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Why do guys like sharing their wife
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i love sharing my wife |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I think some guys enjoy seeing her being pleasured, I think others feel proud that others are attracted to their wives.
If you have found someone who shares your dynamic, treasure her because it's very special and you are both lucky. |
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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago
Hertfordshire |
"I think some guys enjoy seeing her being pleasured, I think others feel proud that others are attracted to their wives.
If you have found someone who shares your dynamic, treasure her because it's very special and you are both lucky."
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I love seeing my wife enjoying herself and ducking other guys. Turns us both on and the wife gets all the sex she needs witch keeps her satisfied and smilling . Happy to watch or simply stay out of the way as long as she's happy |
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By *anrteeCouple
over a year ago
London |
"I think some guys enjoy seeing her being pleasured, I think others feel proud that others are attracted to their wives.
If you have found someone who shares your dynamic, treasure her because it's very special and you are both lucky."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We havent tried it yet but i do really want to watch her have sex with bigger guys esp black guys she knew about this and we talk about this when we have sex she get turn on big time but everytime i do ask her to try it for real she wont reply dont know what to do |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Respect that she doesn't want to at the moment. |
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"We havent tried it yet but i do really want to watch her have sex with bigger guys esp black guys she knew about this and we talk about this when we have sex she get turn on big time but everytime i do ask her to try it for real she wont reply dont know what to do"
Hide your profile and communicate with her. Ask her if she can tell you why she doesn't want to talk about it. Sometimes people are happy to fantasise about things but not actually do them and knowing there's a profile on here will be putting pressure on. Saying nothing is sometimes easier than saying no. |
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Would be delighted to have a wife to share......!! |
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Also I think referring to sharing a person implies that you're the one in control and have a sense of ownership. If anybody refers to me as being shared I wouldn't meet them, it has a Stepford Wives ring to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love seeing my wife enjoying herself and ducking other guys. Turns us both on and the wife gets all the sex she needs witch keeps her satisfied and smilling . Happy to watch or simply stay out of the way as long as she's happy "
Glad I’m
Not the only one that loves ducking !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like gals who share their husbands.  |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"i love sharing my wife"
Me too, her choice in ladies is very good....  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Also I think referring to sharing a person implies that you're the one in control and have a sense of ownership. If anybody refers to me as being shared I wouldn't meet them, it has a Stepford Wives ring to it."
Fully agree. We swing to share the experience not to share each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby loves seeing me being fucked by another man and also to join in and spit roast me.
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luv seeing the wife fucked hard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love this too |
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"We havent tried it yet but i do really want to watch her have sex with bigger guys esp black guys she knew about this and we talk about this when we have sex she get turn on big time but everytime i do ask her to try it for real she wont reply dont know what to do"
Well there is a forum search function and this question comes up a lot. But to save you some time, here's a summary of the normal advice given. Since you've already tried and failed to talk to her about it, it's best to manipulate her into swinging. One scenario you could try is to break down crying one night and tell her that you've run up gambling debts with the local mob. Tell her that the debts are so bad, the only way to keep the mob at bay is for her to fuck 'vinnie the hand'. Hopefully she'll enjoy it enough to continue only a voluntary basis but this is how most couples start out swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s an ultimate turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We havent tried it yet but i do really want to watch her have sex with bigger guys esp black guys she knew about this and we talk about this when we have sex she get turn on big time but everytime i do ask her to try it for real she wont reply dont know what to do
Well there is a forum search function and this question comes up a lot. But to save you some time, here's a summary of the normal advice given. Since you've already tried and failed to talk to her about it, it's best to manipulate her into swinging. One scenario you could try is to break down crying one night and tell her that you've run up gambling debts with the local mob. Tell her that the debts are so bad, the only way to keep the mob at bay is for her to fuck 'vinnie the hand'. Hopefully she'll enjoy it enough to continue only a voluntary basis but this is how most couples start out swinging. "
Haha. That's awesome  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love J being fucked. The more she’s fucked by other guys the more I love it. |
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We both love it. She says it brings the slut out of her. When she is fucking someone else. |
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A question for the ladies taking and getting fucked by cock infront of yer men , did ye have to be talked into it or did it come natural who brought it up you or him |
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By *ed PlanetCouple
over a year ago
Beautiful East Yorkshire |
"Also I think referring to sharing a person implies that you're the one in control and have a sense of ownership. If anybody refers to me as being shared I wouldn't meet them, it has a Stepford Wives ring to it.
Fully agree. We swing to share the experience not to share each other"
Us too!
