheltenham