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single woman or the mythical unicorn
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was just wondering what other people's opinions are... for single guys what do we have the greatest chance of meeting, is it:
a.) a single woman from fabswingers
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b.) the mythical beast that is the unicorn?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are lots of single women to meet on here.. but unfortunately you may not always suit there needs as they won't all suit yours. "
The odds suggest otherwise, in the same period from the number of women I have met in bars/clubs, whilst out n about and had fun with compared to the number of 'women' who are on fabswingers 'supposedly' looking to meet on a sexual basis. The former far outweighs the latter.
Ps I place women in quote marks as many supposed women are not verified and thus possibly strange men, and supposedly as many come on in order to boost their egos on webcams in chat rooms but do not actually meet (as shown by verifications) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not falling for this. The clue is in the word 'mythical'. I'm gonna go with (a).
What do I win?"
hehe I am unsure as to your correctness at this stage so will hold off on your prize for now lol   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never quite understood why single's would use fab to meet other singles
Other websites surely would work much better or even going to a pub or club x"
I'll tell you why it's the cost of drinks in pubs and clubs with no guarantee of sex at the end of the night lol *joke before I get hammered!* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never quite understood why single's would use fab to meet other singles
Other websites surely would work much better or even going to a pub or club x"
Depends on what you want I suppose , me when I was was playing wanted nsa sex with like minded people and also along the way made some great friends . It was easier on here when i first joined as I had moved to a strange town and didnt know anyone, I knew I could come in here alone but no way would I walk into a pub alone . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can understand not wanting to go into a strange place alone on the pull
But surely not all of the singles have just moved town lol "
Lol noooo but I did also try that other well known site that has fish in it what a waste of time that was all the men on there only wanted sex sheesh any one would have thought it was a swinging site  |
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"Never quite understood why single's would use fab to meet other singles
Other websites surely would work much better or even going to a pub or club x"
As a single I will answer from my viewpoint.
After a number of years of marriage, and a divorce found the dating scene to be bile inducing. Too many cat women, and people looking for Mr Right, rather than just being adult and enjoying life.
Swinging scene is more relaxed I have found, and as my kink's have developed a much easier place to find people with similar interests. Try going up to a couple in a bar, and winking at them both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep that's the one I was was thinking about
Would have thought there were more single females on there than here x"
And from what I was told most of them just wanted sex as well lol , thats why I came back here at least we all know what we here for (thats when I am Playing now I am just addicted to forums)x |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"Never quite understood why single's would use fab to meet other singles
Other websites surely would work much better or even going to a pub or club x"
So why are you here looking for men? |
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I'm a genuine single bi fem.
I prefer meeting on Fab because I am sober, and know what I'm getting into, unlike when I used to go to bars and clubs on the pull.
I generally don't find couples willing to play in pubs, or 2 guys that are happy to spit roast me. Hell I'm lucky if I can find a guy that can get it up after a night in a pub.
I can find men who are accepting of me, and the fact I'm bi without trying to get me to put on a show with every female that walks past.
And generally, men take rejection a whole lot better online then in a pub after 6 pints! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'fish' is just full of all the single people from swinging sites.. so what is the difference?"
There isnt lol its just they call it dating not swinging IMO |
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"I'm a genuine single bi fem.
I prefer meeting on Fab because I am sober, and know what I'm getting into, unlike when I used to go to bars and clubs on the pull.
I generally don't find couples willing to play in pubs, or 2 guys that are happy to spit roast me. Hell I'm lucky if I can find a guy that can get it up after a night in a pub.
I can find men who are accepting of me, and the fact I'm bi without trying to get me to put on a show with every female that walks past.
And generally, men take rejection a whole lot better online then in a pub after 6 pints! "
I'm not so sure they do take rejection better online after a reply I just got after telling somebody they wasn't what I was looking for. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
Also in a bar you would get lots of younge Knobs who are pissed, and want to go down a back ally for a grope. A lot of my single lady friends prefer fab and swingers clubs as less likey to get pissheads and clubs for swingers are a lot safer than a normal night club. So its not a hard choice really, safe meets with adults, or loud night clubs with young d*unk gropers lol Simples, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never quite understood why single's would use fab to meet other singles
Other websites surely would work much better or even going to a pub or club x
As a single I will answer from my viewpoint.
After a number of years of marriage, and a divorce found the dating scene to be bile inducing. Too many cat women, and people looking for Mr Right, rather than just being adult and enjoying life.