Love watching her suck someone’s cock while someone else is sucking me! |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Very difficult to describe. I’ve always loved watching her in various scenarios so it was I guess inevitable that the sexual element would present itself. I like to look at her and she loves the fact I do, so I suppose this was a natural progression for us especially as we’ve always s been sexually adventurous from day one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tom loves it. Discussed at length the reasons, he says it gives him ownership, watching others fuck me is intense for him... I just find myself watching him throughout
For me it's the power, loving that I can control his feelings, love to see the look on his face.
For us it's not so much the sex, but the mind game, the control and intensity. And our sex afterwards is just mind blowing, loves that because he sees it as reconnection.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some guys enjoy seeing her being pleasured, I think others feel proud that others are attracted to their wives.
If you have found someone who shares your dynamic, treasure her because it's very special and you are both lucky."
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"Tom loves it. Discussed at length the reasons, he says it gives him ownership, watching others fuck me is intense for him... I just find myself watching him throughout
For me it's the power, loving that I can control his feelings, love to see the look on his face.
For us it's not so much the sex, but the mind game, the control and intensity. And our sex afterwards is just mind blowing, loves that because he sees it as reconnection.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question for the ladies taking and getting fucked by cock infront of yer men , did ye have to be talked into it or did it come natural who brought it up you or him "
If I got the impression my partner was trying to talk me into something I was reluctant about, he'd be my ex-partner. |
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By *andaCouple
over a year ago
co down |
We share eachother..... it is an extension of our sex life. A treat to ourselves every now and then |
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"Also I think referring to sharing a person implies that you're the one in control and have a sense of ownership. If anybody refers to me as being shared I wouldn't meet them, it has a Stepford Wives ring to it."
Surely if your husband and another guy fuck youvtogether they are sharing? No? |
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We haven’t done it but my wife knows I’d like to but I think she is scared it would change out a relationship or I’d think less of her after!
I most definitely wouldn’t !!! |
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"We haven’t done it but my wife knows I’d like to but I think she is scared it would change out a relationship or I’d think less of her after!
I most definitely wouldn’t !!!"
You cannot categorically say it wouldn't change your relationship because it most probably will. I think lots of people say this when discussing swinging with a hesitant partner. If you discuss the ways it might change (there are good ways as well as bad) and agree strategies to minimise or enhance those changes it can put certain fears to rest. |
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"i love sharing my wife"
You love the *idea*, because later down you say you haven't done it yet... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We havent tried it yet but i do really want to watch her have sex with bigger guys esp black guys she knew about this and we talk about this when we have sex she get turn on big time but everytime i do ask her to try it for real she wont reply dont know what to do"
Are you hoping to have sex with other women too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loving this thread x |
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Seeing your wife/gf enjoying another cock then the reclaim sex after is amazing |
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By *rryTMan
over a year ago
Nottingham |
Because it turns them on, same as pretty much every kink I'd have thought |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I would be very happy to be in a situation where my playmate enjoyed watching me with others. If everybody's happy then all good. |
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Each to their own. It is really interesting, because I know I could never do it for the same reasons many do, do it.
So, it never ceases to be intriguing to me, to hear the reasons. |
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My partner has sex with other men, which we both like. I don't share her as I don't own her. |
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"I love seeing my wife enjoying herself and ducking other guys. Turns us both on and the wife gets all the sex she needs witch keeps her satisfied and smilling . Happy to watch or simply stay out of the way as long as she's happy
Glad I’m
Not the only one that loves ducking !!!!"
And Diving |
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"We haven’t done it but my wife knows I’d like to but I think she is scared it would change out a relationship or I’d think less of her after!
I most definitely wouldn’t !!!
You cannot categorically say it wouldn't change your relationship because it most probably will. I think lots of people say this when discussing swinging with a hesitant partner. If you discuss the ways it might change (there are good ways as well as bad) and agree strategies to minimise or enhance those changes it can put certain fears to rest."
What ways do you think it will change? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A question for the ladies taking and getting fucked by cock infront of yer men , did ye have to be talked into it or did it come natural who brought it up you or him
If I got the impression my partner was trying to talk me into something I was reluctant about, he'd be my ex-partner. "
Really? That simple eh? You get an impression, or you just don't like something and that’s you off? Wow you must get through a LOT of partners. |
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"Seeing your wife/gf enjoying another cock then the reclaim sex after is amazing "
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We met on fab. So was easy for us to talk about. We both enjoy it and long may it continue. G loves to watch and listen. |
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i do enjoy shareing sammi its a turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love cock and to feel that my bf loves me to enjoy myself and let me to be shared by him and another man is a big turn on. I get turned on knowing there is other men out there who fancy me too. |
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"i love sharing my wife"
Can I have her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't enjoy sharing my wife but I do it anyhow cause I'm thoughtful like that |
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"A question for the ladies taking and getting fucked by cock infront of yer men , did ye have to be talked into it or did it come natural who brought it up you or him
If I got the impression my partner was trying to talk me into something I was reluctant about, he'd be my ex-partner.
