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By *oppa OP Man
over a year ago
WALSALL |
To fit that criteria is up to the other couples then and lady I am not looking at throwing out I want to bang you comments I would like to think I care and that I can be trusted to meet up and get to know you some people better but find that wall a bit high to get over |
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Unfortunately you are at the disadvantage of having to get past the stigma that other single guys have created on here.
I think it's automatically assumed that, as a single guy, you're going to be pushy and potentially aggressive if turned down. If you do get into a play space with a couple or single lady, then you're going to not respect their boundaries. Or you're just going to be creepy and weird.
The challenge facing you and all other single guys is to convince the other party that you're none of the above and you can be trusted to act like a decent human in their company. In our experience, this can be achieved by talking to them normally about anything other than sex to begin with. Show a genuine interest in them as people and let them turn the conversation round to playing. Give them opportunities to move away from you so they can talk together. This goes for messaging too.
We're not specifically looking for guys to play with but we have chatted with one who shone out as a true gent. He's on our 'definitely maybe' list for if and when we want to go in that direction as we feel we can trust him. And that's been a good few months since we last spoke.
Of course, there are couples and ladies on here who have no such hang ups about guys and will happily meet after a few brief messages. It's kind of a lucky dip if you find them.  |
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By *oppa OP Man
over a year ago
WALSALL |
Well I would like to thank everyone for their thoughts and inputs I will take it all on board and do what the right thing always I know that I am a gent and will continue to be respect is paramount importance to me so once again thank you all happy fabbing |
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