Swinging scene is more relaxed I have found, and as my kink's have developed a much easier place to find people with similar interests. Try going up to a couple in a bar, and winking at them both.
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Spot on with that statement |
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"'fish' is just full of all the single people from swinging sites.. so what is the difference?
There isnt lol its just they call it dating not swinging IMO "
Trust me. I was once on fish a cpl of years ago.. and there was quite a number of people I had previously chatted to on a different swinging site lurking about on there.
And before you ask why I was on both.. I had decided to take a break from the swinging and try and look for somebody who 'may' of been my soul mate.. needless to say it didn't happen. lol |
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"I'm a genuine single bi fem.
I prefer meeting on Fab because I am sober, and know what I'm getting into, unlike when I used to go to bars and clubs on the pull.
I generally don't find couples willing to play in pubs, or 2 guys that are happy to spit roast me. Hell I'm lucky if I can find a guy that can get it up after a night in a pub.
I can find men who are accepting of me, and the fact I'm bi without trying to get me to put on a show with every female that walks past.
And generally, men take rejection a whole lot better online then in a pub after 6 pints!
I'm not so sure they do take rejection better online after a reply I just got after telling somebody they wasn't what I was looking for."
Yeah, I've had one or two of those messages as well.
But at least you don't have to worry about them getting aggy when you are waiting outside for a taxi!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'fish' is just full of all the single people from swinging sites.. so what is the difference?
There isnt lol its just they call it dating not swinging IMO
Trust me. I was once on fish a cpl of years ago.. and there was quite a number of people I had previously chatted to on a different swinging site lurking about on there.
And before you ask why I was on both.. I had decided to take a break from the swinging and try and look for somebody who 'may' of been my soul mate.. needless to say it didn't happen. lol"
sshhh dont tell anyone I was on both as well earlier in yr , even meet a lovely guy from fish when we both realized we were on fab as well lol x |
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I was on Fish too.
My male housemate and I both put profiles up at the same time. His with a lot of thought and effort, picture etc. Mine saying basically nothing about me, no picture, nothing. Just to see who would get the most responses.
Surprise surprise it was me.
And yes, there was loads of people I recognise from this site and other swinging sites on there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm currently on fish.. at least people on here are honest about what they want. They sure as hell aren't on there! "
That was the main reason I came back to fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering what other people's opinions are... for single guys what do we have the greatest chance of meeting, is it:
a.) a single woman from fabswingers
or
b.) the mythical beast that is the unicorn?
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Or ride a woman to pleasure town on the unicorn*
*from anchorman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering what other people's opinions are... for single guys what do we have the greatest chance of meeting, is it:
a.) a single woman from fabswingers
or
b.) the mythical beast that is the unicorn?
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well im a single woman and i only meet single guys, and ive met a fair few of them in my time
So all the guys who have met met have managed to find a single woman lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I rather like the comparison. We single women are mythical creatures!
Personally, I prefer the honesty of swinging to the d*unken promises of the end of a night in a pub or club. And so far, I have met some fantastic men, made some good friends and I've had some incredible sex.
'Tis a truly mythical existence... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I rather like the comparison. We single women are mythical creatures!
Personally, I prefer the honesty of swinging to the d*unken promises of the end of a night in a pub or club. And so far, I have met some fantastic men, made some good friends and I've had some incredible sex.
'Tis a truly mythical existence... "
Oooo oooo what she said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well after considering the evidence to wit, that I've enjoyed naked pleasures with lots of single women from fab and not a single unicorn to date, despite me putting numerous meet requests up for a unicorn whose coat radiates an ethereal glow and who has a horn of minimum 8 inches. Bloody unicorns! I thought this site was supposed to be a free-for-all, what's wrong with me, blah, blah, blah...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering what other people's opinions are... for single guys what do we have the greatest chance of meeting, is it:
a.) a single woman from fabswingers
or
b.) the mythical beast that is the unicorn?
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Firstly I don't have the same experience as you, most of my meets and friends that I chat with on here are single women. I chat with some extremely nice single women (and yes, I know they are women and not confused men).
A number of Singles use swinging sites slightly differently then couples, in essence it is a little bit like dating where you have a common interest "sex". However this doesnt mean that you are going to have sex with every woman you chat with and it doesnt mean that any lasting relationship will form. Initial attraction to a profile can be purely physical (when pictures) are posted, but the messages that follow are the "seduction" (on both parts by the way, I have been seduced and do the seducing), its part of the "fun", its another enjoyable facet to swinging
Perhaps it is here where you may have "fallen down" and I am not criticising you, perhaps you have a trouble "converting" interest into meets and eventually sex.