Really? That simple eh? You get an impression, or you just don't like something and that’s you off? Wow you must get through a LOT of partners. "
Well said!!! Relationship is give n take and happy mediums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple who swing with other couples unless its a own partner you watch we watch, are not all couples enjoying seeing their partner play with another m/f? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love this ..love to see Lisa with other guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like gals who share their husbands. "
ROFL! I don't mind either!
Thanks for the generosity, ladies! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i love sharing my wife"
maybe they are trying to find a good home for her
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Hard to beat watching your wife getting a good hard seeing to. She loves it. And I love it. |
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"We havent tried it yet but i do really want to watch her have sex with bigger guys esp black guys she knew about this and we talk about this when we have sex she get turn on big time but everytime i do ask her to try it for real she wont reply dont know what to do
Well there is a forum search function and this question comes up a lot. But to save you some time, here's a summary of the normal advice given. Since you've already tried and failed to talk to her about it, it's best to manipulate her into swinging. One scenario you could try is to break down crying one night and tell her that you've run up gambling debts with the local mob. Tell her that the debts are so bad, the only way to keep the mob at bay is for her to fuck 'vinnie the hand'. Hopefully she'll enjoy it enough to continue only a voluntary basis but this is how most couples start out swinging. "
That’s not how it started for us. We were abducted by a very horny tribe of aliens from Uranus (so that’s how it got it’s name). We were kept locked under there stairs except when we were allowed out. They then strapped J to a table and tried to have sex with her. Unfortunately being aliens they didn’t have a cock ( who knew that!). After three months of this the frustration J felt was unbearable. They returned us to earth and ever since then we have enjoyed having lots of really naughty sex with other couples as well as the highlight of seeing J being thoroughly spoilt sexually with other guys. For us it’s therapy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We share eachother..... it is an extension of our sex life. A treat to ourselves every now and then "
Says it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t get it tbh just saying |
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WTF? ‘Sharing your wife’?? Has the swinging scene suddenly regressed a few centuries? A marriage certificate is not proof of ownership!!! The term sharing implies that the husband is giving permission for others to use his wife. We are a married couple and we have recreational sex with other people for OUR pleasure. |
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"Sharing is caring lol"
Sharing is fucking hot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was here with first wife some years back and then with my lovely Fem FB for a couple years, we / I loved sharing it was an unbelievable experience and made if they enjoyed WS |
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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago
lake ariel |
I'm not exactly sure why my hubby likes me to fuck other men but I'm not going to complain |
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"I think some guys enjoy seeing her being pleasured, I think others feel proud that others are attracted to their wives.
If you have found someone who shares your dynamic, treasure her because it's very special and you are both lucky."
Spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife loves the idea of other men fancying her.
I love the thought of other men fancying her and fucking her.
When we are having sex she really gets into it.
The closest we have got is she was giving me oral in our car while others were watching and she got her pussy out to them and she loved it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think for me though it's mainly to see her in positions and from angles I can't see when we are fucking. That and to see her being pleased buy a hotter guy and bigger guy than me |
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we worked as am escort couple for several years. I loved to watch my wife take payment, morph into a prostitute then shamelessly fuck a guy in front of me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"WTF? ‘Sharing your wife’?? Has the swinging scene suddenly regressed a few centuries? A marriage certificate is not proof of ownership!!! The term sharing implies that the husband is giving permission for others to use his wife. We are a married couple and we have recreational sex with other people for OUR pleasure."
Don’t think that is what it means at all. In a vanilla relationship you only have sex with each other in swinging others are joining in so technically if 2 of you are fucking that one person your sharing. Nothing about owning was even mentioned. |
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We enjoy it watching wife being use |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also I think referring to sharing a person implies that you're the one in control and have a sense of ownership. If anybody refers to me as being shared I wouldn't meet them, it has a Stepford Wives ring to it."
Why bother marrying at all then? |
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One for Mr TMN to answer here! |
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By *rthangMan
over a year ago
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I don't have a wife but I've met with a few couples who do share and found it highly erotic. I'd live to do it again. I'm in West Yorkshire |
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By *andm300Man
over a year ago
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I have this fantasy and it has confused the hell out of me. I don’t know if it’s to see if I can learn something new that she likes, to reclaim her (fire up my testosterone), see her get pleasured in a way I can’t ( you can only be someone new once), to see her lose control and let herself go fully, out of love for her give her the ultimate gift ... freedom.
