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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?
What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?
Or once it's gone it's gone? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I go on a sex ban the week before. Guaranteed to be horny after a week of abstinence 
Amd a wank ban? 
Yep complete abstinence  "
No wonder my mojo through me in the back seat and is now driving with the stereo turned up to full.
It been s while.
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We refrain from any sexual activity for a couple of days, but have plenty of sexy chat, then we enjoy getting dressed up (Angel in sexy underwear and high heels) and that gets us revved up  |
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"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?
What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?
Or once it's gone it's gone? "
TBH I’m not sure!
Until very recently it’s not an issue I’ve ever had! I’m generally a very happy person with a very high sex drive and no confidence issues.
A group of others, though, are now making it so difficult for me to get repeat meets that I’m contemplating jacking it all in - as the idea of a fab life of one-off’s turns me pretty cold!
Don’t think it’s really worth meeting anyone when I know they’ll be coerced into not meeting again, no matter how amazing a time we have together!
Mojo now officially through the floor!  |
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"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?
What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?
Or once it's gone it's gone?
TBH I’m not sure!
Until very recently it’s not an issue I’ve ever had! I’m generally a very happy person with a very high sex drive and no confidence issues.
A group of others, though, are now making it so difficult for me to get repeat meets that I’m contemplating jacking it all in - as the idea of a fab life of one-off’s turns me pretty cold!
Don’t think it’s really worth meeting anyone when I know they’ll be coerced into not meeting again, no matter how amazing a time we have together!
Mojo now officially through the floor! "
How can others decide who you meet
Time for a complete change of friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?
What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?
Very rare I’m not in the mood to be honest, the reason would be I’m too ill or something out the ordinary had happened then I’d probably cancel as wouldn’t be on my game unless it was a regular and they’d understand anyway I’d hope
Or once it's gone it's gone? "
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"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?
What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?
Or once it's gone it's gone?
TBH I’m not sure!
Until very recently it’s not an issue I’ve ever had! I’m generally a very happy person with a very high sex drive and no confidence issues.
A group of others, though, are now making it so difficult for me to get repeat meets that I’m contemplating jacking it all in - as the idea of a fab life of one-off’s turns me pretty cold!
Don’t think it’s really worth meeting anyone when I know they’ll be coerced into not meeting again, no matter how amazing a time we have together!
Mojo now officially through the floor!
How can others decide who you meet
Time for a complete change of friends "
They ‘decide’ by contacting guys I’ve met as a large group - and - to put it politely - coerce them into not meeting me again!
It’s happened twice in the last couple of weeks - and several times over the last year or so - and needless to say it’s pretty upsetting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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[They ‘decide’ by contacting guys I’ve met as a large group - and - to put it politely - coerce them into not meeting me again!
It’s happened twice in the last couple of weeks - and several times over the last year or so - and needless to say it’s pretty upsetting!]
Wow really sorry to hear that
How terribly upsetting, I simply don’t understand how or why someone thinks this is ok xx |
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"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?
What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?
Or once it's gone it's gone?
TBH I’m not sure!
Until very recently it’s not an issue I’ve ever had! I’m generally a very happy person with a very high sex drive and no confidence issues.
A group of others, though, are now making it so difficult for me to get repeat meets that I’m contemplating jacking it all in - as the idea of a fab life of one-off’s turns me pretty cold!
Don’t think it’s really worth meeting anyone when I know they’ll be coerced into not meeting again, no matter how amazing a time we have together!
Mojo now officially through the floor! "
Hope yr ok chick;(
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If your mojo is lacking the energy to enjoy all that the world of swinging has on offer. (Clubs/fab/friends) How do you get yourself ready for fun and frolicks?
What I'm asking essentially, is if your not in the mood when the big day comes, can you get in the mood? And how do you if you can?
Or once it's gone it's gone?
TBH I’m not sure!
Until very recently it’s not an issue I’ve ever had! I’m generally a very happy person with a very high sex drive and no confidence issues.
A group of others, though, are now making it so difficult for me to get repeat meets that I’m contemplating jacking it all in - as the idea of a fab life of one-off’s turns me pretty cold!
Don’t think it’s really worth meeting anyone when I know they’ll be coerced into not meeting again, no matter how amazing a time we have together!
Mojo now officially through the floor!
How can others decide who you meet
Time for a complete change of friends
They ‘decide’ by contacting guys I’ve met as a large group - and - to put it politely - coerce them into not meeting me again!
It’s happened twice in the last couple of weeks - and several times over the last year or so - and needless to say it’s pretty upsetting! "
Don't let others decide for you....ever!
The fact that "these guys" are being coerced by others probably says more about the guys than it does about you.
If people can't make their own minds up here and rely on gossip to make their judgements it says far more about them than it does about you.
And the guys who lack sufficient balls to stand up to such bullying..
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By (user no longer on site)
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[They ‘decide’ by contacting guys I’ve met as a large group - and - to put it politely - coerce them into not meeting me again!
It’s happened twice in the last couple of weeks - and several times over the last year or so - and needless to say it’s pretty upsetting!]
Wow really sorry to hear that
How terribly upsetting, I simply don’t understand how or why someone thinks this is ok xx"
Gosh that’s awful there are some horrible human beings around
Chin up luv and yes change your friends |
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Apologies peeps - certainly wasn’t trying to take over the thread - just explaining what was affecting my Mojo - and why I’ll be taking more of a back seat on fab from January!
I know a lot of people think you’ve ‘got it made’ if you’re a single fem on fab - but as many can tell you - there’s a lot of bitching, jealousy and politics - and it ain’t all fun!
Anyway - sorry for whinging!
I’m gonna grab a cuddle from my youngest and put a smile on my face! |
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