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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many people find being on the site/scene a confidence booster or destroyer?
For me it turns into a slow drain. Numerous chats turn into little meets (not the be all and end all) but those that do turn into a confidence high then drain. How many times can someone be blown off by manh peioe before you start looking at yourself and wondering what's wrong with me? |
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I think too many people invest too much in the site and are then let down, demoralised and their confidence drops.
If you have no expectations of meets and just enjoy the forums and such... You might get lucky and will hopefully not let the fickle nature of Fab get to you.
We're too chilled to let anything on here get to us, and any sex with others at a club is just a bonus.
Nita |
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By *K430Man
over a year ago
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To be honest OP , I don't find it either , wouldn't base my confidence levels on what's said good or bad about me , take it for what it is, a good laugh , I wouldn't get too high about compliments, or too pissed off about digs or rejection here, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's an expectation thing. Many guys come here expecting to find pussy on tap, gagging for it. When in actual fact, it's a numbers game. Men vastly outnumber the women here so they have the pick of the bunch.
It's the same here as it is out on the street. There may well be 33086 women online, but only a tiny % are going to be looking for you. You might have 50000 women living near you. Again, only a minute fraction would be interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think too many people invest too much in the site and are then let down, demoralised and their confidence drops.
If you have no expectations of meets and just enjoy the forums and such... You might get lucky and will hopefully not let the fickle nature of Fab get to you.
We're too chilled to let anything on here get to us, and any sex with others at a club is just a bonus.
Nita"
 Exactly this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't expect to find anything and have no expectations. However when you meet a person and have fun or talk for ages and then suddenly the dynamic changes and you're avoided it's one of those things. But when it happens with everyone you meet over 3 years it makes you wonder whether it's you.
Not everyone can be rude or just not honest right? |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't expect to find anything and have no expectations. However when you meet a person and have fun or talk for ages and then suddenly the dynamic changes and you're avoided it's one of those things. But when it happens with everyone you meet over 3 years it makes you wonder whether it's you.
Not everyone can be rude or just not honest right? "
This doesn't just happen to men. Men chat for ages then just stop and ghost you. It's the nature of this site. There's so many people on here which gives so much choice , almost too much sometimes. If they cant get what they want , when they want it, they just drift to someone else  |
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"It's an expectation thing. Many guys come here expecting to find pussy on tap, gagging for it. When in actual fact, it's a numbers game. Men vastly outnumber the women here so they have the pick of the bunch.
It's the same here as it is out on the street. There may well be 33086 women online, but only a tiny % are going to be looking for you. You might have 50000 women living near you. Again, only a minute fraction would be interested. "
Yep. Totally a personal expectation thing. And that doesn’t really need the numbers either, just an individuals preconception or perception. |
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