But if she’s not really getting off on it it does not work for me and also I need the guy to be bigger than me. Shame as She is too scared of std’s even with a condom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One school of thought is it reminds us how attractive to other halves are ... and so rekindles the attraction between the two. Especially if the real world has been getting in the way. Social proof as it were. |
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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago
East Northamptonshire |
It's not a case of sharing her, shes not a possession to be shared. It's a case of loving to see and get her as excited as possible and it's not always possible to do everything you want with just one pair of hands, mouth or cock. It's also the joint excitement of talking openly about our fantasies and desires and the run up to a meet or club visit. The intimacy and openness involved just means that everything between you feels closer. Many vanilla couples don't openly approve of the type of play we indulge in but then most of them are never close enough to their partner to be able to share everything with them and, by default, they can never be as open and close as a swinging couple are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many vanilla couples don't openly approve of the type of play we indulge in but then most of them are never close enough to their partner to be able to share everything with them and, by default, they can never be as open and close as a swinging couple are."
How do you know this? |
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Do men like sharing their wife because they think it's only fair that another man gets nagged at  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not a case of sharing her, shes not a possession to be shared. It's a case of loving to see and get her as excited as possible and it's not always possible to do everything you want with just one pair of hands, mouth or cock. It's also the joint excitement of talking openly about our fantasies and desires and the run up to a meet or club visit. The intimacy and openness involved just means that everything between you feels closer. Many vanilla couples don't openly approve of the type of play we indulge in but then most of them are never close enough to their partner to be able to share everything with them and, by default, they can never be as open and close as a swinging couple are."
Totally disagree. Some people just aren’t wired to share their sex life. Many people on here aren’t. We are, and arguably lucky to be able to enjoy others giving our partners pleasure, but I don’t think we can be smug and dismissive about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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F here and although we are not married I love that my guy likes to share me. We always choose together who to meet it’s all about the erotic experience |
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"I think some guys enjoy seeing her being pleasured, I think others feel proud that others are attracted to their wives.
If you have found someone who shares your dynamic, treasure her because it's very special and you are both lucky."
Completely agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can’t fully explain it but it’s feckin great!!
Only soft play but that’s enough for me. |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
this is the ultimate for me... not been lucky enough to find a regular couple yet though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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anticipation, nerves, excitement, jealous, all add to an erotic experience, and then reclaim sex |
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We occasionally have MFM fun but the extra male only gets soft play BJ kissing licking and touching etc etc... might one day go all the way...... Depends on ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s exciting seeing her with someone else nothing quite like it for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love sharing my partners. I believe they are all too good go keep to myself. Sex is about sharing and enjoying it. I love them flirting and teasing other men. It's so hot. |
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"I love sharing my partners. I believe they are all too good go keep to myself. Sex is about sharing and enjoying it. I love them flirting and teasing other men. It's so hot. "
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"We occasionally have MFM fun but the extra male only gets soft play BJ kissing licking and touching etc etc... might one day go all the way...... Depends on ....."
Sounds good to me, lucky guys |
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"I have this fantasy and it has confused the hell out of me. I don’t know if it’s to see if I can learn something new that she likes, to reclaim her (fire up my testosterone), see her get pleasured in a way I can’t ( you can only be someone new once), to see her lose control and let herself go fully, out of love for her give her the ultimate gift ... freedom.
But if she’s not really getting off on it it does not work for me and also I need the guy to be bigger than me. Shame as She is too scared of std’s even with a condom."
This sums it up very eloquently. |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
walsall |
"I think some guys enjoy seeing her being pleasured, I think others feel proud that others are attracted to their wives.
If you have found someone who shares your dynamic, treasure her because it's very special and you are both lucky."
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love seeing Britt with other guys. Such a turn on knowing she is getting pleasured |
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I love watching my wife fuck, she looks great. But I keep her arse strictly for myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s wonderful getting to see her happy and pleasured, sharing is caring. Compersion is such an amazing feeling! |
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By *rthangMan
over a year ago
calderdale |
Certainly some hot wives in here that I'd love to share  |
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One of the sexiest sites watching your wife being pleasured by another man especially if she cums too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totaly agree with _cutebum9. I just love seeing my wife enjoy herself with others for the same reason as yourselves. |
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For us it's an act of love.
Like most lovers, we want to give each other sexual arousal, pleasure and satisfaction. However, we understand that even total commitment to each other does not preclude feeling attraction to others or fulfill all fantasies.