Your tone in this thread is hardly relaxed, and to gain anybodies trust they must feel unhurried and un-pressured, relaxed. If you come across as desperate, needy, potentially obsessive etc then you will not have much joy, the ladies have had those blokes aplenty and would like someone that can hold them both mentally and physically.
This is not freehookers.com, this site is about choice, Yours and Thiers.
P xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering what other people's opinions are... for single guys what do we have the greatest chance of meeting, is it:
a.) a single woman from fabswingers
or
b.) the mythical beast that is the unicorn?
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Its not easy at all on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to go against the grain, my Rambo-esque friend but I believe its the badger's nadgers on here! To be fair, you've only been on site 2 weeks which isn't much time to get to know anyone, give your profile tweaks, establish your reputation as a premier rutting beast, etc....
There's always shite that will pop up and put the kibosh on things as in real life. In my case thats working ridiculous hours and today for example the great north run that can throw a spanner in the works, but in the main my experience tells me that fab is an ace place to chat, have cracking banter and have all the filthy fun you like! All of which have won my continued attendance... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering what other people's opinions are... for single guys what do we have the greatest chance of meeting, is it:
a.) a single woman from fabswingers
or
b.) the mythical beast that is the unicorn?
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I'm a combination of both- a single woman with the horn  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering what other people's opinions are... for single guys what do we have the greatest chance of meeting, is it:
a.) a single woman from fabswingers
or
b.) the mythical beast that is the unicorn?
I'm a combination of both- a single woman with the horn "
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Hmmm, I think its the safety aspect for me. Also, being more *ahem* mature, I am a lot less likely to catch a young bucks eye at a bar than a woman who is taut and toned. Also, this site is a veritable cornucopia of information. Parties, clubs, gangbangs, I can pick and choose. I would never have ventured to Chameleons earier this year before joining this site, and I wouldn't be going to Isis either.
Also, the 'sex' and 'dating' sites are shite and cost a blimmin fortune, even for us ladies.
So I am afraid, til you can come up with a bar which has a selection of gorgeous boys and babes for me to shag in unjudgemental surroundings, then you're stuck with me here. Soz! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never quite understood why single's would use fab to meet other singles
Other websites surely would work much better or even going to a pub or club x"
I know what you mean, I ask that about cheating married people. So many sites for like minded cheats, why Fab, but hey ho! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i met my soul mate mr p on a so called dating site.. not (fish) though.. but here we are anyway best of both worlds for me.. mr right and single guys and gals.. i believe the single women on here have a right to be picky with who they meet.. some guys think swing sites is just free sex.. often depeding on the guy it is.. but so many single guys odds are you wont get fucked 7 nights a week like you expected by the single ladies... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering what other people's opinions are... for single guys what do we have the greatest chance of meeting, is it:
a.) a single woman from fabswingers
or
b.) the mythical beast that is the unicorn?
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I ain't met a unicorn yet
But I did meet a wonderful single lady and I'm Marrin her too lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was just wondering what other people's opinions are... for single guys what do we have the greatest chance of meeting, is it:
a.) a single woman from fabswingers
or
b.) the mythical beast that is the unicorn?
I ain't met a unicorn yet
But I did meet a wonderful single lady and I'm Marrin her too lol xx "
Yeah, cheers for that, it's guys like you ruin it for guys like me, jeez there's not enough single women as it is without you and your likes running off marrying them.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my experience is that the guys i have met or spoken to or cammed with majority have all been taken and these guys are always pleasant, considerate, non-pushy and respectful, can have a decent conversation with them (ie one that doesn't involve sex) willing to pay for hotels, place your needs before theirs etc and i have had many offers from single men who are pushy, only after one thing, not willing to book hotel so would rather go dogging both in car or woods (neither are safe options for single women) they only want to cum, and then go and you never hear from them again.
I know which option i would pick |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Hey I am single and I meet! I just take my time that is all...obviously need to know the person but that is just me. I don't do dating sites as I am not looking for a relationship (don't want to get anyones hopes up, and no I don't have a ticket on myself) ...but nobody know's what is round the corner....so just wait and see what is ahead |
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"Never quite understood why single's would use fab to meet other singles
Other websites surely would work much better or even going to a pub or club x
I know what you mean, I ask that about cheating married people. So many sites for like minded cheats, why Fab, but hey ho! "
you and me sassy, but apparently im judgemental |
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