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I never expect a reply to a rejection message but I guess the 'best' response is a simple 'thanks for letting me know'. Sometimes you get the sheer annoying saying 'that's a shame because I know we'd have had a great time' or 'is there anything I can say or do to change your mind' !
In any case when I remember I tend to reject, and then block, to protect myself from potentially abusive replies like 'fuck you then' or 'fat old boiler' or 'I wasn't being serious'  |
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over a year ago
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"I never expect a reply to a rejection message but I guess the 'best' response is a simple 'thanks for letting me know'. Sometimes you get the sheer annoying saying 'that's a shame because I know we'd have had a great time' or 'is there anything I can say or do to change your mind' !
In any case when I remember I tend to reject, and then block, to protect myself from potentially abusive replies like 'fuck you then' or 'fat old boiler' or 'I wasn't being serious' "
Seriously youve been called fat? |
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over a year ago
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"What is the best/funniest reply that you have ever received after politely rejecting someone on Fab? "
The ones who messaged me first, stating they liked what they saw. Then when I politely declined to chat further, replied with racist and body shaming words.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The one we received that really stood out was. "If I ever see youse in Hamilton Palace I will r*pe and murder both of youse."
Hamilton Palace is a nightclub a few miles away from us, we have never set foot in it, but the best part is he hadn't seen a picture of us, so not sure how he would recognise us. |
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"The one we received that really stood out was. "If I ever see youse in Hamilton Palace I will r*pe and murder both of youse."
Hamilton Palace is a nightclub a few miles away from us, we have never set foot in it, but the best part is he hadn't seen a picture of us, so not sure how he would recognise us. "
Blimey, there really are some fucktards on here! I always blocked after a polite no thanks, couldn't be dealing with all the potential crap that often followed, trying to change your mind, the why not question or abuse. Some people on here are really pathetic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your loss. I find hilarious considering they messaged me. thick idiots."
The your loss one is hilarious. No it isn't my loss as I don't want to meet you! It just makes them look bitter and immature thus reinforcing my decision to not want to meet them as the correct one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The one we received that really stood out was. "If I ever see youse in Hamilton Palace I will r*pe and murder both of youse."
Hamilton Palace is a nightclub a few miles away from us, we have never set foot in it, but the best part is he hadn't seen a picture of us, so not sure how he would recognise us.
Blimey, there really are some fucktards on here! I always blocked after a polite no thanks, couldn't be dealing with all the potential crap that often followed, trying to change your mind, the why not question or abuse. Some people on here are really pathetic.
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Since that time we have blocked after sending a polite "Thanks for the message, but it's a no, but good luck with your search." |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"The one we received that really stood out was. "If I ever see youse in Hamilton Palace I will r*pe and murder both of youse."
Hamilton Palace is a nightclub a few miles away from us, we have never set foot in it, but the best part is he hadn't seen a picture of us, so not sure how he would recognise us. "
I hope you reported this psycho...  |
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"What is the best/funniest reply that you have ever received after politely rejecting someone on Fab?
The ones who messaged me first, stating they liked what they saw. Then when I politely declined to chat further, replied with racist and body shaming words.
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That's disgraceful. Were these horrible people reported to admin? |
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"What is the best/funniest reply that you have ever received after politely rejecting someone on Fab?
The ones who messaged me first, stating they liked what they saw. Then when I politely declined to chat further, replied with racist and body shaming words.
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That's disgraceful. Were these horrible people reported to admin?"
A few, if not all of them. All were blocked though. Probably rejoined with new profiles though! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The one we received that really stood out was. "If I ever see youse in Hamilton Palace I will r*pe and murder both of youse."
Hamilton Palace is a nightclub a few miles away from us, we have never set foot in it, but the best part is he hadn't seen a picture of us, so not sure how he would recognise us.
I hope you reported this psycho... "
We reported him right before we blocked him, pretty sure he was removed from the site or deleted his account. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After a few messages saying how gorgeous, beautiful and extremely sexy I am, they then turn around when I say I won't meet them and say that I'm too fat and ugly for them anyway.
Hilarious 
Angel |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After a few messages saying how gorgeous, beautiful and extremely sexy I am, they then turn around when I say I won't meet them and say that I'm too fat and ugly for them anyway.
Hilarious
Angel"
Can I just say your both smoking. But hate that guys can't take rejection gracefully, Mrs b x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fat, ugly.
Too short.
Poking at my appearance in any way they can.
The lowest ones are usually pointing out the scars on my Tits. I usually give a brief excuse the scars message before sending. Not much I can do to get rid of them. Wish I could.
Meh they got blocked and I get a bit upset sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never expect a reply to a rejection message but I guess the 'best' response is a simple 'thanks for letting me know'. Sometimes you get the sheer annoying saying 'that's a shame because I know we'd have had a great time' or 'is there anything I can say or do to change your mind' !
In any case when I remember I tend to reject, and then block, to protect myself from potentially abusive replies like 'fuck you then' or 'fat old boiler' or 'I wasn't being serious' "
Well I just had a perv, I mean look at your profile and you are far from a fat old boiler , so they are delusional,
Ps shame we are not closer, would have been nice to chat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does anyone reply to someone they are not interested in? The site rules are clear: no reply is a no.
By replying you are just inviting abuse. "
It’s called being polite and courteous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why does anyone reply to someone they are not interested in? The site rules are clear: no reply is a no.
By replying you are just inviting abuse.
It’s called being polite and courteous "
Or the 2 parties may have been chatting for a while only for one to say something that put the other off? Either way, the inviting abuse thing is a sad state of affairs that seems normal on here now. Why people need to be so nasty is beyond me. Its immature and pathetic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The vast majority of replies I've had have been polite. But yeah, the odd one telling me he was joking and I'm too old, fat and ugly for him. I guess it's heartening in some ways that only one guy has tried to use me being disabled to hit back.  |
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I've been called a few things after politely declining messages, or just deleting them with no reply, and get the 'your loss' 'Shame, you'd have enjoyed it' types too.
Think the funniest was when I replied to a very polite message (always reply to the polite ones) and got sent back, that I needed to change my attitude, lower my expectations, or I wouldn't go far on here.
My expectations are doing just fine so far.
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"Why does anyone reply to someone they are not interested in? The site rules are clear: no reply is a no.
By replying you are just inviting abuse.
It’s called being polite and courteous "
Most people will find direct rejection more hurtful than indirect rejection. Hence a no message will tend to be more hurtful than a no reply, hence why some people react badly.
There's also the point that someone gets all excited when they see they have a reply followed by crushing disappointment when they see it is a rejection.
Best for all concerned not to reply if there is no interest as far as I can see. |
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We have now started to just delete and block anyone we don't think is our cup of tea, we put a meet up Saturday after being let down by a guy as we were walking I to the bar to meet him would you believe,after asking us for months too,we had alot of response and my phone went dead but we had people block us because we didn't answer them quick enough, they only had to wait till we got home.to charge the phone.pity as would have liked a play too |
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It was funny when I just tried to tell someone women don't generally like seeing just a penis by itself and not just a penis,but a penis on a toilet seat. About 6 pic's in total. Same penis same toilet seat.
My boobs then weren't big enough anyway along with something else,then he blocked.
Shame really I was going to ask him if he wanted sex,oh well my loss.
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By (user no longer on site)
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One I had a few years back, where I was very polite in my rejection as he was only young, told me to shut the fuck up. He called me a stuck up bitch and messaged his number, saying I better call him in 10 minutes or I'd be sorry. He was blocked pretty promptly after that lovely message |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One I had a few years back, where I was very polite in my rejection as he was only young, told me to shut the fuck up. He called me a stuck up bitch and messaged his number, saying I better call him in 10 minutes or I'd be sorry. He was blocked pretty promptly after that lovely message "
I'd have said why 10 minutes, are you waiting for your mum to go out??! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One I had a few years back, where I was very polite in my rejection as he was only young, told me to shut the fuck up. He called me a stuck up bitch and messaged his number, saying I better call him in 10 minutes or I'd be sorry. He was blocked pretty promptly after that lovely message
I'd have said why 10 minutes, are you waiting for your mum to go out??!"
Damn! I should have thought of that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve had a lot of rejections, and never once have I sent a nasty reply, I don’t see the need. If somebody takes the time, effort and has the courtesy to reply to a message / even a no thank you - why be rude? Move on!
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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After politely rejecting someone he was insistent that I give him a reason so I said I wasn't attracted to him. He was unsure how I could say that as I hadn't seen him ( yes he had sent 2 face pics and it was clearly a face only a mother could love ) I wasn't exactly a babe myself and he was being kind offering
Much easier to delete without response now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was'nt actualy a rejection, but a guy asked me if i would wear a bag over my head?? Could'nt help but mail back asking- " Why? Are you that ugly"?. Yes i'm ashamed to admitt-- he blocked me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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'Well your fucking ugly and the blokes you meet are fucking ugly,so I don't wanna meet ya anyway!'.
I was disappointed he forgot the usual ending of slag/lesbo etc! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well f*ck you then you stuck up f*cking bitch I hope your d*ckhead of a bf f*cks off with someone else and leaves you sad and lonely you stuck up b*stard.
All that just because I said no sorry to a couple and I'm not looking for male contact as I have a bf but i wished them both luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is that your face pic in ur private profile album? I didn't expect you to look like that , sorry I don't fancy u!
lol I replied with yes it's my face who else's would it be
I mean Who's pic was it going to be in there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is the best/funniest reply that you have ever received after politely rejecting someone on Fab? "
“Yous love urselevs
The only reason you get meets is coz of the mrs mate”
What a tit he was!
MrsK |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was funny when I just tried to tell someone women don't generally like seeing just a penis by itself and not just a penis,but a penis on a toilet seat. About 6 pic's in total. Same penis same toilet seat.
My boobs then weren't big enough anyway along with something else,then he blocked.
Shame really I was going to ask him if he wanted sex,oh well my loss.
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A 6’ penis is just too big  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arrogant, self entitled. I would write more but you're not worth it (spelling corrected)
Not worth it but worthy enough to send a second message to. Mmmkay. |
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