We bring other people into our relationship to allow each other to explore these desires and fantasies. We are not doing it for the other people who join us. We are doing it for each other.
Just as we wouldn't feel threatened by the other watching porn, we also don't feel threatened by the other physically engaging with another person's body. We want to be with each other, loving them, supporting them, enjoying them having pleasure and feeling the connection between us throughout. That's why we prefer couples and have no interest in separate-room meets. Everything is equal and we can share the experience together.
When it's all done, our relationship and love for each other is at least as strong. There is full trust, no jealousy, no secrets and no pretending. As long as we communicate all the time and never put pressure on the other to do something they don't want, what's not to like? |
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So hot watching Tracey with two guys
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"For us it's an act of love.
Like most lovers, we want to give each other sexual arousal, pleasure and satisfaction. However, we understand that even total commitment to each other does not preclude feeling attraction to others or fulfill all fantasies.
We bring other people into our relationship to allow each other to explore these desires and fantasies. We are not doing it for the other people who join us. We are doing it for each other.
Just as we wouldn't feel threatened by the other watching porn, we also don't feel threatened by the other physically engaging with another person's body. We want to be with each other, loving them, supporting them, enjoying them having pleasure and feeling the connection between us throughout. That's why we prefer couples and have no interest in separate-room meets. Everything is equal and we can share the experience together.
When it's all done, our relationship and love for each other is at least as strong. There is full trust, no jealousy, no secrets and no pretending. As long as we communicate all the time and never put pressure on the other to do something they don't want, what's not to like? "
This is exactly our story.
Added is also Mr finds Mrs so attractive its nice to see from the third person rather than the third sometimes |
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Love watching jane enjoy being with a other guy something we both enjoy. |
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Absolutely the best feeling, them butterflies when your wife is kissing and sucking another blokes cock, nothing like it. I am so lucky to have a wife that enjoys this so long may it continue xx |
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Just so sexy to watch her play |
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My reasons with my ex were that most guys love a dirty girl to be slutty, seeing her facial expressions as she was fucked good and hard. The proof was always in the orgasms. I couldn't as i was caged back then. |
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I've no idea the reasons why but god bless you if you do share your wife |
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"Also I think referring to sharing a person implies that you're the one in control and have a sense of ownership. If anybody refers to me as being shared I wouldn't meet them, it has a Stepford Wives ring to it.
Fully agree. We swing to share the experience not to share each other"
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By *ragsterMan
over a year ago
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If only my wife did share herself.
For me it would be because my milf wife is such a one man woman...to see her becoming the exact opposite and have this other side to her would be so horny.. and to see other men appreciating her would be stuff of dreams..and sadly..that's all I can do..keep on dreaming...:-/ |
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We love it too.
There is that heart stopping moment when my wife first strips naked for the strangers we are meeting. Seeing her taking a guys cock in mouth is.. wow!
She knows how much it excites me watching her behave like a slut. She says it excites her too watching my reaction as she does something particularly outrageous. Lol
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"We love it too.
There is that heart stopping moment when my wife first strips naked for the strangers we are meeting. Seeing her taking a guys cock in mouth is.. wow!
She knows how much it excites me watching her behave like a slut. She says it excites her too watching my reaction as she does something particularly outrageous. Lol
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This describes it perfectly for us. Love her looking at me as she unzips him, smiles, and gets to work. So so hot! |
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"We love it too.
There is that heart stopping moment when my wife first strips naked for the strangers we are meeting. Seeing her taking a guys cock in mouth is.. wow!
She knows how much it excites me watching her behave like a slut. She says it excites her too watching my reaction as she does something particularly outrageous. Lol
This describes it perfectly for us. Love her looking at me as she unzips him, smiles, and gets to work. So so hot!"
We couldn’t agree more!!!!! |
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"We love it too.
There is that heart stopping moment when my wife first strips naked for the strangers we are meeting. Seeing her taking a guys cock in mouth is.. wow!
She knows how much it excites me watching her behave like a slut. She says it excites her too watching my reaction as she does something particularly outrageous. Lol
This describes it perfectly for us. Love her looking at me as she unzips him, smiles, and gets to work. So so hot!
We couldn’t agree more!!!!!"
Our eyes connecting. The little smile on her lips as she enjoys my reaction. Then she takes a total strangers hard cock deep in her mouth |
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"We love it too.
There is that heart stopping moment when my wife first strips naked for the strangers we are meeting. Seeing her taking a guys cock in mouth is.. wow!
