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If a work colleague ,neighbour or family member called you to to one side and said something like ‘ I hope you don’t mind me saying but there is a rumour going round that that you are Swinger’ what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ? |
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I take no issue admitting to it
Funnily enough it happened once with a female work college and I just blatantly said “yes it’s all true, I like sex and lots of it” and she laughed it off and didn’t believe me  |
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I deny with a smile on my face. They don’t know if I’m telling the truth or not. It don’t broadcast the fact I’m on here but not bothered if people know. I’m single and love sex if people can’t handle this then I have no interest in them |
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over a year ago
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I had the shock of my life yesterday, got a messege off a woman saying nice cock, I replied hot body, asked her to send face pics and turned out it was a very close family memeber!!! :/  |
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"I had the shock of my life yesterday, got a messege off a woman saying nice cock, I replied hot body, asked her to send face pics and turned out it was a very close family memeber!!! :/ "
Did you do the honourable thing and admit who you are otherwise it's a very one sided dynamic |
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There's a couple of lads I work with, bit of banter yesterday & one mentioned sex parties... Think the aim was actually to embarrass me.
It failed.
My parting comment was "well I'm off now, got to go polish my latex dress"
Reverse psychology, they were left red faced & I did my best hair flick & flounce out. |
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"I had the shock of my life yesterday, got a messege off a woman saying nice cock, I replied hot body, asked her to send face pics and turned out it was a very close family memeber!!! :/
Did you do the honourable thing and admit who you are otherwise it's a very one sided dynamic "
I'd rather not know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a work colleague ,neighbour or family member called you to to one side and said something like ‘ I hope you don’t mind me saying but there is a rumour going round that that you are Swinger’ what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ? "
Laugh and walk away |
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"If a work colleague ,neighbour or family member called you to to one side and said something like ‘ I hope you don’t mind me saying but there is a rumour going round that that you are Swinger’ what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ? "
I'd thank them for letting me know that a rumour was circulating and end the conversation. While they're talking about me they're leaving somebody else alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd ask what exactly does that have to do with work
Depends if you're a nun or not.  "
nuns are always at it..some secretly watch the exorcist while having a wank |
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By *ndulge101Couple
over a year ago
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Say thank you very much
Then rip the persons head off who'd been spreading the rumour
Happens to us and a do called friend was going round ever one we new telling them and showing pics
A work friend told me about what was happening
Funny the so called friend didn't see owt wrong with being a twat |
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over a year ago
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I had an enfemme Fb page which someone at work found through a mutual TS friend. He asked me if it was me and whether he should link to it. I asked him not to and no more was said. He was very pite and cool about it. The page has gone now for other reasons.
As they say we are all onky 6 steps away from each other, some closer than that! |
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"If a work colleague ,neighbour or family member called you to to one side and said something like ‘ I hope you don’t mind me saying but there is a rumour going round that that you are Swinger’ what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ? "
“Mind your own business you nosey fuck” |
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There's a rumour going round that you're intimate with your dog, and walk away.
This actually happened to us on a big scale when Mr was working in a factory. Two lads actually got sacked for showing our videos to other colleagues, let that be a warning to any potential gobshites out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to me few years back on my old profile. Was asked by a couple of new (lady) colleagues.
I just asked them to check with the rest of work (as they all already knew).
They came back, asked to see my profile, one of them actually joined the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about and that is not being talked about. (Oscar Wilde).
Let the rumours continue,they are the closest I'll ever get to being famous.
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When I first started I was worried incase someone found out. Six months later my friends and family knew through someone that used to be on here as it all came out when the beans were spilt.
My thoughts on the subject now is....I get to meet and have sex with lots of beautiful women. And if anyone has a problem then it's their problem |
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"When I first started I was worried incase someone found out. Six months later my friends and family knew through someone that used to be on here as it all came out when the beans were spilt.
My thoughts on the subject now is....I get to meet and have sex with lots of beautiful women. And if anyone has a problem then it's their problem"
We think it's a lot easier for a single man to explain it in the way you have put it than a couple to say the same thing to their children! |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"If a work colleague ,neighbour or family member called you to to one side and said something like ‘ I hope you don’t mind me saying but there is a rumour going round that that you are Swinger’ what would your response be assuming that you don’t want to admit to it ? "
I would admit it. No point in denying it at that stage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At work, a woman once said to me that she'd heard I was on a swingers site and that someone else in the office had told her. I gave the furrowed brow look and didn't confirm or deny it.
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Yes, it's happened to us.
We were with a group of "Colleagues" in Germany and had had a stein or three when two of them asked outright if we were swingers.
They were rather taken aback when both said yes and we really enjoy it.
Obviously the cat was now out of the bag.
A bit later a few others asked us if it was true and asked some very sensible questions.
It seems odd that a fuss was made about the fact that we have sex with other people, together, by people some of whom are off shagging anything whilst away from their partners and it's treated as normal.
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"When I first started I was worried incase someone found out. Six months later my friends and family knew through someone that used to be on here as it all came out when the beans were spilt.
My thoughts on the subject now is....I get to meet and have sex with lots of beautiful women. And if anyone has a problem then it's their problem
We think it's a lot easier for a single man to explain it in the way you have put it than a couple to say the same thing to their children! "
We didn't have an issue telling our kids, no secrets = no issues.
It was just matter of fact. |
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