She knows how much it excites me watching her behave like a slut. She says it excites her too watching my reaction as she does something particularly outrageous. Lol
This describes it perfectly for us. Love her looking at me as she unzips him, smiles, and gets to work. So so hot!
We couldn’t agree more!!!!!
Our eyes connecting. The little smile on her lips as she enjoys my reaction. Then she takes a total strangers hard cock deep in her mouth "
Yes! Since we started this, I’ve watched zero porn, only “wife porn” Love watching the videos of her just losing herself to lust. Life is good! |
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I’d love a nice couple to build a friendship with and share amazing experiences |
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"We love it too.
There is that heart stopping moment when my wife first strips naked for the strangers we are meeting. Seeing her taking a guys cock in mouth is.. wow!
She knows how much it excites me watching her behave like a slut. She says it excites her too watching my reaction as she does something particularly outrageous. Lol
This describes it perfectly for us. Love her looking at me as she unzips him, smiles, and gets to work. So so hot!
We couldn’t agree more!!!!!
Our eyes connecting. The little smile on her lips as she enjoys my reaction. Then she takes a total strangers hard cock deep in her mouth
Yes! Since we started this, I’ve watched zero porn, only “wife porn” Love watching the videos of her just losing herself to lust. Life is good!"
Your wifes homemade porn videos? |
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"We love it too.
There is that heart stopping moment when my wife first strips naked for the strangers we are meeting. Seeing her taking a guys cock in mouth is.. wow!
She knows how much it excites me watching her behave like a slut. She says it excites her too watching my reaction as she does something particularly outrageous. Lol
This describes it perfectly for us. Love her looking at me as she unzips him, smiles, and gets to work. So so hot!
We couldn’t agree more!!!!!
Our eyes connecting. The little smile on her lips as she enjoys my reaction. Then she takes a total strangers hard cock deep in her mouth
Yes! Since we started this, I’ve watched zero porn, only “wife porn” Love watching the videos of her just losing herself to lust. Life is good!
Your wifes homemade porn videos?"
Yes indeed. |
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"We love it too.
There is that heart stopping moment when my wife first strips naked for the strangers we are meeting. Seeing her taking a guys cock in mouth is.. wow!
She knows how much it excites me watching her behave like a slut. She says it excites her too watching my reaction as she does something particularly outrageous. Lol
This describes it perfectly for us. Love her looking at me as she unzips him, smiles, and gets to work. So so hot!
We couldn’t agree more!!!!!
Our eyes connecting. The little smile on her lips as she enjoys my reaction. Then she takes a total strangers hard cock deep in her mouth
Yes! Since we started this, I’ve watched zero porn, only “wife porn” Love watching the videos of her just losing herself to lust. Life is good!
Your wifes homemade porn videos?
Yes indeed. "
Me too |
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I love watching my mrs with a cock in her mouth or pussy.she's after young and hung next time I believe.
Can't wait |
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Would love to have a relationship to share this life with |
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In our experience.... even better when the guy is paying to use my wife... |
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By *hejzxMan
over a year ago
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"I love watching my mrs with a cock in her mouth or pussy.she's after young and hung next time I believe.
Can't wait "
Where you based ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sharing is caring, but we share both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend of mine always thought that some sexual relationships with partners can become boring and kink and swinging offered a route for more creativity.
Not saying that is the case but personally, I always became disinterested with partners if they were only in to vanilla sex. |
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"In our experience.... even better when the guy is paying to use my wife..."
Pardon |
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I love the look in my wife's eyes when she is about to take another. Magic. |
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Love sharing my wife at parties. It's such a turn on.
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so horny look at our pics guy with wife |
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Long live the sharers. We love you all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Love watching my wife take big black cocks that creampie her and she loves taking it not many BBC’s out ther that can handle her!!! |
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over a year ago
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My husband doesn’t share me, as he doesn’t own me |
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Cause it’s hot as fuck!!
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"Cause it’s hot as fuck!!
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Haha. Oh so true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cause it’s hot as fuck!!
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This |
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"Hard to beat watching your wife getting a good hard seeing to. She loves it. And I love it."
Lucky fuckers |
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"We havent tried it yet but i do really want to watch her have sex with bigger guys esp black guys she knew about this and we talk about this when we have sex she get turn on big time but everytime i do ask her to try it for real she wont reply dont know what to do
Well there is a forum search function and this question comes up a lot. But to save you some time, here's a summary of the normal advice given. Since you've already tried and failed to talk to her about it, it's best to manipulate her into swinging. One scenario you could try is to break down crying one night and tell her that you've run up gambling debts with the local mob. Tell her that the debts are so bad, the only way to keep the mob at bay is for her to fuck 'vinnie the hand'. Hopefully she'll enjoy it enough to continue only a voluntary basis but this is how most couples start out swinging.
That’s not how it started for us. We were abducted by a very horny tribe of aliens from Uranus (so that’s how it got it’s name). We were kept locked under there stairs except when we were allowed out. They then strapped J to a table and tried to have sex with her. Unfortunately being aliens they didn’t have a cock ( who knew that!). After three months of this the frustration J felt was unbearable. They returned us to earth and ever since then we have enjoyed having lots of really naughty sex with other couples as well as the highlight of seeing J being thoroughly spoilt sexually with other guys. For us it’s therapy "
Do you make the guys dress up like aliens? |
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"In our experience.... even better when the guy is paying to use my wife..."
Adds to the excitement for you and ok because she is enjoying it |
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"Cause it’s hot as fuck!!
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Exactly |
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over a year ago
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Because there's fuck all on telly? |
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"We havent tried it yet but i do really want to watch her have sex with bigger guys esp black guys she knew about this and we talk about this when we have sex she get turn on big time but everytime i do ask her to try it for real she wont reply dont know what to do
Well there is a forum search function and this question comes up a lot. But to save you some time, here's a summary of the normal advice given. Since you've already tried and failed to talk to her about it, it's best to manipulate her into swinging. One scenario you could try is to break down crying one night and tell her that you've run up gambling debts with the local mob. Tell her that the debts are so bad, the only way to keep the mob at bay is for her to fuck 'vinnie the hand'. Hopefully she'll enjoy it enough to continue only a voluntary basis but this is how most couples start out swinging.
That’s not how it started for us. We were abducted by a very horny tribe of aliens from Uranus (so that’s how it got it’s name). We were kept locked under there stairs except when we were allowed out. They then strapped J to a table and tried to have sex with her. Unfortunately being aliens they didn’t have a cock ( who knew that!). After three months of this the frustration J felt was unbearable. They returned us to earth and ever since then we have enjoyed having lots of really naughty sex with other couples as well as the highlight of seeing J being thoroughly spoilt sexually with other guys. For us it’s therapy "
Must thank those aliens should we ever meet them . . . . |
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"We havent tried it yet but i do really want to watch her have sex with bigger guys esp black guys she knew about this and we talk about this when we have sex she get turn on big time but everytime i do ask her to try it for real she wont reply dont know what to do
Well there is a forum search function and this question comes up a lot. But to save you some time, here's a summary of the normal advice given. Since you've already tried and failed to talk to her about it, it's best to manipulate her into swinging. One scenario you could try is to break down crying one night and tell her that you've run up gambling debts with the local mob. Tell her that the debts are so bad, the only way to keep the mob at bay is for her to fuck 'vinnie the hand'. Hopefully she'll enjoy it enough to continue only a voluntary basis but this is how most couples start out swinging.
That’s not how it started for us. We were abducted by a very horny tribe of aliens from Uranus (so that’s how it got it’s name). We were kept locked under there stairs except when we were allowed out. They then strapped J to a table and tried to have sex with her. Unfortunately being aliens they didn’t have a cock ( who knew that!). After three months of this the frustration J felt was unbearable. They returned us to earth and ever since then we have enjoyed having lots of really naughty sex with other couples as well as the highlight of seeing J being thoroughly spoilt sexually with other guys. For us it’s therapy
Must thank those aliens should we ever meet them . . . . "
Make sure they don't probe you |
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My hubby loves watching me with other guys. We have met probably 20 guys in the past 6 months and loved every minute, hubby loves to watch or sometimes sucking their cocks to prepare them for me and i get to fuck guys which keeps me satisfied. The next step we want to take is for me to find 4 or 5 guys that i can see every week on my own, basically one each day while hubby is at work. Hubby gets incredibly turned on at the thought of me seeing a guy during the day while he is at work. We know this dosnt work for everyone but it certainly works for us. X |
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"We havent tried it yet but i do really want to watch her have sex with bigger guys esp black guys she knew about this and we talk about this when we have sex she get turn on big time but everytime i do ask her to try it for real she wont reply dont know what to do
Well there is a forum search function and this question comes up a lot. But to save you some time, here's a summary of the normal advice given. Since you've already tried and failed to talk to her about it, it's best to manipulate her into swinging. One scenario you could try is to break down crying one night and tell her that you've run up gambling debts with the local mob. Tell her that the debts are so bad, the only way to keep the mob at bay is for her to fuck 'vinnie the hand'. Hopefully she'll enjoy it enough to continue only a voluntary basis but this is how most couples start out swinging.
That’s not how it started for us. We were abducted by a very horny tribe of aliens from Uranus (so that’s how it got it’s name). We were kept locked under there stairs except when we were allowed out. They then strapped J to a table and tried to have sex with her. Unfortunately being aliens they didn’t have a cock ( who knew that!). After three months of this the frustration J felt was unbearable. They returned us to earth and ever since then we have enjoyed having lots of really naughty sex with other couples as well as the highlight of seeing J being thoroughly spoilt sexually with other guys. For us it’s therapy
Must thank those aliens should we ever meet them . . . .
Make sure they don't probe you"
Yes good point . . . |
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By *hejzxMan
over a year ago
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I am turned on by it the other way round. I love the idea of fucking a man's wife or Mrs and him knowing that she's getting fucked. Always had a thing for slightly older woman and definately something I'm looking to do in future :D |
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Ready to share someone’s wife lol |
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over a year ago
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"Also I think referring to sharing a person implies that you're the one in control and have a sense of ownership. If anybody refers to me as being shared I wouldn't meet them, it has a Stepford Wives ring to it.
Fully agree. We swing to share the experience not to share each other"
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over a year ago
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Gives them more time to play call of duty? |
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We've been there years ago and trying again. The Mrs like me is older and feels no one will look at her and "who wants to make love to someone close to 60" is what she says.
We are hoping to re-start slowly by someone coming around but not like the fool that came the other day and was nothing like what he said, pictures were from a few years ago he'd lost his hair, but on weight and a bit common and this put us both off and Mrs to an extent where she is not sure now 
Going back on topic, a good 25+ years ago, my wife eventually agreed to fuck another guy for me but later admitted it turned her on. Around that time she must have made love to at least 25+ plus guys and only one guy was allowed to visit twice as the last thing i wanted is for my wife to leave me. We'd also make love in front of like minded people and allowed some to kisss her and touch here tits, that must be another 30 or so guys - it made our sex life great.
I'm happy wanking hard especially if my wife is enjoying it and lets her self go but she does not really want to talk about it apart from the bloke with 9 inches, he must have been about 22 and wife/us just under 30, he made her cum hard and i still masturbate over that.
Now she is doing pictures for me, legs open and shy looking at them but does get turned on about the thought of guys wanking over her pictures. |
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By *ipsxxCouple
over a year ago
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Yeah I love watching the wife with another guy shame it’s not a regular thing finding the right guy is quite hart |
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The best one is a 9 inches fucking the wife in front of other guys and then you doing her there and then once you get home i for one will never forget that and often talk about it when i try to fuck my wife |
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Well the proper awser to that is because they love them..and make everthing they can to make them happy |
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This is a question so often asked here and on other forums.
We've tried to answer it on forums and when we're discussing it alone or with friends.
The answer is so simple, yet so complex.
There are a million short answers but the sum of the parts is so much more.
Becky has had about 20-25 lovers this year alone and we never get tired of having this scenario repeated. We'll probably do the same for the rest of this year and next.
Why we do it is not so important anymore. We don't analyse it, we just enjoy it.
It doesn't answer the question as to why, but do we actually need to know...?
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"This is a question so often asked here and on other forums.
We've tried to answer it on forums and when we're discussing it alone or with friends.
The answer is so simple, yet so complex.
There are a million short answers but the sum of the parts is so much more.
Becky has had about 20-25 lovers this year alone and we never get tired of having this scenario repeated. We'll probably do the same for the rest of this year and next.
Why we do it is not so important anymore. We don't analyse it, we just enjoy it.
It doesn't answer the question as to why, but do we actually need to know...?
That must be the very best answer we have ever seen. Spot on and ditto for us
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"I think some guys enjoy seeing her being pleasured, I think others feel proud that others are attracted to their wives.
If you have found someone who shares your dynamic, treasure her because it's very special and you are both lucky."
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over a year ago
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Love my missus being used |
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I share my wife as she enjoys being with other males and females and I get very horny sharing her and watching her enjoying herself. |
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Love seeing Jane being with a another guy |
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I love seeing my wife with other people (guys or girls). This is a huge turn on for us both.
Also love it when she meets on her own, or we have separate room fun, and then share what we’ve got up to - that leads to fantastic sex for us both!!!! |
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over a year ago
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That is a honest answer...enjoy 'it' while you can... Tomorrow is another day.. |
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By *aybe38Couple
over a year ago
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We have hopefully found a regular guy for my wife he has had sex with her three times at his flat each time I have waited in the car and she has videod it for me |
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I love watching dee getting down and dirty with another guy , she also loves the extra attention |
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